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Age: 15
AIM: MiSZ BUBL3GUM XX
Member Since: February 27, 2005
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Last Update: April 14, 2005
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Is the feeling of expecting someone to be monogamous (having only one love interest) a girl thing or do guys feel that way too sometimes? And is their anyway to get over that feeling, cuz I hate expecting certain people to be devoted to only one person (namely me if they tell me that they love me when we aren't together). Am I justified in feeling that way? (link)
Well i know how you feel i used to be in love with this one guy that i dated then i broke up wit him becuase of this rumor i heard and then i found out it wsnt true so then i regreted that but then i started goin out with otha boys and im over him now but once in a while i get that feeling that i need him but and i think everyone is like that


Okay, I've been best friends with my friend Missi since for about 3 years or more. About 5 months ago I met Cheryl (who had just moved to my school) We have become bestfriends too. Well we are all 3 bestfriends. Well before Cheryl ever came along, me and this guy Greg had dated for a lil over a month, and we had broke up just weeks before I met Cheryl. Well then Cheryl and Greg meet and she thinks hes hott, and he thinks she is too, okay so they end up likein each other. She is my friend so I choose to let myself forget about my feeling for him, because I know the reason I broke up with him to begin with is because he was mean and immature. So I let her have him, well when Cheryl moved from Navarre to Milton she left her boyfriend of 10 months, and they were still talking, and while she was going out with Greg, she cheated on him with her boyfriend Josh in Navarre. I never said anything until about a month or so after her and Greg broke up that she had done that to him. Well now hes finally realizing that Cheryl really loves Josh and hes just someone to lean on when Josh cant be around. Well we get back together (me and Greg). Well me,Cheryl, and Missi, all work at the skating rink together..Missi is off this Saturday night while me and Cheryl are working. Greg is there and his cousin Kenny shows up,who is like 19, well for some dumb reason Missi wants to get her freak on with him, So after Cheryl gets off work Kenny is goin over to Cheryls to do Missi. And of course Greg is goin over there to, I dont trust Greg around Cheryl but I trust Cheryl. Well the next day I find out, that Greg fingered Cheryl and tried to screw her 3 times (Missi told me) after I begged her to tell me what went on, because I knew something was up because Greg was talking to Cheryl on the phone. I am so hurt that Cheryl would touch him, and she knew he was with me, and Im even more hurt that Missi let Cheryl and Greg do it to me. Well the day I find out about this, which is the day after it all happened, I get a phone call that night, and its Missi, Im like where are you at and she goes "Oh me, Cheryl, Kenny, and Greg are over at the mall, and Greg wants to talk to you" of course Greg dumps me. And furious I call Missi's grandparents and tell them where she is really at and who shes really with. She gets grounded out the butt. And now she wants to be my friend again and has wrote me the letter saying how she is sorry, and made a scrap book thingy of us. Should I take Missi back as a friend ? And as far as Cheryl goes she has tried to apologize too.. Should I forgive either one of them. I mean once was horrible, why'd they do it a second time if they knew it would hurt me?
I know this was long, but I need some opinions. (link)
You could take them back but there is achance that they will do it agian and if you do become friends wit then tell them that you dont trust them that much no more


Okay my question I had posted was

Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??

and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!! (link)
um there really iz no to old to dat age


Is it true that your boobs stop growing 2 years after you got your period? (link)
No its not your body doesnt stop growing until your 21(eavan your boobs)


we dated about 7 months ago for a month about and it ended because i guess he just lost interest in it.
we never saw eachother over the summer after he persued me last year and after we got together a bit this year and it didnt work, we developed an amazing friendship. i'm the girl who his family loves (hes told me how much his parents "adore" me haha) and i'm the only girl who spends time with him and his family like at movies or something.
he's gone through the typical 16 year old guy phase of wanting to date everything and anything with a skirt on this year after things didnt work between us....which is fine, i understand it. now i'm becoming good friends with his best friend who he thinks i should give it a try with as a relationship because "he deserves a girl like me"...i may like the guy a bit but i dont want to act on it. as for my guy-hes going out with a girl i don't really like right now and hes admitted to his buds that he still kinda likes me (but its a secret i guess). i don't know what to do.

does it seem like we may have a chance in the future?
should i mabye give it a try with his best friend who is truely a really great guy-would that affect the chances of us ever"

what do you think is going on in his head?

