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Megan here, but my friends call me Megz and you can too. I love to help people, I plan to make it my profession one day. I'd like to be either a pediatric nurse, Pediatrition, or Pediatric Oncologist. Depending on what happens on my life. I think the biggest part of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ, without him I would be nothing. Everything I do is in glory to him. The next biggest thing has to be my little brothers. They are my favorite two boys in the world, even though we don't always get along I love them more than anyone. My friends are important to me too, they are my family as well. I live in Iowa, I don't mind it too much, though I would love to live in the south. I would love to have a big old house in Virginia not far from the ocean. One of my passions is theatre, another is dancing. I love to dance I cannot go a day without it. It's just on of those things. I love to make new friends so you can IM me if you want, or email me or drop a note in my inbox. Hope to hear from you! Much Love and Peace out
E-mail: megz2009@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Carlisle, Iowa
Occupation: Student/Weekend Receptionist
Age: 14
MSN: comfortqueen209@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 28, 2006
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Am i pregnant? im going to take a pregnacy test! but i wanna know do people think i am?! I havent had my period since December 31st (new years eve)!and today is febuary the 4th! my back is hurting, i get really tired quickly, If i walk up the stairs i get tired out, I at all the time, My neck as been hurting alot, My stomach is hard and bigger!! and the last time i have had sex was 3 weeks ago. i use to do it like every weekend. so i dont know how long ago it was!! (link)
hey, yes it is very possible that you are pregnant. It sounds like it at least. You should probably go to a clinic that offers free and confidential test so that you can be sure. Luv Megz2009


So my boyfreinds birthday is next thursday and I want to do something special for him. But then comes the problem. We're both still in school (hes going to be 17 and im 16) So i can't really doing anything that great during the day...and then that night i have a volleyball game like an hour away and i usually dont get home until about 11pm so i dont know what I can do...anyideas?
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hi! my advice is to pay alot of extra attention to him during the school day. Maybe make him a cupcake or something and give it to him before school starts, decorate his locker, bring him a thoughtful present, make him a special lunch, and stuff like that. Maybe before you go to school you call him and sing him happy birthday over the phone. Just a few ideas, lol. All you have to do is let him know that you care, which you do, and he will feel special. Have fun! Luv megz2009


Hey im 15/f and i was wondering if there were any face products that actually worked on fighting zits and pimples. I tried almost everything! But it either makes my face dry or gives me more zits and doesn't work. I pop them when they come but they become a horrible problem.. so it there any products that i could use that work and wont dry out your face? And another thing is, i know that some foods will make you break out or do something to your face. What foods are thoughs? Thanks a bunch i rate high! (link)
hi! i use clearisel ultra products and an acne fighting moisturizer and it works well for me. The ultra product really does work on me and they have more products out on that line now like a scrub, gel, pads, and the traditional wash. Stay away from foods that are greasy, fried, or chocolaty(hard one, lol, i know) organic foods are good- those are the ones that don't add a bunch of preservatives and chemicals to make them shiny and what not. hope this helps! luv megz2009


Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true? (link)
hi, i agree with younggrandma. If you are ready to take on the responsibilities of parenting then you are ready to have sex. he can't promise anything condoms do break- one of my good friends is pregnant and they used a condom. be strong girl, lol, im sure you can wait until your ready. Think long and hard about this one- it's a really really big step in your relationship. Good luck~Luv megz2009


Any one know any good screen name ideas, with your name in them? I dont wanna give out my name, so just call me jess. Like i wanna make a new sn with my name in it, but idk what it should be. Any help is appreciated (link)
hi, my sn is just my nickname(megz) with my the year i am going to graduate. It could also be your anniversary, birthday, profession, ect. hope this helps a little, lol. Have a good day! Luv Megz2009


