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Q: I got an iPod nano.. I added a whole bunch of songs but now i want to add more. If I add more will it delete any current songs on it and in the future can i delete every song on there? thanksss.

no you can keep putting songs on there till it is full and it won't delete any other songs unless you choose to delete them which you can by hitting delete while a song is highleted.

Q: Does anyone know how to get photos onto ipod nanos? I tried going to my photos, right clicking and hitting send to ipod, but when i go to my ipod, the pictures arent there.

you can drag the pictures or the file of pics you want to put on your ipod nano and drag them over into you r ipod file like where it lists your ipod on the side just drag them to that.

hope i helped

Q: F/16

I've been in and out of the hospital since October and I've spent the past week and a 1/2 in the hospital, so I haven't seen my boyfriend very much. We were both invited to our friend's new years eve party and I might be home by then to go. The problem is my mom doesnt think its a good idea for me to go to someone elses house when I just got home from the hospital...

So my mom was like why can't BJ[my boyfriend] just come over to our house? so I asked him and he got all mad at me and was like "no I really want to go to this party, I didnt go last year" and he is making me feel like crap...

So should I just keep asking my mom and see how I feel on that day or just suck it up and stay home alone?

Thanks

if your boyfriend really cared that much he woukd come by and at least spend some of new years with you when you get out of the hospital, nmaybe its time for you to move on even if you do feel up to going to the party find some one who is more considerate and understands you and go to the party with them or have them over for new years, even if it is just a friend.

Q: i just got an ipod nano for christmas.
i put songs unto it and everything was fine.
then this morning, i was listening to a full album on it, and then i was gonna switch it to another song, but then...it just kind of..froze on me.
it won't let me do anything. my dad said to try and plug it back onto the computer to reset it, but its not doing anything. i can't even shut it off.
i seriously need help on what to do. i don't want to bring it to the store yet, cuz every ipod breaks, and i DIDN"T EVEN DO ANYTHING TO IT.
jfdsjfkldsjfklj

help.

this happened to mine and we looked on the ipod website thing and it said to flip the hold switch back and forth a few times and then hold the center button and the play pause button at the same time till it cuts off then comes back on. i am pretty sure this is what it said to do so i hope i helped.

Q: in like a week or so i'm getting 2 teeth pulled in the back of my mouth. im scared shit because i don't know what to expect. when i'm under the anethesia will i feel any pain? will i feel pain after it's done? is there any way that the anethesia will wear off while they are pulling my teeth out? WHAT IF I DONT WAKE UP FROM THE ANATHESIA??

im sooooo scared i need to know these answers. if you had teeth pulled out tell me EVERYTHING.

hi okay a little while back i had to get 4 teeth pulled out and i was also scared. but it doesn't hurt at all really i had the laughing gas and they also numb your mouth which hurts the most and that doens't hurt that much. i hope i helped
Happy Holidays
P.S. just don't think about it at all

Q:
so i was flirting w/ this guy last night online and i gave him my number and vice versa. and told him i MIGH text him if he was lucky (in a flirtacious way). well its the next night and i want to but wat should i say? it has to be flirty like along the lines that hes lucky i texted him and stuff but ask him also be something he can respond to

first of all do you know the guy like have u met before and were just talking to him last night. i honestly don't even think you should get into dating online without at least meeting the guy and making sure he is who he is. but you could say *i said if you were lucky i might text you... i guess you were pretty lucky. or if u haven't met him just say id like to meet you sometime.( not that flirty but you would get to meet him)

hope i helped, happy holidays

Q: I used to like this guy a lot. But then when I told him and it turns out he likes me too, I stopped liking him just like that. But now(hols) he keeps calling and asking me stupid stuff and I keep hanging up on him but he keeps calling. So how should I get rid of him and make his stupid voice stop asking me anything?

i think that you should just be honest with him and tell him that you just don't think it would work out between you and him and it would be better if he just didn't call anymore. im sure you can fix this up and say it a little nicer, but there's a good starting point.
-*- missmad -*-

