Question Posted Tuesday February 19 2008, 10:05 pm
There's this guy I've been liking 4 2 years now. he likes me 2 but he also likes another girl. So I was sitting down in the back of the church and he was in front of me and was hugging and kissing a girl
(just like he does me) and he was doing all that and I started crying. When I got home he called me saying that the girl he was hugging and kissing says she loves him but really doesn't and stuff like that. Well I told him that's wat he's doing 2 me. Well he doesn't want 2 belive me he thinks that he's the only 1 with feelings. It hurts I want 2 get over him so bad but I love him 2 much I just want 2 die soooo badly someone please help me before I end up hurting myself
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cassiopea answered Thursday February 21 2008, 12:46 am: I have that exact feeling right now. I just got my heart broken. Do you really like him...and does he really like you? Tell him now or never. If he says never...the only thing I can say is avoid him for a while because seeing him will hurt even worst and once you feel you can try to start seeing him slowly. It is not fun at all and it hurts worst than I ever imagined. I would not wish this pain on anyone and I am sorry that you are feeling it too.
Please don't hurt yourself you can get through it. please write to me...we can get through our heart break together!! [ Cassiopea's advice column | Ask Cassiopea A Question ]
raebabyyyy answered Wednesday February 20 2008, 8:48 pm: Everyone goes through things like that, it just happens because it's life! I've gone through experiences where I've liked guys but they didn't feel the same, it was terrible! But, then I realized that there are so many other guys out there that could really appreciate me for who I am instead of playing games with me. If this guy can't realize your feelings and accept them, he's no good! You have a lot of love to give and he's not worth it. Love is supposed to hurt sometimes, but that's because you haven't met the right person yet. He'll come along as soon as you stop looking! Remember, you're better than whoever that boy is, you're going to find someone a lot better, who'll treat you like a princess, and love only you! Just be patient and you'll realize that there are so many other, BETTER boys out there. <3 [ raebabyyyy's advice column | Ask raebabyyyy A Question ]
LindaLou16 answered Wednesday February 20 2008, 8:48 pm: My dear friend,
First of all, please don't hurt yourself. If no one else is on your side, remember, Linda Lou is.
Even if this guy does end up wanting to be your boyfriend, I sense that he is only in it for your body and not the your mind. He won't love you, he'll lust after you -- and a relationship can't survive like that.
Show him that you're not interested anymore. Refuse to make out with him and act like you don't care when he makes out with other girls in front of you. You'll get over him in time, but give yourself time. He's not worth your trouble.
I feel your pain, my dear friend. I'm sorry you are going through this.
-Linda
P.S. HOW DARE HE MAKE OUT WITH A GIRL RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU AND MAKE YOU CRY?? WHERE IS HE?? I'LL KILL HIM!! Sorry...I had to get that out. [ LindaLou16's advice column | Ask LindaLou16 A Question ]
sml111992 answered Wednesday February 20 2008, 8:47 pm: ok that guy isnt for you you need to tell him what you just said that hes not the only one with feelings you have them too. and if it still doesnt work out then hes a pimp and needs to go hump a tree. getting over a guy that you love is hard what you need to do is just cry thats it and hang out with friends and family that helps a lot and thats all you need try not calling him or meeting him places [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
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