Hi. All I really have to say is if you are asking me a question, don't expect the all time best advise ever. I will always be pleased to answer your queston and I always invite you to ask me for some help or advise. I am usually very good at these sort of things. Not much else to say.
Peace out there.
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hey im 17 and my skin is dark n places like under my arm and down below ya probs thinking i dont wash i had bath twice a day and i never smell i realy scrub myself and it just wont go away is there anything i can use to get rid off this its not nice i make myself blees because i just think im drity its soo annoying (link)
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Are you sure it's not just chaffing?
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Hey im 17/f. There is this guy at my work who is 20/m. he is really cute and very nice. Can always make me smile. He has been flirting with me alot lately people have been realizing. I know this may sound stupid but i dont know like how to flirt back and let him know im interested. I dont even know if he has a girlfriend or not or if he likes me. How do i find all these things out myself? Please and thank you for your time! (link)
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one day durring a regular conversation just randomly ask him if he has a girlfriend. or ask him if he has ever dated. get into the subject by talking about your experiences or one of your family members experiences of dating. Look closely how he reacts when you ask him or when its brought up. go from there.
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Im 14 years old turning 15 in a while & I weight about 130 pounds(maybe even close to 140). I fit into a size 3 in jeans perfectly but I can also fit into bigger sizes. I have a little pouch on my stomach but my hip bones still stick out espically when I lay down. My boobs are a size 36 c and my height is about 5'4 5'5. What I'm wondering is, is my weight normal for my height and age? I want to lose about 30 pounds and I was trying only to eat breakfast and a snack, would that work? I just need some dieting tips and I DONT want to google because i dont know what can work or not. thanks (link)
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If i were you I wouldn't even worry about my weight.If you go back to 100 pounds I it will be to skinny,unhealthy, and too much bone is not attractive in my opinion.
If you really want to lose some weight, I suggest 20 MAX. Losing more might give you some unwanted health risks.
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for my english class, we need to write a six to eight page paper analysing a work of literature by a british author. if the author used symbolism particularly well throughout the book, we can pick and analys symbolism for the paper. i am reading a midsummer nights dream by shakespeare.. what are some things i could possibly analys about this book?
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well...you could analyse the feelings of the characters and why the characters feel the way they feel. For example: Hermia is very deeply in love with Lysander. Once Puck sprinkles the love potion on the wrong person, Lysander is all of a sudden in love with Helena. As a result, Hermia is now confused;out of nowhere her new fiance is in love with her best friend and will openly speak about it, upset; Lysander is no longer in love with her-she feels as if she has been smacked in the face and can do nothing about it, and she is jealous; she is very self concious about how short she is and think the boys only love Helena because Helena is taller.
This is only one (bad) example but it is an idea. I'm not exactly sure is this is what you asked for but this is what i gave you. Good luck and get it done before the Holidays.
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alright so the girls on my baskebtall team are having a christmas party. we're all sophmores and juniors. we're having a gift exchange but for gifts we're all just getting gag gifts.
any ideas on what i could get?
my mind isn't too open up to it right now haha. (link)
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wrap it in duct tape instead of wrapping paper. That one never gets old.
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i just turned 17 years old, im height 5'3 and i weigh 109 pounds. is this a healthy weight? i want to be 105 pounds because i think i have too much stomach fat but some people say that would be too skinny? (link)
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It all depends on how you're built. One of my friends got his BMI done at a gym. He was over 6 ft. tall and weighed about 130 or something like that. The calcuations showed that he was massivly obese- this guy doesn't even have an ounce of fat on him. You will know if you have too much stomach fat by how you feel and how much energy you have.Even if youre clothes just feel uncomfortable. But anyway to me youre weight and height sound alright.
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ive been kinda seeing this lad for a while , and we have had sex and everythin, but hes never kissed me , i try too kiss him but he pushed me away, everytym i see him i wanna ask him y but its embarissing, is a kiss a bit more than sex if ya get me ? does it mean hes not interested or sumthing
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This sounds bizzar. If I were you i would have kissed him before doing anything else. I would say hes not interested and a bit creepy.Sorry but it just sounds to me like sex is ALL he's inteested in , especially if he wont even kiss you.
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so, i really hate this and have been trying to lose some more weight so this dosen't happen at all, but sometimes when i walk and my legs rub together i get this almost like rash from it. my job forces me to walk a lot and it mainly happens when i work days and days in a row. is there anything i can put on it to make it go away faster? thanks (link)
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lather the rash with vaseline ar diaper rash cream. Put on some baby powder or cornstarch so it doesn't stick so much. do this before bed and in the morning. The baby powder with releive some of the friction that is causeing the rash.
