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Question Posted Thursday October 25 2007, 1:55 am

I want a purpose in life. I don't think I have one. I'm lonely all the time. My friends don't come and see me anymore. I go to school once a week and do a packet to earn credits.. while they have school. I guess Juniors have more work to do.. but just one day to hang out would be nice. I feel lonely and a last resort. All i do is spend my days with my boyfriend. It's nice BELIEVE ME. but i haven't seen my friends in like 6-7 months..

and no one will hire 16 year olds.. so what am i supposed to do? i'm home all week except for one day..


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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Thursday October 25 2007, 11:06 pm:
Since a lot of places won't hire 16 year olds, you can try doing some volunteer work somewhere.

Before I had my first job I was a Candy Striper at a local hospital. I worked in the Adminstration Department and that helped me gain experience a bit.

Theres many different places that you can volunteer at. Church, helping with kids, schools, hospitals, animal shelters, etc.

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CaileyyxGore answered Thursday October 25 2007, 10:03 pm:
first of all, i think you should def. make an attempt to talk to your friends again. Maybe start talking to them in person, or if your not comfortable enough yet, online or on the phone, and maybe have them sleep over, or go out to a movie or something. If you plan on doing something, dont bring your boyfran. He'll understand that you want a girls night. I also think that you should get involved in something such as a sport, painting, an instrument, anything that would keep you occupied and enjoy to do..

i really hope i helped =]

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Minimelaney95 answered Thursday October 25 2007, 9:22 pm:
Your purpose in life you don't realize unless you try different things. Try going to the YMCA or join some clubs a book club or a fan club or join a chat room on the internet about things you like. Go to clubs or dances see if you can find friends there. Oh and about your friends, call them. See if they are free for lunch or if they wanna go to a movie. If you have a myspace browse people that live just miles from you. If you don't have one if possible, make one.

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lovefalls8 answered Thursday October 25 2007, 9:20 pm:
You seem very bored back at home.
But there's a solution to every problem,yours is just not one you get any day.
You have a boyfriend??? that's exactly why.I'm not saying you two aren't to be together but boyfriends most of the time get in the way of alot of friendships.
It's nothing to go and get mad about.
it's fine.
Here's what you need to do.
Call your friends and make a day to go the beach,movies,or have a "sleepover".
That must sound boring but it will help you with your problem.
Make sure they're all available that day...and do it!
About the hiring thing, all I cant say for you is go online, look for hiring applications.
Wish you the best

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