Hey! I'm Melissa aka lissa, mel, melilicious, wateva! Im from cali! I am a blonde with a's and b's. I can relate to most situations and have been told to give good advice so i decided to devote my time to help others. I am really my own person. My own style and just true to myself. I will answer direct questions first of course. I read every question carefully. Ill do my best to help everyone who wants it. Please rate me.
E-mail: magicallymelicious@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Yahoo: magicallymelicious
Member Since: June 25, 2004
Answers: 40
Last Update: June 27, 2004
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okay my bf like to go out with his friends alot and like is hardly with me ...cuz my parents dont like him..and he knos..but when he goes out hes allways with his friends, and i kno there are girls tyhere..and he tells me that he mets girls but didnt hook up with any of them..and im like yea right u kno?...so what should i do or tell him? should i brake up with him or waht do i do????! (link)
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I say talk to him and suggest time apart or you see other people if he has the nerve to discuss other girls to you. If he really liked you he would make time for you, u no? Tell him he makes you feel like your holding him back and you are tired of being a doormat. Say if he cant make time for you or make an effort to keep the relationship, you dont want to be involved at all. He obviosly isnt that interested in you. Hope things work out and you find someone who deserves you. Move on. Melissa
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Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female. (link)
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Your friend will probaly say she doesnt mind but shes just trying to be a good friend. Talk to her about it and tell her to be honest and that if she really likes him, you wont make a move. Tell her that no guy should come between your friendship. You are a great friend and if she is one too she will understand. Go for it. Dont brag about it around her. A true friend wouldnt want to ruin your chance in a great relationship if she says its ok. Rate me plz
Good luck
Melissa
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well me and my friends want to earn money but nothing seems to work that great (and our moms wont let us baby sit)!!!!!!
we have tried:
-car wash
-doing work around the house
thanx bunches,
need money
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simple, try google search kid jobs summer
or www-2.cs.cmu.edu/afs/cs.cmu.edu/ user/sprite/www/kids_jobs.html
msnbc.msn.com/id/5123461/
www.marcopolo-education.org/mg/website124.aspx
Try google search for great ideas
hope i helped
plz rate
melissa
sry not enough help. good luck. Those webs helped me earn $189.58 so i thought it would help you.
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This girl from church told me that she was in love, yes, in love with one of her female teachers. This girl is fourteen years old. I just need some advice on what I should say to her if I get to speack with her again. (link)
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you shouldnt think of her different in any way. she cant help who she is attracted to. Dont judge people by who or what sex they like but who they are and the kind of person they are. Just talk to her as you would uually.
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much love, melissa
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My "friend hasnt talked to me for monthes. one day at work she just stopped talking to me. Now shes acting totalydifferent, like such a bitch! Everyone is talking bad about her! Why would she totally change? Please help,
confused (link)
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I doubt she was ever really your friend. Have you tried to talk to her about it? You really should move on. She doesnt sound like a good friend. If she isnt willing to talk for monthes, she isnt worth it. Her loss, not yours
melissa
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Sometimes I feel as if I'm living a double life. At school, I cuss a little, wear makeup and more expensive clothes; at at church I'm all "love everybody" and pretty much a model Christian-youth prez and ultra-volunteer. Please help! (link)
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it sounds to me that you are changing who you are to make your peers think your "bad" which for somereson, people think is cool and tough. What is cool is being true to yourself and not getting aids or dying from drugs and alcohol. Im not accusing but peer presure can be very disruptive. God will give you credit for being a faithful christian and doing what is right even if it isnt considered "cool". Stand up for what is right, even if your standing alone. Much love, melissa
If i helped you or you have more problems, send me a direct message.
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It is really bugging me how all these advice columnists wont quit complaining about not having mail. Maybe if they would quit bugging they would get mail! It is so annoying! why wont they shut up?!?!?!?! (link)
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I know what you mean. I am looking for someone who needs advice but everyone is takng up room complaining. Perhaps if you mailed everyone they would be satisfied :) jk! All i can say is try to ignore it and maybe if they read this, they will, stop. I hope i helped. Much love, melissa
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hey i gotta problem u see my friend is alwayz choosing her boyfriend over me wat do i do!!?? do i tell her do i tell him??? uh......help me!!!!
thanx~
~*RiSs*~
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friends are for ever. boyfriends will pass. Let her know how your feeling. Friends should always come before some guy. You shouldnt tell him because it isnt his fault. Talk to her but dont take it too personall. If she isnt into a guy you shouldnt ruin it unless it needs to be ruined and he shouldnt ruin your friendship if he cares about her
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My sister hates me and wants me to die.What should do? (link)
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Have you talked to your sister about this? She could just be stressing and taking it out on you. Perhaps you should watch your timing when having contact with her and giving her space when she is clearly in a bad mood. Just try to talk it out. I doubt she would want you to die. She is probaly just trying to get you off her back. Good luck with your sister. I hope i helped. For direct advice fromme visit my advice column. Much luv, Melissa
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Alright my dog died 2 years ago...I'm still not over it and since then I havn't really liked dogs much and my family gets a dog so my little sister will have a dog to grow up with which is cool in all...but like I'm not ready and I don't want to get all attached to it and have it die again. My parents don't understand that at all and think I'm "crazy" b/c I don't pay attention to the dog and they keep yelling at me for it...what do I do? (link)
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YOu cant blame yourself. Yuo were hurt and are scared to be hurt again. Its okay to get close to the new dog however. Just always think of the good times with your dog and think of how much it loved you and knows you loved and sytill do love it. As long as your dog is in your heart, it doesnt matter. She/he will always be there. Dont fear attachment. Give the dog a chance. You could be missing out on a good experience and new friend. Please visit m advice column or rate me. I hope i helped you. Rate me please. Much love, melissa
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I recently found a poem at my school of some girl who wanted to do suicide. I didnt know what to do so i did nothing and i regret it som much- knowing i could have, just maybe done something to prevent ther suicidal and then in my schools avice column i read some girl talk about how her friend cuts herself and how she used to but stopped. Whenever i read about suicide, i feel guilty in thought she killed herself. How can i feel better? (link)
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To add to the great advice others gave you, you cant feel guilty that someone else wanted to do suicide. there isnt much you could have done anyhow. Dont dragdown your life at the loss of someone elses you dont know. You cant be blamed for suicide. Be strong and move on. It isnt your fault.
