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hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)
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for lent i am giving up myspace
but i dont think i will be able to keep that "promise"
yikes .
iono
so what are u all giving up ??
i'm giving up skittles.
i don't eat candy that much, other than skittles, so yea.
i was gonna give up desserts, but that's TOO MUCH!
besides, my parents might start thinking that i'm dieting, and i really can't give up desserts.
=D
gosh.
giving up myspace would be hard for me.
so really, big kudos for you!
good luck!
tell me how that goes.
i have this friend lets call her "L" for now.All my friends and I think she is bi-sexual but i don't know what i should do.Basically on new years i invited her over to hang out and she kept touching, playing with my hair,tickling me,laying on me(so i moved and she did it again),jumping on me, and always looking other girls, and she is always checking out me and my other 2 friends saying oh my gosh! your butt is so small and stuff.So, i don't know do u think she is bisexual because she has a boyfriend so she cant be a lezbian.What should i do? Should i ask her? If I do though she will deffinetly take that offensively because she is like that.I have a boyfriend so i know i am not like her.
yea i would say she's bi. it's not really certain unless she tells yu that she's bi, but don't ask her either. i actually have a bi friend, or so she says, and she has a boyfriend too. she practically does the same things to me. what i do is to just go along with what she says. if she makes fun of you or something, the best thing to do is just laugh and go along with it. be a good sport about it especially since she's a friend of yours. if not, ignoring her criticisms the best of your ability is the second best thing to do. i can't really think of any other advice. sorry. but i hope it works out!
hey,
Alot of guys tell me that they think I am hot, and that is great. but...im affriad that once people see me like in a bathing suit or when I have sex with someone they wont think that anymore because I am kinda hairy. Like i have some on my stomach too!
My question is...this is kinda gross....but I have hair like in my butt and around the hole and stuff....does anyone else have this? Is it possible to get rid of it? cause i mean...shaving might be painful. Thank you so much!
yur not the only one. i'm going through the same thing. idk y we have hairs everywhere. i have a lot of hair in my legs but i don't shave because my mom won't let me. it's awkward being around other ppl and having hair practically everywhere, but you shouldn't shave it because the outcome wouldn't be too good. atleast that's what my mom tells me.
hey i'm the girl that asked you the question about the myspace bulletin before and i just wanted to let you know how it went. well it worked because he replied to it, but i also found out that he doesn't like me as more then a friend. but i'm actually ok with it now because from how he answered other questions i realized how much he cares about me and how he is a really good friend.
so this isn't a question, i just wanted to say THANKS =]
no problem. that's something we have in common. i guess friends really do just stay just friends most of the time. but it's those kinds of friendships that are worth more than relationships can ever be.
15/f. you answered my other question about me liking my guy friend but being too shy to ask him out and i don't want to risk our friendship. you told me that you posted a myspace bulletin and then he posted back or something like that. what bulletin did you post? lol. because i think that might work. i posted a bulletin before saying something like anyone can ask me one question and he answered the bulletin. so that proves that he does read bulletins.
thanks =]
hey! well this is it. hope it works out!
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF?
1. I MADE A MOVE ON YOU:
2. I KISSED YOU:
3. I LIVED NEXT DOOR 2 YOU:
4. I STARTED SMOKING:
5. I ASKED YOU ON A DATE:
6. I WAS HOSPITALIZED:
7. I RAN AWAY FROM HOME:
8. I GOT INTO A FIGHT AND YOU WEREN'T THERE:
9. I ASKED YOU TO LEAVE:
10. I ASKED YOU OUT:
WOULD YOU?
16. BE MY FRIEND?
17. KEEP A SECRET IF I TOLD YOU ONE?
18. HOLD MY HAND?
19. GO OUT ON A DATE WITH ME?
20. KEEP IN TOUCH?
21. TRY AND SOLVE MY PROBLEMS?
22. LOVE ME?
23. DATE ME?
HAVE YOU EVER?
