Well my name is leesle and I am here to help anybody who needs the help.
I want to study to be a rape crisis counselor.
i am very interested in hearing your stories and will give the best advice i think is possible.
please rate me if you ask me a question and i respond.
dont be shy and ask away.
my advice is only a click away. =]
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What are guys "attracted" to? Like their hormones. And is there anything that I can to do stimulate his hormones? Or trigger butterflies? (Do guys even get butterflies?) (link)
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it all depends on the guy.
certain areas stimulate certain guys
some guys like it when you touch them on their area
others love when you kiss their neck and hickie them up
others though get excited b doing things to you
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i want something a little bit sexy but creative
im 16/f
would not mind showing off my abs or legs
but i dont want to be a run of the mill slut
creative ideas anyone? (link)
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i went to the costume store last week and there was many cute costumes
i was a big fan of teh eskemo costume.
its cute and not slutty.
there are different types and colors.
also you can be a devil/angel
i think that would be really cute
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Is it true that boys with red hair have red pubes?
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most likely they do.
i mean people who are redheads have told me they do
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16/f
ive never given one before but i think im going to give my boyfriend one because i wanna make him REALLY happy and enjoy it.
can some girls give me tips on how to?
and can some guys tell me what they like and stuff?
k thaaanks :] (link)
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i used to give them to a guy and he used to love it when i would give him one with lotion. hahah
i dont know why but he did.
hope i helped. =]
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16/f
i have really big breasts, so guys like them.
but what no one knows is i have a mole righttt under my nipple. its not like a gross one its just flat and brown not hairy and like poppy-outy
but i was wondering if i decided i wanted to have sex do you think guys would think its gorss?!!? (link)
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NNOOOOO
trust me they wont.
come on big boobs
think about it
they would be wwwaaayyyy to excited at the fact they are actually near your breasts. hahaa
so dont worry about it. its completely normal.
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so i have this boyfriend but everybody knoes him ngirls just come to him and flirt and he does it beck what do i do? I want to get pay back bt don't know how to he mess up evrytime and i don't like this girl that got him introuble and he gave her a hug when i was not in front of him and i told him to stay away what do i do (link)
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payback on your boyfriend??
can you say bad idea?
i mean come on .
your suppose to work things out with your boyfriend
you cant expect him to hate everybody you hate.
you cannot get jealous over dumb things like a hug. because at the end of the day the fact is he hugged her.
so he hugged her so what?
your the one who gets to call him your boyfriend
and your the one who gets to kiss him
so get over the jealousy problems and talk it out.
because if you take it to far you might ruin your relationship.
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So does anybody have any suggestions for teeth whitners, like the pros and cons of the prodeuct. thanks it would be really helpful! (link)
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pro's
you get whiter teeth
con's
it can actually damage your teeth after a while
you can get any of the following:
burned gums
irritated gums
painful gums
swollen gums
burned lips
irritated lips
painful lips
swollen lips
burned upper lip
irritated upper lip
painful upper lip
swollen upper lip
burned lower lip
irritated lower lip
painful lower lip
swollen lower lip
painful teeth
sensitive teeth
teeth stingers
it just all depends on the brand and how sensitive your teeth are.
just make sure you know you are using a good brand. because some claim to whiten your teeth :2 shades whiter" by the time your done with the first dose of the product but some tend to lie.
so wish you the best of luck and do your research. =]
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I hav eonly had sex once and it was 2 years ago...well me and my boyfriend plan on having sex now and I am scared its gonna be like the first time any suggestions? (link)
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dont be afraid.
you've done it before
once you get into it there will be no holding you back. so you have nothing to worry about. just let go and enjoy it.
