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my name is actually LAE and...i'm not a good advicer but enough to be understanding,
i'm not always around but enough to depend on,
i'm not so sweet but enough to be so thoughtful,
i'm not your bestfriend but enough to be your true friend...
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What are some adjectives that begin with J?
junk, jelly, juicy, just
me and two of my friends were talking a couple of days ago about which guy would we rather go out with - a guy best friend or an acquaintance. my friends said acquaintance because you don't know each other so much which makes the relationship more interesting. also because there's "spark" between them. i said guy best friend, cuz even though you might know a lot about each other, a greater relationship than friendship can make the couple become closer together. it's also an advantage because your partner knows what you like and don't like, and so he won't go do something you would hate or he would always do what you love. and just because the two people already knows each other doesn't mean there can't be "spark" between them. i was wondering what you guys think. i would love both males and females to answer so it's not all biased.
yah you're right at that point. one thing too, for me, is that you'll feel safer with him. on the other hand, it's nice to be sociable, to be friendly. why don't you three appoint a day wherein a guy is assigned to go with you, so you won't be entering a quarrel-to-be?...
ok so me and this one girl have known each other for about 5 or 6 years.. we became best friends like..3 years ago, last year we were really close. but this year i feel like she doesnt care anymore.. yeah theres the ocassional hang out && movie.. but thats pretty much it.. last year we would do something every weekend...
so my question is.. does she still care? or is it just me being paranoid?
a friend is someone that trusts and someone that can be trusted. ask her first about the problem or open a private conversation between you. listen first to her. in your part, be firm and everything will be alright.
I'm 14 and I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. I know I'm not ready for sex and he supports that, but I'd like to know some alternatives for sex.
this is a common line...but....you're TOO young! i mean, i'm just not used to this but anyways...
play arcade all the way with him just for the sake of being busy to think such mean thing.
okk...so i'm a Christian and i know the Bible says not to like go out with the same sex..and stuff but i like another girl and i don't know how this happened!!!! Soo..I'm not a lesbian i only like one girl am I gonna go to hell or anything??
this is love, right? and God is love and he knows how to love. i think he'll understand your situation. go on as girl friends and be very careful not to change your girl being just because of her...
I'm a teenage . Recently I have discovered that life isn't worth living unless you have love in your life. By love, I mean a significant other. I'm an artistic type of person who actually NEEDS a significant other to complete them. I'm dying without love, and since last week I have turned to alcohol to solve my problems. I have WAY TOO MUCH stress from school and work (i'm a stage actress so work for me is rehearsal) and dance classes. When I feel depressed and suicidal and I can't take this world anymore- I drink red wine. It's a bottle that I have taken from my parents. I only drink 2-3 SIPS (not DRINKS) every day... But today I had double that amount because I felt crappy from my hangover.
I feel like an alcoholic because I can't function if I haven't had my alcohol. I need to know if I've become an alcoholic or not.
And how can I survive without love? My libido is so high I could die. And ion isn't enough for me anymore. Oh, and don't tell me that "the time will come" or anything like that, or that "I'm too young". Because I'm not. I'm mature enough physically and emotionally to handle a serious relationship with another human being.
I am friendless and sick of being shunned by everyone I know.
I don't believe in God. I'm an atheist but i was raised a catholic.
don't you know that love is everywhere? i mean there's your family.. and to be able to find love you must be friendly. be sociable. for me this is a solution to your prob. adjust socially. or meet friends in the net. then appoint a date with him.
one thing too, drinking alcohol is not a help to your problem so stop it. make yourself busy like go to gym then window shop or sleep...
okay i have to write a short story about a frog and i need help on some ideas about what it could be about? .....so i guess can anyone please give me some ideas for a short story about a frog? thanx
try doing some sort of a mixture of a modern frog then a classic one. comparison of the two. the modern frog will have a nice attitude but has too exagg accessories while the classic frog has a nasty attitude but is too oldie. gets? it's just a mixture of mixtures...
Theres this girl at my school and shes so FAKE. like everyone knows it but they all like her still. all her friends talk stuff about her but when theyre with her shes the best thing in the world. she steals all these guys from me. she thinks shes the best thing ever. she flirts with anyone that moves. and everyone falls for it, especially the guys. this is how shes fake: she like says things, and then later, denys them. like one night all her friends where mad at her so she asked to come to the hangout with me and my friends. we felt bad for her, so we said okay. there, she told us how we friends where boring and she liked hanging out with us. she also said that our small group should stay that way-small. so next weekend the next thing we know, everyones tlking about going to the hangout, all invited by her. all her friends, and some not even friends. so we said okay, we're still going. so we got there, and her and her friends completley excluded us from theyre group, sitting at a different table, and shutting us out, so we just left. after i told her why we where upset. she just apologized and did it again. so now she took over. theres other times, but thats just one example.
i just want to know how to overcome this, i dont want to fight with her, i just want to know how to deal with it.
please help. thanks alot:)
there are girls that are really like that, too fake. the best way to do, for me, is talk to her privately, although this is a common stuff but try. or appoint an open forum with those concerned- the victims of her fakeness (the guys all around, you and you're friends, and even hers). talk about the problem and make sure no one will make a fight. if she refuse to do any of these, don't get annoyed or mad of her instead, if you two pass by each other, smile or greet a single hi to her. it doesn't matter if she will just ignore it. at least, you've done your part...