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hey lol im reena. [short for maureen yo. i hate my full name. it sounds like the name of a thirty year old woman-wannabe-teenager]15/f/sophomore [07-08]
i answer stuff when i feel like it. i generally give good answers
reena x jerry - since 6/21/05
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well i was the last one but today i tried to talk to her but i dont know what came over me one day or monday she was going out to recess with her friends and looked in my direction looking pissed off as ever and having her hands crossed. ok help me out on this part ok today i tried talking to her but when i came or was going to come and talk to her it looked like she was mad at me and i dont realy ever smile but i try and what would this mean when i smiled at her one time but was a little weird she looked up and went out well she had to go out passing times for school i tried talking to her on the way out but my cowardness took over so she saw me then i walked away but i didnt want to then when i looked back she was talking to a bunch of guys she has alot of friends that are girls and boys but i guess im not one of them i love her smile but her friends hate me which every one does in my school so she probaly hates me? should i go up to her after school and talk to her and see how it goes?and should i just talk to her before its to late imean every one already knows i like her practicly so i guess i better do it tommorrow but please help me to do the right thing and what i should do
"looking pissed off as ever" dont just assume that she looks pissed off because of you. she might have just heard some bad news, or you're just misinterpreting her stare.
also about her friends hating you:
her friends opinions shouldnt matter, only hers should!!
mk, ill be blunt:
i think that you should just suck it up and just ask her out. if she says yes, then good! if she says no, then suck it up and continue with life. if you never do anything about this then you'll only be tormenting yourself :/
good luck though, and i hope this works out for the best (:
well she knows i like her but im giving her time to think ive never asked her if she had an answer or not and i never talk to her cause well i mean i dont want to be creepy or say the wrong thing i want to talk to her but cant every time i get around her im nervous and i think she hates me entirely now
well should i wait for after school on the way out to the bus to talk to her.i mean your a girl so i need an opinion on this please if u will be so kind.
well thats the only time of the and should i wait after one class to walk with her and talk to her cause we have no classes toghether but some close ones my cousin is her friends boyfriend but i dont want to tell him any thing and when they told her that i liked her( she already new) she laughed and said yeah he realy does but i didnt hear that i just looked away after i saw her smile didnt hear her say something so i thought she was making fun of me and when we were passing classes i smiled at her but she had a frown on and looked up but we look at ecother alot staring smile some times but i look away cause her friends are looking to and smiling so i dont know what to do please give me your advice about this i thank you for looking at this
for your sake i hope (& im pretty sure) im right on this :D
OMG just suck it up and go for her! she obviously likes you. since her friends were smiling at you shes probably been telling her friends about you and they are probably good things. if they were bad things then her friends probably wouldnt look at you, or would give you weird looks. it's one of those unwritten girl laws.
if im correct shes probably dying for you to make a move but hasnt said anything for a couple of possible reasons:
-she's shy with you (i would be too..if a guys friend tells me that he likes me then i would feel kind of flattered and shy)
-she believes that the guy should ask the girl out
ive been in the same spot as her before and it's freaking torture. ask her! ask herrrrr. you honestly have nothing to lose. good luck!!!
I've had the same one for forever and I'm sick of it!! But I can not seem to put my favourites/hobbies into something creative (not that I want everything in it.. hehe). Anyways, if anyone has anything interesting/exciting floating in their head.. please help me out!
My interests-
olivia newton-john, michelle pfeiffer, graphic design, soccer, freshman, fourteen, brunette, blue-eyed, bundle of joy, taken, old fashioned movies, text-aholic, wears hollister + abercrombie + american eagle, loves UGGs, prep.. idkkkk
this is what i did: i just said "fck it!" and pulled a totally random screenname from my a** (:
the best screen names are made when you don't give that much thought to them imo.
When submitting photos for modeling agencies, should I submit a picture with my face au naturale, or made-up?
au naturale. it helps modeling agencies see different ways your face can be put together. agencies are looking for blank slates, not people who are already made up. hopefully that makes sense.