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I've been noticing that I've been losing a lot of hair over the past year. My father's bald, so I'm very worried that I'll look like him in a few years. Do any of those hair treatments work? I'm slowly developing the Jack Nicholson hairstyle. (link)
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Hair loss is a sign of stress. Find where you have stress inlife and try to fix it. Perhaps you are struggling with school work or friends or in you love life or mybe your parents are having problems. Whatever is causing you stress, try to escape and smooth it out. Not all treatments work but it wouldnt hurt to use it. But dont stress about it. looks arent everything and as for as girls, they will like you for who you are on the inside, not the outside. If you need any more advice, give me a direct question. if i helped you please rate me!
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i'm always bored. there are no youth groups or anything in my area and most of my mates live on the other side of town. any ideas for things to do? i'm a girl and i live in the UK. (link)
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Not to sound nerdy but read. Ask alice is agood book. Also you could stretch and exercise. Art is a good time consumer or surf the internet. Music is a really good hobby. Listen to it, sing, or learn to play. Durin the summer you can get a summer job. Please ask me direct questions or rate me. thanx, much love, melissa
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WHAT DOES idk STAND 4 (link)
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It stands for i dont know. you might want to check out netlingo.com
if you like this advice or need more advice, please ask me personally. Also i would appreciate it if you rate me. thanx
Much luv, melissa
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Hey!!!
Today my friend and I were talking and she got mad at me and then she started cussing at me!!!
Heres wat she said "You are a piece of white trash...(the rest was cussing so yea)!!!!!!
Should I take this seriously or do u think that she was just mad and it came out?!?!!?
PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanx,
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Talk to her and express how it made youfeel. If you were ever real friends she will understand and apologize. Give her time to cool. She is probaly going thro a rough time and taking it out on you. Give her space then let her know you will listen to her, forgive her, and just want your friendship to lastDont act too desperate tho. PLEASE ASK ME DIRECT QUESTIONS!!! Rate me please. Much love, Melissa
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Okay, i have question. How can you get people to write questions to you specifically.. like to your inbox. Because i have only gotten one person who wrote to me specifically. do you guys have any ideas? (link)
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i havent had any but i started today. Answer lots of questions good and people will want your advice
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hey! does anyone know what:
a) idk
b) imao
means???
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idk means I Dont Know
but imao, idk
for more net lingo check out
http://www.netlingo.com/inframes.cfm
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Okay hi its barb(ara) agian.I go 2 a cathcloic school n i dunt mean 2 sound like i dunt belive in god but i do.I mean still we are beliving in a ghost thats over 4000 years old.But it seems like GOd Is forcing us 2 belive in him n make him seem LIKE HE IS POWERFUL only HE is great.Its like yu nver write the word Bob in capitals just cuz he has a cool name.I mean y should god be all powerful n y should we honer him he seems like an electrain trying 2 burn out the light.I have nothing agaisnt god but what am i beling in?I have no clue about it.Our school forces us 2 be more cathcloic and it seems the more they do that the worse the kids become.Kids in 2nd grade at my cathcloic school is cursing.We r starting fights.It seems the more they take it away the more we do it.Y kant they just leave us alone????-Catholic and Unfaithful (link)
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Personally i am a christian so this may be a tough one for me to answer but still, no one at all can force you to believe something you dont. I admit sometimes i have questions but it helps to ask someone close your questions. I believe god is testing our faith with every moment to see who is true and who cracks from peer presure. Ask your parents about switching school. I cant force you to believe god but he is always there for me and i know hes there because, well... not because the bible or family or friends or priests but because i feel him in my pressence when i pray or im sad. I never feel alone because i know in my heart he is there for me. He always answeres my prayers even if the answer is no. I hope i helped you. I recomend you ask god for help and talk to someone close to you. In god i trust. If hes real, he deserves the praise.
melissa
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hey my boy friend cheated on me and now he wont leave me alone!!hes begging 4 me to go back out with him but....he cheated on me n boy do i hate cheaters!! idk if i love him or like him or any thing!!!plez help!!!
signed~
~~confused!!!! (link)
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Look inside your heart. If he is the one whos shoulders you would cry on or he is who would cheer you up orlisten to you? If you love him and really love him, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and why you are upset. Every one deserves a second chance but is he worth your love, time, and devotion or are you his doormat or is he using you. Its your call. Go with your heart.
Melissa
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if im 13, gunna be 14 in 4 months, and i still haven't gotten my period, is that abnormal or sumthin, all of my friends have already started, and sum people i kno who are younger then me have started, my mom started when she was 11, my sister started when she was going into 7th grade, and im entering 9th, and still haven't started,is there sumthin wrong wit me?? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with you! You shouldn't think less of yourself because of it either. Trust me, it is a hassle anyways. Some peoples bodies mature slower but that doesn't change you. Just less of a hassle. Don't be in a hurry to grow up because you are only 13 and 14 once. You shouldnt waste your one chance of being young. If i helped you im glad. If you need more help, you can email me at magicallymelicious@yahoo.com! Later
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