Member Since: February 14, 2015
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Last Update: November 7, 2015
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ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do? (link)
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i will say have your sister dance with you two , and tell your dad youre not a little girl anymore , and that he should trust you . its just a dance you are probably young . but since your sister will be there too he shouldnt worry cause your sister can watch you .
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My parents want me to go to a state college just because it's cheaper. I want to go to a private university because I like the opportunities they have better and it provides a more Christian atmosphere. My parents don't seem to understand that idea, they just think it's all about the money. I'm willing to pay everything, loans included, and I'm going to get a crapload of scholarships because I'm fairly intelligent. But my parents don't understand that. What should I do? (link)
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College is very importnant you are smart , kind, and good grades be very patient the colleges will accept you for who youur are , its youre decision to make the very best choice in your life . do whats right chose the one who make you happy and the one that is right for you . make sure you make it to college on time and to work , dont be late to either one . i bet you will try your best in what you do. good luck i hope i helped you .
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Ok i am a 12 1/2 year old girl and I love a boy and he loves me too. Should I date him? Am I to young? Simone please help me. (link)
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youre too young girl , live your life first wait till your older , i think its best to do that because you dont know anything bout love . that what my mom always told me , i was dating a guy one time when i was your age it didnt work out . becuase i was so young , i lived my life right and im dating a guy since i was 18 years old . so i think you should wait till time is right
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I didn't do so good on my report card this semester. I know I am really smart and if I just study I could be getting straight A's. But honestly studying is such a drag! I can't do it for anything. If anyone has any ideas of how I can make studying fun, then I would love that! Thank you! (link)
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have some friends over to help you study or get you a tutor that will help you the best way that they can. maybe you will do better in school. make sure you pay attention in class take notes they will help you too . study alot more times b4 the actual test
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For the past two years I've been on 30mg of Adderall XR a day and it's made a lot of positive changes in my life. For some reason I'm starting to feel bad about being dependent on this substance. It's an addictive drug and I'm paranoid that it will harm my long-term health. I know I will have to be off of it eventually, so should I try to get off of it sooner than later? My concern is that the longer I stay on it, the more my whole life will depend on it. I'm scared that when I go off it my life will completely collapse and and it will force me to reset everything, including my personality.The medicine has helped me to be more in touch with my surroundings, which has given me life-changing social confidence. Since beginning adderall, I've been at a healthy weight whereas before I was overweight and I REALLY don't want to go back to that. When I have to miss a day, I feel depressed. PLEASE tell me this is a withdrawal symptom and not my natural state. Should I try to go off of it in two years when I'm no longer a student or now? In general what should I do?? (link)
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I used to be on adderall and it does help , but if you think that its bothering you let your doctor know it not helping ,. i was on it for a while and i stopped taking it cause i thought it wouldnt help me and i told the doctor that it didnt help and i flushed them down toilet and he gotten mad then put me back on them . so i kept taking it and it did help . but let your doctor know whats going on .
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Hi! i'm a girl and i'm having my Sweet 16 party in several weeks, and i'm starting to send out invitations. most of my friends are girls, but i have a few close guy friends as well. my question is this, should i invite those guy friends even though there will be mostly girls at the party?
i feel like it would be awkward because there would be about 15 girls (maybe) and about 5 or 6 guys. i have more guy friends that i could invite but some of them i don't know all that well. what do you think?
thanks! :) (link)
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i really think you should not invite the boys just do a girl party since you are a girl . it will be alot more fun with the girls there talk, dance, music , games , have fun girl. it will be the best party you ever have . throw in girl decorations , but if you wanna invite boys do it its your decision its your party , maybe it be alright your parents be there anyway to help with your party so do whats right
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I'm tired of being mean to the person I like. It's always me calling them names and calling them ugly when I. don't. mean. it. It makes me mad because impulse control disorder makes me blurt out some mean things some times without even thinking. I want to be nice, I really do. But I just don't know how...
any suggestions as how to improve myself in being nice? Because I want to better myself, for the sake of the person I like, for our friendship in general, and for my sake. (link)
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if you like the person tell them youre sorry it will help your friendship with the person , and people does say mean things they dont mean. i usually am the same way but now im nicer than i was before . control your temper it will help too . let them know you didnt mean it and that you are very sorry they might forgive you . i hope i helped you on this advice im trying my best to help the best way i can .