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Ok, I had a school dance on Friday night. Now, in all the school dances i've been too, I always end up with a boyfriend by the end of the night. I know it's not exactly a good thing that that happens, but it happened again on Friday. The thing is, I've known who this guy was for a long time, but I'd never really begun talking to him until Friday. He's pretty cool, but my ex, who is now dating my best friend, is the one who hooked us up. We were just kind of hanging out when my ex came up with this big plan to hook us up because he thought we liked each other. Now, my ex really likes to play match maker, but he only gets people together because he keeps bugging them about it and eventually it gets so annoying they give in. Well, my ex SAYS this guy actually liked me and wanted to go out with me, but i'm not sure who's idea it was. So basically, I don't know if this guy actually likes me, or if my ex just annoyed him into liking me. Help? (link)
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i seriously think you should ask your new boy friend. if he seems to hold back and not say anything then it was your Ex
dont let anything hold you back though.
because the longer it takes for you to ask him the harder it will get.
hope i helped and wish you the best of luck.
litt0lkv
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Basically i've been friends with this boy Thomas for 18 months, and during those 18 months we've spoke every single day, we used to be on the phone for hours at a time. 6 days ago we had an argument he involves his self in my family life and basically we had an argument about that, we haven't spoken since and i've been feeling constantly lightheaded and have this numb feeling all over my body, i feel so empty.. i guess i kind of feel dead. Does anyone know if this is normal? I haven't taken alcohol or drugs, so it doesn't make sense. One of my friends suggested that i might have been in love with him and that its just normal.. are they right? Cherry x (link)
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well...
there might be plenty of psychological reasons why you might be feeling "empty" inside.
its completely normal
i mean you talked to the guy everyday
what do you expect to feel
its kind of like the saying
"you never know what you have until its gone"
well i think that saying describes you at this moment
i mean you knew you had a good friend but i guess you never knew how much he actually meant to you
you feel lonely and sad because he was a major part of your life.
dont worry it will get better.
and if you and him make up that is even better.
hope i helped . and wish you the best of luck. =]
litt0lkv
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I know this make no sense, but I was wondering, why is it that people who have lost so much in life whether it be a parent or somthing can love so deeply and live, but the people who have suffered so little cannot?? If this makes no sense I'm sorry, then just ignore my question. My friends dad committed suicide and I just can't understand how anyone can commit suicide and leave the family behind and not know the damage it has caused. It really gets me when people on this site are asking how to kill themselves, b/c don't you know that suicide temporarily solves the problem by permanently destroying lives?? Gosh, I just don't get it. I want to know what would posess someone to commit suicide, problems are so temporary thats why life is called a roller coaster b/c it has up and downs. I mean how else would we aprreciate the good days if we didn't have bad ones to go with it...
Can someone explain to me, why I can cry my eyes out over someone I don't know committing suicde yet some ppl do it without a second thought???
I just want to say something to him, but I don't know what to say...saying I'm sorry about your dad just seems so limited, I feel there is so much I could do, but where do you even start???
Thank you for reading this. :/ (link)
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i know exactly what you are talking about.
sometimes i just sit there and think about it too.
but there are many reasons why people commit suicides.
usually its and internal conflict that they can never resolve. maybe mentally they are just way too weak and they cant do anything to make the pain go away.
many people feel like their dying anyways and they know their pain affects other peoples lives too.
so when they take their lives away(commit suicide)they feel like they are takin away stress from themselves and everybody around them.
nobody really knows why people kill themselves when life is suppose to be hard.
but all you can do is live YOUR life to the fullest and try not to make the same mistake
this might hurt you because you might feel like you have it so good while your friend's dad just committed suicide.
or maybe it is just the fact that you have a heart and it hurts you.
