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You seem to be really good at this sort of a problem so I am going to ask you! lol haha ANYWAYS..there is this guy that I have liked for a couple of months now, but the thing is I really dont want to like him anymore, because its just taking away my life because all I think about is him..=( And when he went out with this one girl I got really jealous and it hurt me because I told him he should go out with her because like that one saying ( if you love someone set them free) and I did that..but it didnt help me at all and I just became kinda depressed. And the bad thing is he is in a different grade than me so next year we will be in different schools so that is going to make it even harder on me. I have tried to think of things on why i shouldnt like him but I cant think of anything! lol but yeah..what should I do.. I really hate how I am feeling now! THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! ♥♥
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all ik is that you cant help who you fall in love with! ik how you feel in a way but he's in my grade. ik he doesnt like me that way but for some reason i really like him! i think that if it is meant to be it will happen and you shouldnt worry and if it isnt you'll find another guy! hope i helped!
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wow..i feel the same way you do about this one guy. i really can't give you all the advice you need and tell you to give up on him when i can't give up on the person i love. i know how you feel when you got jealous of him and his new girlfriend..i didn't live in the same town as the guy i liked so we never got to see each other..and when he broke up with me i was so devestated cause the first time we broke up i still loved him..i still do..but all i want is for him to be happy. i understand where you're coming from but what you really need to do is think to yourself..is he really worth everything you're going through? maybe you should tell him how you feel because maybe just maybe he feels the same way about you but is just afraid that you won't have the same type of feelings for him. i can't make up your mind for you..it's your choice..if he's going to make you happy..than don't give up on him..but if you know there's something or someone better out there for you..than go for them because you've got nothing to lose now. good luck hon..i hope you follow your heart and do what you think you should do.
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My thoughts are that you need to move on. That road is long and hard, but you will eventually find someone else. The best bet is when you hang out with him and girls hit on him or he goes out with other girls, jeep reminding yourself in your head that it doesn't bother you. I think you might trying dating another guy, nothing big just one date and see if you can get your mind off of the other guy. If not, then you got a problem that only you can fix. If it is hurting you that badly, maybe a seperation from him would help some if this other stuff doesn't work. When you start thinking of him try and think of something else. I guess you could say just to drop it. You don't want to be with him, then you need to realize that and handle this with yourself, in the end it might take some alone time to figure this stuff out. Sorry if I confused you. Hope I helped.
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Actually I think him being in a different school then you next year will be a very good thing for you! You need to let go!
Get involved in something else, a project or a team or anything that keeps your body and mind busy. It's not easy to get over someone but you are obessesing over something you never even had. Suck it up and find some better to do with your time.
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