I went to watch Gossip Girl on Wednesday, but it was the pilot for it again? Is it being cancelled or something?
no, its not cancelled. the episode was done already, and its airing next week at the same time. =]
in my opinion i think they didnt want to make a new episode on halloween because everybody would be out trick-or-treating so nobody would watch it, and that would look really bad since unfortunately, since the first airing of the pilot GG ratings havent been very good. =[
what does it mean when a guy "busts"?
He cums/ejaculates/orgasms
well theres this girl i like of course and she knows it very well that i do but im not an expert on what to do and we hardly talk ever since i told her i liked her i mean i would understand if she liked me and still didnt cause every one tells her i do but when i hear them do that and there all laughing and so is she but i dont know what to do so i look away and now i realize that was stupid and i looked at her and she looked mad but now it looks like she likes me more then she has ever oh should i care what anyone thinks but her i mean i dont want people picking on her for me liking her i think i should talk to alot more because this year we have no classes together but i love her with all my heart and soul and dont want to hurt her in any bad way so ill find out on monday if she likes me cause if u dont agree or anything i will go and talk to her around her friends and see if shes realy happy and wants me to do more i mean im the more think more act none but i want to change it for her and im shy and she might be to so if it means getting out of comfort zone i will do it to be with her i mean im addicted to runescape and every one hates me for it and i dont want her to hate me for it and should i act confident even though im not and smile alot around her and say hi alot more and have it go good shes the best thing ever happened to me but i dont know if she likes me i mean i understand what notto like about me
should i get and answer monday and ask her no matter what else happens? well every day she gets even more beatutiful and i love her and i guess i just need to see if i should do this if not in morning should i go walk the way to her lockers and walk the other way with her talking and think its not creepy in a girls point of view
AWW this is soo sweet
This may sound horrible, but I am getting so bored of my friends now.
They are all getting into all this new stuff, like all the scene kid stuff. You know? And they are getting so concieted(sp??) and becoming myspace whores. It seems like all they want to do is either sit around, or sit around on myspace. And they constantly make fun of what I like etc.
Not only are they getting quite annoying, they are getting quite boring also!
Like I said, the only thing they want to do is go on myspace. They used to be so fun, so active. I don't know what to do now, because I don't just want to ditch them.
But whenever I try talking to them, they just blow me off.
I know what you're going through. All my friends are becoming myspace whores too. Like, we'll all go to a party and the only thing we do is take myspace pictures. Borrriing.
I say you should start looking for new friends who have more in common with you - aka, non-myspace whores. You don't have to ditch your old friends completely...you can like join a new club or talk to somebody new. And it all goes from there. Pretty soon, if your friends dont change and you guys are still opposites, you'll end up drifting apart but it will be for the better because your old friends are obviously making you unhappy and that's not fair to you.
Also you might be imagining that they're blowing you off because you're not into the same things anymore.
Okay. I just thought of another option. Whenever you and your group of friends have nothing to do, suggest doing one of the old things that your friends used to like doing. Or you could just be like, "hey guys, I wish we would go outside more often. i'm tired of myspacing." if they dont react positively to your suggestions then you should follow the advice i wrote above.
I hope i helped! It's soo annoying to be friends with people who live and breathe myspace. I want to just be like, "Get a life!"
I am finally getting a job, so when I told my parents about how I won't need their money to go the mall anymore I felt mature and glad I wasen't going to have to keep asking them from cash. Well, in the middle of the conversation my mom was like "You do know that you are putting a third in the bank and giving a third to us right?" I couldn't believe that I have to pay them my money. My dad was like "Well what about our hard earned money? We give it to you two (my sister and I) all the time. Besides the family needs it." Um hello, isn't that what you two are for? My mom thinks since I have a job I have to pay "room and board" WTH?! Are my parents being unreasonably rediculous here???
