i just ruined my friendship with a girl i know because she found out something i said...i mean, she still is my friend but she knows something i said that i didn't want her to. she pretty much knows i said it but not for sure...what do i do to make it up to her even though she is not mad i still want to do something nice
15/f
Well I mean it was wrong in the first place to say something behind her back. Because if its just an imperfection then keep it to yourself. But if its a problem then you need to tell her to her face. Plus if she dont care then you shouldnt. Just remember though thats a good friend if she just lets it go. I think all you have to do is confront her and tell her what you said and say sorry. I hope I helped
Bianca~
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Ok, i have a major problem! My best friend started goin out w/ this girl at the beginning of this school year. The problem is, he's not aloud to have a girlfriend. His parents obviously don't let him hang out w/ her outside of school but our families are good friends so i hang out with him every weekend. His girlfriend is incredibly jelous and despises me. She's told me that if i hang with him that she'll "dump" him. He's so happy with this girl and i don't want him to be sad. This girl and i are constantly fighting over the fact that me and him are nothin more than friends and that he luvs her. Well, recently he said that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore becuase his girlfriend said that he can't! Understand that i luv this guy like the closest brother ever and i've cried myself to sleep every night. what do i do? we're only 13!
Well I mean all 3 of yall need to sit and talk. No yelling or arguing be civilized. You wont solve anything if you dont talk. And if she cant handle it its her problem because are relationships about trust? If she trusted him she wouldnt be so jealous. But you alsdo have to understand thats his gf so mabe you need to space yall haning out as much. I know it sux bc yall are friends but when people start dating things change!
Bianca~
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Is it normal for like you to get horny wen you look at like nude pics of the same pics? because like i dont really no if that means im bi or its just normal.. i rate good!! thanx
- xoBALLERINAox
Well I mean all people are normal. It doesnt mean your bi it means your horny and thats ok just as long as you dont have sex. I know it sounds silly but just masterbate. Less diseases that way
Bianca
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Ok this is weird but when ur "cherry pops" what does that mean and wat happens? I'm sorry if this isnt aloud.
It means that the first time you have sex or the first time you wear a tampax your cherry pops and it just bleeds from the inside.
Bianca~~
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when someone goes "ill tap that!" or say "you know you'd tap that!" does it mean have sex basically? thanks in advance, I RATE HIGH for GOOD
yeah it means that its a one night stand for sex. I hope I helped
Bianca
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Is this a stupid thing to do?? Or does it feel better?
I wouldnt know but I mean my friend says its the same but your period will stop while your donig it. But still you problably shouldnt be doing it but I mean if thats what you do I cant tell you what to do
Bianca
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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/
No nothings wrong. Espically at your age. 16 is definatly a stage wheere you willl be thinking about sex. ALOT! But I mean its the whole trying to stay clean thing you know. Its normal to think like that just dont be the one to fall in to the hype Hope I helped
Bianca~
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i know that alot of people say only guys masterbate and yeah i know that isnt true its just more accepted that guys do right? i mean tons of girls do too?
Yeah alot of girls do to. But you hear that all the time only guys do it and girls are just more private about it. I mean you wouldnt really want someone to know what you do in your spare time. Its not there buisness. So yeah its really equal but I mean girls just dont say it. Hope I helped
~~Bianca~~
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well..
i have known my best friend since 7th grade ((we're in college now))&& we are very close..and last thursday..we got even closer..well we were at his apartment and we were watching a movie..and out of no where he stopped the movie..and we were already cuddling..and yes..durin the movie..i did feel him get.."happy"..but anyways..he kissed me..and we started makin out..one thing led to another and we endin up having sex..now everytime i see him we end up makin out and doing it..i talked about being in a serious relationship and he seemed hesitant but he said he wants to think about it..and i told him that i am not going to be his little whore and everything..and he was like..i would never think of you like that..i like you a lot..but i don't want our friendship to be weird..but i told him that it already was weird after we had sex..so what should i do..i really want to be his girlfriend..but i am so confused about everything..i need sum good advice..and i rate 5's for good advice
Ok well I have a friend just like you. Im telling you now even though its hard just stop because you have to get him to prove its not all about sex. Hes probably using you because if he really cared for you dont you think he would of asked you out so you could be the only one he could have sex with? I mean its hard to say now that your used to it but try and tell him why your stopping. Well I hope I helped you
~Bianca~
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I was wondering.. how often do guys get wet dreams? Like how old and how often
And how long do girls get periods? like till how old
I havent got it yet so i dont know like wuts gonna happend like wut will it feel like
and when a guy goes through puberty wut does it feel like??
thanks in advance &hearts
Ok well wet dreams usually start at 12 or 13. And you period all depends on your body weight. You have to be usually like 100 lbs and if not it should be there befor 16. It all has diffrent side effects. Some get back aches and some get an attitude change.
Bianca~~~
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i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!
i RATE FiVES T0 HELPFUL ANSWERS !!!!!
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Yeah eventhough you feel you friends are like that its good that you wanna try and make new ones. My advice is that find something you like to do and see the people who also like what you do. Like soccer or swimming and then youll start making new friends. Im in ROTC and have many friends from there. I hope I helped you
~Bianca~
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im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks.........
