Okay so my cousin has a boyfriend & i dont, he likes me & i didnt like him, i told my cousin everything that he said; because im a good friend, but then i started liking him too... what do i do!!?
you know that is wrong, as humans, we can't control our feelings, but we can control the way we act. Tell your cousing, explain things, and stay away as far as possible because i am sure you don't want to hurt your cousin.
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Hi. So I'm just about sixteen and I've been depressed since I was nine years. I was physically, sexually, and verbally abused, and I was also neglected until about eight months ago by my parents. I'm in foster care now, but I still have horrible flashbacks, panic attacks, and am extremely paranoid. I'm still really depressed and want to kill myself. I've been cutting since I was nine years old. I feel like everyone would be much better off if I was dead. I feel like no one gives a damn about me. I just need to know what to do. I really do want to be happy, but I don't know how! help!
Hey..
I may not know you, but i do care about you, and killing yourslef believe it or not would hurt someone. it would hurt God, me and others. i know life may not be easy right now, but it would get better and see the positive of live.
1. others are death, But God allowed you to be still alive
2. I am still breathing and i have a roof to life under.
3. God loves me
Think about positives, and anytime you are having attatcks just pray to God..HE does listen.
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people ask me whats my religion and i look at them like'wtf are you talking about?' my mom automaticlly declares me catholic i look at her like shes nutts she's been forcing me to go to church and read the bible and i just don't get the point of having a religion. what should I do? I believe in faith and love but the rest is kinda hard to believe in.....
for me, its not a religion anymore. I call myself a diciple of chris, which means i follow him and work for him and help others come to him. when you say religion, there is no meaning in having one anymore. for me is the person i follow that is important to me.
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We'll I had a bad childhood an I've seen alot of stuff a kid shouldn't. See and I have really bad flash backs of things and it seems to make me very paranoid what do I do PLEASE help i also have anexiety
you need to pray about it. many people can refer you to a shrink or yoga, but what you need is prayer. it is true that you should also have a person you can talk to physically. but God is also there and can help you in anything you need. pray about it and try your hardest to forget about it.
if there is one thing i learned, looking back brings you more anxiety than moving forward. you can't change the past, but you can manage a better future....
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so what i want to know is what to do about my boyfriend cheating on me with 2 bff's.i am still dating him and he does not know that i know he is a nasty cheater. me and my 2 bff's are making a list to get back at him. so what i am saying what do you think i sould do?
Two wrong don't make a right. As angry as you are, i think you should just end it. you have your best friend for support, and the fact that they want to get back at him show that they love you, but getting revenge isn't something that is necessary. what would you prove by doing that? i don't think you want to do something you would regret. and staying with him knowing that he has done something bad and using that against him in revenge doesn't make you any better.
so please, i advice you break it off and go your seprate ways
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14/ f
So, I've been through a lot. Ive been abused by my step mom, i haven seen my real momsince my 7th birthday (court order) because she has schitzofrania, and i was raped by my bioligical mothers boyfriend from age 4-7. Now i see a sycologist, but i feel no change. I feel worthless and horrible, and i feel any guy can take advantage of me because i already feel dirty because i was raped.
& i have no idea how to fix this.
I am still a virgin but i have done everything else, because i feel as if i was taken advantage of already so it doesn't matter anymore. Which sounds like an excuse but i dont know how to totally explain it. Can someone help me think of a way to stay away from guys and just hang out with my friends that are girls and be happy like a normal teenager? and where i can get my focus back onto school?
the best advice is top pray, and ask God for strenght. Ask him to help you in your situation and to give you a hand when you are falling down. if you open your heart to him, he is willing to answer and is ready to recieve you because he wants to help you.
I am sorry for everything that has happened to you and i hope you can get through it all with the help of God in heaven....
with luck
sarline
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Okay,
My parents got divorced when i was in the fourth grade, I'm a freshman now. My parents divorce was rough. I'm currently living with my dad, and i see my mom every other weekend. Before that though i didn't see her at all. My mom hasn't been paying child support, because she doesn't have a job and had to have knee surgery which prevents her to have a regular job. The relationship between my parents is very tense, they don't even speak to each other. I'm always in the middle of everything. For the most part, my dad and I had a really close relationship. but He always bashes and talks bad about my mom, and complains about money and how his life is so hard being the only parent. I used to just ignore his comments but lately i've been outbursting on him because i'm tired of hearing it. He wants me to not like her and not respect her either, but she's my mom and i could never do that. After I told him that i didn't want to hear his complaining, and his comments about my mom he's stopped caring about me. He's always negative and usually ignores me now. I don't know what to do or why this is going on, So if you could please help me i'd really appreciate it.
first iam sorry about your parents divorce ND I HOPE YOU WILLGET THROUGH IT.
