there is a guy that i think im in love with but he has a girl friend and he is older than me i dont think he likes me at all what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? omggitserica answered Monday December 27 2004, 9:50 pm: Well, he has a girlfriend right now, so he is unavaiable (sp?) Dont try to get him to make any moves with yuo, that just shows you, if he plays he gf now, if your ever his girlfriend, he can play you too! I say flirt, not heavy flirting, but subtle flriting. This way, you cant get him or yourself in trouble with his girlfriend (because you may want him, but you dont wanna mess up what he has, because even if they break up, he sitll might not ask you out) I guaruntee you sonner or later they will break up, and then be sympathetic and kinda flirty, when you know he is DEF. over her, then you give him heavy hints For now small hints and compliments will do you just fine! About the age difference, in my opinion 1-2 years is acceptable as a teen, 3 years maybe. but more than that i think stretches it. If he is older, he has probably done more, and has had more expierence. You dont want to do things over your age level to make him happy, or do things you arent ready for. NEVER let someone pressure you into doing something your not ready for. Also, the ammount of years between your ages is different depending on your age. You dont wanna be a 13 year old going out with a 16 year old. The older you get, the more the age limit is flexible. Whatever you do, dont mess around with him, especially since he has a girlfriend. You DONT want to be labeled a slut. Flirting if fine, but there is a fine line between flirting...and well...more than flirting. I hope I helped! [ omggitserica's advice column | Ask omggitserica A Question ]
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