Question Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 6:56 pm
okay, [18f] ive never had sex and ive been dating the same guy for almost 2 years, hes not been rushing me about anything. but i really want to have sex with him. i have no idea what to do or anything. i read alot of questions on here that says something about the girl being on top or botton or whatever, i dont get it. who goes on top? and what do all the guys want to do when you have sex? i need tips and answers please. please dont tell me that im not ready because i think i am and i really want to so if your gonna say that then please dont answer my question(:
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? chusmaleidy12 answered Friday November 20 2009, 11:55 pm: If you want to lose it is your decision am not here to judge you use to help you..... Well sometimes what they say if the gurl goes on top it will hurt less thats a liee let himn be on top and if it hurts to much push him off n tell him to go softer trust me i been wit ma bf for a year n the 1st three months it hurted me bein on top so let him do that job. N you should always start with oral sex it will help him estimulate n get more turned after you done with that the you see that is really hard you get him to go on top of you and you start workibg your magic after time passes you will b able to change positions but for now i advice you the bottom because it will hurt you alott. Also the moat important of all is to use protectiob it can be condoms or birthcontrol but you need to be safe 1st of all. Soo i hoped i help and gudluckk [ chusmaleidy12's advice column | Ask chusmaleidy12 A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday November 14 2009, 4:16 am: - Do not have sex without a condom. Period. Bring them, if you both forget, go out and buy some. You're teenagers, you can manage to stay horny long enough to go out and get rubbers.
- Get on birth control. ASAP. If you don't have a gyno, get one, and ask about low dose hormonal contraceptives. My wife pays 9 bucks a month for a generic prescription, anyone can afford that. There is nothing like peace of mind when a condom breaks.
- Sex is a skill. Everyone sucks when they start out and those who pay attention get better as they go along. In plainer terms, theres a good chance that one of you will knee or elbow the other in the head at some point, laugh it off.
- Google is a wealth of information at your fingertips. You can use it to find just about anything, for instance, searching for "________ instructions" can find instructions for any number of things from building a computer to bee hive cultivation to the subjects you're more interested in. And we can't tell you how to give a good blowjob here, for reasons like the fact that your "about the questioner" window says that you're an underage 16 while your question says you're a legal 18. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
seductive_eyes89 answered Thursday November 12 2009, 11:44 pm: shit gurl let me tell you when i first did it i would let him take control the first time and honestly hun just go with flow you got this and hell help you out as well if you want 2 try sumthing do it make sure you wear protection and hes gentil the 1st time hope i helped go get him good luck [ seductive_eyes89's advice column | Ask seductive_eyes89 A Question ]
Roxy07 answered Thursday November 12 2009, 7:40 pm: First Tip: There is no right or wrong way!!!! Always remember that!!!
Second: Use lots of lubricant and use protection!!
Third: I would suggest for your first time for your boyfriend to go on top. Let him do the work.
Be aware that it will hurt a bit your first time, but the more relaxed and aroused your are, the less the pain will be.
Fourth: Once you have had sex the first time, and your familiar with the feelings, then you can experiment on different positions!!
You should be proud of yourself waiting this long, not all girls do what you have done. You seem responsible so take it easy and have fun!! [ Roxy07's advice column | Ask Roxy07 A Question ]
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