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My name is Nicole Powers but everyone calls me Nickie. I'm 14 years old. I love to play sports.. basketball, softball & soccer. I love to sing, dance, talk on the computer, watching movies, hanging out with my friends and reading. I also love to other things too. I'm devoted to my friends, my boyfriend & sports. My best friends mean everything to me & so does my mr. wonderful. I have the best boyfriend anyone could ask for. I have everything I could possibly want. I love my life & the people in it. I'm don't have the perfect life, but the way I live it is perfect enough for me.
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my exboyfriend hurt me emotionally in ways that i never thought he would hurt me we have been broken up for over a year and im just now getting over the pain and hurt but i want revenge i want to get even i want him to hurt the same way i was hurting so what should i do to get revenge or get even without hurting my boyfriend (link)
i know how you feel..i've been hurt by a guy before but you don't get revenge..you just don't let them know that you're hurting and you manage to move on with your life. get involved with activities you like to do or just find someone knew to get your mind off of him! just don't let him know that you're hurting because than that's just like letting him win.



Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...

is it weird that i miss him all day?

people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him


and i miss him (link)
i'm the same way. i'd be on the phone with my boyfriend for like 2 hours and as soon as we'd hang up i'd miss him..or i saw him everyday for a week for 3 hours each day (we don't live in the same town so i don't get to see him much) but everyday we'd have to go home and say goodbye..i'd miss him like crazy..i'd rush home to call him or to get on the computer and talk to him. you're not dependent you're just very much in love with this guy. don't lose him..and good luck with him.



My boyfriend and I broke up a little more than 2 months ago, and about a week ago he told me that he still loved me and could never bare to tell his mom we broke up because it would make it "real." I told him that i still love him too, and, even though we had gone back to being best friends after we broke up, now that we both admitted to still liking eachother we have barely talked or anything. I'm starting to worry our frienship is falling apart, which is more important to me than ANYTHING. Is there any way i could make a move to tell him we're still OK and nothing's changed, anything u guys think will help...or, more importantly, any reason this has happened? (link)
i can relate to where you're coming from. me and my x went out 2 times and broke up..and he's now one of my closests friends. he's actually like my best friend..but anyways..when i found out that my x still liked me and i still liked him..it's been really hard to tell each other our feelings about each other now and that's what seems to be happening with you and this boy. i don't think it's cause he doesn't like you because i'm sure he does but maybe he just doesn't want to get involved with a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship because now that you guys are so close he's afraid that if something bad happens in the relationship you're not even going to be able to be friends. maybe you should hang out with him sometime soon and find out what he really wants to do. be friends or be more..because unless you take a chance to ask him you'll never know and what can a simple question hurt...i hope i helped..follow your heart and do what YOU think is right.



Okay. Here's a little background info. Okay. Me and this kid named, lets just say "Mark" went out for about 5 months. We talked on the phone everyday, and hung out almost everyday. I was soo in love with him. But then we broke up a couple weeks ago. But I really regret it. We talk sometimes now, but I really want to go back out with him again. I miss him soo much. We went to some party last night, and he told my two best friends that he still liked me. I really want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know. I'm just really shy about telling people how I feel.

Here's my question.

1. Should I tell him how I feel? If yes, what should I say?

I rate high!! But please, I just need advice. Thanksss bunches.

Heart-broken and in love (link)
hey, the same things has happened to me before..and i took a chance and i asked him back out..and we got back together.

if you think that you really love this guy enough to want to get back together with him than go for it. what's the worse thing he can say? no?..but he still likes you so that's even better..i think that you should call him up sometime..talk to him over the computer..or talk to him in person and tell him how you really feel..just be like "mark" i just want you to know that i still like you..or say anything..don't just go into with I STILL LIKE YOU! talk to him about something he likes and weasel your way into it..it's much easier that way.

hope i helped!



You seem to be really good at this sort of a problem so I am going to ask you! lol haha ANYWAYS..there is this guy that I have liked for a couple of months now, but the thing is I really dont want to like him anymore, because its just taking away my life because all I think about is him..=( And when he went out with this one girl I got really jealous and it hurt me because I told him he should go out with her because like that one saying ( if you love someone set them free) and I did that..but it didnt help me at all and I just became kinda depressed. And the bad thing is he is in a different grade than me so next year we will be in different schools so that is going to make it even harder on me. I have tried to think of things on why i shouldnt like him but I cant think of anything! lol but yeah..what should I do.. I really hate how I am feeling now! THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! ♥♥ (link)
wow..i feel the same way you do about this one guy. i really can't give you all the advice you need and tell you to give up on him when i can't give up on the person i love. i know how you feel when you got jealous of him and his new girlfriend..i didn't live in the same town as the guy i liked so we never got to see each other..and when he broke up with me i was so devestated cause the first time we broke up i still loved him..i still do..but all i want is for him to be happy. i understand where you're coming from but what you really need to do is think to yourself..is he really worth everything you're going through? maybe you should tell him how you feel because maybe just maybe he feels the same way about you but is just afraid that you won't have the same type of feelings for him. i can't make up your mind for you..it's your choice..if he's going to make you happy..than don't give up on him..but if you know there's something or someone better out there for you..than go for them because you've got nothing to lose now. good luck hon..i hope you follow your heart and do what you think you should do.



school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers! (link)
hey i have very think hair too and i have the same problem..my hair gets poofy and wavy..okay what i did was instead of getting a straightner cause they don't work very well on my hair is i went and bought a perm kit and i used everything but the perm rods. my hair came out great and it's straight now..you can also do things like have someone braid your hair if you totally want it to look different dye your hair or maybe get highlights..i love to experiment with my (i've done many things with it including dying it.) hope i helped..but that's just what i'd do.

good luck


hello everyone. i was just wondering because i have the code for aligning my paragraph... here it is:

and i don't understand wheredo i insert the text & where do i insert my choice of alignment. (left, right, center)

thanks for all your help, i rate. (link)
hey i've had a lot of trouble with codes lately but my sister showed me how to do them. what you do is type in your code
than what you do where the = sign is remove the ? and write what you want to put in the code. make sure you don't remove teh >!!! that's very important.


I like someone but I am not sure if he likes me or if i should ask him out? (link)
if i was you i'd try to hang out w/him before you move to quickly..because if you rush into the relationship it may not work (i know from many preveous experiences) but just hang out w/him sometime and when you feel like you're starting to know him..ask him what you think about being more than friends and if he likes you that way than i say go for it. you may not want to become best friends w/him cause than it may ruin the friendship but close enough to be able to talk to him about certain things. hope i helped
-nickie powers-




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