26. LIED TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER?
27. WANTED TO KISS ME?
28. KEPT SOMTHING IMPORTANT FROM ME?
29. WANTED TO CUDDLE WITH ME?
AND MORE!
31. WHO ARE YOU?
32. ARE WE FRIENDS?
33. WHEN AND HOW DID WE MEET?
34. DESCRIBE ME IN ONE WORD:
35. WHAT WAS YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION?
36. WHAT REMINDS YOU OF ME?
37. IF YOU COULD GIVE ME ANYTHING WHAT WOULD IT BE?
38. HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW ME?
39. WHEN'S THE LAST TIME YOU SAW ME?
40. EVER WANTED TO TELL ME SOMTHING BUT COULDN'T?
41. ARE YOU GONNA POST THIS SO YOU CAN SEE WHAT I SAY ABOUT YOU?
WOULD YOU?
42. KISS ME?
43. MAKE OUT WITH ME?
p.s.
don't be embarassed to tell the truth !
Have you ever had a sudden urge to do something? Why do we get them?
Like a couple days ago, I had the sudden urge to kiss my best friend (im f/he's m). Another time I wanted to jump out my window. Talk about random!
Help, I keep getting them...is there something wrong with me?
nooo, there's nothing wrong with you. i have those urges too. just about a month ago, i asked my best friend out [[me f/ him m]]. everybody does it once in a while. sometimes i think of it as our body and mind getting a little "naughty" sometimes. maybe the urge is something we've been wanting to do but never did because we were afraid. but there's times when andrenaline just gets the best of us, and our actions happens before thought. it's nothing to be alarmed about, as long as it's nothing dangerous.
15/f. i like one of my guy friends and i don't know what to do. i want to tell him but i'm shy and i'm afraid that if he doesn't like me then it will be ackward between us and we couldn't be friends anymore.
also a lot of other girls like him too. like i know of 2 girls that have already told him that they liked him and he didn't feel the same way and then he doesn't talk to them anymore.
what should i do? and if you suggest that i tell him that i like him how should i do it?
thanks!
well, i've been through this just a month ago. what i did was, you know those surveys on myspace where other ppl answer it and they reply their answer to the poster? well, my crush posted one, and i answered it for him then he answered the same survey back to me. then i just asked him out. i don't know if he does that, but if he doesn't, that's a kinda good way to tell him. though face-to-face is better, if you don't wanna do that, then message is always good. or write him a note. my guy friend - who is also one of my best friends - turned me down with the reason of not wanting to jeopardize our friendship. though i felt bad about it, after going through that, it made me feel like our friendship had became stronger. i've told most of my crushes that i like them - never face-to-face. but thing is, even if it doesn't come out the way you want it to, there's always an advantage to it. whether it be a stronger friendship or a deeper friendship.
hope i helped!
feel free to message me for whatever you need.
how do i put a picture in a caption? everytime i do it theres too many letters and it wont fit.
thanks.
hey. well, first off, upload the picture you want in the caption. i suggest using tinypic.com for uploading because the URL of the picture isn't long compared to others. next, where you put the caption you want, type in this code, . put the URL of the picture in between the quotations. and that's it! if you have any more questions about myspace, feel free to message me, and i'll try to help as much as i can!
which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading
i'm a huge fan of the boy's smile and eyes. those are the two main things i like in a boy. but other physical and of course personalities and such with the smile and eyes aren't so bad, either. ;]
before answering,this question is not based on personality,so please don't answer..."if he has a nice personality"
i know this may seem like a wierd question,but i'm just curious,so thanks for taking the time.
do girls like classical or rock musicians?
and i'm confused,cause i hear girls say that they love musicians,but
1)is it based on skill.exp:the better the guitaring is.the more the girl likes the guy?
does skill affect?or do girls just don't care if he is a sucky guitarist or a pro,they will still like the guitarist as long as he plays guitar??