Ive been having like really low self esteme issues for like the past year or so... ive done so much physical harm to myself but i know its not right.. but i keep doing it cuz its like an addiction.. in the past year my best friend killed herself..(over me to try and get me to stop) and ive been in an abusive relationship.. everything has just put me down.. even the smallest things.. and i dont ever seem to be happy anymore.. i dont know what to do anymore.. sometimes i think that life is just like a dream.. is there any way i could help this?? (please dont say a councelor ive tried many and none have helped)... (link)
hi, i can't say that i know exactly what you are going through , but i have been depressed before. I'm not going to suggest a counselor- but i think that it would help to pray. I'm not going to preach to you i promise, but God is always there for you when you need him and ,i think that you just might, and he wants to help you. if you want to know some verses you can ask me im megz2209. or if you just want to vent. you could also try writing out all of your feeling, sometimes it is better to see them on paper. something to make you feel better: at least 1 person you do not know loves you, you are the world to at least one person, at least 15 people love you, somebody thinks about you everyday, at least one person prays for you a day. That was emailed to me i hope it makes you at least a lil bit happier even for just a minute. Good luck! Luv~megz2009


How can you tell if a guy really loves you or is just interested in sex? I rate high! (link)
hi! I just got out of a relationship where all the guy wanted was physical things a few months ago. He was all over me from the start and I had to push him away. Since he wasn't getting what he wanted from me he cheated on me. That's how I knew that he only wanted me for "advantages." Also whenever we were out he would check out other girls and comment about how hot they were. So watch how he looks at/talks to/acts around other girls, that could be a good clue also. I hope he really does love you, you deserve it. Luv Megz2009


So I got kicked out of my school and Im not aloud to go back there.. My mom doesnt want me to go in another town because it costs money So basicly Im not aloud to go to school anymore. I really want to be back in a school just not my old one. I want a fresh start. What should I do? (link)
hi! Have you considered asking your parents to homeschool you? It's not for all people but it could work for you. Your school might send you copies of lesson plans and offer internet help. I hope it all works out for you! Luv Megz2009


ok heres the thing, proms is in 3 months and i need to lose like 15 or 20 pounds. I need advice on a way i can lose that weight in 3 months. i wanna find a cute dress thats looks good with out the gut and love handles showing through. please help!

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hi! It will be hard work. Just do fat burning workouts and make sure that they say lean muscle. I do one by crunch that is on a DVD called Fat burning pilates. Its about 45 minutes and its fun. I also have one called Fat burning dance party in case you want to prepare for when you look great at the prom ;). Also, I heard, that when you concentrate in your mind about one area that it will affect that area more. I heard it from Tony Little but Im not sure if it is true. If all else fails, lets hope it doesnt come down to this, you could always try a corset. Just remember not to crash diet and to be positive and confident. If you tell yourself you are beautiful you will feel that way too, and you will radiate. Good luck! ~Luv Megz 2009


I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks! (link)
hi, this may sound crazy but it might work. If you really really like the guy that asks you out calmly tell your parents that you were asked out and you are interested in this boy. If they are like most parents they will ask a ton of questions(mine are exactly the same way, lol) Tell them that you would like for them to meet with the guy and have him over for dinner sometime. That way your parents will have the chance to like this guy too. Dating is so much easier with your parents blessing. This is also good for picking out the good guys from the bad. A good guy would be willing to meet your parents. Good luck with the dating game! ~Luv Megz2009


How should I ask my ex out becuase according to friends he still likes me and I want to take him to prom ... I'm very shy though so it can't be something very blunt (link)
hi, I agree. It all does depend on how it ended. Just casually ask him, "Hey, whats up? How have you been lately?" or if that is too much (I am shy too so I know what it is like, lol) you could write him a note or text message him asking if he is interested in going to prom w/ you. If he says no you can just shrug it off and say, "Oh, just thought it might be fun for old times sake. See ya." It would probably be a good idea to have a foundation of friendship first, because from what I have experianced that is what makes relationships work. I hope everything works out for you! Luv~Megz2009




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