i need all the advice, thoughts, opinions i can get. please help-i'll rate. thanks. (link)
I do think there is a possible chance for you in the future i also think that you should tell him how you feel and if you want to go out with that other guy it shouldnt effect the chances of going bak out with thim because he has a girlfriend now to and that still doesnt effect the chances of you to being together in the future


does anyone have any quotes about life or things like that to put in infos? (link)
if you go to hometown.aol.com then at the tom you rite quotes and press enter or the buton it wiol have ahole bunch of pages with alot alot of quotes


I think I have self-image problems. I hate my stomach. I'm always worried it is preventing me from finding a boyfriend. I know people sometimes comment about my weight behind my back. In school when we had our physicals I felt extremely self-consious because the nurse put the chart down and a few people could see my weight (I'm not sure they care though). I just don't want to hurt myself. I've thought about nt eating and becoming aneroxic and when I did I honestly didn't care what it would do to my body as long as my stomach look thinner. I do exercise usually but I never see results. I just want to know how I can have a better self-image. Any help? (link)
first of all if u starve urself you could get fatter because bodies are functioned to eat and wen they dont the brain tells it self that its hungry and they feed off the fat you already have so you could become fatter(i think thatz how it goes)and also if u juss go about 30 sit ups in the morning and in the night you will see results in a bout a couple weeks.. and an average person only eats up to 2,000-2,500 calories a day so if your on a diet you might only 1,000-1,500 calories a day


my b/f wants 2 make out in a few days.. how do you make out again cuz i havent made out in 3 years? (link)
I cant realy explain it you just let it flow


um well my brother in college just told me that he is suffering from depression but he says hes going to counseling but he lives 600 miles away so its hard to know for sure but like he normally tells me pretty much everything but he wont talk about what is so bad and i dont know what to do, cuz he lives so far away and whatever. any ideas? (link)
Well in colledge therez alot of thing going on he probaly misses his fmily and the school work is to hard and he doesnt get enough sleep and he could be stressing alot and there isnt mich you can do about it maybe you can send him a card or something that could make him feel better


OK, im 15, and I am sexually active. OK, dont lecture me about it I know its wrong. Trust me, I get enough of it from my friends. But I accidently cummed on my favorite shirt.... dont ask... and my mom keeps asking why i dont wear it anymore. I dont know how to get it off... and I cant tell her. And the laundry guy only accepts from 18 yr olds and older. What should I do?


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Lol to tell you the truth i dont kno wat you can do you can go out and look for new ones or tell her you got a hole in it so you threw it out or got a big stain on it


okay, im 14/f and i havent had a boyfriend yet all my friends have at least been asked out and many have had boyfriends..no one has asked me yet and im old fashioned i wont ask a guy out i really want a boyfriend and all my friends have one i think im ugly and thats why no one asked me out please help me--desperate (link)
If you dont trust in your self and think that your ugly boys will feel tha same way..also everybody time comes


here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help! (link)
Somtimes it is normal and thats OK not to have it and trust me you dont it is a lot of pain and some people might not evan get it til they are 18 and you have nothing to worry about who might just get it late because your mom or grandma did


Okay well, alot of guys like me and i don't like them. My friend told me to talk to every single one of those guys and tell them that i don't like them. SO I did, well only to one of them. And I told him I didn't like him more then a friend and that was that. He said o. Sadly. Then he was like no one likes me. And i was like sure they do. And then he was like no they really don't.(I am thinking I really don't give a care.) And then he sad he was going to cut himself with a knife. I was like no please don't please and I tried to tell him not to but I think it was to late. Well, I told the friend that wanted me to talk to these guys and then I told her about that guy. She was like like I care.... and you are telling me why. I said I thought you would be happy that I talked to him and that I told him that I Didn't like him. She didn't care which I really thought she would. I don't know about her she says that I am her BFF in the whole world and I think she is mine but I really don't know if she really is. Also I am worried about this guy...what should I do?? PLease help~! (link)
Try to tell like a parent or teacher or his parents about that but with the friend if she treats like that they are not a good and loyal friend usually people that treat there "friends" like that arent really friends and they are just using you for somthing
p.s.-if a boy likes you let him like you dont tell him that you only like him as a friend and wanna stay like that because if that happend to you you would maybe be sad and boys feel the same way


okay i need some help pease....(it might be long if thats okay) its about math and English project...

