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Alternatives for sex.
I'm 14 and I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. I know I'm not ready for sex and he supports that, but I'd like to know some alternatives for sex.
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Oh there are soooo many awesome alternatives...swimming, reading, monopoly, biking, bowling, movies, lunch, video games, ice-cream, dancing, hiking, reading each other love poems, working for charity, homework, studying for exams, discussing politics and religion, football, music, archery, motorcycling, sledding...etc. Oh, did you mean like physically sexually stimulating stuff? For him that would be breathing, guys are pretty much always stimulated by a girl that is alive. For you, a romantic novel or fairy tale type movie in which a young man is actually capable of a loving selfless relationship and is not just in it for the sex. If you don't want to have sex, then don't even go down the path of foreplay, which comes before sex...get it? Before, like in preparation for sex, because it will always eventually lead to sex, which is what all guys know and which is why he seems so understanding about you going as far as you want to go, "without going all the way." The guy knows that you will go a little farther each time until you do have sex. By the way, four years is really really long and unbelievable! It does not give you any more reason to do anything with him though whether or not you were with him since four years ago or since birth. You are only 14, which seems a lot compared to the fact that you were in kindergartin less than a decade ago, but when you are eighteen, I guarantee you will think that you were only a wee infantile child at 14, and are so glad you did not start spreading your legs and risking pregancy and stds that could ruin your life.
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this is a common line...but....you're TOO young! i mean, i'm just not used to this but anyways...
play arcade all the way with him just for the sake of being busy to think such mean thing.
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