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I'm a chill girl who really just likes to have fun; I get a thrill out of steering people in the right direction. I have a pretty good head on my shoulders, I could change a few wrong things that I do [heyy, what can i say i like to have fun]
I am all about being myself.. straight up I'm the realist person. I'm not fake. ..fake people are my pet peeve.... I have a blog about my daily life..celebs and photography etc the link is : www.lovely-soe.blogspot.com ... I want to help teenagers who are younger then me to not make mistakes that can be avoided. thanks for reading :)

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when would be a good time to put up a christmas tree? i was thinking firtd day of december, but thats a little early isnt it?

after today(thanksgiving) is when alot of people put thiers up..it lasts..and it keeps you in the christmas spirit!

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My boyfriend of 9 months i think has changed. I dont know if it's b/c we had sex 2 months ago or b/c of football but heu sed to treat me soooo good. we used to be the best couples out there. then things started getting rough. He got caguht for chewing and he swore on our relatioship and PROMISED me he wouldnt ever do it again and he did. So he got grounded for 2 weeks and the next day i flirted with someone he hates b/c hes the most popluar guy in the school and i was mad at my boyfriend. but the next day people told him i cheated on him which i didnt i made a point not to b/c i love my boyfriend but it took him a while but he trusted me. Now im asking him what makes me trust him now that he isnt going to lie to me when he chews again and everytime i say that he turns it back on me and how i flirted. I DIDNT CHEAT ON HIM THOUGH. And he hung up without saying i love you he just screamed and hung up and i cant talk to him until tomorrow now. he never goes to bed mad at me which is why i think hes changing. what should i do from here. anything i say to him he yells and turns it back on me. this is a serious problem b/c im the one left crying all the time please help me.

aww im sorry. you should take time off from the relationship or just give him a few days to get his head straight(but tell him)...if you want to take time off just tell him..i know thats a hard thing to do because ive been dating my guy for 8 months..itd have to be really bad 4 me to leave him.

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Hey I need help, I really liek my bf and he really likes me. We wanna have our first kisses together and stuuf, but I don't know when or where and I am sorta nervous but I REALLY wanna kiss him. Any tips for lip virgins??

i dont think you guys should start off all pationate..just go to a Quiet place where your alone and you can talk..

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Im REALLY self conscious . To the point were all's I were is hoodie and jeans . I won't even go to dances 'cause I hate the fact of a guys hands on my waist .
Anyways , On with the point . I have been told Im a "beautiful" person , Buttt I need to you know be more confident . I could argue with this but not the point .
So , I need some nice clothes , That are comfy and look nice . -NotHoodies. Also , I don't mind guy clothes :P Heyy , Some are VERY girly looking know adays .
Also , Keep in mind Im not the skinnest person around ;) .
Store links would be great .

like i said i didnt know if u were asking or not so dont worry..dont get all mad and shit.

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how do i prove that the girl i love,loves me too

you shoudlnt have to probe that to anyone its between you and that girrl if she loves you..and im sure you can tell...

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I'm male, nearly 30.

For half my life I've been chasing girls and from asking God for a girlfriend to crying in the shower, I've tried it all.

I've been on dates, but none of the women I have been interested in, likes me back (more than a friend, your such a NICE guy... I know that one off by heart). Its really frustrating to be 30 and to know only rejection from women, obviously at this stage I'm so insecure that the last time I liked this chick I totally started to stutter really badly when I thought about trying to kiss her.

I don't try to screw anything that moves, if I'm not interested in a women, I don't make moves on them and have no problem talking to them.

I'm really low and I need advice, not comfort.

okay their has to be something wrong here...are you a good looking man or not? i say stop looking because things tend to find you when your not looking for them you feel me? theres someone in this world for everyone,so dont give up hope

