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Hi, everyone! My name's Rae. I love painting, reading, sleeping, museums, and I work at Aerie. I'll be attending college very soon, and I'm engaged to the most amazing person I have ever met in my entire life. Life is going so well and hopefully my advice will make your life just as good, :).
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what does a Eurika mean?
Like give me a sentence in it and why you would say it and when..
-_- i was just thinking about it..
Normally people don't really use it in a sentence, they'll just say it by itself like, "EURIEKA!". People say it when they've thought of something clever or smart. Like, in movies, when they say, "EURIEKA! I'VE FOUND THE FORMULA!", haha. I hope that helped.
I'm painting my room tomorrow. The walls are going to be pink. The theme is Peace Love and Happiness. I'm like a hippie. I'm anti-war. Thats what I want my room to be represent. I'm gettting chalkboard paint and painting a heart on my wall above my bed. My friend said it would be cool if I put a smaller peace sign beside the heart and a smiley face on the other side. If you have any good ideas for things I should do please answer this question.
I'm kind of a hippie too, haha. I have this shirt that says "Brains, Not Bombs" and you could write that in bubble letters or something on the wall!
what can cause flatulence and how do you treat it?
Usually gassy foods (beans, spicy foods, broccoli) or irregular/irritated stomachs/bowels (constipation, empty stomach sometimes). The hard way would be to watch what you eat, which would be hard, haha or you can take Beano which is an over the counter pill for gas. Hope I helped!
okay this might be a little long
I used to like this guy drew, but i dont anymore, i really havent for a long time, he isnt even decent to look at....but after i stopped liking him my friend started too and it annoyed me,,
Well now she is talking to him on myspace and everything she finds out about him she sends to me but tells me she just thinks he is hot and doesnt like him...but it is really getting to me and i dont know why...
I have a crush on this other boy and usually i will stick with one guy at a time...and he is the guy this time around, but the whole ariel and drew thing is really getting to me...
what could this be? why is this getting to me? What can i do to stop it?
thanks
Two things could be bothering you right now: 1.) You feel sort of jealous because right after you decided not to like Drew anymore, your friend starts to like him or 2.) Maybe you still consciously like Drew even though you've thought that you've moved on. The best thing to do with this situation is sit down by yourself and ask yourself what you want. Ask yourself if you still have some (even the tiniest) feelings for Drew, ask yourself if you feel jealous or angry that your friend likes this guy, and figure out if you're ready to move on to that other guy you like! Once you've figured out what you really want, then everything will get easier, promise! I really hope I helped!
this girl in my class is a slut! she is fake and really annoying and a suck up. she has fake boobs and trys to get all the guys to like her to hard. she cheated on her bf over the internet a while back and she used to be my friend but now i hate her and she asks me if i still like her. what can i say to her?? that she is a slut and need to clean up her act or ignore her? plus if i dont talk to her one day or talk to a guy she likes she'll say really bad things behind my back. i just want to punch her.
A person like that is someone that'll just bring you down, so I suggest you get rid of her right away! You don't need a toxic friend like that in your life, you're better than that. If she's really that bad of a person, you should just go up to her and tell her how you truly feel about her, have her know what it feels like to be talked bad about. I hope that everything works out for you!
I've been doing some research on smoking cigarettes while taking oral contraceptives.
If one were to smoke a very little amount (i.e. 1-2 cigarettes a week) while on birth control, would it still be enough to cause harm?
PS: It's a proven fact that you still have smoke swirling around in your lungs. I personally smoke and so do a lot of people I know. We did this test where we didn't smoke for a few days and then we each took a deep breath, and blew out the air as hard as we could, a lot of us actually had a little bit of smoke blowing out of our lungs. The only way you can stop it is if you quit smoking and your lungs rebuild and heal after a few years. Don't insult my intelligence, okay? Thanks.
How do they pierce it? And I know it hurts...and I am 14/f....and do you think I should wait? I want one really bad because I just got up the confidence to buy and wear a bikini and I want one to complete the package...and do you think that it is trachy or slutty? all adivce is welcomed! Kthanks =]
They usually use a 14 or 16 gauge needle to pierce the top of the belly button. Sometimes they even pierce the sides of the belly button or the bottom, depending on where you want it. I personally am not a fan of belly button piercings but some people can pull them off. I can't tell you whether you should wait to get one or not, but I just want to warn you sometimes the piercing can reject or get infected, so just be careful if you're going to get it done! I'm sure it'll look nice on you!
