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well theres this guy...and he really likes me..and i really like him, but he doesnt think that i like him..and ill tell him that i do or something and he'll just be like yeah right ..your too good for me or something gay like that..what should i do? (link)
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He likes you, you like him, he doesnt think you like him. Typical. (
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Do you know where and how u put music into a xanga? (link)
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their are many websites. I get mine from www.videocodes4u.com but if you cant find the music video you want (they do have a lot though) do a google search for music video codes. if you are looking for a specific song or artist you can include that in your search. hope i helped. xo
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Okay my boyfriend is SO pissed off at me. He got so mad at me and he said he wasnt mad anymore but then he was lyk "FUCK U!" n hung up on me =(...what should i do? Im NOT gonna dump him because thats stupid...i love him and i wanna make this work. What should i do to make it up to him? IM me on oOPassion kissez if you need the full story. Thanks.. (link)
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honestly, if he continues to be a butthead, dump him. i know you dont want to, and you think you love him, so try and find a way to make it work. but it might not work...or not the way you planned. verbal abuse (yer stupid, idiot, ugly...anything offensive) and/or extreme jerkiness are all signs of abuse. So, be careful. A large precent of teen and women deaths are because of abuse from their bfs/gfs. My advice is to talk to him about. Dont straight up tell him he's being a jerk, that will only make him angrier. Some people over-react, so calmly and subtly ask him if anythings wrong or if hes been stressed. Be as comforting as you can. If he EVER ever lays a hand on you (violent way...or sexual way, if your not ready) say goodbye immediatly, and ugh, i sound like an adult but, tell a trusted adult. Its really good advice. (everyone uses it) If your not happy with him, he's a waste of time. I am not trying to turn you against your boyfriend or anything though, he amy just be having a hard time. So you need to talk about things first. But, please keep an open mind to all possibilities. I dont want anyone getting hurt. xo.
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hey my name is krista and i was wondering, do u pay for your xanga?(do u have premium?) (link)
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nope. i use the free one and you still can do a lot of things without paying all that money!
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hey u prolly kno hu this is i just have one question. theres sumone i like and i asked them out onn email but i havent had any reply. wat should i do??? ask her out at skool??? (link)
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yea, you should try at school, but just because you think its meant to be, doesnt mean she thinks the same way... *hint*
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my kid hates me what do i do they are turnin rebelous help! (link)
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as a kid, i will tell you what our view is. Your kids dont hate you, they just act like they do and/or say they do. They are not afraid of hurting your feelings because the love you, and they know you will always love them back. They may be turning rebellious because they feel you dont understand, and the more you try to stop them from doing things without a reason that seems good to them, the more there going to want to do it. Its a kid thing. Well...i hope i helped
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OMG! I LOVE YOU WEBPAGE! How did you get that picture to be your backround? (link)
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My advice column or my xanga? For my advice columnn I did a google image search. then i found this picture and i wanted it to be my background, so i put the link of the "full size image" in the background image URL place in column settings area. For my xanga I found it on www.blogring.net and put the code in the edit custom html section. I hope I helped you!
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i dont need advice or have a question im just sayin sup (link)
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okay...hi? lol
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there is a guy that i think im in love with but he has a girl friend and he is older than me i dont think he likes me at all what should i do? (link)
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Well, he has a girlfriend right now, so he is unavaiable (sp?) Dont try to get him to make any moves with yuo, that just shows you, if he plays he gf now, if your ever his girlfriend, he can play you too! I say flirt, not heavy flirting, but subtle flriting. This way, you cant get him or yourself in trouble with his girlfriend (because you may want him, but you dont wanna mess up what he has, because even if they break up, he sitll might not ask you out) I guaruntee you sonner or later they will break up, and then be sympathetic and kinda flirty, when you know he is DEF. over her, then you give him heavy hints For now small hints and compliments will do you just fine! About the age difference, in my opinion 1-2 years is acceptable as a teen, 3 years maybe. but more than that i think stretches it. If he is older, he has probably done more, and has had more expierence. You dont want to do things over your age level to make him happy, or do things you arent ready for. NEVER let someone pressure you into doing something your not ready for. Also, the ammount of years between your ages is different depending on your age. You dont wanna be a 13 year old going out with a 16 year old. The older you get, the more the age limit is flexible. Whatever you do, dont mess around with him, especially since he has a girlfriend. You DONT want to be labeled a slut. Flirting if fine, but there is a fine line between flirting...and well...more than flirting. I hope I helped!
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Hey,Erica,Im having a little problem. How do i contain my composer (aka attitude)while playing sports. Cause i get mad easily (link)
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It sounds like your a little competitive. Try to calm down and tell yourself its not about winning or losing, its about having fun. I am not a huge sports person, or a competitive person...so i am trying to tell you to look at it in a way like i do when i do play sports. Just do it because you love it, not to win. Just take a deep breath, and play with your team and have fun. Yea,sure, the whole point is to beat the other team, but dont blow up on the team! I dont know if it will work...but i hope i helped!
