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Q: Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?
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yes it is perfectly ok, i think anyways, there is nothing wrong with be a lesbian, i mean so people don't like it but its your decision so do what you want and how you feel inside isn't controlable towards you! so good luck and have fun with either sex!
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Q: Well my best friend is going to move in a bit and well I wont see her that much, well I have a lot of guy friends and I want to become best friends with them.. will people think i am too much of a flirt? Is it ok.. do you think its alright? I mean it shouldnt be a big deal but I am afraid people with think i am a big flirt and stuff if i do that but i have a lot of good guys friends and i wanna be a best friend with one!Tell me what i should do
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well ok hun, its ok to want to be best friends with guys, so what, what other people think about you!! if they are you friends then screw what anyone else thinks! i have tons of guy friends! and yeah some people told me that i was a flirt, but they are just my friends and yeah sure your going to flirt with them sometimes, but who doesn't do that right? so just have fun and be yourself with your guy friends!!
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Q: i have a gigantic crush (not love) on this guy. but i know nothing will come out of it. i don't want to like him, but my heart is leading my head right now. how do i stop liking him?
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well ok, you just can't make yourself decide that your not going to like someone all of a sudden! you have to give it some time, and just try to not think about it anymore, make youself believe that you have no future with this guy, and it might take a while and it will be painfull but you just have to say no to yourself, and thats the only way to get rid of your crush
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Q: tomorrow i am babysitting my little cousins ALL day. i've babysat kids before, but not babies. I am babysitting for Kaylee, who is 5, and Reilly who is 10 months. i just need some tips on changing diapers, bottles, how to handle crying, all that stuff. because i dont want to ask and sound stupid. please tell me everything you know. thanks
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ok well i have had two younger siblings that i had to take care of all the time, and ok about the crying thing basically just hold them and rock them and try to give the baby a bottle, and after you are done heating it up make sure you squirt some on your wrist to make sure its not to hot,(your wrist is the most sensitive place) and then try that, and if that isn't whats wrong then try to change the diapper, which won't be too offle hard...and then when you go to put her to bed just sit there and talk to her softly or rock her to sleep and sing to her, i know it sounds dumb but it works, and if you ask your aunt if she reads to her, then you can do that too, well have fun!! and goodluck!
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Q: ok well i have this one friend and she used to get high and drunk and all that and she was really suicidal. i mean she was in the hospital for like 2 weeks. and then i had to talk her out of it again. but then she went edge and didnt do it at all and punched one of the kids who tryed to get her to. but now shes doing it again and its really scaring me. i mean she lives about an hour away from me so i cant really keep an eye on her or anything. and i dont see her much either but we used to be best friends and now were just good friends i guess. i dont like it when she does this but i cant stop her. i dont know what to tell her so she understands how i feel about this. please help!
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hey hun! ok well i already told you what i think you should do, but like i said before talk to someone who lives close by her and tell them to just keep a close eye on her for a while, and try to get it through her head that what she is doing is very very bad for her, well you know the rest, make sure you tell me what happened...and good luck with it, ttyl sometime online, or ill see ya laborday weekend, luv yaz byebyez
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Q: My best friend and I have known each other for a few years. Since we started high school, however, she has become really needy. She will "like" a guy but she won't do anything about it..then she'll blame them for not asking her out. It becomes the focus of her life and she gets really depressed if the guy doesn't 'pay her enough attention'. I've tried telling her that guys aren't the only thing in life and that her friends love her, etc..but she wont believe it and just uses it to show how 'unloved' and 'unlistened to' she is. What do I do? I don't want to end the friendship, but I'm tired of feeling used.
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i think you should tell her that she needs to stop acting this way, and tell her that you are going to leave her alone for a week or two and not talk to her and let her think about this, and tell her that she needs to understand what you are trying to say to her, and if she cant then you aren't going to be the one to help her every single time with all of the guys that you like, because thats not fair to you!
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Q: I just started school, and I'm a sophmore. Last year I had a boyfriend all year and I was with him every day during lunch and when we changed classes. Now we're broken up and I feel so out of place. I mean I still have my friends and stuff...just bieng with them makes me feel so out of place and I don't know how to act. I know I should just be myself...but I don't know. I feel so uncomfortable, what should I do?
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hey, wow that is exactly how i feel too!! my bf broke up with me over the summer and i haven't started school yet, but when i am gonna be around him it is going to be very weird, but i guess if you still like him....then you should try to just keep up with being friends, and talk all the time and just stay close, thats what me and my ex are doing and we are just fine! it might be hard but you will be ok eventually!! good luck! lets see how both of us turn out!!
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Q: My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(
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ok well just to be safe tell him that you guys are going to use condoms!! and if he says no then don't have sex anymore! because you don't want to take the risk of getting pregnant!! so just use protection and be safe instead of not! please take my advice!
