i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. before we actually started he pulled out 4 times before using a condom and im completely losing it. should i be scared? he said he didn't bust so it didnt matter...but im still paranoyed. im 3 months shy of 18 and i think thats the legal age for the day after pill but where can i send someone to get it for me and how much.
be worried- the pull out method IS NOT A METHOD- IT DOES NOT WORKKK!!!! and your chances of being pregnate and just as high as if you wouldn't have used a condom at all- go see a doctor! they wotn give the the day after pill without going to the doctor!
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ok so i'm going to be a sophmore and we're currently making our schedules for next year.
first question: i'm in frnech 1 and am planning on taking french 2 but the teacher isn't good. like she teaches us words but not how to put them into sentences and stuff and i'm not learning anything really. so is it ok to take like 2 years of french and then two years of chinese? like is that good for colleges or should i stick with french?
another thing what types of after school activities and such look good or college?
collages prefere 3 or more ususaly..
and how often are you erally going to use CHINESE?
ohh- and teh first year of a language.. you learn verbs, and nouns.
the second year you start learning how to put sentences together.. more gramatical stuff which carries out into your 3rd year..
your fourth year is more of just advancing your language, and becomming fluent.
and its always good to take some sort of art either music or an acualy art class as well as some computer or business education courses.
goodluck.
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I'm making a big valentine's day card out of posterboard for my boyfriend. I just dont exactly know what to put on it. I have what i want to write on the inside, i just dont know what to do on the front.....any ideas?
also any ideas of what else to get for him for my boyfreind? we've been dating for a little under a year
a collage of pictures of you two would be great!
look up "children valentine cards"
or better yet- "home made valentine cards"
there's some REALLY CUTE ideas online!
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ok i have celleair 1 if i took the sim out of the phone to put in to a virzing wireless phone well it work?
no - it wont work & if you try it.. and you try to enter a code.. you'll make your SIM card self distruct.
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Hi um i was wondering i have a winter formal coming up and i have natural curly hair and we cant get an appointment for a hairstylest so does any one have any ideas what hair style i should use cause i have to do it myself
I LOVE CURLY HAIR STYLES LIKE THIS.
It's so easy for someone with naturaly curly hair to do a pretty hair style..that most would spend HOURS PERFECTING
ok- wash your hair regularly (well- when you take your shower. lol) then apply some anti friz stuff.. and if you use something to seperate the curls..but do nottt brush or comb or anyhting your hair.
flip your hair DOWN while applying this. then flip it up and part it & run the blow dryer through it.. but don't use anything but your fingers.. do not run anything through your hair though.. sitll.. including your fingers..
ok- next pull the top half of your hair back..and hold it up with bobby pins, or a fashionable clip.
then.. pull down some hair by your ears so taht you have some cute curls..
if your curls are a little off- that's ok.. natural curls look amazin gon naturaly curly hair.. if you run a curling iron through your hair.. it'll just make it look silly. :D
thennn- do bangs, or anything you wish..although a simple elegent look would be just 2 peices of hair.. btu idk what you rhair type is like..
and thenn- sprinkle some glitter/powder glitter over it.. :D
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im 16 and looking for a job but i dont know what place will hire me do you know place would hire 16 years old? i never worked before and im planning to work on weekends, and summer and it should be around hayward-union city thanks and how much they pay me thanks!
and im thinking ill have 2 jobs in summer one on weekdays and one on weekends do you think its okay?
at 16 you are aloud to work
try places ilke pizza hut, sparkle, rite aid, pizza joes, and local places like that
goodluck
&& no one can telly ou how much they pay you.. it alld epends on when you work, and what your job is..
and you can only work 15 hours a week because you're 16.. well- atleast that's what its like in ohio.. idk about other states..
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I bought this maybeline transparent mascara and i was wondering, you dont' have to wash it out do you? it won't harm you or anything?
I never wore make up before but i only bought this. I know that you're supposed to wash off your make up but this si transparent and I wore it for an hour now And nothign really came out on a peice of paper because it's transparent..
good morning!
ok- so i've used this before.. exact kind.
and just like any other mascara.. after waering it for a while.. it can iritate your eyes.. causing for a not so fun day..and even thuogh this makeup is pretty freakin' cool and doesn't flake off or rub off.. still wash hyour face everynight before you go to bed..and apply a new coat in the morning ( which- you really should wash your face everynight anyways)
hope i helped!
bye!
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this is kind of random but is this going to be like another depression for the economy? my dad said the stock market is crashing which isn't really good because he's a stock broker
I honestly don't think so.
yes- teh stock is going down
and our idiot govenemtn doesn't know why.
they're planning on lowering taxes temporarly to stop decline..
but there's to stupid to realize that GAS prices are causing the problems
in the winter months- it seems to cost more and more to heat homes..and drive anywhere- well, it is
and that causes EVERYTHIGN to rise.
and income isn't rising with the standard of living.
don't freak out- eerything will be fine..
and relaly ? a stock broker?
i've never met one more! how cool!