What is it called when a person cant date anyone but the person they are going to married? Thanks to whoever answers.
A fiance is someone you are getting engaged to!
i am 17/f and my complexion has always been pretty clear...no acne, occasional zits... i have had redness recently, tho, esp in my cheeks (and esp on my lower cheeks) and sometimes my nose. what can i do to fix this? i am looking for a cream or moisturizer solution, not medication or make up
It could be of three things: changing hormones, the changing weather, or roscacia. It's more likely hormones so I suggest you just kind of wait a little bit and see if it just surpasses, if you're impatient and you really want to get rid of the redness, try Biore Ice Cleanser, it'll help the redness go away! Oh, and be sure to use sunscreen whenever you go outside because even though there's no sun, UV rays can still shine through clouds. If the redness continues or gets even worse, it could be roscacia which is basically a redness in your skin that never goes away, but you need a doctor for that one. Hope I helped. :)
16/m
is it wierd to shave my pubes, like most girls said they'd like it better if i shaved
No, it's not weird at all! Some girls like when guys shave off all their hair or some girls like a little bit. But, it's completely normal, haha.
Alright, a bit more of an adult focused one, but I need some outside opinions.
So, my girlfriend is chronically ill. Not really sick, theres just always something wrong with her. She has migraines (she says, they dont seem to affect anything but her sex drive) she has body aches, she gets tired, she ________. Insert anything under the sun for the blank that doesnt require a doctor.
She used to have a sex drive that outstripped mine. Now, I'm lucky if we have sex once a week.
I don't know what to do about it. I used to be able to climb into bed with her, and seduce her. Now, she either ignores or rebuffs all the advances I make, and I only actually get to have sex when she is horny enough that she makes an advance. Basically, if she isnt in the mood, there is nothing I can do to get her that way. The only thing she wants constantly is non sexual physical affection, to the point that I feel used by her. I feel like a convenient toy that takes care of her needs whenever she has them, and the rest of the time she rolls over and pretty much ignores me.
Perhaps its selfish of me, but this is a big problem, on top of a bunch of other problems. Big enough that if it continues I am going to leave her over it.
I just need some outside perspectives. I can't handle being in a relationship with a girl who seems to have lost complete interest in sex. Its been going on for months, since last summer basically. She gets short bursts of horny for about 2 hours every few weeks, and the rest of the time I feel like we are married with kids and careers, when we are students with a decent amount of time on our hands.
To be honest, it is a little selfish but I understand completely, I mean, you have needs too! The best thing you can do would be to sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and how it's affecting the relationship, but make sure to tell her that you care about her too or else you'll sound self absorbed. She'll understand and things will definitely get better!
what is the best way to remove upper lip hair (for females) i tried using the hair removal cream but it leaves stubs...
Bleaching is popular and highly effective, however others like to wax it because it rips hair out from the root and won't leave weird stubs. Hope I helped!
There's this guy I've been liking 4 2 years now. he likes me 2 but he also likes another girl. So I was sitting down in the back of the church and he was in front of me and was hugging and kissing a girl
(just like he does me) and he was doing all that and I started crying. When I got home he called me saying that the girl he was hugging and kissing says she loves him but really doesn't and stuff like that. Well I told him that's wat he's doing 2 me. Well he doesn't want 2 belive me he thinks that he's the only 1 with feelings. It hurts I want 2 get over him so bad but I love him 2 much I just want 2 die soooo badly someone please help me before I end up hurting myself
Everyone goes through things like that, it just happens because it's life! I've gone through experiences where I've liked guys but they didn't feel the same, it was terrible! But, then I realized that there are so many other guys out there that could really appreciate me for who I am instead of playing games with me. If this guy can't realize your feelings and accept them, he's no good! You have a lot of love to give and he's not worth it. Love is supposed to hurt sometimes, but that's because you haven't met the right person yet. He'll come along as soon as you stop looking! Remember, you're better than whoever that boy is, you're going to find someone a lot better, who'll treat you like a princess, and love only you! Just be patient and you'll realize that there are so many other, BETTER boys out there.
I'm 18. I'm not sexually active but I would like to be and I think it would make relationships a hell of a lot easier. The only problem is that i'm really afraid of the result....meaning....the pain and initial hymen-popping and whatnot. I've done everything sexual other than sex but I have NOT been fingered nor have I fingered myself or used a tampon. I'm uncomfortable with anything being inside. I'm worried that this will make sex completely unattainable.
Is there any way I can "train" my vagina to be a bit looser? Anything!
