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bff's ex
one of my best friends just broke up with her boyfriend and they don't get along at all. i've been talking to her alot about it and him so i kinda have both sides of the story. ever since him and i have become pretty good friends and he sorta flirts with me, i don't know if he means to but he definetly does it. when im with him i think i like him a little but when im not i feel terrible because how can i date my best friends ex. especially when shes not cool with it? any advice.
thanks.
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well you dont know for sure if you guys will be going out until he acutally asks you rite. well when he does you have a problem just make sure your best friend doesnt see you or hear your flirting with her ex shell get over it eventually but maybe she wont be ok with you. if your not honost with her shell never talk to you again. if hes does happend to ask you out you have to tell him i need to discus this with my BEST friend. no guy is worth loosing a friend over. talk to her saying that Bobby asked me out i havnt said yes yet but i wanted to know how you would feel about it if i were to go out with him and if shes not then you have to choose a guy that will break your heart in maybe two weeks or a BEST friend that lasts until the day you die!
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Most people say to not date a friends ex, and I agree to a point. It is not worth it to lose this friend over a guy that might not last. You have to know if he is serious or if he just wants you so he can get back at your friend. Guys are mean like that sometimes. Always ask the friend first.
If you start to like him on when you feel like you would be unhappy if you weren't dating him I would consider trying to make everyone cool with it, because you shouldn't sacrifice your happiness for your friend like that. Think before you act!!
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