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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary. (link)
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Try to talk to people at places other than class. (since you dont like them) Your a smart girl to be in honor classes, use your smarts for other reasons too! Start complimenting people and starting small-talk conversations. Mainly, just be yourself. Whatever you do, NEVER change yourself to make friends. Not only will it not work, if it does they wont like you for you, and you will be comletly miserable! JUst be friendly, but not overly friendly. People like that kinda scare people. Ask some nice-looking people if you can eat lunch with them. I hope i helped!
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ok so i was at a basketball game and i was standing behide my crush and i was with all my friends and these other guys. i was talking fine with all the guys i even met new guys(and im fine with them) but theres just something when im about to go and talk to him im just to scared to go and talk to him i get really nervous when im close to him. and the thing is he knows who i am but i really havnt talked to him. (link)
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congratulations: you just won your first expeirence of adolescence love! Sometimes its fun, sometimes its miserable, sometimes its just plain confusing. Usually, these type of things go away eventually, or you finally score him. Then, your feelings may change. But it is very unlikely that your first REAL crush will be your soul mate and true love (i am soo sorry about that!) What you need to do is just try to be outgoing, when your nervous and you try to be overly outgoing the nervousness and outgoingness usually even out to a perfect attitude! I dont neccesarily believe in girls making first moves, so just hint him on, flirt with him, but dont flirt with his friends whatever you do! It will give him mixed signals. If you feel you really, REALLY need help, buy a copy of flirtology or some other book that helps you deal with boys. I hope i was help!
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okay, one of my kinda close guy friends [who likes me more than a friend] bought me a necklace for xmas... the thing is, he "forgot" to take off the price tag which was stuck on underneath the box.. it was $129.. the price tag was also inside the box kinda hidden under the necklace plate. obviously he wanted me to see how much it costed? lol what do u guyz think? (link)
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i dont think he wanted you to see. a lot of guys dont looks underneath where the price tag is located, lol, crazy i know, but they just dont think like that. But, you know, maybe he did want you to see it, but, honestly, i doubt that. Just feel blessed that someone cares enough about you to give you that, thats outside of the family, of course! Give him a big hug and a thank you! A friendly hug, of course, so he doesnt get the wrong idea!
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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments (link)
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They are stretch marks. Having stretch marks doesnt mean you gained to much wait or your fat, it can simply mean you are growing. Stretch marks are a very common things for girls when they are growing, so dont worry about it. My advice is to just eat healthily and use coco butter or some natural type of lotion. Products like that supposedly help stretch marks go away! I hope I helped!
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Ok i moved 2 months ago into an apt so I can build a house. But my dad is getting on my last nerves. Hes really my step dad. I even asked my mom to let me find my real dad and let me move with him. I am sooo sick and tired. I am gonna run away if it dont stop. Plus he makes fun of all my poor friends. I hate him. I have a friend whos mom isnt the best and he just talks and talks terrible. I am really skinnby and when I eat alot he will yell the name of my fat friends. Hes a hippocrite!!!!. I am so so so tired of him!!
what do I do?????????
please help1 I will give you a 5. Please I am desprate in need! (link)
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Okay, this guy seems like BIG jerk! If you are really getting annoyed at him, your need to discuss matters with your mom. If you tell her EXACTLY whats on your mind, I am sure she will understand. I mean, whats to lose? You might as well meet your real dad. Maybe, you could even confront your stepdad and tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable when he makes fun of your friends, or such things. My family has had some bumpy moments too... we havent always been happy with eachother or eachothers friends. You need to do whats right for YOU! If you spend your whole life not doing anything becuz you arent allowed, or it wouldnt make anyone but you happy, you wont be able to do anything for yourself! If your mom still disagrees with you meeting your dad, ask for an explanation why. Who knows, your mom may have a calling for men like your stepdad, and wouldnt feel comfortable with you living with your dad without her. If she doesnt tell you, or says "oh, idk" subtly ask for clues in reseerch...whats his last name? his moms maiden name? and such questions that would help you in a search for him. But you have to consider ALL possibilities of your father! I hope I helped!
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My mom and I got into a fight last night because i was sick and she didnt want to take me to the doctor. my friend is having a party tomorrow night and i really want to go but my mom says im grounded just because i confronted her with the fact that she is the ONLY one allowed to be sick! He is my next door neighbor and i think i should go anyways! She cant show her butt or we will get kicked out and if she tries to hit me she knows i will call the cops because i have before. Its not fair that because she was in the wrong I cant go. What do you think? I need advice, do i go or not? (link)
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If your mom hits you, that is totally wrong. Thats child abuse! Also, its just wrong that she wont allow anyone else to be sick! It looks like your mom needs to grow up a little. because that is VERY immature. I honestly probably would not have the guts to go anyways....but if you feel like being rebelious...go ahead!It COULD end up you getting hurt again and loosing your mom...but there are going to be a lot of choices like that that your going to have to make. I'm really sorry that this one has such a great impact in your life. I hope I was help.
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