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At home there is a small drawer with a razor blade that we use to scrape crud of the stove. One day I was getting some dishwasher capsules and I was holding said razor blade. A little later, I saw my dog and he was growling at me and once I put the razor blade back in the drawer, he stopped. Can my dog be telling me something? (link)
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yes he telling you that he is afraid you will hurt yourself and that he loves you not to lose you . i would listen to him and put the knife away he just worried bout you or he can be afraid of the knife and think you would hurt him but if you love the dog you wouldn't hurt him anyway . so do the right thing put it up
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I am almost turning 14 and everyone else has breasts. It is always awkward changing for P.E. And I look horrible in swimsuits. What do I do? (link)
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well your 13 flat chested i had same problem whrn i waen i was 13-14 years old , you havent hit your growth spert yet , you are probably short like i am , so be patient they will grow or try some training bras . they will help you . it takes time to grow ..i hope i helped you on this advice .
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I'm pissed as I can be. I'm wondering if I'm wrong.
I'm a woman in love with a guy. He says he loves me too. Blah blah.
Anyways he gets sexy photos from me and all. But his page is covered with photos of nearly naked women.
He recently followed on his Instagram a page of girls sending private selfies. He also follows porn stars and of course my Instagram is covered with these photos. I've confronted him about this and he tells me to stop being jealous because they are other beautiful women in the world and he can look all he wants. And I can't say or do anything... It pisses me off. I don't think that this right. Especially since we are talking about getting married.
Let me ask. Am I paranoid or is he just a lustful idiot? Pardon me. But I think he has a problem. He seems to be getting worse. Everyday my "photos you may like " page are getting more explicit. I'm not happy. Fine. I understand they are pretty girls in the world. But he seems to want more and more of these type of women and he likes to look and look and look. It disgusts me.
I can't bring it up again. But it bothers me.
What is it going to be like when we get married? Is he going to sleep with me and then go look at half naked girls on the internet? Looking at close ups of boobs and asses? It bothers me. And I can't do much here. But honestly. I think he has a problem.
How do I handle this? (link)
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i say tell him that if he wants to be with you he should not do all that stuff considerinag you are his girlfriend. he should be respectful to you and not think or watch porn , and delete naked photos that are not yours . tell him it bothers you so much maybe he will stop. tell him he needs to decide either be with you or give up the relationship.
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so I've written a song (I know I know, it's cheesy as hell) for the person I like. Some people have told me that it's cute and all that I took the time to write a song for her even though it's in the style of Hey there Delilah with my lyrics. But they still think it's cute. But I feel really embarrassed because I'm not the type of person to be sentimental and express my emotions often. And every time I always think, "Hey, I'll sing it to her!" but I don't want her to think of me as sappy or sensitive cause I don't think I'm like that at all. suggestions? (link)
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Let your feeling show , don't be embarrassed because she might like you back , or she is probably liking you right now and afraid of telling you too. get her by herself tell her you wrote her a song and prove it to her that you like her . i think its sweet of you to write her a song . if she tells you she likes you too you will be happy that she be your girlfriend , don't be afraid to let your confidence to show . be proud and happy of who you are she will like you the way you are . and good luck
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pardon the title, I couldn't think of anything better to title this.
so to make a long story short, my best friend's gone to another school and as happy as I am for her, I miss her so much already. Call it stupid but it's true. She was the one who got me through my worst moments, kept me stable, kept me smiling...she was the best of me. I know you're all going to be thinking "it's a part of life" but listen, try to see this from my perspective. She's the one who made me happy and as cliche as this sounds, she was the best part of me and I couldn't thank her enough for everything she's done for me. She never found out (or so I believe she never knew) how I really felt about her. I liked her at first glance and after awhile, I fell in love with her. It's better she didn't know because she was taken any way and I respect her enough to back off. It's pretty stupid I'm crying over the fact we're apart....we said our goodbyes today and I'm going to miss her. I don't know what to do about people asking me about her. I'm scared I'll break down in front of them (link)
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if you have facebook look her up she might add you i say just maybe she write you on there so see how you doing , if you still have her number call it maybe she will answer , even if she knows where you live she will write you a leter so you can writ her back , try to keep in contact let her know her know how you feel about her , i think you should let her know you like her , and that is a good thing that she helped you through the worst times you need someone like that , maybe you will find a good friend like her . but also have contact with each other .
