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I want to have a sweet sixteen. I cant have anything big, but i still want a party. What are some good themes? Elaborate please. Btw, my birthday is in novemember.
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For mine I'm having a Hollywood theme. If you can't have anything big you can just have a cookout luau kinda thing, but inside ((november)). If you search the internet for sweet 16 party ideas you can find something close to your interests. Your part doesn't need to be huge or anything to be special. some others are
-hollywood :: stars, costumes, boas, sunglasses, fake awards to give out, etc.
-luau :: hawaiin leis, fruit punch, coconuts, palm trees, monkeys, hula skirts, cocnut bras, bathing suits ((make sure its warm in the house!))
-vegas :: card games [45's, poker, texas hold em, black jack, craps, roullette] and dice games, ((betting with candy or fake chips that award a prize or something soecial at the end maybe?)) red & black decorations
-any decade (90's 80's etc):: antyhing according to the decade
-(girls only kinda) chicks night aka mani & pedi party :: just supply the stuff and have your friends bring stuff and put on a mix cd of your favorite songs and make it a fun chick's night in complete with chocolate, cake, icecream, tons of make up, dress up stuff ((have a fashion show with your friends?)) and ofcourse...The Notebook!! ;-]
Hope I helped, lettme know please.
if those don't interest you lettme know what your into and maybe i can thnk of something.
some of these i made up kinda so dont laugh if their lame. lol =]
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I think I've caught something nasty - where do I go to get it checked out? (link)
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You could go to a teen clinic or any health clinic that's near you. They are confidential mostly, most cost near to nothing. Just look it up for somehwere near you. Go soon too, nasty smell + burning probably = std.
hope I helped.
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I was at a party and I was drunk and an older guy I met there forced me into doing stuff i didn't want to do, the worst part was he wasn't drinking. Im not sure what to do because i don't know whether to confront him about it. I feel like I was raped and I really don't know what to do to get through this. (link)
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This is called rape. You need to report it to someone immediatley so you can persecute while their still is evidence against him. The sooner, the better. You were taken advantage of and he needs to know it wasn't right.
Hope I helped.
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i love to sing and i have a really nice voice. but i cant get over my fear of singing. i want to be in my Spring Musicals and definatley Sing for my 8th grade year at the talent show. i joined chior so that can help and it has. i had a solo to do but it wasnt infront of alot of people. im afraid if i will freeze up infront of tons of people. any ideas on how i can make sure im over it and how to get over it just in case im not. i also sing with my instructor but its easy not singing infront of a little bit of people. so if you have any tips please tell me. i want to do this and not freeze up. (link)
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I was the sameeeeee exact way. And now I'm my town's "Dracut Idol" winner ((like american idol, yeah corny i know.))
Start by just pushing yourself a little more, and have confidence in what your doing. You know your song, and you sing it well. You want to show people what you can do. Let it out. Sing at home, then just sing at school a little more, and try to put yourself out there vocally a little more. Just pure confidence, and just reassure yourself it's not a big deal.
Good luck =]
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My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months. we are pretty much inseperable and are in love. the only thing that i feel hurts our realtionship is how jealous i constantly get.
i always let him know that i get jealous. we plan on moving in together this summer so i know things are going well.
but a week before we met he used to "see" this girl, who we can call jaime. now he and her stopped talking ever since we started dating officially and i trust that. but last month she came in the picture again but just as a "best friend". they havent knonw each other much longer than he and i have, so idk how the best friend name comes about.
anywho - we went to jaime's town and hung out with her. he said she was pretty, but once i saw her i honestly was offended that he would call that pretty. she seemed cool yet a bit immature, and i kind of didnt like her from the start because of jealousy.
now i cant comeout about my jealousy for her because he would just stop talking to her and i would feel like i have him a bit whipped, and dont want that. but she always tries to get with him now that she and her current boyfriend broke up, and she even asks to have threesomes with us because i guess she wants to get with him. it makes me uncomfortable, yet theres nothing i can really say about it. today i found a naked picture of his phone of her, from a while ago when they were "seeing" eachother. but it made me uneasy that he still had it. i know he isnt cheating because im with him everyday and she lives far. i just dont know how to get over the jealousy of jaime because she always tries to get on my good side and get very close with my boyfriend. what should i do/say? (link)
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I went through the exacts same thing with my last boyfriend and his ex's/"bestfriewnds". I would get very jealous too.
I didn't do much about it, but I dropped subtle hints to my ex. I'd say "Oh yeah, well you and so & so seem really close" And he'd tell me "Yeah well, we're just bestfriends." but they didnt hang out at all either. And he had a few of these bestfriends. blah.
I'd just try to keep it in, because if oyu know hes not cheating on you, then there is not point causing unwanted drama. Tell him that you saw that picture, and that he should have deleted it a long time ago, and that it hurt you that he still had it.
Just try not to think bad things, or assume anything.
-hopeIhelped
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Im 14 almost 15 and I havent had my first kiss yet. Is that okay. I understand that a lot of people have had their first kiss like younger or sumthing. Is it okay that I am waiting for that right person. I dont want the guy I have my first kiss with to be all like wow you havent had your first kiss yet and all. Anyway Its okay not to have it yet right??
