Basically i've been friends with this boy Thomas for 18 months, and during those 18 months we've spoke every single day, we used to be on the phone for hours at a time. 6 days ago we had an argument he involves his self in my family life and basically we had an argument about that, we haven't spoken since and i've been feeling constantly lightheaded and have this numb feeling all over my body, i feel so empty.. i guess i kind of feel dead. Does anyone know if this is normal? I haven't taken alcohol or drugs, so it doesn't make sense. One of my friends suggested that i might have been in love with him and that its just normal.. are they right? Cherry x
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? litt0lkv answered Tuesday October 21 2008, 3:34 pm: well...
there might be plenty of psychological reasons why you might be feeling "empty" inside.
its completely normal
i mean you talked to the guy everyday
what do you expect to feel
its kind of like the saying
"you never know what you have until its gone"
well i think that saying describes you at this moment
i mean you knew you had a good friend but i guess you never knew how much he actually meant to you
you feel lonely and sad because he was a major part of your life.
dont worry it will get better.
and if you and him make up that is even better.
ella15 answered Monday October 20 2008, 6:09 pm: well, your the only one who can decides if you were in love with him or not.well obviously, you guys was close and you miss him very much maybe thats why your feeling likes this.maybe you guys should try to resolve the problem; everyone makes mistake you have to learn how to forgive . if you feel like he deserves your friendship back then you should speak to him if he was way out of line and he apologizes for it i dont see a reason why you should lose a friend over this friends are precious. good luck [ ella15's advice column | Ask ella15 A Question ]
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