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Hey.
The name is Katie. I'm From Florida and I give good advice to everybody.
Even on a daily basis when I'm not noticing that I am.
it's very easy to give advice.....just think of something to solve a problem and there you go.
I'm in 8th grade...and my favorite coor is blue.
i'm a complete athlete.
i run,track,jog,jump,anything you can imagine i do.i love diet sodas...theyre "supposibly" NOT good for you,but those are some horrible myths.
Gender: Female
Location: Kissimmee,Florida
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Member Since: October 25, 2007
Answers: 37
Last Update: December 11, 2007
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well i am happy with him but we never talk and my other guy friend talks to me alot more.Do u really think i should break up with him????: (link)
If your happy with him then you need to stay with him. So what if you guys have problems...don't all relationships?
If you guys never talk,then you need to talk more. write him or something and ask him why he never keeps intouch with you.
Your GUY friend?
Don't go for him....trust me,things won't ever work out that way. guy friends are to stay guy friends.


so im 15. and theres this girl.... i really like her too... however she says that i have to move on. over the summer we would talk till like 4 in the morning about random stuff... anything really. we both have feelings for eachother. we both know this to. now she says that we cant be togther. i dont know wat i did... but i need a big way to make up to her... halloween is nxt week... do i do somthing then?? (link)
Are you going to be seeing her halloween?
And yes, you should do something. if this girl is going to tell you that you guys can't be together, then you deserve an answer.
If she likes you,then why is she now rejecting you?
Ask her everything on your mind.
Try your hardest to get her to notice you guys need to be together.
Goodluck.


So I want to pierce my belly button but I have this scar that I've had since birth that runs from the top of my belly button vertically several inches. The guy at the piercing place said that it %99 most likely wouldn't work because my body would reject it, the scar would open up and reject the belly button.

So my questions are:
a) is that really likely to happen?
b) can you pierce the bottom of your belly buttom? If so I'll do that instead.

Help asap! (link)
A: Yes, that could happen. Happens rarely...but if the guy at the piercing place says it will,then it will.
B: Yes, you can. it's not going to make the piercing look any different. people won't even notice where it's supposed to be....So yes, you should do that instead


hi im 15/f and im 5'6ishhh and i weigh like 115. anyways i really wanna lose weight and my parents say i should too and i really need to lose it bc gymnastics season is coming up. but i just cant stick to a diet! i get soo hungry! any tips? or specific diets i dont have to buy?
thanks!

also specific workouts for legs or butt
(please dont say running i already know that) (link)
Your 15?
wow. Ok,first, your not fat and you DON'T need to lose weight. Even if "gymnastics season" is coming.
You don't have to be skin and bones.
BUT if you say that you need some tips,then you should do sit ups and crunches. The sit ups will help the stomach and the crunches will help your butt.
hope that's all you need


ok..so... theres this boy at my school and i really like him...but theres a problem...were really good friends and its cool like this and all but i want more....last year i liked him to and he thought i only liked him cause he gave me attention..so i was mad at him for a long time and were now really good freinds again and the other day he found out i liked him again some how i have no idea how he found out!! and so im afraid hes going to think something like that again. im so confused i really like him but i dont know what to do can you please help me? (link)
People change in a year.What makes you think he would have the same idea again????
And if so,then you should tell him that what he thinks,isnt the truth.


is it true if you pop your back you'll stop growing?? (link)
Definitely not.


Okay i'm going out with this guy. i have been for six months. i really like him. we had plans to go to a mutual friends birthday party on saturday. on thursday he decided he wanted to go see his friend instead. i happen to hate this friend of his to the point where his very name makes me furious. regardless of that fact, and the fact that i want him to come with me to the party i told him to go to that friends instead. i tried to make it seem like that's what i really wanted him to do, but he could tell i was angry. how mad do i really have a right to be. i want to yell at him, but at the same time i told him to go. i really don't know what to do. (link)
First off, you can't tell someone they can't hang out with their friends. it makes you look like not a good person. Second, you have to tell him what you think of his friend. He may not like what he hears but he's got to know the truth.


i'm 15/f...there's this guy in my 2nd period and he's ALWAYS flirting with mee..like he won't stop...but then agian he flirts with every girl...but he flirts with me the most..he grabs my sides...or tickle me..and talks to me alott...he has'nt asked me if i'm single of not yet...i can't tell if he likes me or if i'm a girl he likes to flirts with.. (link)
You should by now know that guys flirt with EVERYBODY. But if you believe he flirts with you the most then maybe you should ask him if he sees anything in you....it's the only way you'll see if he flirts with others the same.