The thing is, you can't make your vagina "looser" because every girl is made differently. No matter how much you have sex, your vagina will always be as loose or tight as it has always been. Honestly, the best you can do to "train" your vagina is to masturbate. It sounds really weird and stupid but it's the only way that will make intercourse a lot less painful. You're 18 years old and I can't tell you what to do, but my advice would be to strongly recommend that you wait until you find someone that you truly care about in order to have your first time with because that way, they will understand that it's your first time and that they should take it easy and it won't be as awkward. Also, it's probably unlikely that your hymen's already been popped because usually the hymen pops because of random everyday things when you're younger, like falling off your bike or something like that, it's usually rare for a girl to not have torn it by the age of 18. I hope I helped you!
Ok...I think I am depressed...and if I am...what is the way to go about it? I don't know how to tell people, my mom will make me go to therapy, and take medicine...and I don't want to! She has severe depression...because of an inbalance in her brain of seritonin (sp)....I just don't know how to tell my mom...or my friends...or a social worker I have befriended, and I trust her very muchh...and I don't want to tell her because if I do, then she will call my parents...and I want to tell them...so any suggestions?
All advice is welcomed
i know you don't want to, but you just need to sit your social worker and your parents down and tell them how you're feeling, tell them that you want to solve this problem without having to take medication or any of that stuff. i used to have severe ocd and i got depressed, so i had to take zoloft, prozac, all that stupid stuff! but my depression got so bad i almost commited suicide. now, i'm so happy because i decided to beat depression on my own terms. i don't want that happening to you, save yourself while you still can! i hope i helped and i hope you have a more positive outlook on life!
I am female, and want to be a teacher. I need to find a relatively cheap college, not like a bad one but one thats not expensive, and it has to be a good school for teachers. I live in New York and dont want to go too far away. I may want to be in like 4 states away from New York, but thats my limit. Or maybe florida, we own a house there. Does anyone on here know any good schools that fit my standards? Thank you!
University of Pittsburgh or Penn State are excellent schools for teaching! Your job resumes would be wonderful after going to this school, hope I helped!
You know in highschool when you get assigned as parents and have to take care of a fake baby? Is that just some fake thing on tv or do you actually have it in school? if so, what class and what grade?
Usually it's a Health class or even Home Economics. Some schools make you do it and others don't. Some schools either use bags of flour, eggs, or baby dolls. But to answer your question, it's real, haha.
I suffer frizzy and dry hair daily. Like the oils on my skin, I lack them. Anyone of you suffer the same frizzy and dry hair? What product do you use and recomend?
When my hair is wet, its curly but as it dries, it drys and expands. My hair isn't curly anymore just a total dry mess. What can I do to reduce the frizzinss and make it hold the moisture than evaporating?
Thanks
You can use either Herbal Essences, I think it's called None of Your Frizziness or some weird name like that, haha or you can use Herbal Essences for Curls & Waves, it makes curls more managable and not a total mess! I use both, I sort of alternate, Herbal Essences works the best, promise! I hope I helped!
ok so me and my friend rachel have been fightin a
lot but everytime it was her fault she would always want me to apologize to her.well my problem is this monday we were doin a group project in my 4th period class.it was all fine until rachel started to try and control everything that was going on.so she yelled at me because i was talking and when she told me i needed to listen to her i told her NO. she got really mad and threw a tantrum and threw a peace of paper which hit me in the head.I haven't talked to rachel since i am just like not friends with her anymore i just told her well im done with all the drama and stuff.my question is was that the right thing to do ?
I really think that it was a good idea to cut her loose. Even if you were doing something wrong, she could have just asked you nicely to stop talking. Instead, she decided to be loud, obnoxious, and immature by throwing a tantrum like that. If you're friends with someone who keeps on picking fights with you for no apparent reason, it's best to let them go. You have to enjoy your time with friends, not get stressed over them!
Can anyone tell me a college that fits the following criteria? I want a school thats pretty with really nice dorms. My grades are like on average B (with some C's some A's). I have a decent amount of extra curriculars and volunteer work...and i play squash for school (but not well)Deffinatly not a City school...with like a medium size student body- but on the smaller size.
Any help you can give me would be great!
i just got accepted into Chatham University! it's an all girl's school but the campus is beautiful because it's all renovated mansions and the dorms are big with nice sized windows. there are about 14 to 20 students in one class and there's only like, 1,800 students that go there. you'll definitley get in with those grades 'cause i got in with like, a 2.6 GPA, haha. hope i helped!