Second, i don't know about you but i have noticed that when parents get divorced, they sometimes try to turn thier children aginst one another.
to me i feel like you dad is afriad. he knows that you love your mom and that you care deeply for her, but he is afriad that you might love her more than him and it hurts him because he has been the one taking care of you.
I think you should talk to your dad again, this time tell him that its alright if he doesn't love your mom, but he shouldn't also talk aout her badly infront of you. tell him that you love your mom, but you also love him and that hearing him talk that way doesn't make you love her less, but it makes you want to defend her more. reassure your dad that treating you that way to take out his anger against your mother is wrong.
i really hope everthing works out and that you are able to get through it.I know divorces are not easy, but you can wrok throught them...
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so i dont have an answer to this one but maybe someone else does. its kinda hard. but i was just wondering and this question hit me and i couldnt answer it. just a note, my faith is strong and am not doubting anything, i think that wondering and asking questions just brings us closer to god. so the question is, there have been alot of description of heaven in all religions and they are pretty much all the same. what i am wonder is, am sure heaven differs in preceptive from one person to another. what if heaven from my preceptive is living now, having this sort of life, feeling pain, guilt, happiness, love..etcc... what if heaven to me means being human? what if the heaven i want is what i have now? i dont want palaces or river or any of the things in different religion descriptions. so will god provide each person a heaven that different from everyone else according to his/her own preceptive of it? so this is really what i was wonder about. its difficult for me to reach an answer. i hope its easy for someone else. thanks
i don't believe that God gives you the heaven you want or something of that sought. heaven consists of peace, a place where there will be no pain, anger or where you won't have to suffer to get a job or food or something. heaven is the place that causes us to work so hard to get into. sure people talk about palaces and crowns and etc. but it is mostly about leaving forever and finding eternal happiness. after all Jesus didn't die for nothing...
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Heyy
everyone cant stop going on about 2012! its scaring me, they say world will end. because all the weird stuff is happening.. the illuminati is becoming exposed through almost all the celebrities, 1000 blackbirds have dropped dead, over 100,000 fishes have just randomly died. Alot of people have started to sell their soul.. whats going on!!?!?!
i don't know about anyone else. But the bible clearly says that no one knows the time, nor place, nor hour that the world will end. His son doesn't even know and you think that God will entrust us with the time? Anyway...don't be scared, if you are with God, then you are with everything. you really should not fear. it is true that the birds and the fish dying had something to do spiritually, but keep close to God.
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Okay so I have had two incidents were I wanted God to make me be sure he was there. Once when I was about 9 and once just now. The first time I asked God, I asked if He would make the phone ring at a certain time. It rang a few seconds after the clock changed. Then I asked for me to get a text mesage or a call at 7:07 and I was still praying at 7:07 then I stoped praying and it was 7:08 and as soon as it turned to 7:08 I got a text. I thought it may have been a cowincidence so I Asked at 7:19 for me to get a sigh. This time my phone rang at 7:20 and I am wondering if God is doing this like tring to make me do something or think something. Please help an give opinions on what you think It is? Do you agree It is in fact God?.
i can't be sure, but pray about it and make sure it is really from God and not the devil, because God does answer when his children call, but the devil also answers to make you interested. so be sure it is from God!!!
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I've heard the world was going to come to an end on 2012, 2011, and on a thursday in 2011, is that truee at all?
No Way!
No one knows what day nor the hour that the lord is going to come. that is why we must be ready at all times.
he may come before 2011 or even before 2012 or after, no one knows and know one will ever know, not even his own son knows
hope i helped
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Okay, I'm 17/f and last night I had a dream. Im not too sure what the meaning behind it is, but it started out with my mom, my nana, and me. we was standing outside, and a bunch of little gnats came and swarm around a certain particular place in my dream, and where ever they would land, that area would set on fire. A bunch of poeple died in the fires, but for some reason- none of the people i was around did. My boyfriend was in the dream, along with a close friend of mine, and an ex of mine. Its like we all stuck together. We ended up in a room with a bunch of people, and I remember asking my mom if she noticed that majority of the people in the room with us were chrisitians. I remember in my dream I was talking to a man who was a really big christian, and I told him I was scared that I wasn't going to Heaven because of certain reasons. I told him I believe in god 100% and I pray to him sometimes, and I talk to him too, but different people have different beliefs on what you need to be accepted into Heaven.