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Hello,
My boyfriend and I are 17 and 18 years old. We started a long distance relationship a little over six months ago. Back then, I was still a virgin and he knew that. However, a few months ago I cheated on him and lost my virginity to a guy I honestly had no feelings for. I was completely aware of what I was doing and I did it because I really just wanted to get it over with. I made sure there were no feelings attached. Now, the guy still chases after me, but I want no business with him, or any other guy rather than my boyfriend. I love him to death and really have no trouble remaining faithful. I realized it wasn't worth it and he's truly the only guy I ever want to be with. However, I know that he'll want to break up with me and his heart will be completely shattered if he knows. He keeps talking about how magical he wants my first time to be once we finally see each other again. And I believe it will be magical because it'll be with him. I don't want to lose him, but I do think he needs to know. I also don't think it's any conversation to have via phone/text/video. A close friend told me not to say anything '"cause there's no point". I know if we were in the same time zone it'd be easier to confess and try to win his trust back, but I have a serious disadvantage by not being able to daily demonstrate my true feelings towards him. I've thought of telling him in the far future, once we're living together, but I don't know how he'll feel about it after such a long time...
Also, I'm actually kind of glad I did it only because it was extremely painful, and he wasn't the one who caused that terrible experience. The guy was gentle, so it would've been bad either way. Should I tell him when we finally meet again? If so, should I do it as soon as possible, or do I give it some time? If I do choose to tell him, I know I probably shouldn't have sex with him until he's known, but I'm terribly scared of ruining the possibility of a future with him.
I'd appreciate any thoughts and advice,
Thank you. (link)
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well i tell you this i was in the same boat as you although i was to tell my man how i felt bout me cheating on him , well i was with my man for couple of years and i waited for a while to tell him well now im living with my man and i told him the truth i was afraid he would leave me but he didnt cause he still loved me like he should and let him have my trust again , now we are fine and im not cheating . i think its best for you to come clean to him tell him youre really sorry . maybe it didnt feel good to you with the guy that youre not in love with , but you wanna do it with your boyfriend , i say go for it maybe it will feel magical to you and your guy . just don't lie to him , keep your trust to him, let him know you messed up and tell him you don't wanna lose him again and that you love him and say you are very sorry that you did that .
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I'm 14 and I've been cutting for a few years. I really want to stop but I keep failing. Does anyone have some good advice? (link)
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well if you wanna stop cutting yourself then don't pick up the knife say to yourself i will not do it or think of happy things , cause if you do cut yourself again you might do it too deep and you can die so you don't need to cut yourself. do something productive like writing in a journal, poems, coloring, read a book . it will help you on not cutting yourself i hope i helped you
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Does anyone have any ideas for what to do for Valentine's Day when you and your boyfriend (college students) are flat broke? I'm talkin' scraping change off the floorboard of your car broke. Is there anything we can do that doesn't cost money? Should we float Valentine's Day until we can afford to celebrate it well? Is there a way we can get some money (even just a little) fast? (link)
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well you could use computer paper make a valentine's day card if you have cake mix and frosting make a cake. or just watch movies online or your movies at home . spend time with each other. i didn't buy anything for my man and i made him a card out of colored paper . i love being creative and i think u should be creative . write him a love poem to show him your love from him. good luck on which you decide .
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I just got just peachy from baby lips medicated line. Well, on my skin color it's is not applealing at all. It looks like my lips out ashy lol. Anyways, how can I use it so it's not so ugly on my skin or could I make it into a different color. Any other ideas much needed! Thanks!😋 (link)
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okay so youre medicated line , i think its best tpo use lip gloss on to top of the medicated line so it wont be ashy it might help but u could also use carmax lip balm it might help too . or try some other lip balm that dont make it ashy.
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First off, I am 14 & he is 16. We both met eachother on 1/15/14. We are going to make one year on February 19, 2015. But this year has been a real struggle for the both of us. In the beginning we loved each other like crazy. He knew i wasnt allowed to date though. My parents found out about us and forbid us to see eachother. I have really strict parents so i cant even hang out with friends. This struggle has caused us both to lose feelings. We still love/care each other so we havent broken up, but currently we are on a break. What do you think I should do ? (link)
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If you two are having for each other let it show . if your parents doesnt want you to date then i think you two should date when they are not around. you two love each other i dont think you two need to break up with each other if you really care bout each other be careful you two are still young live your life right on track take it slow . when the parents understand that you like this guy they will know that you are happy with him and not make u break up with them . i hope i helped you on this advice .
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