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Okay, I sit next to Adam in like every class.. not like Im in love we have assighned seats, and I always get stuck right there next to him. I dont mind, he's wickedd funny and everything. Well my BFF Becky is always like OOOOO flirty and all this stuff like me and Adam are flirting which yeahh were are but it bugs me that she says it infront of everyone. Like today we sat next to eachother in the tiny table to its impossible not to touch, and we started writing notes, and we started joking and stuff when he rubbed my knee, I am a WICKED tikilish person I like ahh flipped and he laughed because he knew I was. So i Rubbed his leg, and inch higher then my knee until I was remotly close to his Johnston.. and he said some-things- and stuff well we were laughing and grabbing eachother sides and legs and I pinched a couple time lol and Becky HAD to ay something!! Yeah Im flirting with Adam, and yes we've had people ask if were going out when were not, and yes everyone says were cute together. But its Adam and I know Adam feels the same way. Were flirting buddies I guess and becky doesnt understand that..
She's been trying to get Adam to ask me out and the sae with me, but I donno I love Adam and yeahh he's cute and stuff but Im not the easiest thing to look at... so I know it wont happen so i wont gt my hopes up
How will I explain to Becky that she needs to stop????

tell becky straight up that she needs to stop because its really annoying and she makes you feel uncomfortable when she oversteps yourboundaries like that

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15/f
I stopped puberty about 3 years ago... my boobs have been a 38B for like a year and a half now... what is the average boob size of an adult woman?

is a B cup considered small? can they still grow even though it's been so long since i stopped devloping? every other woman in my family is a B too.

its small but not that small and your only 15 girl you should grow some more..im 14 and i wear a 32 D,lol you should be happy with the boobs you have because big boobs ...r just ehh,...there nice but,lol my boobs spill out of my shirts all the time and my dressed never fit because of them,

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My problem is simple. My girlfriend is always pertending to be a lesbian with her friends (in front of me!) . They arent making out with each other and i know that they are definetly not real lesbians (or bisexual). I think that they are just trying to make me jealous. What should i do? By the way, im 14 years old and so is she. Now, im not saying that it isnt amusing to watch, but, i want her to give me some public attention, too. What should i do?

me and my friends do that,lol ..we dont o.d it though and we dont really do that infront of my boyfriend..i think she just wants you to think shes sexy or something..you should seriously do what the other girl told you to do. or just talk to her and tell her you want her to your self when shes with you..but make her feel like your being sweet

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okay, heres the story.

about 4 months ago i went out with this kid.
i only when out with him for 2 months.
he was my first kiss, but we didn't really talk much. So i broke it off, because i didn't want a bad relationship, we never saw eachother.

Its four months later, and i cant stop thinking about him. i don't know why, i honestly dont know what this is about. But i guess its cause he was my first kiss.

After we broke up he was talking to me online saying he'll never find another girlfriend. I don't think he was sad,though.

I haven't talked to him since i broke up with him.
We have the same friends. But when I'm there , he wont come over. Its like he's ignoring me,avoiding me. i think he hates me. It hurts me to think that, because we were once so close. I don't know what to do anymore.

My real question is, Why do you think he's avioding me? I mean, it wasn't that serious of a relationship. Do you think he still might like me? or is he just compleatly over me? i'm so confused.

Also, how can i get over him?


thanks

i did the same thing except i didnt like the boy but he was my friend..i was just desparate 4 a bf and my first kiss!

you probably feel bad about breaking up with him or you miss him...but i cant tell you how u feel right.
i think he liked you..you probably meant something to him and he prolly thought things and you kinda ended that so it hit him hard,you should talk to him about it...but its your choice 2 break uo with him soo dont feel all sorry 4 him=] good luck girl

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Hey. I'm 14/F and my friend is 13/F. She was diagnosed with Luekimia last month. Can anyone think of thinks a FOURTEEN YEAR OLD can do, someone with very little money on her hands, to raise some money or help out my friend Caroline. I really want to help, and someone else has already organized a walk to raise money so that idea is out. Any ideas would be very much appreciated and I do rate.
Thanks.


P.S. I don't know what kind of luekimia she has but I know she has started Chemo already and she's really sick due to the side affects of it.
And the ideas don't have to raise money, but if it's something that can make her feel a little better, or comfort her please let me know, I want to do anything it takes to help her.

well does your friend go to the same school as you?

it was a kid at our school,cody...he touched alot of students...8th grade and 9th grade year his friends got the whole school involved involved with raising money for him...they talked to the principle i guess or somebody and they were making announce ments on the morning show at school about him and how you can leave money for him and theyd be getting money during lunch....they got that boy what they wanted...you can do lots of things when u get the school involved and people who knew her involved,,if not then..you can sale some of your things and your friends things..you can do an auction..you can get a job for one...because im 14 and i can get a job around here...goodluck with everything!

