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Heyy You c: the name is Jessie. I'm a cheerleader and a singer =] i laugh at anything pretty much, and it usually makes other people laugh. i am very optomistic unless its my own situations. photography is my love and i would be completely lost without my camera. making people happy is what i strive for. I care too much about what other people think, but i'm learning. ive been giving advice for a crazy amount of years and continue to do so. i've never been rated less than a 4. so.. i guess i'm pretty good. i tend to blabber on about absolutly nothing, and i'm pretty sure i've done that alreday so i'll stop
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Okay so, Valentines Day is coming soon and I need some ideas on what to get my boyfriend. I've been dating him for eight months, and hes hard to shop for. I want something thoughtful so, I dont want to get him a gift card.
So if you have any ideas please help me out :)
That would be great
haha awww.
okay well theres a few suggestios depending on his personality.
1. a build a bear dressed up in something he likes (whether its a sorts team, super hero, hobby, career, etc.) and have it holding chocolates.
2. a bunch of stuff from godiva (its expensive thoughh)
3. a futon! haha. you can get them between 60-200$ usually but their so much fun and comfy ands guys love them.
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo :)
Ok, so I'm a 15/f. And I get really gross bumps on my arms, back, thighs, and boobs. And i don't always have them, but when i do get one, it's sooo gross. And so far, I haven't found anything to make them go away. Can you suggest anything? Would regular acne medicine work for it??
this can usually happen if you don't wash yourself regularly or well enough.
sometimes it can even happen just by getting dirt on yourself or wearing the sane clothes more than once.
a good way to get ride of them is Glytone Body.
also to wash yourself really well to keep good hygene.
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo :)
My birthday is coming up and my parents said that they would get me a new camera for it because the one i have now was a freebe. Basically, I want to know which cameras you have PERSONALLY used and are really good. What brands are good as well also?
thanks and price doesn't matter.
preferably over $100 tho because otherwise its probably not a good one.
you HAVE to get the cannon PowerShot SD1100 IS
its amazing.
it can make pictures black and white and make one single object in the picture in color.
it has amazing picture quality.
and it can do almost anything other cameras can't.
check it out here..
http://www.usa.canon.com/consumer/controller?act=ModelInfoAct&fcategoryid=145&modelid=16347
and if thats a little too pricy,
theres one almost exactly like it here..
http://www.usa.canon.com/consumer/controller?act=ModelInfoAct&fcategoryid=145&modelid=14901
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo :)
me and this boy arent dating or anything but we have continued to have sex for a couple months now. he usually lasts about an hour and a half and when he stays the night with me we normally wake up after doing it once and go again but lately the second time he hasnt been able to keep his erection so once its out we cant get it back in. Does this have to do with me and me not keeping him aroused?
it could possibly be you doing everything the same, guys like some change sometimes so that he can get aroused and not bored of the situation.
but also, if you guys are having sex for a long period of time, he might still be excited but guys' penis' get really tired and uncapable after a while of doing it which can be a big part of it.
i'd suggest changing things up a bit everytime (positions, moans, etc.)
but at the same time wither have sex for a long time once,
or sex for not such a long period of time more than once.
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo :)
We have a valentine's day/ semi-formal every year. I really want this guy to ask me. His locker is 3 over from mine and he is in 3 of my classes. We're friends, but I have caught him looking at me in class. I really don't want to ask him, because, as he is really popular, he is ALWAYS surrounded by his guy friends. I always mean to mention the semi- formal, but chicken out. How should I get him to ask me out? It's in two weeks.
Theres a bunch of different appraches you can take in this situation.
first of all, you can do something cheesy but romantic.
by this, you can stick a note in his locker saying something really cute such as "i think your really cute :) go to the formal with me?
I would love to do an exchange program this summer with Norway, but my family can't afford it. I am only thirteen, but I am trying to make 1500 dollars by February 25. I know the basics (babysitting, dog walking, pet sitting, selling coffee, baked goods, etc.), but I need more creative ideas. I am not legal working age, by the way. Any ideas?
