I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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13/f Hi everyone! Lately my hamster has been drinking a TON of water.... Is that a bad thing? Could he be sick? Ps my hamster is a long haired hamster or teddy bear (link)
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its actually a good thing, hamsters exercise a lot and this is why he's drinking all the water
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hi nikz i need your help there is a guy at school [ also im 11] that i like a lot he is 12 and we to same afterschools as well so i see him everyday . He knows i like him all because of my stupid classmates . how do i make him like me . Help me please im really desperate for help ....... (link)
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well you see its going to be a bit difficult now considering the whole class knows and its kind of embarassing for him. The key here is patience dear, you see him everyday so that's a good thing, you need to start of being friends with him, let him get to know you personally and he'll do the rest from there. Then when you two are comfortable with with each other you can raise the question, ask him what he likes in a girl and if he would ever consider dating a friend. Right now you can't expect him to like you immediately, but it will be a lot more easier for you because he already knows that you like him. Once you are friends with him, inbox me and i'll let you know how to go about doing it
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My husband went to USA 5 months back,i miss him terribly and living without him is a hell.For some reasons , I cant get my visa.can you help me in my suicide ? I do not have any friends , all I have is internet to suggest which pill can certainly take away my life. please,i beg of u. (link)
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I really don't like the way you're thinking hun, you've been blessed with a life which you can do so much with have so many opportunities. How do you think your boyfriend will feel if he finds out you are trying to take your life away? How would you feel if your boyfriend wanted to take his life away? Start a hobby, go out, socialize, get a new haircut, try some new lipstick and make yourself feel good, I'm sure this is a difficult time for you, but this too shall pass, this is a rough patch in your life that you will get over with in time, I guarantee you and when it does, think of me
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I have a boyfriend that i have been with for a year, but he has always been controlling and i went out with him shortly after i got out of a 2 year relationship. Throughout the relationship i am in right now my mind has always went back to the other relationship. It ended so randomly. It has been so hard to deal with the whole time. I'm sure people will just say stay with the bf you have ,but honeslty i don't want to be stuck with him for the rest of my life.I wouldn't get in a relationship right after but i really want to be with the guy from the past. It's hard to explain, sorry this is so confusing. I just need help now. (link)
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I think what's happened here is that you used your current boyfriend as a rebound to get over your last boyfriend. Now you say that you don't want to spend your life with him, so what is the use continuing this relationship? It is very hard to get over someone that you have been with for two years and you got into this relationship too fast and unconciously what you're probably doing is comparing your current boyfriend to the old one and that's what's making you miss him. If your ex still has feelings for you you should try to resolve your relationship, if not. You really need to leave this guy you're with as he's under another impression and that would be playing with his feelings
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How do u get ur bf to be all lovey dovey with you (link)
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call him babe and be all lovey dovey, he'll do the same
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Well basically there is this guy at my skl and he's asked my best friend a couple of times if I would give him head,or a hand job ,so after skl my friend deliberately planned for us all to play dirty dares( basically 21 dares but the dares are sexual) and she sort of kept bringing up that this boy wanted me to wank him off, to sort of force us into it anyways so he got all shy coz he thinks his dick is too small etc. But he says he wants to do it and I sort of want to but he has a girl friend in another school and he wants me do it in the park? If I did do in the woods in the park and he has a girl friend would this make me a slut? And did I mention I'm only 13 and so is he we only just got into yr 9 , any tips on hand jobs? (link)
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this would be a bitchy thing to do i mean would you like it if your boyfriend was getting jacked off by someone else behind your back? This could seriously ruin your reputation because guys love to brag and he will definitely spread the word. He has a girlfriend and he's messing around that tells you that he cares about nobody but himself. So my advice to you is don't do this and stay away from him
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Hi everyone, so basically me and this girl have been getting close and we've been hanging out alot until one day she suddenly stops talking to me I don't know why but she just did. But everytime Im in school she's always looking at me and anytime I look at her so looks away I seriously don't understand this stuff because I'm clue-less. So any reason to why she's doing this? All replys are much appreciated. P.s I'm 15 and she's 14. (link)
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maybe somebody bad mouthed you or her friends said something girls her age always go with whatever their freinds say, the only way you'll know is if you ask her what's up
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I am 19 years old sri lankan girl and my boyfriend is 20 years old. How i kiss my boyfriend's lips first time? (link)
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you wait till the mood is right and there's nobody around then you wait for things to get silent then gently pull his face towards yours, look him in the eyes and kiss him softly and he will lead
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got a little sunburn and it ruined my perfect snowy skin and now its tannish.how can i fix this (link)
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rough salt, lemon juice and start scrubbing
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What do you do when a guy you've liked for a long time rejects you when you tell him you love him, but when he gets a girlfriend (AND IS CHEATING ON HER WITH ANOTHER GIRL), he hits on you? (He hugs you after you tell him he's being stupid and says he loves you) What do you do? Do you react negatively or neutrally? I will NOT react positively, ever. Please don't judge me. If you want to know with more detail, please let me know at melanielovesdylanobrien@gmail.com
Thanks to everyone for answering in advance :D (link)
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this guy is a wannabe playa, do yourself a favour and stay away he's only going to hurt you
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I don't know how to do the thing I want to do. If I do something I feel that that thing not good enough. After I stop to do it,then I feel that what I did was too bad so I stop to do it. In the end nothing finish. (link)