=]
but dont worry life is worth living so just make sure you dont give up.
hope i helped and if you need more help with anything dont be afraid to talk to me. =]
litt0lkv
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15/f
ok well me and my ex have been broken up for about two weeks and we only went out for about 6 weeks. and i get so jealous when i see him with other girls. i want to get over him but i don't know how. my aunt told me that part of the reason i can't get over him is because i'm not satisfied with the reason he broke up with me. and that reason was because his "concussion messed up his feelings for me". no, i'm not satisfied with that reason but but i don't think that's what's consuming me.
i thought i was falling for him too :/ but we only went out for a short amount of time. in a way i kinda think i need to just hear him say that we don't have another chance together to knock some sense into me but i know he's too nice to say that to my face.
i do miss him but i know he probably doesn't care about me anymore. it's so hard to talk to him in person. so i messaged him on myspace askingif he could do me a favor and call me. i need to get some things out. he hasn't read the msg yet and now i don't even know if that was a good idea.
i'd love to hear other peoples opinion on this and if the message was a good idea. thank you :] (link)
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hey,
well i can see why his reason to break up didnt satisfy you. i mean because of his concussion?
can you say lying?
i think you should discuss it with him and if he still feels something for you maybe ya'll can work it out.
but...
if he doesn't and he does tell you that well... he doesn't want to get back together then you should just move on. i mean your still pretty young i dont think you need to stick around for any boy.
and about the message thing. it was a good idea. well in my opinion. but the message can help you figure out some things too. if he doesn't ever call you or he does read the message and never replies it might mean he doesn't want to get back together. =/
well i hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck with everything
litt0lkv
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Does anyone know a site that is like advicenators?
Please let me know
Thank you (link)
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well if your a teen you can go to
teenadvice.com
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im 13/f
i just started high school this year and my old friends went to different schools, so i've alot of new friends.
the thing is last year this girl was 'supposed' to be my best friend but all she did was bitch about me behind my back and she kept ditching me,but i sicked up to her, and i only realised how mean she was this year.
So it was good that she went to another school with my other friends, except that she keeps calling me, pretending we're still friends--whcih we're not.
idk if i should keep ringing her cos otherwise i might look like the bitch
not her
Help! (link)
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who cares if you seem like a total bitch?!!
what goes around comes around . and she had it coming. so just stop answering her calls and well i bet she'll stop calling. its called karma. and she had it coming.
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Okay so i was wondering,
is it possible to buy a phone
(specifacly a BlackBerry Pearl,)
with out contract,just the fone.
&
Then activate it with Metro PCS.?
Ive heard you can do this but im not sure.
PLEASE answer because im dying with out a phone right now.
thank you! (link)
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well i heard that you can now. but i think it depends on what company the phone is from. i know you can do it with a verizon phone. but i dont know about cingular,t-mobile- or boost mobile.
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so me and my boyfriend are going to have sex i know it. but i'm afraid it will be awkward because we have the cute loving kissy type of relationship. i usually never have boyfriends and i'm pretty sexual so this is different for me. i like him a lot...
so my question is how can i make it not awkward during sex? (link)
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im pretty sure it wont be ackward at all.
once you get started you dont stop. you dont stop and think about where to put your hands or how to keep going. you just do it. so just laydown and relax. everything will be fine. but use protection if you are not planning on getting pregnant. :) .
hope i helped.
=]litt0lkv
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my discharge is kinda brownish with red dots in it. but all week iv had normal clear discharge. is this normal? also im 13/f. iv had a period since i was 11. and its a crazy thing. it very irregular. so this brownish stuff is normal right?
and if not, should i be worryed? (link)
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well first off you started your period really early and it takes up to three years for your period to settle. so dont even worry about the fact that its irregular.
and the brownish reddish discharge is normal. your probably just going to start your period in the next week or two. and if you dont you might have a yeast effection which is normal too. if you feel that uncomfortable ask your mother and inform a doctor.
i think you have nothing to worry about.
hope i helped.
litt0lkv:)
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okay i met this guy he looks quiet,shy and cute he's one of my class i didn't notice him before and now i do, and i started saying hi to him, but the thing is he seems really shy and he never said hi to me first like i have to do it first one time i was looking at him and he was looking back but he didn't say hi he just looked back and i was the one who waved at him and said hi, and then if i dint talk to him, he wont talk to me, but he looks at me sometimes and i said hi to him again the next day and he was laughing/smiling but he never ever talks to me at first. I saw him today after school and he saw me but he didn't talk to me or said hi to me is he just shy or just uninterested? what should i do? (link)
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Well maybe he is interested but he is just too shy to tell you or to come up to you first.
