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I'm 15 years old and i've had my period for a little bit over a year now. I have always used pads, but i'd really like to start using tampons. But there's only one problem, im so scared of them. I've tried using the before, but im just scared to leave something up there...please help me. Are there small tiny tampons for teens to use? im sooo freaked out.

please help

ill rate hight

thanks

use slender ones at first, just to get used to them. then when you get the hang of it you can either continue using slender tampons or switch to normal sized. good luck

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I have to sing on Sun. I don't want anything to go bad but it feels like a cold or sumthin comin' on, can someone tell me what I can do so that I can prevent it. THank u

tea. honey and lemon tea. good luck

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is there any way yu can make yur boobs look smaller?

you could wear a minimizer bra or a sports bra that like half a sixe too small. good luck

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There is a semi-formal dance on December 2 at my school. Here are some possible outfits I might wear, which is the best???:

--Black silk assymetrical tanktop with black beads on the bust and straps, a black pinstripe blazer with red and white stripes, and a pair of dark green corduroys

--An awesome long tye-dyeish indie/boho skirt, and some cute top like the one above or a long sleeve princess-necked one with a halter underneath

--Nothing ;-) hehe just kidding

Which do you like the best, and don't say nothing...

the first one. its formal just not too formal. its cute. go for it. ;-)

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I want to raise enough money to buy a nano iPod but many places you have to be 16 to work at. My friend told me that to work at McDonalds you can be 14(my current age) Does anyone know if this is true?

P.S-I know there food is the worst for you but I'm working there for the money.

work at a mcdonalds or burger king or some other place. in the summer you could be a life guard. good luck.
p.s. you can also babysitt

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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!

its good that you told him-no he knows incase he falls for you and the nmaybe hell ask you out. yay! good luck

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13/f
Ok well i've been really bored lately and i just got of restriction that lasted for ever and i just wanta do something fun with all my friends guys and girls. So i was thinking about throwing a party but like i need a theme and some good ideas like what to do so it wouldnt be so lame and just something we could do from 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm that would be fun and wouldnt get lame and stuff like that and that we could all have fun doin if this helps i have a nice pool in the backyard but its too cold to swim i also have a trampoline and i would want about 25 people at the most so give any good ideas and ill rate u a 5
thx

just make it a house party and invite a buch of people and play spin the bottle, seven minutes in heaven, suck and blow, ect. if you dont know suck and blow is kinda like spin the bottle-not really though but it involves kissing. you get a credit card or bussiness card and make a circle-boy, girl, no one of the same sex can be next to eachother. then suckthe card to your lips and pass it on to the next person with your lips and blow the card to their lips. who ever drops the card has to kiss whoever is next to them. just have soda and chips and dip. slip invitations in lockers. good luck

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okay well, im well, sorta prude? i guess. i feel fine kissing, getting felt up, hangjob, you know that. but ive never been fingurd, aten out and im a virgin.i feel that i am sort of missing out? on something. and since i am attracted to older guys they will except all that from me. and i just get scared. im not very confident in myself down there and i dont know what a vagina is suppposed to look like and what if mine is gross? i dont know. i want to be in a relationship, and this stuff in the long run is goig to affect itt.

um, your totally prude! being un-kissed is prude. be glad youve never been eaten out-its the most disgusting thing in the world! so is fingering. i mean if you want something like that then just do it the old fashioned way-which is sex. anyway your not missing out on anything. just wait til marriage for sex and what not. good luck.

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My friend Sam started going out with Nate at the beginning of the school year. Nate sat at our table at lunch, and some of his friends did too. One of them is Andrew. We all got to know different people because they were going out, and Andrew and I became friends fast. Last Tuesday, I found out that Andrew liked me, but I didn't really think about it. Tonight, he asked me out. I was SOOO surprised. We only say each other for a few minutes after that, so I managed to avoid answering, but I can't avoid him forever. Please HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like him more as a friend than a boyfriend, but people keep saying to give it a chance. What should I do???

go out with him. if it doesnt work then break up. good luck

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this guy n i are really close n we both like each other, although were not together, and were ready to take the next step. *sex* is what were wanting from each other and im nervous and scared. im nervous because i dont want it to ruin our realtionship and im scared because im a virgin n hes not. what should i do?

dont have sex with him just fool around with him.making out, ect...ya know

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alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.




