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Ok so I've been going through the year with no issues so far...except for one little annoyance. There's a girl who's in five of my classes this year, an ex-girlfriend to be exact (and oh lucky me, the one one I've ever had a bitter break up with on her end, not mine). We dated in the beginning of last year-for a month-and were friends at the beginning of this year and were over the summer as well.
I'm confused though. She'll try to provoke arguments with me for no apparent reason just out of the blue in the middle of class. I'd always just ignored it all this year pretty much and let her be a drama queen, but recently I wanted to just shut her up, so I responded to her for the first time telling her that if she really hated me so much (her big thing is that she claims to hate me and lies about things when she's in that mood and when she tells me to leave her alone-though I'd never responded to her until this point-she approaches me the next day as if nothing happened), that she'd stop telling me about it and just leave ME alone instead of obsessing over me so much and trying to get my attention. She broke down after going silent for a minute or two, though there was no venom in my voice and I said near those exact words, keeping it as brief as possible.
I don't feel guilty, but I'm wondering now if I have to do this every time she provokes me to just get her to stay quiet and cut the obsession crap. What can I do to get her to get off me and if possible be friends with her? I've already attempted everything I can think of, including just trying to figure out why she "hates" me by asking her in a serious conversation. I don't care which way it goes, but it'd be nice if we could remain friends out of convenience.
Any suggestions? And did I do the right thing?
Thanks,
-Xehanort (link)
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Get down to it. She's obviously hurt. Maybe you know why, maybe you dont. Text or call her or something. It's clear she isn't completely over you. What I would do is say,
"If I did something to hurt you, I'm sorry." Go from there. Get the facts out, even if it means reeling into the past. It'll suck, but it'll help resolve some things.
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I live with my grandparents. My friend and I have been friends since kindergarten. Well I promised her that I would go to summer school. But Then my grandpa died. My friend is like a part of the family my whole family knows her so it affected her too. Well when summer school came she asked me if I was going but I told her that I'm not going to summer school because then my grandma would be alone. She was like " But you promised!" Then she hung up. This was like a couple days ago. We just got over a fight too. Now every time I call she won't pick up and I leave messages but she still wont call. How do I get her to at least talk to me? (link)
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Let her cool down and disconnect contanct with her. Don't try to call for awhile, and she should come around.
It's sad that she's not being understanding about your decision. When she does talk to you, I would bring up the fact that things change things that we cant control.
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Sorry it's a bit long :P ...
So I've been talking to this guy just before Spring Break (Which was about a month ago), and we talked on Msn like EVERYDAY. Not one day we would not talk to eachother. But I recently started liking him a few days before Spring Break too... And now I really like him and don't know what to do ... Aboutt , 2 days before Spring Break I think, he asked me what his ringtone should be between these 2 songs. I picked one and like a minute later he goes, ohkay that ringtone it is. He asked me about my ex, and lots of things. But the thing is... I only have one class with him, and we sometimes talk there. And all of a sudden a few days AFTER Spring break, we stopped talking. Like, the conversations "die". Although I wanted to tell him I like him, and I got some of my friends advice too, but then they said that I should wait a little longer. Now I really don't know what to do so we can "bond" more and become a bit more closer. And also, I had other boyfriends, but its never been this hard to tell them I like them for some reason. The problem, is that I don't want our friendship to end with him ignoring me. And I just really don't know what to do now, what can I do so we can be a bit more closer..? All advice appreciated. :) Thanks. (link)
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If its meant to be, you didnt blow it =] He seems really nice, keep talking, ask about his past (not too personal) what he thinks on certain topics, like abortion-or something creative. If you dont have his number get it.
You;ve had other boyfriends, so you'll know what to do :D
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ok so like i have this boyfriend i've been with for awhile now. i've noticed whenever we're making out he'll lead my hands down the like his junk, and like i can feel that its really hard against my hips but i always rush my hands back up to his shoulders. i dont really know what i should do, i'm more or less clueless. like i dont wanna go in his pants but i wanna like do something that'll feel good for him. i'm afraid i might like hurt him and that would be so embarrasing or i'll do something and he wont feel anything at all...i could use some pretty detailed advice here (link)
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Im guessing your standing up when he's doing this? You're obviosuly not ready to go so much further with him. Be honest, to his face is hard, so try through a text.
Standing up doing this is new to me, i think all you can do is gently squeeze. While sitting, yo can give him a hand job when you want to go in his pants.