*A couple of weeks ago, my bestfriend Erica told me her mom saw on the news that God was going to come to Earth to take all the Christians on a Thursday*
I remember in my dream, I followed Chris (the ex) in the bathroom, and I told him what Erica told me, and I told him "Look at my phone, today is Thursday!" and he said wow, your right, and look at the date its "11.11.11"
But, I guess what IM trying to say, is why am I having these dreams?
Am I going to hell? I mean, some people say as long as you believe in the lord, you'll get accepted into his home, but some say if you have never been baptised than you will be rejected.
I've never be baptised, I have been saved though. I smoke ciggarettes, Ive had sex before marriage, but Im not a complete slut, I curse. I use to steal. But when I use to feel really bad, I use to pray to god to tell him to forgive me for my sinss. But idk?
wow interesting..
first of all, no one knows the time or the hour or the day that the lord will come so whatsoever your mom saw on the news, you can scratch that out.
second: the fact that most of the people in the room were Christians and the part that if that thing touched them and the set on fire represents hell. it represents how one by one the devil can grab you without you knowing that. he doesn't physically grab you, but spirituality until you soul is in his hands.
If you don;t get Baptiste doesn't mean that you won't go to heave/. but i would tell you that having sex before marriage, cursing, insulting or stealing, that is all what the devil wants you to do so that he can catch you. and the nest time you would go to the lord the devil would start making you feel guilty and tell you that the lord is not listening. the point is, you are to love the lord your God and only him alone, walk with him and i think your dream is a warning to all people that believe they are Christians, they will be surprise when he comes.
Anymore Questions? I would be happy to answer!!
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im 17 male im a christian my family and i are very religious i strongly believe in not having sex until marriage and ive have feelings for a girl weve been talking and hanging out and well shes not a virgin and i feel awkward im not sure if i want to date her shes a nice girl and everything but i prefer to be with a girl who also believes in not having sex until marriage
so an advice on what to do?
wow, what a though situation to be in. personally I truly believe in not having sex until marraige and the fact that you stand by your believe is amazing. if she is not pressuring you to have sex or anything, then i don't think you have to worry. But if you feel tempted, or she pressures you, then you should defitnetly take a different road. it may stink at first, but trust me, it is worthy. Men fall into temptation way too easily. if she believes she wants sex and then it is best to leave and like you say, find someone who has the sam emoral values as you
thanks soo much for writting
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15 - female
Some people would say i have everything i guess... I'm great in sports, and get every award. I'm pretty and I've gott a boyfriend. I'm on the 2nd best soccer team in the Nation for an Elite league.I'm a good singer, and am pretty much good at anything. I've got a best friend who is always there for me.
But I'm not even close to happy...
Since I'm new on my soccer team, I have no friends. And no one will talk to me or hang out with me... which just gets me sad and uncomfortable whenever we travel with all them. People over rate me. Since i get alot of guys, now that i have a boyfriend all my guy friends basically go away until I'm single again. I've lost many friends since it's "cheerleading season", and since some of my friends where cheerleaders, they are all in that posse of cheerleaders for awhile(which bumps others out). I dont have that much time to hang out with friends anyways cause of soccer...
And then i think harder and realize how unhappy i am... I may be pretty but...I'm unsatisfyed with my body. It's getting more muscular looking because of all these sports..I don't want to look that way. My hair doesnt fall quiet right. My face seems chubby...My lips are too small...nose is too big.
So i don't understand why people still "over rate" me...and Sometimes i just feel depressed...I don't really know what to do.
I know i havn't exacty proposed a question to you...But i really just need some advice here.
Pleaseee
wow I am 15 too..but seriously "you are down rating yourself" "my nose to big, lips to small??" seriously don't fall into that mode. everyone else is having fun except you and that my friend is not right. start the conversation going to people and they will respond, if you feel they over rate you, then tell them to stop "be modest" as they will say. talk to your best friend. to me anyway, one true friend is all you need...but prioritize your schedule.
if you need someone to talk to, I am here..