2)is it also based on looks,?or do girls love great drummers and vocals even through they don't look good? so which one would a girl choose? a kickass drummer with average looks or a sucky drummer with model looks?
thanks for answering,anyways,if you girls like any other type of guys besides musicians....like bikers,car racers or skaters...just feel free to say what talent you would love in a guy.although i hear that most girls are not really into guys that race,but more to guys that are musically or sports inclined,it that true???(this question is not based on looks or personality)
thanks a lot for reading.
for me, i always tend to fall for musicians, espeically guitarists and drummers. in my opinion, the boy's talent is part of the charm. the better he is in playing, the more i would want him. i would say the looks matter, just a little. i've liked boys that are average looking, but since they play guitar or drums, or both, it adds up. i would choose a kickass drummer with average looks, no doubt. a boy with model looks but is a sucky drummer kinda cancels each other out into a not-so-attractive kind of guy.
um, i like skaters and athletes, too. but not really the jock type of guy where all he thinks about is sports. for athletes, i'm more attracted to baseball and soccer players. as for skaters, i think attractive when i guy skateboards. but, the boy's look kinda matters, too.
hope i helped.
if you need anything else,
feel free to message me,
or IM me.
my AIM s/n is::
WANNA BE iiN LUV
i am 15 and for the past 3 weeks i've been straightening my hair and i've got mixed responses
to it and i just wanted to know should i keep straightening my hair?
i would say it's fine. there's no harm for a guy straightening their hair. especially when they look cuter like that. =P maybe the girls might even like it like that!
i like this boy. and i'm pretty sure that he likes me too. My friends think i should ask him out. But i've never asked out a guy before. And i dont want to ruin our friendship we have now. So should i ask him out? and how?! please help
thankss!
i've just gone through this. i like my guy best friend. we've been friends for only about 2 years, but i knew that i really did like him. and i asked him out almost a month ago. he rejected me, though. [[this was my first time asking somebody out]] but it didn't ruin our friendship. we still hang out and talk like before. in my opinion, it made our friendship stronger. if you think your friendship is strong enough, then do it. you'll never know what's gonna happen unless you try.
hope i helped!
if you need anything else, i have AIM, and my s/n is WANNA BE iiN LUV
or you can message me.
i'll be happy to help!
ok, so i've been into rock lately, and i have a lot of rock songs right now, but i was wondering if there's any really really good rock songs that ya'll like. what i'm looking for the most are the songs that aren't all that famous, but are still "good quality". i'm mostly into punk, emo, alternative, and a little of gothic. i'm open to hearing everything. i would really love it if you can give me songs and their artists, if you can.
please specify it if it's the name of the song or if it's the artist. thank you again!
Just today, i sent a sorry letter to the boy i love.
He read it, but didnt reply
then later he messaged me on aim.
[which he hasnt done in a while]
he was acting casual
so my question is, does he still hate me ?
or do you think he got over it?
i would think that he's somewhat over it and wants to get everything back to normal. i think you should let him get everything back to normal and maybe throughout that time, he'll start liking you or something. i don't really know a lot of background information between you two, so i can't really conclude what might happen. but i hope i helped.
My friend who i have been friends with since first grade is very flirty and wants to grab my ass. he like said "so i can look but can i touch..." i dont know how to respond to that. i want to be flirty back without saying yes or no. can anyone help pleaseee?
hmm. i think you should try playing hard to get. it can work either way. if you like him being flirty around you, and you're playing hard to get, he'll try more and more. yea, at times it's annoying, but it's also amusing. if you don't want him to touch your ass, then with playing hard to get, hopefully he'll realize that you don't like what he's doing and stop.
hope i helped.
there is this guy that il ike but he thinks i like stalk him but i don't we just have almost every calss beside each other how do i tell him i like him and that i don't stalk him with him getting freaked out
well, there's several ways you can do it. direct approach - YOU tell him how you feel. indirect approach - a very good friend of yours tells him how you feel. or just ignore him. it depends on what kind of boy he is. if he's the kind of boy who can understand and won't tell the whole world, just tell him directly rather than letting a friend tell him. if he's the kind of person who can be stuck-up and full of himself, then ignore him. if he is used to you being around him all the time, maybe he'll notice if your not around him and he'll take notice of where you are.