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ok so for about the past 2 weeks i have been getting gastric whenever i sweat or run around or stuff like that
since i am in school it can get really embarrasing but i dont think any of my friends have noticed but i get big wet patches around my anus and its very uncomfortable and stinky
i wear 2 pairs of underpants just incase and to try to hide the wet patches a bit
if anyone can tell me the cause of this and how to get rid of it i would be very grateful
btw i have already tried eating the stuff on the inside of bannanas
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truthfully....I think you are screwed. sweat is natural, and so is sweating in that area. it may go away as you get older but i'm not really sure about that. Some of your friends probably sweat there too. But it still can be pretty embarassing. i suggest only wearing one pair of underwear...wearing two probably makes you sweat more.A good idea is to maybe bring an extra pair of underwear so you can change into a fresh pair after sweating. Nothing you eat will stop you sweating.
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I was just curious to know, who you want to win the election '08?
My mom and i want obama, but literally the rest of my family wants mccain. I just would like to see how many people want obama, and how many want mccain.
All answers will help :]
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If I could vote, it would be mccain. I don't think I would trust obama with my life, but i dont know...don't really trust mcain much either....but yeah, Mccain would be my vote. Many reasons why, dont feel like typing it all out.
Peace out there\/
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ok i fingered my girl friend..... problem is i might have had semon or pre cum on my fingers.... is there a chance she could be pregnant because she is a week and a half late starting her period. (link)
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UMMMMMMmmm.......yeah.
yes. there is a pretty good chance she could be pegnant. but the chance of her just having a late period is there to. I suggest doing a pregnancy test or better yet, a doctor. All it takes is an accurate pee sample and you will know for sure.
good luck, hope it all turns out.
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so i dont use tampons, i guess i dont know how to put it in right or something btu i just hate them. anyway, if i have sex, will it hurt more because i dont use tampons? thanks (link)
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I don't think is will hurt more just because you've never used tampons, i shouldn't matter. it just depends on how your body will react. For some people it hurts and for others it doesn't. They didn't have tampons back in the day so having sex was the first thing to ever go up in ....yeah, you get the drift.
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(wrong category..) well..16/f. i used to have acne..serious acne..and then it cleared up when i was 15. now that i'm 16, it all came back again..and this time it's really severe. well, i'd say that i'm good-looking. but the acne just really does lower my self-confidence. and i'm going on accutane but i'm only starting it in one month. during this time..i'm afraid that my boyfriend might not like me if my acne gets even worse. i mean...it doesnt really ruin me..but i couldve looked better without it. i dont know =| should i really be worried about my boyfriend and acne?? (link)
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I know someone who has the same problem as you do and I told her that the acne is only on the out side and if her boyfriend really loves her, he won't even see it.
Hoped i helped
sAmeMistAke
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does anyone know any good songs that have to do with self injury? preferably cutting.
i already have alot of songs, so if there are any songs that you know that are not so known that would be amazing, or anything you could find would be great.
(i am doing a project on it so anything would help)
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hmmmmm.....
Blue October- Hate Me
+44- No It Isn't
The Used- Cut Up Angels
Thats all I can think of at the moment srry :)
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I have extremely curly hair and it gets annoying straightening it every day. Is there anyway I can do a really cute curly messy bun?? Any ideas/opinions?? Thanks!! (link)
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Im not totalysure cuz i dont have curly hair but i suggest using moose.Put some moose in your hair first, then put it in a messy bun. It shouldnt make it so frizzy.
srry if im not much help.
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i bite my nails everday and i have been for alot of years. My nails never look like a girls should, unless i get a manicure. Instead of getting hangnails, right by my cuticles just bleeds and always looks all bloody even though they arent really bleeding. I was wondering if there was anything i could do to get them away in about 3 days and make my nails look like a girls should... besides getting a manicure. Thanks (link)
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You could always buy fake nails. I dont think your nails can get better in three days,so if you get fake nails, your nails will grow and get better under them.
Sorry, not much help.
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17/f
How can I keep my hands from smelling like smoke? I've tried Dawn, Febreeze, soaking them in lemon juice, cutting my nails...any ideas?
No lectures please. I already know I shouldn't be smoking. Thank you! (link)
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ummm.....stop smoking.
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I just got out of a relationship of about 11 months, and it was my longest relationship and also a very abusive, crazy one. I finally broke up with him in December and while I was slowly ending it with him I actually met someone new that I realized I had feelings for. This new guy (Mike) is 4 years older than me, age doesn't matter to us now though, but my problem, is that he doesn't show constant love towards me. If he does its like on and off, its never all the time since we've been seeing each other. When I try to talk to Mike about it he says it's because sometimes he doesn't "trust" me because we've had a lot of problems in the past. I'll name some so you can understand the relationship better.
