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guy friend who likes me
16/f- there's a guy in my grade who i've never talked to until this summer at our friends' parties. so when we got back to school, we began talking a lot more, and i started to see that he was pretty sweet. since it's only been a month, i can't say i know him TOO well, but i guess we're somewhat close friends now, and i've started liking him as more than that. according to my friends, he likes me too, but it's not like he came right out and admitted it, so we're not totally sure. the only reason i'm so hesitant about liking him and believing that he likes me too is that last year he used to like one of my friends. she's the kind of girl that any guy can easily fall for, because she's so attractive and bubbly. meanwhile, i'm average-looking and more of a listener than a talker, so i find it weird how his taste in girls has shifted. lately, he hasn't exactly been subtle about his feelings for me, but he still won't admit it, so i don't know what he's thinking. i'm less open about my feelings for him, so maybe he's afraid of rejection/humiliation? i'm not sure what to do: continue being subtle or try to show him how i feel? my friends and i are probably 80% sure about his feelings for me, but what if we're wrong? i don't want to tell him only to regret it.
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ok.
i see you have two issues going on
1st that he used to like your friend
2nd you dont know if he really likes you
well let's break it down shall we.
i think he obviously likes you if he acts like it.
i dont think you should let his past bother you. i mean unless he was like in LOVE or really OBSESSED with your friend then i dont see a problem with you going out with him. but if it really bugs you i think you should discuss it with him. it might be a little ackward but its better to find out the hard way then to always ask yourself if he still likes her.
also...
dont let your self-esteem go down.
yes, maybe your friend is that one girl every single girl wants to be, and yes she is bubbly and outgoing.
but sometimes that's not the type of girl guys want as a girlfriend. so maybe your girlfriend material to him.
so think about it.
nobody is perfect so just give yourself a chance and give him a chance.
take a risk and dont look back.
maybe it will turn into the best relationship in your life.
but dont do nothing because somebody tells you to. do what you think is best and follow your heart.
hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck in everything. anymore questions just ask me.
-litt0lkv
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