Hello everyone!!! sorry it's been so long since i've been around to help. to let everyone get reaquainted with me i am a 33 year old mother of 4 kids and 2 stepkids. I work 2 jobs cuz i know how hard it is out there!! i have experience with teen pregnancy, domestic abuse, mommy issues, and just plain old troubles in the world!!! Just remember your every day trouble will always be there- don't let it get you down- try to figure out a way to cope with it!!! Have Faith!!!
Gender: Female
Location: tennessee
Occupation: assistant manager retail
Age: 33
Member Since: January 9, 2006
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Last Update: November 13, 2007
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okay so, me and my best friend have an xanga together. we make layouts.. i don't want to make her mad or anything but i hate having her as a partner. i mean, i still want to make layouts but she pretty much ruins it for me. i don't know what to do. any advice? (link)
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try discussing with her what bothers you so much about the partnership. maybe that way you can resolve the problems. if not just explain to her that the partnership isn't working for you anymore and you need to explore other options.
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I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now? (link)
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it's quite possible guys don't usually come out and say what they are thinking in a romantic sense. you may just need to ask him to drag it out of him. it couldn't hurt. just be clear on how you feel about the situation.
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I just started working out last week , and every time after i work out, I have these semi-bad headahces that usually last the rest of the night. Does anyone know what this could be?? (link)
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you could be pushing yourself too hard or not eating properly. your breathing may not be correct while you exercise (believe it or not) and hyperventilation can cause headaches and dizziness. check with a doctor or an exercise theripist or even a dietary nutritionist
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When i get older i want to do stuff like CSI, Forensic files, && Like find out who murder people. And you know its pretty much all scientiftic.
I need help to know what exactly I may need to know, like topics like chemistry? and stuff.
Any tips, on what i can do to know things about it.
I mean i watch the tv shows, all day, and stuff.. but any more tips to improve me, for when i really do go to college scince im young enough now to start paying better attention, to what i want.
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you can go online to a college site even an online college campus where you study from home and look to see what courses are involved for that particular career. look up forensic medicine and things of that nature online and see if you can get any pointers that way. you could always ask a school counselor what you need to do to prepare for that course of study. By the way, good choice. that's a really cool field to work in.
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I think french kissing is really gross.. the whole open mouth part. I wouldn't mind making out though even though I haven't done either of them. Do you have to french kiss before you can make out with a guy? And what exactly do you do when you make out with someone? Where do you put your hands? How do you know when the time is right to start using your tongue? Any advice? I rate 5s. (link)
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sweetie it's all a matter of preference. do what you feel is natural. and don't rush it.you will know when its right and everything will fall into place.
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19/Male...I finally got up the nerve to talk to this girl in a lunch line. She seemed decent and smiled at me while we talked and introduced ourselves. But it was very short (maybe 2 minutes). I didn't get her number or anything but I see her everyday, and I still want to pursue her. It's hard to me to think of what to say and I really want to avoid that awkward silence that sometime happens. Any advice? (link)
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talk to her again. friendship never hurt anyone. besides alot of friendships bloom into beautiful love affairs.
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I was thinking of taking estrogen pills to help make my figure more womanly. Im 22 and I still dont have breasts and curves like I should. Do you think it's a good idea? (link)
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no don't take anything like that without consulting a doctor first. taking more hormones than your body needs can be dangerous.
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Well, I like this kid. I'm a little worried about it though, because I've only kissed one guy... and it wasnt even a REAL kiss and the kid I like makes out with people && grinds at dances and stuff. (Hey, I know he doesnt sound like prince charming, but hes really nice and funny and smart etc)
It's just if I do start going out with him, what do I do? anything is really helpful, from kissing tips to ... well anything really... i just need help
and preferably soon please (link)
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if you do end up with this guy explain to him how far you really want to go in the relationship. if you aren't ready to go any farther than a kiss on the cheek than so be it, if he really likes you he won't mind a bit. if not to hell with him. don't rush yourself. you will be ready for everything in this big bad world in your own time
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well tomorow me and my sister are going babysitting for about 4 hours and we need some activities to do with the children mainly because i will be very busy with the baby and she doesnt have much expirience on how to occupy them. they are 3.5 and 2 (boy and a girl). we tried searching the internet but we couldnt come up with anything because the younger one isnt quit ready for preschool activities? any ideas the younger ones verbal skills are low so songs and stuff are kind of out of the question and they are not aloud to watch TV or bake or anything!
(easy crafts are good!) (link)
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find some kiddie cartoons (Disney movies) for quiet time, there are board games for preschoolers or you could even make up some kind of game with a plain old deck of cards, kids really don't care what they are doing as long as they are occupied. make a contest out of coloring just don't let them eat the crayons. play hide and seek with snacks and little toys or even an egg hunt with plastic eggs make it a treasure hunt. 2 year olds like to do anything that big kids do!!!!!