Do you live in a pretty descent neighborhood?
If you do, you can gather a bunch of friends together to have a huge garage/yard sale.
its crazy how much money you can make off it and its also a really good way to profit your belongings.
your friends can bring old stuff they dont want anymore too and you can get 10% of their earnings.
It's a good way to make alot of money and you can make at least 100$ depending on how much you sell in only a day.
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo :)
ok well heres the deal or prob, theres this guy that i like and he likes me back, but today monday 1/28/08 he broke up with his gf and i think that hes going to go out with this chika named amanda but they were suppose to go out but he then decided to stay with his gf wich is now his ex, but like i was saying she was thinking about going out with his borther and fucking him and then rubbing it in josh's face for not going out with her(amanda), and i don't know what to do ,b/c i'm ingaged to this guy but not really we have bine on and off all the time for the past 5 years, and his name is dana and i love him but aparently amanda wants to go back out with him and i don't know if he wants her or me last time it was for his ex kathy who by the way is in 6th grade and hes in 9th grade, ok heres the questoin (WHO SHOULD I GO OUT WITH JOSH OR DANA?) and by the way my dad doesn't know that i like this josh guy but my dad doesn't like josh but he likes dana a lot more. but i don't know who i should date josh or dana. please any one please help me i don't know what to do?
woaahh haha.
okay well first of all, if you really truly loved dana, you wouldn't have to chose between him and josh.
maybe you like him like crazy or love him as your age is now, but if it was love you wouldn't have to think about chosing.
i think if you picked josh, you would have quite a rew problems.
first, your dad doesnt like him alot and parents oppinions on boyfriends are really important to a relationship.
and secondly, you would get in quite a conflict with this girl amanda.
she wouldn't do stuff with his brother and then rub it in his face if she wasn't trying to get him jealous.
so she clearly wants him.
but on the other hand,
if dana is on and off with you for a girl THAT much younger, maybe neither of them are truthfuly the right decision.
you'll find someone eventualy, but both of these guys just sound like a huge heartache to me.
hope i helped,
lalaloverxo :)
Hey! Well I'm 15/f (if that's of any help) and I am looking for another coat. So far I had this in mind:
http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=&itemID=47995&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=&CROSS=153675&i=152581
do you think it's cute and fashion forward? Websites and pictures of coats are greatly appreciated :)
Thanks!!!
thats adorable!
haha i simply love it.
good choice.
and if your looking for other options,
i know hollister has tons of winter coats that are adorable.
:] good luck youu.
hope i helped
I like this guy Chris at school. I didn't think that he even knew I existed. Well one day during the summer, he sent me a message on Facebook. I obviously accepted his friend request and we started talking. He plays football and baseball. He is like the perfect guy for me. I also play softball, so we have something in common when we talk. I also tried to make it to a couple of his football games, but I don't know if he knows I was there. Anyway, we have a couple of classes together and I'm starting to think that I could really be interested in this guy. Every night we basically talk online, and he is such a great person. I really feel like we connect on certain levels. We have a dance coming up at school and we were talking in a big group about our dress, hair, etc... and he mentioned something about how he has to find a date. He looked directly at me. I'm pretty sure that means he wants to go with me, but I want to know for sure, and the dance is in a month. I really want to go with him. How could I hint to him that I'm interested, without being pushy?
well first of all, that is SO cute haha.
and secondly, if he looked directly towards you and his body language was pointed at you, he clearly wanted to give you a hint that he's intersted.
when your talking online, you should bring it up slowly at first, such as saying something like "i hope nocody has the same dress as me." then casually say "so did you find a girl to ask yet? i didnt find a guy yet either.." etc.
good luckk you!
