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I am 16 female!
I have liked this guy for ages and recently at a few partys i have got with him and stuff, and hes been telling people like a couple of weeks ago he would "do" me haha! But im not sure if he is just messing about he has a very bubbly personalty! I like him so much and i dont no what to do apparently he dosnt want a relationship, i always find myself looking at him in lessons and stuff and he dosnt acted bothered about any of this although he use to talk to me alot more and dosnt anymore i dont no whether to just try and move on becasue he dosnt want a realtionship or to just like try and make him jelous so he notices me more or something???
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well it all depends on what you want...
If you want a relationship with actual feelings involved then you should definitely move on.if you actually want a boyfriend and girlfriend long term relationship i dont think he is the guy for you.
If you want a fling or just a friend with "benefits" then maybe he is the guy for you.
From what you said he seems like he just wants sex. He seems like he is that type of boy who just wants to have a fling. you know what im saying. the type of boy who is all outgoing and has that thing going for him. but hes a player.
so if you want a fling go for it. a relationship move on.
if you decide to stay with him and have a sex based relationship just make sure to use protection and take care of yourself. because at the end it is really YOU who matters.
hope i helped and i wish you the best of luck with everything.
-litt0lkv
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First of all, I don't see why you're so happy that he views you as someone he wants to "do," it means he thinks you are easy. I understand you like him, so it feels nice that he thinks that, but really, you're blocking out all reason because of your feelings.
I think you need to look at this from this point of view: he wants to have sex with you but he is not emotionally involved with you (he doesn't want a relationship, he just views you as a sex object). In the end, if you allow him to do what he wants to do with you, you are going to end up getting hurt because you were involved in something so intimate with someone that doesn't feel anything for you. Because you two do something sexual, don't think it will change his feelings for you.
My advice: move on. He doesn't like you, he wants you for sexual pleasure. Find someone that will treat you with respect (telling people he wants to "do" you is not treating you with respect). You don't deserve him, you deserve someone better.
If you do end up doing something, please be safe about it. You want to protect yourself against pregnancy AND STDs.
~Maria, 17
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