I dont really like my boyfriend anymore.I kind of like this other guy.We have only been going out for about a month. What should i do???

Plz help (link)
Well, if you don't like your boyfriend and your not happy with him then you should break up with him, and get to know the other guy personally.


Theres this guy...we'll call him bobby...and hes new to my school(a couple of months) and he's admitted to me that he liked me but the other day i found out that i wasn't the only girl that he said that to (actually about 7 other girls). I really like him though. Should i still date him or just try to forget about it all? (link)
uhm this is kinda hard.
well,to me,it sounds like them girls must be very jealous to say that stuff....plus,he's new to the school right?Well,then you need to talk to him.
just get into his life....and his style.
find out what has happened.
Good Luck


I like this guy(his name is Brendan) and he likes me back but we never talk to eachother though. I know that he definitley likes me because last year his friend told me he likes me and this year we are in the same social studies class and I always see him looking at me and one day in the hall he smiled at me. We are both really shy and scared to talk to eachother cause we both know we like each other (thats what I think) We known eachother since we were 8 yrs old ( now i am 13) and i liked him since i met him. The question is how do I talk to him and what can we talk about? (link)
Perfect question.
yep,this is what happens....all the time.
so, you for sure he likes you, or is he just a big 'ol flirt???
Your friend told you last year?
well, what if his feelings are just now friend wise?
ok, Here's a solution you could use.
pass him a note in class and ask him if he has "serious" feelings for you.
yea,that sounds embarassing..but trust me....it all the time works.


I want a purpose in life. I don't think I have one. I'm lonely all the time. My friends don't come and see me anymore. I go to school once a week and do a packet to earn credits.. while they have school. I guess Juniors have more work to do.. but just one day to hang out would be nice. I feel lonely and a last resort. All i do is spend my days with my boyfriend. It's nice BELIEVE ME. but i haven't seen my friends in like 6-7 months..

and no one will hire 16 year olds.. so what am i supposed to do? i'm home all week except for one day.. (link)
You seem very bored back at home.
But there's a solution to every problem,yours is just not one you get any day.
You have a boyfriend??? that's exactly why.I'm not saying you two aren't to be together but boyfriends most of the time get in the way of alot of friendships.
It's nothing to go and get mad about.
it's fine.
Here's what you need to do.
Call your friends and make a day to go the beach,movies,or have a "sleepover".
That must sound boring but it will help you with your problem.
Make sure they're all available that day...and do it!
About the hiring thing, all I cant say for you is go online, look for hiring applications.
Wish you the best


I think it's kind of funny how things happen sometimes. my friend, Julia, has a guy friend whom shes known forever. His name is Gerard. He is seriously cute, says Julia, but she doesnt want to date him, cuz she doesnt like him that way. she was trying to set us up, by asking me to go to haunted houses with her and him and being over on a day he was. well it turns out he lives far away, on the other side of the country. i havent even met him, and by Julia talking about him whenever im a round her, he sounds perfect. i know nobodys perfect. its just that he seems perfect for me. he likes a lot of the things i like. he doesnt really care what people think about him. hes really funny. and likes to make people smile (really sweet). so i was smitten from the first day that Julia started talking about him. I wanted so badly to see him and hopefully fall in love with me. I bought all sorts of beauty products, and a cute costume for the halloween party, where i was going to see him for the first time. the only problem with this is... my friends. none of them have boyfriends, and theyre all totally crushing on his description. i ask them all if theyre going to dance with him at the party, and they all say "Eh, maybe a little" very nonchalantly, but i see it in their eyes that they want him much more than that. My real competition is a girl named Heather. She is so pretty and i don't know... she just seems to get all the guys that I want. she just knows i want him and takes him immediately. she is the first girl in our class to have a real boyfriend, and she just happened to break up with him the week before the party, which was the only time we will get to see Gerard. i asked her if she was going to flirt with him, and she blushed and said, "i dunno!!!" is there any possible way that i can win him over during the party??? I cant let her steal another guy from me!!!
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Well, This girl doesn't seem to fair.
Well,what I would do...is get him to notice me.
Talk to him,flirt with him,flaunt what you got (but not too much), And make sure they have no eye contact.
If she gets all the guys,then this surely will be a competition.