Listen I am really sorry to hear about your dad sweetheart. And listen the way your acting it could lead to a break up!! Thats what I did w/ my bf a week ago today. He was being really to himself and really depressed and then it just went down hill. You need to be open w/ your boyfriend. It may be hard but you need to open up because your bf would do the same for you. So the advice Im giving you is to let him know whats going on . And mabye you should try talking to your mom about it. I mean try and do things that used to get you really happy. Im really sorry. I just hope that everything really works out for you! Let me know how it goes
Always here,
Bianca
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I'm a 15 year old female.
I have had sex before, but it wasn't a good experience... of course.
IT seems like ever since, I have completely lost my sex drive.
Help?
Well I mean this is normal for most girls who arnt ready. But the drive is not gone. Its more of in a parked or nutural setting. See what Im saying? Well I mean because it probably hurt and then well You get used to it the more and more you do it! But Im not saying to do it over again and I mean you should wait until its w/ a long time lover or mabye till marraige! Well I hope I helped
Bianca~~~~~*****
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Alright...weird question..but oh well. My boyfriend always likes to like suck on my nipples...(heh)...and now like a week later I have a weird scab thing and its never happened before..and we've been together to a year..so umm why did this happen now?
Are yo on your period? It could be a little sensative I mean but its not bad. It could just be hes been nibbling a little harder! its ok though its nuthin bad!!
Bianca~~~~~****
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ok look i shave down there and wen i do like a day after there is red bumps and they hurt a lil like wen i put on my jeans and i do use shaving cream and soap wen i dont have any
Well I mean it will get like that because its very sensitive. What I usually do is you knoe that thing that guys use to shave their heads? Its like a buzzer?? It dont hurt and you can take off as much as you want. Well like its probably doing that because your not using enough soap and water! So well I hopped I helped
Bianca*~~~~
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k well I am a 14/f and i have been thinking about sex i am a virgin but i have not kissed anyone any guy i mean but i want to it is just i am scared that i will mess up i think a bout sex all the time is this normal
Please the worst thing you can do is have sex and not be with someone you've loved and dated for a very long time!!!! I mean I was like 13 when I wanted to but I mean espically if you've never kissed someone befor then definatally a big mistake! Dont try to impress him and say yeah lets have sex bc it really can make or break someone! So its ok to daydream or think but consider all youll be loosing! I hope I helped
Bianca~********
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Hello my name is chelsey i am a 13/f i have this guy that i really really like and he really likes me and well honestly i have never really made out before and he has a lot of experiance and i don't know how to makeout!!! and he really wants to and i told him i wanted to too. And i mean i do but i'm scared because i don't know how to!!..Can someone please tell me the right way!! and not what to do and what to do!!!..PLEASE!! ~*I'LL RATE REALLY HIGH!!!*~
Thank you very much!!,
love you xox,
chel
Sweetheart calm down. Trust me your going to feel like that. Because I hadnt made out w/ a boy for a long time I was afraid and didnt make out w/ my bf for like a week! He always to but I turned away. I'm telling you its scarry but I mean just go w/ the flow because you wont learn until you try! Just like stick your toung down his throat (not literally) but dont open your mouth too wide because youll end up eating teeth! hope I helped
Bianca
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The guy I'm seeing now does not use his tongue when kissing or... anything else for that matter. Ever! He finds it disgusting! His mouth is always sealed. I on the other hand, love french kisses! I didn't even know there were people out there like him. Is this normal? It's sort of hard to get passionate with someone like this, lol.
Well umm never heard of someone like this befor! lol well I mean if you can handle it then its ok but personally I cant.Sorry to ask but do u thnik he can be gay?
Bianca
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I am a 19 year old female who has dated a lot of immature 18-21 year olds. I joined an online dating site recently, just because I thought it would be fun. Well, now I seem to be drawing myself towards older men, such as 30 year olds. I suppose it's because of their maturity level, financial stability, and experience.
Would this be socially acceptable for me to have a relationship with a 30 year old, or a bit taboo? How would others perceive us? What should I consider before dating an older man? What sort of problems may we encounter in our relationship? Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Well I am 15. So here me out if you hear some 15 year old stuff. I think its fine to date older men because women do mature faster and that the way the world turns. I was dating and 18 year old. But when you get older the ages change. Like 25 is great and everytunig and if you feel comfterable with 30 then go with it. Every girl likes a diffrent maturity level. Some things you make encounter is that he is gonig to be working and you are in collage. But I suggest ( not saying you will) not to get pregnent because yes he can support you but you will have to drop out. And men aroud that age want to have kids. See what I mean.
Well hope I helped
Bianca
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My sister is my guardian and she told me last year that if my grades arent great then im going to a christian school..Now my grades havent been great and now i have to go but i realllllly dont want to.. so how can i convince her to let me stay in my school?.. this christian school is very small and has a really strict dress code! HELP ME!! ASAP!
Well I cant really tell you how to change her mind. But you can try to let her give you an extension on improving. Tell her that you will try harder and get help from teachers. And ask for a planner. I know it sounds babiesh but ask every teacher to sign it at the end of class proving that your a good student every day. And do all your homework and study and make shure none of it goes unnoticed! I hope I helped you
Bianca
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