(Keep in mind I'm earning minimum wage here, so saving up for anything now is foolish)
It sucks majorly, im going through the same thing actually. But there's some stupid, totally unfair law that says parents/guardians have a 100% right to your money until you turn 18. Just be happy you dont have to give up HALF of it.
(Like I do, lol)
Usually i am pretty confident with the way i look. i mean sure there are things i dont like about my appearance but i chose not to worry about it because i dont see a point in worrying about somthing you cant change. But i always do worry when people say things about what i dont like about my body. like im 16, skinny, about 5'6", and im a 36A. Im worried that im done growing and my boobs will stay this size forever. When will i grow? Does anyone else have or had this same problem?
I'm 15, i'm 5"10, i'm 34A, and I have a hip measurement of 37.5". my body is literally a tall, awkward stick with an unnatural bump on the back. which means: no tight shirts, no minis, no booty shorts.
sucks right? but guess what? I HAVE A BOYFRIEND who TOTALLY loves me.
so just live through it. stay positive. when i feel shitty about it i just remember that im going to grow SOMETIME. and even if im still a stick with a bump in my back by the time im 20, by that time most people will be mature enough to overlook it anyway.
13/f
alright well i went to this daycamp and there was a teen volunteer there. he's the same age as me. let's call him ryan. well my 2 friends also go to this camp with me. let's call them tricia and gabriella. tricia is the same age as me, and gabriella is one year younger than us. me and tricia like ryan, and gabriella doesn't. when camp was over, i found ryan's myspace. we started talking, exchanged sn's, then he sent me a comment saying [these are the exact same words, other than the name] "ur friend gabriella is hot" i'm so crushed, i'm crying right now i'm not even kidding. gabriella doesn't have a myspace and she's away at softball camp, and when i tell tricia she'll also be so crushed. the thing is, gabriella also has a boyfriend. i don't know what to do, how to comment back, anything. please help me, i'm basically desperate!
this is what i would think to myself:
this guy completely used me to get to my friend because he was not man enough to talk to my friend by himself. why would i want a guy who doesnt have the courage to talk to the girl he likes? i am totally better than that piece of shit. he's completely hot but if he doesn't like me, then fine. the guy who is perfect for me will come along someday and if he doesn't want me, then SO WHAT?
this is what i would do:
-not respond. using you to get to your friend is totally uncalled for and rude
-tell gabriella
-meet up with tricia and both of you can have a nice cry about it if you need to them get over it. ("a tragedy shared is a tragedy halved." :])
gl babe. guys suck sometimes. shit happens
Okay im fiveteen and i have been attempting masterbation for a while now. But I've done everything from trying to stimulate the ' lips' to external vibration stimulaters and I've never reached orgasm. Is my body unsensetive or something because I've been experimenting for a year and i don't know whats going on. help?
find your clit using a mirror and rub on it in a circular motion till you come
(make sure youre in heat first or it'll be uncomfortable and you'll never orgasm.) um..that tip actually applies to ANY TIME when you're about to masturbate. so next time try watching some porn or fantasizing about a guy you're really attracted to while you do it
why do guys like girl on girl so much like i kinda get it. but from a guys point of view an explanation would be great. lol. thanx.
Guys like the idea of two HOT girls getting it on and whatever. But in reality, most lesbians are all "lol i reject society" so they try and make themselves look mannish, and therefore, against the standard beauty rules of females. Guys don't like to imagine THAT. That's why in lesbian porn vids the girls are like super attractive.
So basically..to guys, the idea of lesbians is attractive, but the reality of it isn't.
Im not a guy but someone asked your question once and this is what a guy said basically lol. no offense to any actual lesbians who read this
How exactly do you give blowjobs and handjobs. Awkward question I know, but I need to know, so what exactly do you do through out the whole thing.
Please help .. :\
Thanks.
BJ tips:
NO TEETH!!!! IT HURTS!!!
alternate rhythms
concentrate on the head
don't stop immediately after he cums (he'll let you know when)
use your tongue
if you don't want to swallow, don't!!