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i just got through watching the omen, and during that movie, many religions were shown: christianty, satanism, other pagan religions, etc.
also my friend told me about his friend who is a jehovah's witness and some of their stuff got me thinking.
i was raised methodist christian in my home but turned my back on faith about a year ago. too many rules, inconsistancies, hypocrites, and it was all just very overwhelming, so i quit. and even now that i've given up on religion, i can't get it out of my head. its like i've been brainwashed. i'm not asking someone to give me back my faith, or to even lecture me.
what i'm asking is what do YOU believe? are you christian? satanist? wiccan? anything at all? please answer my question with why you believe in what you believe, and how exactly it works. thanks in advance :) (oh, and i don't judge. so even if you've made up some weird thing where you worship hotdogs, i won't mind)
well i know that I am a string believer in christ..all those other things about satanism or wiccan, i have never giving much thought to it because they are all false anyway. i believe in God because he is the only true God. i don't see satan sacrificing his son so that we can be save, i don't see satan being there for you when you need a comforter, satan doesn't even know half of what is going on in this world, But God does, God doesn't have many rules, all he aks for is love your nieghbore as you love yourslef. if you love your friend, you won't lie to them or steal from them would you? iam not trying to force you to do anything, but be very careful on who you follow. satan is going to hell at the end of the world and he wants people to follow him, are you willin?
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Is there really going to be a new world order? Are leaders planning on making one big government? Will they try to get rid of some religions? I hear that the economy is bad on purpose and they want to make an Amero currency. I also hear that they teach us lies in school. I also think they are using media & technology to manipulate our minds. As if we are being hypnotised. And about the world trade center being on the currency since before they were built. Obviousness that it was planned and used. It makes me think the US is a lie. ALSO, if the US is fake, wouldn't that mean that using the US in this NWO, is secretly the British trying to take over the world? As if it were all planned. I can just see the history books 100 years from now, Full of lies. If this is true, wouldn't people revolt? What if things certain things were exposed successfully? I'm M/15. Dont tell me that this isn't real. But is my future safe?? Am I going to have to live in some revolution? Manipulating our minds for the change.
they are planning to make a one world gov. and a one world currency. Everything now will work through technology, cash would no longer be an option, and that my friend, is the first there years of the beginning of the rapture. Be careful, the devil is at work and if you are not in the lord, you are lost in the world.
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would want to marry?
Title says it, really. Why would God, who knows all about us before He gives us life, let someone who will inevitably, truly, with all their heart want to raise a family be so ugly that no man would want them?
WOW, i can see you are very opinionated. there are differences between you and God.
1. you lust with the flesh, and God doesn't
2. you are created in your own image and so is everyone else
3. God loves everyone and he looks at them as his children...you could take the "ugliest" person in the world and put him in front of God eyes, but God will still say he is beautiful. you know why, because God's works are perfect and until you can learn to accept yourself and his creation, you will never see that...
He loves you too, and he doesn't judge you, so why do you judge others. only he is suppose to judge, and yet he hasn't judged you!!
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iv tried to kill myself loads of times( 12ish) but its always hurt too much. does anyone know a really quick and preferably painless way of killing yourself? or a way to stop being so depressed?
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only way i can advice you is through prayer..find that comfort in the lord, he is always ready to listen. read your bible even if it is a verse and pray to him, let him guide you, And I am sure you will be alright...
God gave you life, and he only has the right to take it away...so please let him guide
if you need someone to talk to I am here
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okay so ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and i always think about sex but im scared that if i lose my virginity before marriage then i will go to hell.. is that true? btw im roman catholic
i wouldn't recommend you doing that..not only for spiritual reasons, but for physical reasons as well. you are young and you really should not have sex until marriage
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im 16 male im a virgin and a few of my friends say there having sex and bragging i dont want to listen to that i think its disgusting it seems more teenagers are having sex and i think its a sin im from a strong christian family we go to church and pray a lot to god and i firmly believe in not having sex until marriage i think its more special i promised my momcand god that im going to wait there are some people who think im weird and a prude but i think its the right thing to wait until im married thats not weird is it?
Goodness, no...It is not weird at all. That just shows how obedient you are to God's words and How you highly value yourself. A lot of temptations are going to come and a lot of people are going to say things, just remember that you can rely on God to get you through them.
If you need to talk to me...I am always ready to lend a helping hand.,
I am pretty sure God is looking down and is happy
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