Signed,
Sad to be skinny

no, its perfect. be glad not sad to be perfect. i on the other hand have the slowest metabolism in the world-im only 13! it sucks. believe me. stay the way you are. if you gain weight then your metabolism will slow down. if you wanna be more healthy then eat every food group-at least 3 servings of each. hope this helps

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ok i need a costume QUCIK!!


for halloween (duh) me and my friend....


easy and like cool :)


peace

hold a hand held miror and when poeple ask you what you are hold the miror in front of your face and say that your them. haha. good luck

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ive only had two boiyfriends in my life and they have always ended bad..how do i get the right guys to notice me...
im 14 and a female

i got the same exact problem-only im 13. anyway. just be yourself and talk to one guy thats sweet nice and good enough for you. just talk to him for a long while and he'll most likley eventually start to like you. even if hes not single! it worked for me on my first and only boyfriend. im trying to make it work again. just cant find a guy. any way... keep trying and good luck!

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Ok, I like this guy and I am trying to figure out if he likes me. He isnt a giant flirt, but he is sweet. If I say I am cold he gives me his jacket. If he wants to talk he will come in to some of my classes during passing period to surprise me. Today before last period he waitied for me to come in to the class so we could talk and so I could give him his jacket back. But know it wasnt just for the sweater, because this teacher came out and was like "uhh, you need to get to class cuz you are going to be late. So he goes "Oh I can run a few extra laps" I love being around him and I like him so much! Please, does he like me or what?

*I rAtE hIgH*

get a friend to ask him and if he asks you about it just play dumb good luck!

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ok so i know you gyes hate these qustions but i cant answer it on my own. ok so i still like my x but he has a girl friend.shes really mean and dose not want us to be friends.so today she went home sick and my x DID NOT seem to care. So today he huged me and flrted with me. He also spraed his favorite colnge on me which smelled really good!! I dont know if i should ask him if he still likes me or just let narure take its corse?? I really need help on this one i want to know if he still likes me??
i rate 5s

the same EXACT thing happened to me. just asj him its fin.e i waited too long to ask my exand now hes got a girl friend. i was too late. maybe if hes flirting with you then maybe they broke u p and you didnt know. just ask its okay.

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what are common expressions that you say to the person you love or husband/wife

something like,

You are the _______ in my ________.

or

You put the _______ in ________.

Ive heard those before but I cant remember what the words are.

I need something like that to say to my boyfriend for our anniversary. THANK YOU

you are the the sunshine of my life. you put the sweet in sweetheart.

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Ok. I am a 13 year old girl and i dont know why but when i go to sleep i think about sex a lot i mean a LOTT. I feel like i am the only one that does it. I feel like a porno-freak and i dont know why i do this it kind of comes naturally. Is it normal? I dont have my period yet and can anyone tell me what masturbating means??? i know a lot about sex but i dont know what to do about this. I think that if people find out they will hate me. I dont want to finger myself or anything. I just want to be a normal kid. I dont have a boyfriend and i dont think about anyone in paticular. I just think about sex. HELP ME!Since this was very long i will reat high if you try to help!!!

its completeyly normal. do what you want! i read in a book that masturbating is completely normal too. just wait til your married for sex. hope i helped

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I didn't know where to put this, but anyways.

So, Sometimes, I get this thing on my two front teeth. Its like really fugly white like tips and they look sooooo gross and bad. I was wondering if there is anyway to avoid this or like make it go away.

PLZ N THANKS.

I'll rate/.

go to your dentist and ask them about it and tell them you want to get it off your teeth. theyll probably bleach your teeth or use special tooth paste or something. good luck with that!

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Ok.. i'm going out with a guy and he smokes ..

i'm 14 and he is 15. do you think thats bad?

i rate high for good answers.

yes smoking is always bad especially when theyre young....convince him to stop. telling him you cant kiss him til he does. good luck

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Damn I have nothing funny to read on this site anymore. Why do you guys have to ban all the funny people? Do you have to take them so seriously? Or just ignore them?

this ia a site for people who need help. not for people who need to be entertained

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