so i really like this . shes really nice to me but i dont know if she likes me or not because shes nice to everyone. but my problem is it seems like alot of times im around her ill do something really embarassing or stupid but she'll just laugh like in a nice way. my question is for s: would you like it if a guy got embarassed (like little things tripping, backing up into something, etc.) but it made you laugh? and how can i get her to like me? (shes one of those really nice caring but really funny s) thankss!
personally, i would think it's cute. in general, i think girls like it when guys are making fools of themselves [no offense], cuz that just makes it known that even though the guy might get embarassed from what they did, the guy isn't afraid to make his crush laugh. as to getting her to like you, just be yourself. every girl has a reason to liking somebody. the best reason is that she likes who you are. be good friends with her. drop hints that aren't to obvious but aren't too vague either. keep hanging out with her. in a friend kind of way, not stalky kind of way.
if you need anything else,
just message me or IM me on AIM.
my s/n is:
WANNA BE iiN LUV
Hi, i'm a girl, 15 years old. So i like my best friend(15/male). I've liked him since I was in 5th grade! (I am now in 10th) He says he kind of likes me, but he doesn't know if he wants to go out with me. We've hooked up before, but I want more than that. how can I let him know that I can't be just friends with him, that I want MORE! i cant wait for him and he needs to know that.
thank you!
-jool
*sigh* i've just gone through that like, two weeks ago. what i did was ask my best friend out. we weren't friends for that long. just about two years. but he said no. he said that at our age (i'm 14/f, btw) friendship lasts longer than relationships. and i do agree with him, but i did feel like we had a strong enough friendship to overcome whatever would've happened between us during or after the relationship. but i guess i wouldn't know anytime soon. anyways. if you think that your friendship could go through whatever might go your way, you should talk to him about it. and/or ask him out. through my experience, even though he said no, it made our friendship stronger and it proved that we could still stay the same way with each other even though i kinda messed it up. so if you think your friendship can stay stable through a relationship, go for it and ask him out. if he says yes, yay for you! if he says no, atleast you still have your friendship. either way, it'll only make your friendship stronger.
Well theres this one girl in one of my classess i like her and she some how found out that i like her and i don't know if she likes me back or if i can get her to like me.
Please Help. I am 13 and i'm a male.
flirt with her. during that time, you'll be able to figure out if she likes you or not. it's not gonna be straight-forward, but if yu look at how she acts around you, you'll be able to figure it out. if she acts flirty and stuff around you, then try asking her out. there's no harm in trying. if she says no, well, atleast you tried, and maybe you might end up being good friends or someday have a relationship.
feel free to IM me on AIM.
my s/n is:
WANNA BE iiN LUV
ok so im 14 and i never had a boyfriend before. i feel really stupid because like all these s younger then me all have had boyfriends or still have them and ugly s (not meaning to be mean) have them too. i know you shouldnt rush anything and wait for the right guy, but im so tired of waiting. some guys were showing hints they like me but they never asked me out or anything. how can i get guys without like having to ask them out myself?
p.s. alot of people say im pretty and i'm fun to be around (again not trying to brag because im nowhere near conceited)
the other advisor is right. flirting is a great way to show guys you're available and is looking. sometimes guys are shy to ask girls out, but if they get comfortable around you, then maybe they'll ask you out. i know how you feel. i'm going through the same thing right now. i like a guy but i'm not sure if he likes me back, so i flirt with him and see what's gonna happen. it's a good way to get to know somebody better, so if yu like somebody, i say go flirt with him and maybe he'll see what you're trying to do and ask you out. if not, well, there's other fishes in the sea. you just have to wait til you catch the best one. =)
you can message me or IM me if you want.
my AIM s/n is:
WANNA BE iiN LUV