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maybe you just haven't found what you like doing yet, you should continue trying new things until you find something that you love and remember that nobody is good at something the first time, don't be so hard on yourself
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I bumped into this girl who i knew of back in high school but we never realIy hung out or talked, anyway so i got her number and i called her the following week and talked to her but didnt ask her out. then i called her twice more after but both phone calls were short because she said she was busy doing things. So at that point I thought she was not interested at all, then a few days later I got this text " sorry for being so short on the phone with you when you called, but I have been really busy.i will message you if and when my schedule frees u. Have a good one". So is she interested or she's just being friendly? What should I do? (link)
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well the fact that you never really knew her would make it kind of awkward to hold a conversation which is probably why she texted you instead of calling. From what i gather i just think that both times she didn't really know what to say on the phone so she said shes's busy. I think you should give it some time then definitely call her again and judge from that conversation, say hey i hope you won't be too busy because i'd really love to take you out. Truth is you'll never know if she's interested until you ask
best of luck
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I am a 14 year old girl that is a freshman at this high school. I really like this guy and I don't know if he feels the same way about me so I asked his friend what he thinks of me. My friend sent me a screenshot of the conversation and my crush replied, "She's cute, I sort of like her but I barely know her" I was wondering what sort of meant? Like did I have a chance with him? Am I ever going to be his girlfriend? And how should I talk to the guy? (link)
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Well in this sense "sort of" means yes he does fancy you though he barely knows you but this is your chance to get to know him. He thinks you're cute and that's a great start. You should start speaking to him more often get to know him and let him get to know you, share your interests makes him laugh and as time goes by you two will get closer and he'll pop the question. His reply to his friends question shows he does take an interest in you, its up to you to make it happen
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I am 9 and know about sex I already experimentid and it is fun (link)
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Well firstly, think about what your parents would think about this. From a medical point of view your body is not yet physically able to handle sex, you're still at a young age and other activities should catch your attention. Think about all the sexually transmitted diseases or a risk of pregnancy, these are things that should not concern you at your age, enjoy your life now and worry about that later, I advise you to stop as sex complicates everything
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how do i get rid of a stuffy nose before August 29? (link)
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What do you mean by a stuffy nose, give me the deets and I'll help as much as I can :)
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This guy told his friend who told me that in gym he kept trying to hit my butt(which is very popular with the guys in my grade(8th) with a doge ball to see it jiggle. ? why does he want this and what should i do? (link)
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guys that age are still learning new things and are really immature. This is wrong too and he shouldn't be doing it, tell him to stop. He probably isn't getting enough girl attention and just wants to bother you
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My boyfriend and I fool around ALOT. and i like ir really rough.. and he was pounding me really hard with his fingers and i was LOVING it... but when he pulled his fingers out they were COVERED with cum.. like an inch worth.. is this normal? i'm not a virgin and he has been my only sexual partner.. (link)
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yes that's completely normal
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Hey, I am a 17 year old female. I have a 17 year old male best friend. We have been best friends since the third day of third grade. I love him like a brother because that is how I see him. Everybody else, however, tells me daily that him and I are going to get married. That "everybody can see that we are in love except for us." I have read numerous places that a boy and a girl can not be best friends because of sexual tension. Either the girl wants to have sex with the boy or the boy wants to have sex with the girl. I completely disagree, my friend and I aren't like that.
What do you guys think? Can a girl and boy be best friends and that's it? (link)
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I am currently experiencing the same thing that you are and its really annoying that people can't mind their own business, but there's nothing wrong with being with friends with somebody of the opposite sex, some people find it more comforting and have a better understanding, there are cases where the friendship leads to abit of romance but there's nothing wrong with that, you're partner would be somebody you trust, but a boy and a girl can certainly stay just friends don't bother about what people say, as long as you know where you two stand
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hi guys, i've been dating a guy who is in late 40's and i'm in early 30's for a 1 year and a half. he has a daughter age of 5 with his ex girlfriend who just lives about half and hours away from we live. we love each other and also he never stops saying his daughter is main priority. i'm confused sometimes as i want to be with him and he says the same but i don't know, guys. i do not know what he's thinking. so, is he worth to date as he's a single father. thanks you. (link)
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Yes he certainly is I mean he is a normal guy, just that he would always see his daughter as number one because its his blood family that he has, so why not, you love him and he loves you, its normal for a single parent to say these things as they worry about their kids first, he loves his daughter and he loves you differently, but you have nothing to worry about, best of luck
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me and this one boy are like really close friends family as he says .we went together for about a year i known him for a three and so we was on the phone the other day and this other guy kept texting me so i became frustrated and he asked me what was going on and i told him that this one guy gets like so jeasouls of certain things and the boy aka ma ex he said did i want him to call the jeaslous boy and curse him out .now my question is do that mean that he still have feelings for me ???? (link)
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It doesn't necessarily mean that he has feelings for you, it just that he probably cares about you like any guy friend would do, since you haven't given a lot of details about your ex its hard to tell whether he still has feelings for you, the only person who can answer this is him but I wouldn't give it too much thought, he's just looking out for you
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