Thanx I rate High (link)
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It is totally fine, better actually, in my opinion. Don't waste your first kiss, like I did. I got mine when I as I was turning 15. It sucked, because I didn't want him to have it, but he took it anyways!
Well, just wait untill you really like someone. remember, you don't have to be in love just for a kiss.
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ok, where to start?.... ok i met this guy he started working at my job and in the begining i hated him abd wanted nothing to do with him, then he started showing intrest in me but at the same time my best friend too. he ended up asking me out one day and we hit it off. that nigh he had asked me to be his gf! i had said yes and everything was fine we were son into eachother and spending every second with eachother, soon he started throwing how my best friend was more his type and that he wanted to be with her but be with me at the same time! i told my friend that she was not to do anything with him but of course i cant be there 24/7 and i ahd later found out that they had did stuff! so i broke up with him. but i still had all these feelings for him. so about three weeks later he had asked me to be his a again and i accepted, like an idiot!! he started using me for my money and lieing to me but everytime i tried to break it off he would have a really good reason and we would try it again till he would dump me! then the same crap would happen again. like now he dumped me yesterday, cold and blunt just kicked me out of HIS HOUSE! and now im sitting here in pain wanting him back! i dnt know wats wrong with me i have never let any guy use me like this! i have such ddep feelings for him im scared to let him go cause i think he might change! wat do i do! hes gonna call me soon i know it! and im gonna give in help i dnt wanna be in the same position i am now! pls! thankyou (link)
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Oh jeese.
Well, I think you need to realize what kinda guy he is now. Don't think of who you WANT him to be, think of who he really is. That's what I do with guys, I fall in love with this made-up person I wish they could be, when in reality, they are not. Just remember how much he's hurt you, and all the times he's broken up with you, used you, lied to you, cheated on you, and try as hard as you can to realize that he is a loser, and doesn't seem to be changing one bit.
I would blow him off, don't even answer the phone, and try to get over him asap.
Go out and meet nice guys, and think of how much happier you'd be with someone who treats you right.
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i always get swearmarks and they are so embarrasing.. does anyone no how to prevent them or get rid of them or something?
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Certain Dri
It is my savior. It works great. It may sting a little when you use it, but just follow the directions.
You can find a stronger deodorant and antiperspirant too.
Yu can buy it at local pharmacys and stuff, like CVS's.
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i need some ideas as to where to go on dates. and dont say the movies.. thats where i always go & so does everyone else. it gets old & boring after a while. thanks a bunch =] (link)
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-minigolfing
-fun restaurants
-go karts
-random places you see, that look interesting or completely dull, you can make it fun by goofin around and stuff
-carnivals/ local festivals
If I think of anymore I shall be back!
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i have this boyfriend ... but me && him are going to break up soon cause i know its not going to work out` okay well i like this boy && one of my friends like him ALOT && it would just kill this girl if i ever went out with him.. well the boy i like REALLY REALLY likes me && he said he would never go out with the girl whose my friend that likes him cause he doesn't like her. Well i really wanna go out with hm && me and him are really really close.. well i d k what to do ! i wanna go out with him but my friend will probally never talk to me again what should i do ? (link)
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I kinda just went through a VERY VERY similar situation. And now, I am dating that "boy". Well, you and your friend can talk about it, and share eachother's feelings on the situation. If he likes you better, your friend needs to realize that you two could possibly have a future, tell her you value her friendship, but you really want a chance with this guy. If your friend stopped talking to you because of a guy, she's not a good friend.
Talk things out with her before anything happens.
HopeIHelped
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F/13.... Okay me and my friends have a group called the four of us and we love being together and we have wonderful friends and we all ...were... best friends but it doesnt seem the way anymore... because one of us named Jessica has seemed to replace us with 3 other ppl i mean i dont know if she replaced up because she says she doesnt but she doesnt try and talk or hang out with us.. shes like oh your not loosing me and you have to try to and we are and shes ignoring it and me and my friend morgan dont know what to do and now morgans all like oh well im out of the group because of her blah blah blah and idk i dont wanna loose the friendship all of us had and i just dont know what to say or do to help it at all :[ (link)
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I went through the same thing freshman year, going into sophomore year. We had a whole group, and now it's done to about 3-4 of us.
Friends grow apart, people change, and goals are realized. Some people drift away from certain people for one reason or another. It's part of life.
But, you can try including her, or calling her to catch up, or have a sleep over for you 4. Sleepovers seem to connect me and my friends again.
hopeihelped
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thanks your advice helped me and i thought about that to like if he likes me why wont be break up with her and i have asked him but hes like well he mom likes me and trusts me alot i waz like well who do u wanna be wit hes like you i waz like then break up with her hes like i dont wanna hurt her so i dunno wat i sud do (link)
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I deffinetly think that you should try to find someone new who is willing to make sacrifices for you, if your willing to make some for them. This guy sounds like a scumbag, so I'd find someone who treated you better, or atleast cared.