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Q: Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...
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ok well you should flirt alot! and yeah go ahead make a move! if your waiting for the guy to make the move, well he pobably wont because thats just the way guys are....they are always waiting for us...which is stupid i think, but hey thats the way it goes! lol so yeah just flirt with him, when me and my friend liked the same guy we told each other and we decided that if he liked only one of us the other couldn't get mad about it, cuz it was the guys decision not ours...if ya get that at all, well just take my advice and good luck hun!
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Q: I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work.
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ok well then try to avoid her, like leave your house sometimes and just go for walks and stuff or bike rides, and try as hard as you can to go to other friends house instead of them coming to your house, and try talking to your mom about it and tell her that your getting older and you really need your privacy and stuff so then maybe she can help keep your sister out of your life a lil bit more...hope i helped if all else fails just act mean to her and then she might leave you alone....or be really boring around her that makes my little brother wanna not hang around if we're boring...lol good luck!
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Q: ok well when you have your advice column how do you get it to show all of the questions that you answered cuz it only shows that i have done 5 but i have done 12...hope ya can help thanks!
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Q: well i know this kid right and he toches his stuffed animals and then one day he said that he started to touch a colcate covered banna and i started to freak out and kinda enjoy the convo and then i started to do it and now i am touching my stuffed animal snak and i am wireded out um i also enjoy toucing the banna ca u help me
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ok well dearest, i think what you should do, is tell your friend to stay the fuck away from you and not put these thoughts and ideas into your head anymore, because if he keeps doing this then you might turn out to be like some crazy gay guy or something, which i guess is ok, but i personally thing you should take all of the animals out of your house, and stay far away from chocolate and bannanas for a long time...
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Q: Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please!
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well this is what you need to do, you need to tell him how you feel but say that you need to talk to your friend first, and then if your best friend really cares about you, then i think she will let you date him, because she should understand how you feel about this boy and if not then thats her fault but you should go for it girl!
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Q: i have a huge taco how do i make it bigger should i use vigagr
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uuuhhh sorry i can't help you with that, one....hope ya have fun with that problem though
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Q: how do u stop adam moore from raping you
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well you should just go with it, because who wants to rape someone who is willing right? and besides who wouldn't want to get raped by adam moore??? lol haha goodluck
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Q: does anyone know how to get bad scratches out of playstaytion 2 games thanks
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actually andrew, i just happen to know.....take some plain white toothpaste!!! and then put it on a wash cloth and spread it over the scrathes, (make sure it is plain white) and then take a wet paper towel and wipe it off, and it should be better, ttyl byebyez~!
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Q: if you like a girl and she is goin out with someone what should i do
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well i see what your dealing with, cuz i went through the same thing, so what you should do is talk to the girl about it, and tell her how strong your feeling, and then you should hang out with her all the time, to make her try to like you too, cuz when you are really nice and around people for a long time then you will grow on them and begin to like them more so....good luck!
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Q: ok i used to go out with this guy but we didnt really do anything so we broke up and plus i dont think he liked me anymore and i didnt think i liked him but now that were back @ school everytime i see him i get really really nervous but i still like him as a friend what can i do not to act so nervous around him?
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alright well, you could do one of two things, either just stay away from him for a while, or you could just try really hard to be yourself around him and just act goofy and nice and don't freak out everytime you see him!!! well good luck! youll be fine!
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Q: I want to be popular. Case closed. I know some people think its not the most important thing. But I need it. I crave it. I have to have it or I'll go crazy. I need tips! I am kind of shy, alright pretty, not too rich, not too poor. I'd like TIPS... not "popularity isnt everything..." "popularity sucks..." "Just be yourslef..." I am myself, but I want to me myself and be popular. I just need some tips please!
I'll rate good!
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alright, so this is probably what you want to hear, so here goes my best shot! ok well try getting a new style of clothing something more viberant and colorfull, and then go to the saloon and get a new hair style, then when you were at school just be realy nice to everyone, especially the popular people, get into the things that they are in and compliment them, and just be an all around nice person to everyone! even the people who are called "outcasts" and then everyone will like you!! hope i helped, please rate me! thanks!
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Q: what is the best prescription treatment for acne
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well i actually use proactive and it works wonders for me!! so i recomend that you try that, it might be costly but it really works!! just keep up with it! good luck!
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bio
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so im katie, my friends call me kate or kt uhm i dance alot, im loud and outgoing always on the go. im 5'3" and i have black hair underneath and red hair on top....its fun to be different and i hate being with the "in" crowd...they make me mad. im always drivin around in my ford aspire. which is real fun!! ask me whatever u'd like...i'd love to help u all!
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: albany Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 23, 2004 Answers: 42 Last Update: March 2, 2006 Visitors: 3850
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