I think if you get to know him better then he will eventually talk to you first. maybe he just needs to get used to being around you. so dont get disappointed if he doesnt talk to you first for a while. i think you need to show him that your interested.and maybe little by little he will get comfortable being around you. and then the magic will happen. =]
hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck in everything.
-litt0lkv
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I am 16 female!
I have liked this guy for ages and recently at a few partys i have got with him and stuff, and hes been telling people like a couple of weeks ago he would "do" me haha! But im not sure if he is just messing about he has a very bubbly personalty! I like him so much and i dont no what to do apparently he dosnt want a relationship, i always find myself looking at him in lessons and stuff and he dosnt acted bothered about any of this although he use to talk to me alot more and dosnt anymore i dont no whether to just try and move on becasue he dosnt want a realtionship or to just like try and make him jelous so he notices me more or something??? (link)
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well it all depends on what you want...
If you want a relationship with actual feelings involved then you should definitely move on.if you actually want a boyfriend and girlfriend long term relationship i dont think he is the guy for you.
If you want a fling or just a friend with "benefits" then maybe he is the guy for you.
From what you said he seems like he just wants sex. He seems like he is that type of boy who just wants to have a fling. you know what im saying. the type of boy who is all outgoing and has that thing going for him. but hes a player.
so if you want a fling go for it. a relationship move on.
if you decide to stay with him and have a sex based relationship just make sure to use protection and take care of yourself. because at the end it is really YOU who matters.
hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck with everything.
-litt0lkv
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16/f- there's a guy in my grade who i've never talked to until this summer at our friends' parties. so when we got back to school, we began talking a lot more, and i started to see that he was pretty sweet. since it's only been a month, i can't say i know him TOO well, but i guess we're somewhat close friends now, and i've started liking him as more than that. according to my friends, he likes me too, but it's not like he came right out and admitted it, so we're not totally sure. the only reason i'm so hesitant about liking him and believing that he likes me too is that last year he used to like one of my friends. she's the kind of girl that any guy can easily fall for, because she's so attractive and bubbly. meanwhile, i'm average-looking and more of a listener than a talker, so i find it weird how his taste in girls has shifted. lately, he hasn't exactly been subtle about his feelings for me, but he still won't admit it, so i don't know what he's thinking. i'm less open about my feelings for him, so maybe he's afraid of rejection/humiliation? i'm not sure what to do: continue being subtle or try to show him how i feel? my friends and i are probably 80% sure about his feelings for me, but what if we're wrong? i don't want to tell him only to regret it. (link)
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ok.
i see you have two issues going on
1st that he used to like your friend
2nd you dont know if he really likes you
well let's break it down shall we.
i think he obviously likes you if he acts like it.
i dont think you should let his past bother you. i mean unless he was like in LOVE or really OBSESSED with your friend then i dont see a problem with you going out with him. but if it really bugs you i think you should discuss it with him. it might be a little ackward but its better to find out the hard way then to always ask yourself if he still likes her.
also...
dont let your self-esteem go down.
yes, maybe your friend is that one girl every single girl wants to be, and yes she is bubbly and outgoing.
but sometimes that's not the type of girl guys want as a girlfriend. so maybe your girlfriend material to him.
so think about it.
nobody is perfect so just give yourself a chance and give him a chance.
take a risk and dont look back.
maybe it will turn into the best relationship in your life.
but dont do nothing because somebody tells you to. do what you think is best and follow your heart.
hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck in everything. anymore questions just ask me.
-litt0lkv
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