Okay so ill give u sum background.. me and this guy we'll say his name is tyler dated for 5 months. I fell so in love with him at the beginning of the relationship then he was different later on in the relationship and all we ever did was fight and argue and he was insecure so he was really protective and would freak out if another guy talked or texted me. So then we finally broke up. We broke up almost a week ago. Well, we still talk and he wants to be with me but thinks he messed up too bad. most of the time when we talk he acts like im still his girlfriend or like im his property and goes around threating people. He irritates me soo much but I cant seem to get over him and when he mentions his chick friends it drives me crazy and makes me sort of jealous. When other guys ask me out and things i feel like im cheating. How do I get over him? So i can move on with my life?? (link)
Think About this Question for a second, do you WANNA get over him??
Or do you just not feel right with him and you wanna go into other people???
Start a new and fresh life with some one else?
If you want that then you have to start talking to other guys...just as friends to begin things.
Then, you find one your really into and you'll eventually think of tyler just as a FRIEND.


13/F

I like three guys: Luke, Alex and Corwin. Well, Luke is a class clown whos smart, but so funny. He's kinda like a brother to me, but I have this funny feeling and voice saying, "He's cute and funny! Perfect!"
THEN, there's Alex. He's just like me. Annoying, hyper, pervert minded. He's really cute... AND IRISH! I love Irish guys. And today, I lost my picture of a half naked anime picture and i told him. He laughed and said, hey, don't feel bad. I lost my naked anime girl piccys. I laughed at that. Then, one day he said, "Ya know where my dick is to go? Up there!" He laughed and so did I.
Corwin is smart, cute, funny and cool. He gets teased a lot, but I kinda tell people off about it. he's even into Karate type stuff.
Well, my problem is... WHICH ONE CAN I ASK OUT AND HOW?!?!?! I'm not good with guys. My last boyfriends either, beat me, lied, or smoked. Or all of them... ANYWAY, I can't think of one to ask out and how. Can somebody help me? Here's info about me:

Mexican, black hair, brown eyes. Likes to be pervert minded, writing, hyperness and kinda stupid in math and science.

Alex: red hair, blue eyes, hyper, pervert minded, funny, and cool.

Luke: Funny, smart, cool. Sandy blonde hair and blue green eyes.

Corwin: Blonde, I don't remember his eye color (haha) smart, funny, cute.

I NEED HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!
p.s I've played footsy with Alex before if that says something, hee hee! (link)
Okkkkkay.
Now.
so,you can't decide what guy to chose right?
Well,first off. Not alex.
footsy??? sorry but that's like for kindergraders and i'm for sure that's not your grade. another reason is that the pervertness isn't something you'd wanna get wrapped up in.
Trust me, Experiences are always best for advice.
Second, Not Luke. you say he's like a brother to you?
Sorry, but too close of friends to start a relationships.
So this leaves corwin.
Cute name, good description adn he seems like a sweety.
Go for him.
A way you can talk to him about this is try and get into his past relationships, how they started,and how they ended. (so you know what to not do).
ok?
Goodluck


I have a problem. I really like guys, but I'm too quiet and don't know how to flirt. Even my religion teacher noticed I'm more quiet than usual. My problem is I'm too self contious of embarrasing myself in front of the guy. Not knowing anything about flirting doesn't help. Like, how do I catch his eye? And how do I keep his focus? A helpful hint is that I go to a school where we have to wear uniforms. Hair accessories are however allowed. Thanks!!!! (link)
This is a big problem for us most girls these days.
But,Don't panic.
We've all been through situations like these,
and were just as non-experienced and clueless as you are in the beginning.
What you first need is to start talking to him.
In the halls of school, or in the lunchroom just say "hey" or "what's up" just a small talk to get a conversation between you two started.
Later, Ask him if he sees anything in you.
you have to build courage to do it.
Don't be afraid...that's the worst thing you'd wanna be when it comes to "boys".
Hope I Helped.
Have Any questions, Talk.


ok i just got off the phone with my boyfriend. and he told me he loved me. for the first time. and i said i love you too byee. but i don't think he heard me say i love you. :[ cuz he hung up without saying anything.
what should i do??
help!! plz.
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This is a very tricky situation.
This has happened to me too.
Don't worry.
Ask him if he heard you say anything after he said by.
It works for most of problems.
if not,come back to me.
lovefalls8 is my thing.
email me anytime...you need help.




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