One night I had a bunch of people at my house and we were all drinking, I started to get really drunk and I pretty soon couldn't even stand up by myself, so i started leaning on Mikes cousin (Mike wasn't near me, and his cousin was sitting in a chair unlike the rest of us so that was easier to lean on), so my hand was on his leg, Mike took it the wrong way and flipped out. Being drunk I obviously got really emotional, and started crying and it was really embarrassing so I just went out with a few friends and tried to blow it off. When I got back I could barely walk and everyone was yelling at me, he called me a bunch of names so I hit him. I would never do that if I was sober but thats the way I handled it because of my past relationship. He stormed off and left me, so I just slept out at a friends that night. He ended up going back to my house and slept there because he was waiting up for me, but how was I suppose to know that? The next day he came over to talk, and told me that his original plan was to never to talk to me again, and he made it seem like it was all my fault, I tried to tell him that I was drunk and I honestly didn't know what I was doing, but he just kept telling me that I was so wrong, and it was all my fault and he should hate me, so I just let him be right and told him I was sorry. I also made the decision not to drink anymore.
That was last weekend, this weekend, we've been arguing again, but not while I've been drunk, Friday night we went to a party, and he was drinking, (I wasn't) and he was acting SO amazing towards me, really lovey, always wanting to be around me, he even went to the store and bought me a rose! Later that night I questioned his "lovey dovey"-ness because he's never usually like that, and he flipped out, probably because he was drunk, and he just wanted to go downstairs and pass out, but i really wanted to work things out, so I kept going downstairs to talk to him, and everytime I would walk away, he would just fall asleep. Every time he would ever walk away from me during a fight, I would chase after him. He ended up just coming upstairs with me in my room and sleeping with me, we blew it off.
My point is, I've given up so much for him, drinking, going out all the time. and I don't think it's always my fault when we fight but I'm too scared to REALLY stick up for myself because I know he'll freak out and leave me because it's only the beginning, I've tried to tell him that he's messing with my head, but he says "fine then we're done I'm not going to mess with your head anymore" and thats not what I want! So I just deal with what he says, and hopefully we just forget about it and move on like we always do. Another thing, we're not officially Boyfriend and Girlfriend. We were before but we kept fighting like we are now so we decided just so act like we're going out? but not with the label. If he loves me he should just want to be with me shouldn't he? But I just want him in any way I can have him. Is it really all me? Am I just crazy, how can I make him want to change and show me love but not lose him completely? If you say I can't make him want to change, than what can I do? (link)
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The way you describe Mike...it almost seems as if he has an emotional bacround also. Im not sure because i dont know him ,but it sounds like he does, by the way he reacts back to you.You say something little to him, and he blows up and says its over.
If he loves you, he should want to be with you.Always. My thoughts are that he may not be sure if he loves you. As you said, you have given up soo much...has he? Has he given up anything? If He dosn't, you shouldn't. He needs to be making a comitment also. He needs to be working for the relationship just as hard as you are.
Talk to him about it. if he sarts to blow up, tell him you are leaving for good, whether you want it to happen or not. Tell him you are serious this time.if he says nothing to that, then go. If you do leave, he may or may not come back for you.If he does, look him straight in the eye and tell him exactly what "you" want. tell him it is his very last chance.
If he is not willing to change for you... then this relationship will never grow.
Hope I helped. If not, good luck anyway. I realize it is harder than it looks.
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Sorry this is a book. So my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. He is my first big relationship (I'm 28 and he's 25) and I am completely in love with him. This past Wednesday night (the night before Valentine's Day... can you say PRESSURE?), I really screwed up. He was out with his best friend, and was going to call me when he was on his way back home to meet me, but for some reason I panicked and started over-dialing. I called him three times between 8pm and 9pm and then 5 more times between 9 and 11. I left a total of 5 messages which got increasingly bitchy, and also called his roommate 3 times to see if he'd gotten home and forgotten to call. I know this could have all been avoided if I had just called him once and let it be, or if he had picked up his phone after the first call, but I started having a panic attack and freaked. Needless to say, he's furious with me and hasn't spoken to me since we met for a brief period on Thursday so I could try to explain myself. He told me at that time that he was considering breaking up with me, but that we'd have dinner on Sunday night (tonight), and we'd try to work things out. I'm beating myself up, because I know I screwed up and don't know how to fix it. And now I desperately afraid he's just going to leave me hanging. I'm afraid his best friend has convinced him to dump me (she's mad at me too), and I'm pissed at myself for having a big mouth about it and talking to people that we mutually know (they asked because I look like hell) about the situation. I'm also upset on top of all of this because I just started seeing a therapist to try and work on my anxiety issues. But I still basically took all of the personal space we had between one another and threw it out the window. I don't want to lose him. He's my best friend, my anchor, the person I trust and love most outside my immediate family. What do I do? How can I mend this? I feel like my heart is broken. Thanks... (link)
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simple or hard.
tell him everything. Just tell him.
Do what you think is right.
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Does anyone know any sites or sites that have pictures of some cool short, spikey emo hair cuts? I have wavy hair but I use gel to spike it up and its short but I'm gonna grow it out a bit to get a cool hair cut. Also what colors go good with black hair? I'm a guy and I'm thinking of also dyeing my hair too. Anyone also know what kind of style i should dye it? Pictures of it will do. (link)
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Heres a pretty good website
http://myemohairstyles.com/
hope I helped..
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