Q: Okay , so i babysit this sixth grader three days a week. & let me tell ya .. IT IS SOOOOO BORING OVER THERE! All that i ever do is watch t.v., eat, & talk on the phone. Oh yeah ... and i also get on the computer. Any ideas on what else I could do over there? He always goes over to his friends houses all the time , so its not like I can do anything with him. Grrrr , HELPPP!

i would say to tell him that today you would rather him stay at the house but he can have his friend over, but that is only if your up to the challenge of 2 sixth graders which can be a handfull. take homework, a book, some magazines, or some art stff if you are into that or you could go outside and do something, do u have a sport you play you could practice that if they have games and stuff ask him if he wants to stay and play a game board games or sports or cards...any thing
if i were in your situation i would tell him i would rather him stay at the house or have the friend over and you can all play a game but tell him that since he is always at his friends house that you think it would be nice to give his parents a break and invite him over

you get where im going i hope sorry it was so long ♥ hope i was of some sort of help lol

Q: I bought those stick on little rhinestones at Claire's that you put on your cell phone for decoration. I'm getting sick of them because they are starting to fall off and I don't want them on my phone anymore. I tried taking a couple off but it left marks all over my phone. I didn't think it would damage my phone!! What do I do to get rid of the marks that are all over my phone from the rhinestones? Would water work? please help!!!

if you have had the stickers on there for a while it could be that those spots are clean because they have been covered while the rest of the phone wasn't, you could try using a little water on a cotton ball or rubbing alchohal on a cotton ball if it is the sticky stuff you could also try those things but it will most likely wear off

Q: Anyone know any place on the web that I can go to to find cool designs or pictures to iron on to totes and bags and stuff? let me know please!

you can buy iron on paper from any kind of office supply store wal mart, etc. and you can put it into your computer and find a picture and write words on it like under pain or any kind of photo editing program...
hope i helped

Q: does anyone use jergens natural glow and does it work well? im not super pale but im not all that tan either. [http://myspace-687.vo.llnwd.net/00942/78/66/942156687_l.jpg // http://myspace-988.vo.llnwd.net/00942/88/94/942084988_l.jpg] how long does it take till you start noticin a difference ? thx

ask camillian247 i am pretty sure she uses it and i know she really likes it

Q: URGENT! I am going to the beach Tuesday with 3 of my bffLs for my bday! I just broke up with my boyfriend so I want to meet some hot guys to get my mind off my ex! When we see them, how do we act to get there attention, or how do we just start talking to some guys? Hurry tho! Im leavin soon!

if you are walkin around and see a bunch of hot guys just hanging out you can walk up to them and just be like, we were wondering if y'all knew of any good pizza places or ice cream, or ask them for directions. boys like to feel like you need their help, they might not be from there so if they say they aren't from there and don't really know of any just say something like, oh where are y'all from, y'all drove a long ways, just casual conversation, then just ask if they wanna go get some ice cream or do something later like a movie. don't worry if you embarras yourself its ok cause once you leave you never have to see them again. lol well hope that helped, lets just put it this way it has worked for me and my friend when we went to the beach before

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Q: my friend slept over at my house, and we both slept in my room. i have a computer in my room, and i told her that she could go on my computer if she woke up before me, which she did. when i woke up, i was still in bed and i just opened my eyes, but i didnt move or anything. i could see from where i was on my bed that she was going through my computer and looking at all of my things. i could see that she was looking through one of my word documents. then when i said something, i sounded tired and she closed the document immediately and i could see she was hoping that i hadn't seen her looking through my things. i know that i shouldve said something but i didnt, and i completely regret that now, because it shocked me that she would do something like that.

so my question is...should i just try to forget about this happening? and also, is it just me or is it wrong for someone to look around someone elses computer without permission, even if they are(somewhat) a good friend?

thx a lot.

ok, first of all that is not right even if she is a really good friend. i think you should confont her and say, " i saw you looking through my word documents, and i was just wondering why you didn't want me to know and why you did without asking me first?" i know i would be upset if my friend was looking through my word documents without my permission, i wouldn't care if she looked if she asked me that. you could also say something like that?
hope i helped ♥

Q: ok for some reason whenever i sign onto my aim screenname, it says someone else is also on it. I always kick the other user off, but I just want to know how to stop this from happening. DO NOT say to change my password because ive already changed it 3 times in the past 2 days. Its not working. Thanks ♥

that has been happening to me too and i have changed my password several times. i think this is because i have 2 of my other sns linked. i also think it is just a problem with aim. i wouldn't worry too much about it.
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Q: hey, well on my old account that i had on this site [ i lost the password ] i had alot of people who listed me as there favorite columnists. now i only have one and i dont understand why. i give like the same type of advice as i did with my old account. can anyone tell me what the problem is?