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my poop has been coming out in little pieces when i poop, its like not as big anymore.
and today i thought my period was coming and it wasnt but when i wiped there was poop.
whats wrong? (link)
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What have you been eating?
This should help ya
http://www.oprah.com/slideshow/oprahshow/slideshow1_ss_yourbody_digestion
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There's a show that my theatre puts on called expo.
It's all dancing, but there's also a story line. The theme for this year is "Forbidden Eden."
I'm running the show but I'm having a hard time finding music for my choreographers.
It's kind of an Adam and Eve theme. good vs. Evil. Seven deadly sins and all that.
Does anyone know some good music? It can't be mainstream and it has to go with the theme of the show... so it should be creepy-ish. Something you can dance to jazz/ballet, but at the same time outlandish.
Songs by djs would also work.
Any one with song suggestions would help greatly. (link)
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Try the cirque du soleil soundtrack. If there is singing its in a different language. Its great.
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Sorry it’s so long but I’m so confused!
So me and my ex(jack) had broken up about two weeks ago. We remained friends but I still had feelings for him but he didn’t want a relationship anymore so I said ok lets still be friends. So when ever he was down he would txt me and we would talk about it and even if it was just to talk we‘d text all day. Me and his best friend(dave) are also really close. Me and dave tell each other everything any anything and I can completely trust him. I realized i wasn’t over jack and jack said that he still had the urg to kiss me but he felt like it wasn’t the right time to go out again. I took the chance and he came over one night and things happened. My feelings got stronger but all of my friends said to stop because if he really wanted me he would ask me out again. So I tried but I couldn’t stay away.
Then one night me and dave were talking on the phone and somehow the conversation led on to me and jack. He spilt everything out about jack. Like how jack was always saying how unattractive my face is to him and that jack compared me to his ex saying I’m a 2 and shes a 10. Dave told me that Jack actually cheated on me within just a few days of us going out and that he only went out with me because he felt like it was a good deed. I knew something was up but I didn’t know it was this bad. Jack said that I made him so happy to his other friends and he said that I was soo beautiful and soo important to him but it was all just a lie? Everyday after the break up and even that night he would still give me long hugs and text for hours. I also knew that everything dave told me was true because a couple of our mutual friends said the same thing. I was soo mad because I don’t believe he had any right to do that to me. So I avoided him the day after I found out and the next day when he tried to give me a hug I pushed him away and told him not to touch me. I had a lot of people backing me up and I was happy to have the support. Then at lunch he said hi to me when the bell rang but I just rolled my eyes shook my head and walked away. I’ve always had bad relationships so I’m a bit use to this but however I don’t think he had any right. I haven’t told him why I’m mad but hes still asking for forgiveness. Should I give it to him and did i do the right thing?
Thanks!!! (link)
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I think you should wait awhile to get your mind straightened out.
You DEFINITELY did the right thing. No one deserves to be used like that.
If you choose to forgive him, that doesnt mean you have to talk to him, or become friends with him again.
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how can you tell if a place is sanitary/safe or not? if i go to a city and some bustling street the shop must be okay, right? (link)
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Trust you gut. If you feel like something is shady, get out. Trust yourself.
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http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog_name=FOREVER21&category_name=top_casual&product_id=2061106407&Page=2#
I jsut bought a shirt kinda like that where the back is kinda open and I was just wondering what to wear with that...what would look best under it? I dont really know if i should wear a tank top under it or not...help please! (link)
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Hmm. its hard to answer that without knowing what you look like. If you're going for a sexy approach, dont wear a tank top. if you want to feel more modest then wear one. (If you live in Alaska, definitely a tank top, its cold.)
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I am so frustrated because I hate my school beyond belief. The rules are ridiculous, the administration is always up your as*, & I'm having friend issues.
My mom won't allow me to switch, though, because of a bunch of reasons. I keep telling her how unhappy I am at this school, with these people, but she says I need to cope.
What should I do? (link)
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Sadly, i think she's right. you'll be unhappy where ever you go, because thats life. it sucks right now, but you'll learn how to cope. I'll pray for ya =]
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Okay - I doubt that I am pregnant but my period is all late now so I'm just... freaking out.
I had sex in february for the first time and I got my period march 6... and now its april and I have yet to get it..
does that mean anything?
Yes I have been stressed and stuff but it's really late now, but I shouldn't have any reason to worry right?? (link)
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i just talked to someone, and they said that usaully all periods are late ofter sex for the first time. Wait a bit, then see.
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