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Ok. So im a sohpmore at my high school and ive been going there since i was a freshmen but this year I dont know I just feel all alone, like I have friends but yet I feel that they've all abonded -speeling i think- me idk I'll be standing in the hallway with them and I'll just feel like they dont see me or im not even there. I get this feeling of emptyness and its so hard it feels like I have no one to turn to I feel like I can be there for my friends but they cant for me its so hard at time I just I feel like I could run away and no one would even notice IDk I guess im asking for advice that I dont even know I can get but any bit of encouagement could help..Id appreciate it thanx! (link)
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These types of feelings occur in everyone.
If your with some friends, just try to include yourself a little more. Ask them things, or add to the conversation.
If you still feel this way in a few days/weeks, talk to a friend about it and explain to them how you don't feel like anyone is there for you. If these feelings occur for about 2 weeks, or more, try telling someone you feel comfortable talking with that you feel alone.
Just try and communicate and I'm sure things will get better.
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how do you make out i have alwasy wondered how! (link)
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When you make out it's just more passionate/or lustful kisses. You just go with the flow, and the two peoples tongues touch, and go inside eachothers mouths. After a while, sometimes you bite eachother's lips playfully (Don't hurt them ofcourse) It's really hard to explain in writing, but it really does just happen when you do it.
-hope i helped a little
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hey! well im not really overweight..i just feel a little chubby. and i usually do anywhere from about 30-60 situps each day..or i try to! its SOOO hard for my to eat healthier tho..really it is :( thats why i dont think i could ever go on a diet..but i decided that i wanted to start running on my treadmile..maybe that will tone my stomache? but how often do you think i have to run and for how long?? or is there anything else i could do by exercising to try and tone my tummy?
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Running doesn't help tone your stomach much, unless you have a machine that lets you incorporate the stomach into running.
To tone your tummy :: Lie on your back and lift your arms above your head and lift your feet about 4-6 inches off the ground. Make sure your lying flat and only your back is touching the floor. Hold this to 10 seconds. Try agian for 15, then 25, 30, etc. These "holds" work great.
And any pilates work out with do good to tone everything.
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hey my names melissa fatato in 14 years old theres this kid chris that im like in love with but he has a girl friend and he likes me but he doesnt wanna break up with her so he wants to cheat on her with me but i cant do that because i would hate it if some one did that to me but i cant stop thinking about him what should i do?!?!
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Well, I think cheating is pretty much one of the most disgusting and disrespectful things.
Ohkay now, If this guy isn't willing to break up with his girlfriend, then obviously he's not worth your time. You can't go on liking someone who is taken, and even if he says he likes you back he might not be serious because he's not willing to be with you. He's not worth your time. And, if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend, what makes you think he won't cheat on you?
-think about it before you do anything, this guy sounds like a scumbag =]
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alright so, me and my bf have been together 2 months. . . im falling in love with him.. you may think oh thats really fast, but then again you cant help who or when you fall in love.. ok but i dont know if he loves me to.. my best friend tells me he does.. that it takes two people. and im scared to say it cuz i dont know what he will say back. . . so what should i do basically (link)
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With my experiences, I would wait longer to make sure everyone's feelings invovled are completely justified, before busting out the L word. You may feel like you love him, but just give it time. I thought I was in love with my ex boyfriend of 4 months, the only problem with saying things, is that they can be taken back. Be careful with what you say, because you/he may not mean them.
I would wait a little while longer, or whenever you feel the moment is right. In the end, it's your heart and your decision
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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends? (link)
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I try too balance it, becuase too much time together is bad, but too much time apart is too. So I try too equal it out.
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I went to my high schools last football game for the season and there i was hanging out wiht my friends ((Guys)) and after half time my friend (ganna give u letters meber guys) E ask me if i wanted to talk a walk and i said yes. We went down to the beach because its right by my school and we were laughing and giggling and stuff... and we kissed(ALOT) there would be no problem with this if i didn't have a b/f and he didn't have a g/f... well that was last friday and today in school my friend Sarah ((a girl)) asked me if i wanted to go out to the movies this afternoon with me her E and my boy J i said yess but after ins tudy hall E asked me if i could make up a lie or something because he didn't want to go because he couldn't see me with J he said it made him to sad.
I feel so BaD! Help what should i do...I love my b/f but how can i make it easier for me to hang out wiht him with out making it feel weird between us??? please!! help me!
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Cheating is dirty.
I think if you really loved this J fellow, or even respected him, you would break it off or atleast tell him what happened with you and this dirty E person.
Cheating is pretty much disgusting...so you shouldn't do it anymore.
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Hi..i performed oral sex to a guy on..friday night but he didn't cum..we didn't use a condom..and today (monday)..i feel like i am sort of about to get a sore throat but i'm not sure..it could just be in my head because i've b een thinking about it. Could this be something i should get checked out, or should i not worry or w/e..and has anyone ever felt like i have after oral sex..? (link)
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You should go to the doctors asap because you could have ghonorea.
Ghonorea makes your throat all sore and it comes from doing stuff like oral sex.
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