HJ tips:
alternate rhythms
don't stop immediately after he cums (he'll let you know when)
play with his balls
but...you really shouldn't be doing these kinds of things if you have to ask Advicenators. you should be able to ask your bf, because the guy you're doing it to *will* give you the best advice o_o
I'm going to volleyball tryouts for my freshman year the week of August 13-17 (school starts on the 16th). I've played soccer before on a rec. team but I'm not like the ultimate sporty girl. The only time that I've played volleyball was during the times that we played in gym. I have a really great advantage, though, and that is my height (5'8") and the ability to jump up and like set the ball.
What should I expect on the first day of tryouts? The sheet just basically says dress in a shirt, athletic shorts, clean tennis shoes, and hair must be put back away from the face. I've never really played volleyball for real, I'm a little nervous. Do you think I will be good as an actual player on the team?
heyy. i tried out for volleyball last year as a freshie so i know what i'm talking about.
first, to even be CONSIDERED to make it, we had to do a mile in under 9 minutes. if you havent ran in a while you should definately go out and practice.
we also did a lot of drills. we did blocking drills, serving drills, setting drills, and hitting lines. we got in groups of 3's and hit the ball to each other while the coaches judged us.
we also did a couple of short, no-point scrimmages.
before i go, im warning you, don't get overconfident because just because you're 5"8 it doesn't mean you're definately on the team. i was 5"10 when i tried out, and i had the same experience as you, and i didn't make it. i had been really confident i was going to make it just because of my height. i was really disappointed.
oh yeah, and it would help if you got some kneepads. i know they said you don't need any but they'll definately be impressed if you have them. and you'll look more professional!
good luck at your tryouts! =] send me a msg w/ additional questions if you want.
i know most girls like to be called pretty or beautiful, or at least i do.. but when a guy tells me that he thinks i am pretty, what should i say back other then thank you- like do guys like to be called hott? sexy? something else? i usually say that someone is very attractive but is there somthing that guys like to be called...? thanks
Yup, I also heard that guys like to be called handsome because nobody ever says it anymore. So it's become a kind of rare, precious thing to be called =]
I guess it's because the difference between pretty/beautiful for girls is like the difference between hot&cute&sexy/handsome for guys. I know i'd rather be called beautiful than just "pretty". ;]
So where should a girl keep her hands when making out? I dont know what to do. Help? Thanks
a good rule of thumb is to put your hands wherever you would like HIM to put HIS hands.
I also heard that guys REALLY like having their ears touched/fondled *lightly*.
i am addcited to food...it is like drug problem bu with food...the second my family leaves the house i binge...i spend hours while they are around thinking of what i can get next...then i feel guilty... but i dont know how to stop my cravings
This always helps me. When I feel the urge to eat excessively, I force myself to stop and wait like 15-30 seconds, because apparently that's how long it takes for a food urge to go away.
Of course, this requires a bit of practice in acquiring the self-control to stop yourself.
Sorry if this isnt in the right place..but.
Mkay, i got my first period last april and it lasted four or five days..then i didnt have one all may, then i got one three days ago and its killing me, im bleeding through everything, even though im wearing thick over-night pads. and im cramping sooooo bad its bringing me to tears. My mom is talking about putting me on birth control.. I was just wondering, why is my period doing this and should i agree on getting birth control
I can't answer your actual question, but when my cramps get bad I put a water bottle on my tummy on the spot of the pain and take an Ibuprofen pill (works wonders)
I have been with my gf for about 4 months and when ever we are together its really quite! We always run out of ideas about what to talk about?
we really love each other!
ohh and by the way i'm 14/m.
does anyone have any ideas on what to do about that?
thanks so much!
The answers below have pretty much summed up what i was going to say. but if theres ANYTHING you SHOULD NOT talk about, it's immature topics like farting/burping/other "gross" bodily functions because it turns most girls off.