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My name is Danielle and i am 14, i really like this guy. well i cant get him off my mind like ever. i cant even imagine what to do to get him off my mind. he broke up with me and i still dont know why. everytime we talk we get in a fight about one of my ex bf's that was killed. he doesn't believe it. but everytime we talk i end up almost in tears. i think if i cry over him one more time i will just roll over and die ! i dont know what to do anymore. but he told me he still liked me and the next day he hooks up with one of my friends who he used to like a lot but she broke up with him a that night. but i don't think that he likes me at all. i woke up one night when the phone rang and it was him. and he was askin me a/b my ex and i told him he was killed. then he just broke up with me like 30 minutes later and i dont know why. i got kinda pissed off at him. but its been WEEKS and i still cry over him when we talk or even when i hear i slow song on the radio !! im just so lost and i dont know what to do anymore. and i understand if you can't help me out with this cause it might just be something that can't be fixed. but i cant stand to cry over him anymore. so if you can please help me !

any guy that makes you cry obviously isnt worth your tears. i know its gonna be hard but you need to try to get over him. you cant possibly be eternally happy with someone who makes you feel bad or doesnt trust you. like that saying "the guy that makes you cry isnt worth your tears and the guy that is worth your tears will never make you cry" hope i helped?

vanna :)

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im borrred and im looking for some good songs!
i like pretty much everything cept metal. hah so share with me some of your favorite songs!
thanks!
♥BLAiR

try dirty little secret by all american rejects . its not a metal song but its rock. i love that song.

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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.

HELP

look rape is someting very serious. you have to tell your boyfriend whether he beats the crap out the dude or not. or maybe you should tell another friend who you trust. YOU CANT JUST LET THIS GO. rape is something serious and this dude cant just go aroun draping people and threating them. rape is something that people go to jail for. you need to say something.if you need anything or have another question inbox me or hit me up at vanna763 on aim :)

vanna :)

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Ok well im asking this question for a friend of mine because he doesn't know what to do and he asked me and idk. So anyways my friend really likes this girl and he's had a crush on her for almost a year and now she is single. But whenever he asks her who she likes she always tells him "noone" or "nobody" but he doesn't know if she is serious or just doesn't want to tell him. And he thinks she knows he likes her but she is always giving him mixed signals. so how can he find out if she likes him or if they r just friends?

ok ima say this like you are your friend . just tell her that you like her, and just ask if she likes you back. if shes giving you mixed signals then theres reallly no way to kno then to just ask. ask her and if she says yes then congrats. if she doesnt then just work on being good friends :) hope i helped?

vanna :)

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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much

look. dont change yourself to get a guy. tat never works. when that guy you liek coes around he'll like you because of you. but if you really wanna become more flirtaious and stuff just put yourself out there a little more. make friends with these guys before you except them to wanna go out with you. hope i helped?

vanna :)

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okay i have this boyfriend & we have been going out for a long time. People have been trying to break us up but untill now it has never worked. My friend told me that my boyfriend wanted to break up with me, some people agree with her, few people agree with me. i LOVE my boyfriend & i never wanted anything to come between us. Now I dont know what to do.

Please help me. :(

talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he has to say. the trick is to make sure hes telling the truth. make sure hes not bluffing and sayin he doesnt wen he does. never believe the gossip. trust me. if you do things get very mixed up. just make sure you talk things over with him.

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I seriously need some help.. last night my little sister (10) must have gotten a hold of some scissors because my hair is completely chopped... the night before last I colored her hair green (shes a bleach blonde) and I guess she did that to get me back.... WHAT DO I DO?!?!! my hair is so short and uneven... it was down by my lower back...any help would be appriciated!

go the haircutting place and get them to straightin it out. and if you dont want it to happen again stopp dying your sisters hair green

vanna :)

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why should you go out iwth a guy?

you should go out with a guy because hes nice, funny, makes you fell good about yourslef, if you share common interests, not just because hes hot. hope i helped :)

vanna :)

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My boyfriend and I love eachother to death. We were best friends for four years before we decided to go out. We have been going out for five months. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive- desirable. I asked him, and he says he does. But he never calls me names like sweetheart anymore, and he lacks initiative. I don't know what to do.

call him names and see if he catches the hit if he doesnt just ask him be like baby what ever happened to you calling me sweet names

hope i helped?

vanna :)

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