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i think i have herpes...i dont know what to do... (link)
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find your local health clinic and get checked out now!!! herpes is nothing to fool around with and it is extremely contagious. you must get medication immediately if you have contracted it
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Hey! I'm going to Disney World on Friday morning because we don't have school on Friday or the following Monday. We're driving back on Monday. It's a 7-8 hour drive. Well, I found out today that we're having a huge test next Wednesday! Since I'll be in Disney World, I don't know if I'll have time to study a lot, and there is a ton of information for the test (like at least 5 pages typed). What should I do in order to have fun and be prepared? (link)
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have all the fun you want study on the trip there and back. then you still have tuesday to study some too.
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I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you. (link)
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please talk to a counselor at school about a planned parenthood class in which you take a computerized baby doll home for a period of time to care for it as if it were real. this will give you a dose of what it could be like with an actual child to care for. you are very young and do not have enough life experience or education to properly support and care for a child. trust me i've been there.
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how early on can you tell if your pregnant..
&& what is the chance of getting preg on birth control. I Didnt take it how they told me to && I missed it a fiew times. I didnt know i was taking it wrong but someone told me today sense I didnt take it the right way it wont work fully.
I dont think im preg actualy im like 99.9% sure im not..
but you can never be to safe && sure (link)
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some pregnancy test say they can predict up to 5 days before your missed period. generally if you are even just a couple of days late most tests will predict yes or no. if you are having stomach trouble and sickness you probably should go to a doctor. if the pains are too bad you could be pregnant with a tubal(ectopic) pregnancy which means the egg didn't travel all the way to the uterus and planted in your tube which can be very dangerous. i urge you to seek medical attention.
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do you guys think lockin arms with a guy would be considered as cheating on your boyfriend. when the guy you are locking arms with is only a friend? (link)
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that a depends on how friendly the arm locking is if there's no kissing or heavy petting involved i think you are in the safe zone.
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I have a weight problem (I weigh too much) and I think my weight may be getting worse due to stress. How do I know if it is stress? If it is my stress causing me to gain weight what can I do about it? (link)
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you need to consult your family doctor to give you a stress test. they are very common he or she will then be able to diagnose your problem correctly and set u up on a diet and excercise regimine.
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i am 15/m and i am completely in love with this girl we'll call her Ally she is 15 as well...and we have been dating for three months but it seems like years...we are both so close to eachother and we love eachother so much...now we want to have a baby....i know we are 15 but we want one....we have been talking about it for a while now..and we feel like we are ready like we have been doing a lot of research....but how do we tell our parent that we wanted one and it wasnt a mistake? (link)
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Listen, first of all i know i'm going to sound parental but you are way too young to start a family. neither one of you is out of school with enough education to start a family. try asking a health teacher or counselor at school if there is a planned parenthood class or baby and me class where you take home and care for a computer baby for a week or so. and if that process doesn't convince you to wait try getting a puppy and raising it together.
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To be blunt, I have a ton of hair down there that goes all the way up to my anus. is it supposed to go that far back? is there anything i can do to get rid of it? f-16 (link)
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yes it's normal some have more than others. you can shave very carefully or go for the ever painful waxing ritual if you want or just leave it alone. it's really your preference.It's your body
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ok so i am going to the gyno for the first time in a month...and i shave my pubes...so i was wondering if the gyno will expect it or if she will lecture me on not doing it? (link)
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gynos don't have a preference. she may let you know that you can get an infection from shaving which is really not much more than ingrown hairs that have gotten infected. no big deal it's happened to me. otherwise don't worry about it she won't make a big fuss.
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I'm attracted to my social worker. He is 38 and I am in my mid 20's. He's really cute and is so nice to me. He's single, he got a divorce from his wife 4 years ago. Sometimes I have caught him starting at me in an unproffesional way. I've always sensed that he was attracted to me as well. I want to ask him out, but don't know if he would be allowed. Could he get fired if we started dating? (link)
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i don't think they are supposed to date their clients you might want to check that out before you go any further. otherwise i don't see anything wrong with you dating an older man as long as you are happy and he treats you well.
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i really dont know who i am...
sometimes i feel happy and i want to wear designers and bright colors.
sometimes i feel stupid and i feel like wearing baggy pants and black.
sometimes i feel like a laid back skater punk and i want to wear DC and converse....
tough one, right. can i keep switching like this??? WHAT DO I DO! (link)
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you are fine do what you want to do whatever makes you comfortable. sometimes i wake up and think boy i'd really like to wear bright colors today and the next morning i'm back in baggy black clothes with my hair in a pony tail.
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