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ok well, whenever i think back to my childhood, it seems like i see myself, as if i were someone looking in on the situation, and not experiencing it. Like when i remember this one specific point of when i broke my leg -at about 5/6 years old, i had a cast on- i see myself walking in a blue t-shirt towards the door. Or at school when i was young, me sitting on the computer, not myself looking at the computer screen. why is this? is it a psycological thing?
I don't know .. but i do the same thign.
i never thought o fit really..until now.
sorry i couldn't help more!
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i wanna know how you make like a porch, but it being on ground. Like for a one story house. I cant seem to figure it out. thanks!=D
Hi :D first, you need to make to "A's" that teh tops are connected by a metal 90' angle that will fassen them toegeht
once both A's are together
A--A do you see it in the picture? put another peice of wood across teh top, you know.. 2x4's work.
adn then.. attach strong hooks on the 2x4 connecting teh 2 "A's" together,and hang strongggg chain and use something such as this..
http://www.defender.com/product.jsp?path=-1|10391|32295|321087&id=117793
(my father built his this way!)
to connect the bench to the chain.
goodluck!
here's a good picture to get the idea..
http://www.swingplans.com/a-frame.html
i wouldn't lean the "A's" in though.
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Soo, im 14/f, and ive been a cheerleader my whole life...when i say my whole life, i mean basically forever. im getting ready to go into my freshman year in highschool, and i really want to cheer. it just so happens that the squad for that highschool needs two more members from the 8th grade at my school for a competition. my best friend is trying out and really wants me to do it, but the problem is that the cheerleaders for that highschool have a really, really bad reputation. if i try out tomorrow, its just for that one competition spot, and it doesnt do anything towards trying out for the actual squad next year,, im also getting ready to do volleyball and cheer for my school at the same time, so i wont have a social life at all to spend with my highschool boyfriend..i dont get to see him enough as it is. so sorry for the length and detail,, but im in desperate need of help.
Do it if YOU want to do it.
don't worry about the repuation.
if it'll make you a better cheerleader,and its somethign you'd enjoy then do it.
and prove every person that gives them a bad repuation wrong, by being the same person you are righ tnow.
goodluck.
follow your heart hun.
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Ok, so my name is Mandy and my boyfriend is Evan (not our real names). We've been going out for two years, so everyone knows we're like the "class sweethearts". But anyway...
Today in science I was flipping though my book (which stays in the desk and is used by whoever sits there each period), and on one page someone had written: "I love Evan Smith - and I'm not Mandy!" And then someone else wrote below it: "Me too! And I'm not Mandy either!"
Arggh! It made me soooo mad! So I wrote: "I love him too! and I AM Mandy!" (but then i crossed it out because I thought that sounded kinda rude, like haha I'm going out with him and you're not).
But anyway, I cant stop thinking about it. I mean, I know a lot of girls think my bf is cute and funny, and some probably have crushes on him... but they actually LOVE him?? Enough to write it in a book for anyone to see?? And what are the odds of it being two people who sit in the same seat (and MY seat, at that)? That must mean half the school is in love with him!
Now I know he really loves me, so I shouldn't let this bother me so much... but it really does. Because now I'm thinking that everyone I pass in the hall is secretly in love with my boyfriend, and behind their fake smile they're really glaring at me with jealousy. And I hate feeling so paranoid and suspicious! Ugghh.. what can I do to stop feeling so upset about this?
By taking this into consideration::
some stupid rude girls most likley KNEW you sat there,and did it, just to be bitches.
so.. don't let it bother you, at all.
seriously, don't let them win.
let them be jealous
they should be, right?
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14/f
My b/f and i have been dating for a year and about 3-4 monthes. im trying to pick a christmas present out for him. But im not sure what hell like.
I want to kind of get something like a dog tag or praying hands pendants.And a chain.
So can some one give me theyre opinion please! I am so grateful to those who answer.
Here are the links to see my choices:
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=9079
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=10025&srccd=OTC-mercpricegrabber&mr:referralID=3fe6cc08-d5ac-4cc3-8f3c-b50f74296aee
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=9895
http://www.seaofdiamonds.com/item.asp?invky=1624109&zmam=9874632&zmas=1&zmac=26&zmap=116-1093&id=shop
http://www.applefielddirect.com/adj_catalog.cgi?dmt=on&tt=2173&mt=11094&mm=73475&mc=F071128
http://ireligiousjewelry.com/r16352ys273223.html
http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.aspx?deptid=11848&catid=31237&grptyp=PRD&itemid=12ae434&dep=Jewelry&pcat=Men%27s+Jewelry&cat=Sterling+Silver&refpagename=CategoryAll%252Easpx&refdeptid=11848&refcatid=30052&cmAMS_T=U3&cmAMS_C=C1&CmCatId=11848|30052
Not this exact chain,but one that is 34 inches long and cheaper.
I've got a 200$ and under price limit.
I want it to be something special and memorable,like if we break up-hell look back one day and say that girl was something special,-- that sorta thing.