Well ther is this project i am suppose to be doing with 3 of my friends and well that makes the 4 of us. so on of these 4 dose not want to do anything she dose not want to get involed with it and when she comes over she is like well i gatta life i dont want to be doing this project its stubid....So my 2 friends and i did the whole MATH project without her and we put her name on it becasue we had to say who it was from and we put her name on it and she did some of the english the only reason we put her name on there was becasue we did not want her to be like oh they kiked my out of the group n i did everything and stuff like that was that a good thing we put her name on it? should we take her name off i donno what to do. (she is my friend not best but a friend) (link)
Well if she did nothing on it so she doesnt diserve it and if you can tell them teacher that and he would believe you that she didnt do no work


i just got a new rabbit and i have never had one before so i know nothing about them! i know that they have to be kepy in shade but thats about it! i need to know how big the cage should be and what you need in the cage. what do they eat? i am also kinda afraid that everytime i pick it up it will bit me....i guess i think that cause my cat bits me...do rabbits even bit? i guess i pretty much need to know everything about them....so if you have the time, please tell me! thanks! i'll rate! (link)
Rabbitz do bite but i dont think they hurt and they dont bite as much they also need alot of atention and i dont own a rabjit but my friend does and the cage iz kind of big and it has kid of like a junggle gym for a rabbit so u could get it something,like that or if you go to a pet store ask someone the same thing you asked me


okay. there is this kid that really likes me and flirts with me so much its scary lol. and i have a boyfriend. there is this girl that i let ansewr my cell phone once(yea i was playing basketball nd it rang in the middle of the game so i let her answer it.) nd it was my boyfriend. so today, she came into one of my classes nd i was like"yea we have another game tomorrow .. you gona answer my cell again?" so she sed sure. so then i said "hey, there is this kid nd he'll probly call. just flirt with him a little bit" so she was like ohkay yea. come to find out, she has a boyfriend. nd he'd probly be wicked pissed at me if he found out that i asked her to do that. see, i thought she was single. shes really really pretty so i was hopping to hook up her nd the kid that calls my cell. but now im afraid that her b/f's gonna be mad at me cuz he's one of the "popular" guys (popular- i hate that word but there's no better one). so how do i convince her that i was "just joking around" and to not go tell everyone i said that? its kind of like "opening your mouth nd putting your foot in it" (link)
Dear scrwed,
it iz nothing to get mad over because you know that you told her to do it and itz not like she just wanted to
she probaly didnt evan flirt wit him and if she did i dont think she will tell anyone because then maybe her boyfriend would brake up with her and she wouldnt want that to happen


ok, well I just turned 13 not to long ago and I have a boyfriend. But if my parents find out they would kill me. If I'm on the phone with a guy or whatever and my parents ask who I'm talking to I always have to lie and say one of my friends names thats a girl. And if a guy calls me and I don't answer the phone everyone keeps asking me questions about why there calling and stuff. I really love my b/f tho and when i wanna go somewhere with him I have to tell my parents that I'm going sumwhere with my friends. I just wanna be allowed to have a b/f so i can hang out with him all the time and everything without having to have at least one of my friends there. What can I do?

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Well my parents used to be like that but then just tell them and tell them that they can trust you that you dont do nuthing bad


how do u just make a guy go crazy.. and make him fall for you. i know to be yourself.. but what are little extra things that he will just love? any girls who know how to make their boyfriends go crazy?.. or guy.. what turns you on? (link)
boys like stuff they cant have so if yo play hard to get and flirt a little abit thay love that


ok, well i dont want to make this too long so here it goes

my sis 14/f and this 1 kid down the street(eddie)13/m and i are all best friends. but me and my sis are starting to think he likes my sis, he called her his WIT (wife in training)and we thought it was a joke but were now rethinking it. She likes him but she doesnt want to, but then does want to. weve been best friends 4 a long time and she doesnt want to ruin that, i need advice, should she ask him out, or should she leave it alone???plz help (link)
sometimes boys just do that to make gurls get gased and stuff but then if you think he is seriuos just the next time he says that just ask him if he is seriuos about it


I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way. (link)
they use a numb shot that only pinches and it makes it numb so then you cant feel it and then after that you can only eat icesream and soup and i hope it doesnt hurt as much for them and dont worry about it




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