Ok. So im a sohpmore at my high school and ive been going there since i was a freshmen but this year I dont know I just feel all alone, like I have friends but yet I feel that they've all abonded -speeling i think- me idk I'll be standing in the hallway with them and I'll just feel like they dont see me or im not even there. I get this feeling of emptyness and its so hard it feels like I have no one to turn to I feel like I can be there for my friends but they cant for me its so hard at time I just I feel like I could run away and no one would even notice IDk I guess im asking for advice that I dont even know I can get but any bit of encouagement could help..Id appreciate it thanx!
If your with some friends, just try to include yourself a little more. Ask them things, or add to the conversation.
If you still feel this way in a few days/weeks, talk to a friend about it and explain to them how you don't feel like anyone is there for you. If these feelings occur for about 2 weeks, or more, try telling someone you feel comfortable talking with that you feel alone.
Just try and communicate and I'm sure things will get better.
arielle answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 8:40 pm: ok this mite sound a little bit weird but if you feel unnoticed just do something outrageous like wear a stupid outfit or do a funny dance in the hallway....i dont think that they've forgotten you but i do think that they are just way to caught up in themselves. i hope i helped and i hope it works out for you.
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NinjaNeer answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 8:30 pm: Don't worry too much... It happens to the best of us. I'm not sure what year sophomore is (I'm Canadian) but I know that in my last year of high school, I lost a lot of my good friends from before, just because we were all figuring out what we wanted to do in the future, and realizing that we were all different people. Try to get out there and meet new people, join activities. You sound like a wonderful, caring person and you should have no problem making friends. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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