I'll take ideas too!! Maybe if its under my price ill get him something to go with it.
i think thi si sthe best..
http://www.limogesjewelry.com/Custom.asp?productid=9895
then get something cute
like if yo have a joke or something
(example; my boyfriend have a joke that there's "Stars onteh cieling" [long story], anyways so i am gonna get him smoething he really wants.. + those glow-in-the dark stars that you stick too the ceiling.haha :D, sos think of osmething cute, and original)
have fun:d
oh, and if you can't think of something lese..
throw that thing in a cute box in a holiday bag..& at the bottom have a box with hotchocolate, marshmellows, a 5$ thing to go to like, a local coffe places adn stuff like that :D
remember..have fun!
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I'm buyin all my Christmas presents on eBay this year.
However, my account is kinda low, and I only have about 200 dollars. I'm planning on spending about 250, so I'll be going a little bit over.
Is it possible to spend over, or do they make you stop? THANKS
They make you stop.. its likea bank card.
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My boyfriend of a little over one month is Jewish, and I don't know how they do presents or anything. Could someone please tell me when I should give him something. Also, any advice on what would be appropriate to give him would be nice. He has a lot of stuff already, so I would like to do something cute and original but not too deep since it's only a month. Thank you!
So.. say that it would be nice to learn about Hanukkah since i'm guessing you celebrate Christmas?
as him about his traditions and such
and then exchange.
it'll be cute, and make your bond grow stronger.
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I know you girls love guys and...
I know their has been this myth going around that asian guys can't get white girls..which is not true,since I'm asian and have a white gf,but I want to know what you girls think
Question1: Would you date an asian guy? considering he has good looks and personality
Question2:Have you ever liked an asian guy?
Question3:Would you marry an asian guy?
Question4:Where does the asian guy stand among the whites,latinos and blacks?Your preference?
Example:Black>White>etc.etc
thank you
i think asians are cuteee.
i know a girl who is in love with them.
really, looks don't matter.
and if i had to choose, i'd choose white or asian.
:D i bet you're a cutie, so don't wonder to much.
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The guy I like says he has the same feelings about me. He tells me he loves me & all of that. Funny thing is he does not want a relationship. He always talks to me, is concerned with what I'm doing, basically anything a bf would do, but since I live in CA & he lives in Washington, he does not want one, yet his feelings are the same. What would you guys do?? Any advice??
my advice:
Long distance are HARD HARD HARD. and to make it work, both people havE to be FULLY dedicated to it.
since he's not.. don't push it. you'll end up getting hurt worse than just staying friends.
whats ment to be will find its way.
my mum always says that
*hug* goodluck.
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My bf and I have just started getting closer. He tells me he really loves me and I believe him. We spend so much time together. I feel comfortable with him, so when we make out I let him feel me up sometimes, but I don't what I can do back. I don't what to get too, sexual or anything, but is there anything else I can do to make it more exciting?
Lets be honest here, the reason you want ot make it more exciting is becuase you're bored.
better yet, you were bored with making out,a nd that's why the feeling started happening.
so, now you wnat to do other stuff.
everything will get boring eventualy.a nd then it progressses..
so.. don't, if you dont want to get into anything "too sexual" as yuo dsid.
since you guys really love eachother , you can wait..until later, marraige, etc.
goodluck.
(:
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ok...i have a few questions. how safe are condoms? like whats the percentage you could get pregnant.
where do you get morning after pills from? and how long after sex should you take them, how many ect...
if you have sex and dont know your pregnant, could you take them anyway? will they harm you if your not pregnant? do you only take them once or is it like a few days thing? are they 100% gaurenteed to get rid of the baby? and what actually happens. does it just get everything out? and are there sideaffects?
thankyou so much xxx
lets be honest here, no one knows these answerss.
a lot of teens don't even understand teh importance of having safe sex.
so really, don't ask questions on here
and don't look them up online
WRONG FACTS ARE JUST AS DANGEROUS AS NOT HAVING ANY AT ALL!
call a hotline or talk to a health teacher, nurse, or parents.
please don't just.. ask online. - be safe, find out.
if you're mature enough to have sex, you are mature enough to find out the RIGHT facts, in person.
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I just recently started going tanning and i've gotten pretty tan. But my face and neck like won't tan. but the rest of my body is extremely tan. My shoulders are like in between tan and not.
What can I do to tan my face and neck? Or how can i fix it?
right now i'm just making my face look tanner with makeup like brozer or whatever. so yeahhh
your face is always in teh sunlight.
night or dark, rays are touching your face.
so, that is natural
that happens to EVERYONE.
DONT waer makeup in the tanning bed, try to stay in longer, and find tanners that are MADE FOR YOUR FACE, but they might dry your skin out.
better yet, ask someone who works there.. what you can do to tan up your face because your shoulders can use any tanner, but your face is very diffrently.
ps. i had to use just darker makeup also.. but i really do think not wearing makeup makes a HUGE diffrence.
(: byeee.
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