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Is she interested or not?
I bumped into this girl who i knew of back in high school but we never realIy hung out or talked, anyway so i got her number and i called her the following week and talked to her but didnt ask her out. then i called her twice more after but both phone calls were short because she said she was busy doing things. So at that point I thought she was not interested at all, then a few days later I got this text " sorry for being so short on the phone with you when you called, but I have been really busy.i will message you if and when my schedule frees u. Have a good one". So is she interested or she's just being friendly? What should I do?
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well the fact that you never really knew her would make it kind of awkward to hold a conversation which is probably why she texted you instead of calling. From what i gather i just think that both times she didn't really know what to say on the phone so she said shes's busy. I think you should give it some time then definitely call her again and judge from that conversation, say hey i hope you won't be too busy because i'd really love to take you out. Truth is you'll never know if she's interested until you ask
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It's hard to say. She may actually have been busy when you were speaking to her. Either that, or she just didn't want speak to you.
My advice is to wait a couple days, and then ask if she wants to go out for a beverage or lunch. If she say no, then ask her to suggest an activity or day/time she prefers. If she doesn't get back to you, it's safe to assume she isn't interested.
But don't keep messaging/ringing her. It'll come off as desperate, needy, and pathetic. Play it cool.
But that's the only way to really know to be honest. Remember, if she says no, leave it at that. Don't get down or upset. Pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and move on.
Good luck!
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