-caitt♥

people probably just don't know that you got a new account, that means you got a new column and name and they might not know its you. they also might just not have been on the site to check on everythin and had a chance to add you, so give it some time i am sure some time soon you will be added to more peoples favorites. some new people will most likely add you too.

Q: i saw a movie maybe like 6 years ago on my tv and it was a great movie.. and i want to see it again but i forgot what it was called or the main plots of the movie, i think the title had like something moon or a planet in it and there was a boy and a girl in it and they boy liked the girl but the boy ended up going into like a lake or an ocean and he drowned and it was really sad.... the only way you can help me is if you have seen it, because i already tryed googling it. thanks

i think the movie is called Dust Factory. i know the boy drowns when he falls off the bridge. i saw the movie a long time ago. i know block buster has it. you can go to www.blockbuster.com and search it to make sure it is the right movie. let me know if that is it.
-*- missmad127 -*-

ok hi again im sorry i gave you the wrong movie last time i thought that might be it but i am almost positive this is the right one... it is The Man in The Moon it is abut two girls who move into a neighborhood and end up likeing the boy next door but i know he drowns i think that is how it goes i have only seen part of it but it seems right. hope that is it

Q: if u r babysitting wut r the phone #s u should have on hand

like umm dunno. ok 911. um pest control? no..um posion something or other?

i should know how to do first aid right? btw what is first aid - like help a choking person with the heimlich manuever and like CPR??

see if ur local hospital has a babysitting class to ofer. they are helpful with the firstaid things and make sure u have a number ofa neighbor a number you can reach the parents. definitely 911. and a poision control center number might be helpful make sure you give them your cell number ( if you have one ) incase you don't want to or feel uncomfortable answering their phone.

-*- missmad127 -*-

Q: My girlfriend's birthday is comming up. I'd like to get her a book that she would like, she reads a lot. She likes to read novels, the mushy love story kind. Does anyone recommend any that they have actually read? I'm not too great when it comes to this. Or should I just ask her which one she would like? I did want it to be a surprise, but if that's the best way to go about it, I'll try it.

some good books ive read lately like that are someone like you, this lullaby, romiette and julio(different version of romeo and juliette, just so you don't think im crazy and don't know what im talking about lol ) scribbler of dreams, the time capsule. hope i helped if you need more ideas just ask!!!!!

-*- missmad127 -*-
p.s. ive read all the books i named and they are all sort of mushy like

Q: my mom reads all my stuff. including instant messages. and like, i can't make her go so i can talk privatley. but, today i come home from a trip and she's going to make me talk to these people online and

#1: i don't want to tell them what she wants me to tell them
#2: i don't want her to see the convo because i'm afraid the other person is going to talk about stuff

please help me fast! i can't just tell her *stay out* because that won't work! i've tried that already but she won't stop. help me please!

thank you!

if u are talkin to her on the comp. and ur mom walks in type in pos which means parent over shoulder? then y'all can change the subject really quick and talk about something like homework or something like that if your mom asks you what that means just tell her something. if that doesn't work tell your mom that you would feel more comfortable if you could talk to your friends privately.
Good Luck

-*- missmad127 -*-

Q: hey my sister is getting married and she wants me to be the matron of honor. i was wondering what does the matron of honor do and how am i suppost to look? im really nervous because i dont want to do something wrong and mess the wedding up soo please help me!!!

xoxo Lil D

i was a matron of honor just recently. the bride will usually pick out the dress for you and there will be a rehersal the night before so you will learn wahat to do and be able to practice it. you will pretty much have to make sure everything for the bride is ready.
Good luck

-*- missmad127 -*-