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heard abt squirting,is it normal for girls 2 squirt????

yea its normal but people are still doing tests on the womans orgasm

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Everyday, I think about what I'm going to do when I'm older. Like where people are going to go when the Sun explodes, how to change society, etc. It seems like I'm the only person I know who think about it. I think of like faraway places, not what I'm going to have for dinner or anything. Do a lot of other people think about this stuff. I'm only 13, and it seems like I'm really different from everybody. I love to party and have fun and stuff, but it's like my mind is split in two, one for worldly, big thoughts that predominantly rule my head, but another part that thinks about "normal things". What's different about me that makes me think about such big stuff? I don't think it's bad at all, just odd that no body worries about what's going to happen 50 billion years from now. I do all the time. Can someone explain this to me?

your not in it alone! i always wonder about why god blah blah and whens the world gonna end ..whats it like on saturn,lol what am i gonna do when i grow up..its normal..the thing is you have to teach yourself to understand that you cant know everything..some things are just meant to be unknown lol i know its frustrating but its like and not all things are meant to be known by human kind

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female 15

i like this boy and hes is prude. like WAYYY prude. like he never had a girlfriend never would do anything with a girl etc.

but i have a huge crush on him!!

be side the fact that i would go out with him--

how do i become his lik close friend. like were firneds but i want to be really close and hes SO nice but a lil weird and he hitnks im annoyinngg

well i asked by borfrnd he said he thought i was annoying too but he liked it,lol so that might help you..dont start annoying him more now,lol but you can start by paying attention to what he says if he talks about something really be interested in it...if he;s mad about a teacher then you talk to him about it and be there for him.

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if you made yourself throw up once and only once and do not think of doing it again, does this still make you bulimic?

no..youd have to do it to lose weight and do it kind of excessively

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16/f

So I never really had a problem with dry lips until now. Winter is coming, and my lips are becoming insanely chapped. So I want to use chapstick, except that stuff tastes sooo bad...and I'd like something that my boyfriend can also enjoy ;). Something minty...or fruity...either way, as long as its moisturizing and isn't sticky! Help?? Links please!

boys dont like lipgloss..it tastes nasty and its sticky and gooey...chapsticks better but of u want the taste jessica simpson had lip gloss that has a nice fruity taste,i heard about it

http://www.nextag.com/jessica-simpson-lip-gloss/search-html

goodluck girlfriieendd! lol

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I am a 16 year old girl who has taken a babysitting course a few years ago and is certified in CPR. I don't have a lot of experience. I have only babysitted once before, not counting my younger sister. I babysat for a family that had a two year old and a ten year old.

Now I am babysitting for a family that has three kids: A three year old, and two 18 month olds. I only babysit for an hour or so, and the 18 month olds are napping, so unless they wake up, the only major responsiblility is the three-year-old.

My question is, is $10.00 an hour too much? I didn't ask for that much, the parents just gave it to me. I feel bad accepting it because even though I don't just watch TV when I'm babysitting, I play with the kids, it seems like a lot. But then again, I don't know much about babysitting rates, so any help would be appreciated. Thanks!

its a good price but they should give you 25 dollars for babysitting them for a hour. 10 dollars just isnt much because baby sitting is a huge responsibility

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while browsing through few sites i found, in girls, aerola shapes differs in every girls....what does it indicate?

it indicates that every person is different in their own way..idk of your a girl or boy but girls clitoris's and everything is different from the other persons same with a penis ..the penis comes in all different shapes and sizes....its actually really fascinating the way our parts are not identical to each others

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countless times I've heard differing views/opinions on the matter.
...
what's the real truth? does food really give you acne? like...certain types of foods, such as those high in sugar content?

:/ i'm female, if that counts for anythingg..

yess! thast like a tested fact! but i thin it depends on whether u break out easily or not.i know fatty foods will make you have pimples..i have some experience in that department,lol good luck with the pimples

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yeah i kno this prolyl is a stupid question
nyways
well my guy friends they most of them take me as a "sister"
is that better than being a friend?
closer??

yea of course! if a guy thinks of you as his sister.in my school that means he either likes you or he has a strong sisterly feeling for you like you are their best girl friend..thats what it is,definetly better

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