:]
14/f
ok so I have this friend...when we're like just hanging out the two of us or even in a small group (it's better with just girls) she's so much fun to hang out with and I love being her friend! but other times...
like she kinda is the leader of our "group" i guess...and I think she sort of realized it lately and has gotten kind of bitchy and "i rule the worldish" ((and also realized that a lot of guys like -or used to like- her and has become a HUGE flirt even though she has a boyfriend)) like she remarked that she figured the only reason that her ex (of almost 3 months) was hugging his gal friends (her friends too, mutual group) was to make her jealous when it reality he really really doesn't like her like that any more and was just being friendly which isnt uncommen behavior in our guy friends
shes also the kind who claims to hate conflict so if your getting in an argument with her she'll hang up or walk away which makes this kind of tricky (i think it's stupid cause it actually prolongs the conflict into a full blown out ignoring each other fight but whatever)
she used to be a really great friend and shes still fun to hang out with but how do i tell her all this stuff thats bothering me (and a few others of us) without getting into a fight..
it also doesn't help that we're in kind of a fight (about some stupid crap) right now that i'm kind of sort of trying to resolve...
please help! how do I tell her? should I tell her? what should I do?
you HAVE to tell her, no questions asked.
if you really want her to stay your friend, you need to talk.
call her, it's more personal.
if that somehow doesn't work out or she doesn't answer etc.. just IM her, text her, e-mail her, message her.. really anything.
i doubt she'll ignore it.
spill out all your feelings.
don't be aftraid to tell her something, say it all.
just try not to make it sound bitchy or it could turn into a fight and nobody wants that.
hope i hepled
okayyy, can someone tell me where is the best place to get extensions in baton rouge,la?
& what type of extensions are better?
sewn in or glued in?
not sure about your first question.
but for the second one,
sewn in is definatley better.
i have a friend who has glued in,
as days go by, some hair can break off the glue,
and then your hair just looks uneven and frizzy.
its horrible.
at least when its sewn in, it'll stay in one spot,
and if the extensions de-tatch from your hair for some reason, it wont break your haur and look frizzy,
just that one peice will fall out
How long do you personally keep a tampon in? Like how many hours before you have to change? Also, about how many do you go threw in an average day? Because it seems like i'm constantly changing mine, and its annoying. This is for girls obviously, lol=].
it depends on what brand of tampon your wearing.
it always should say how many hours you should keep it in for either on the box or the directions.
most of the time its from 6-8 hours though.
=] hope i helped.
how many calories should i have a day?
i am 15/f 5'8" and 170 lbs.
i run a mile every day.
if you would like to lose weight, consume 1,000-1200 calories a day.
but if you just want to maintain the weight you are now, you should consume 2,000 calories a day.
hope i helped =]
ive already asked for help and noone responded, here it is again.
im in my 40's/male. i was married for about 20 years with the most amazing women known to man.
i have cheated on her with about; 10 different girls, but only had 3 actuall girlfreinds. we have been seperated for about 1 year; im now with my girlfriend she caught me cheating on her with. she doesnt know about the others.
also my 2kids (wife) basically hate me and i never see one of them.
since no one resoponded back to me before im going to make this short.
basically, i still love my wife and im now cheating on my girlfriend with her friend. i want my wife back!!! p.s we are going through divorce. help!!
karma can seriously come back and bite you in the ass as you can tell.
but if you want to finish the right way.. start over the right way!
you have to break up with your girlfriends.
all of them.
then you have to promise not only your wife, but yourself that you will NEVER cheat on her again.
if you do.. you will loose everything, your wife, your kids, your world pretty much.
keep that in mind and explain that to your wife and kids, tell them how much you love each and everyone of them and how you would never want to loose them.
and remember.. if you really love them.. you will not cheat your family.
how do you get s4s for your myspace profile?
you would have to write then the code of your s4s (google has a million sites to make them) and then write
My 8 year old brother just rescued 2 teeny tiny baby rabbits from our neighbors dog, Cocoa. They would possibly live, but we dont know what to feed them...ANY tips on what to do in this situation would be appreciated. Thank you SO much.
rabbits love vegetables.
feed them carrots and lettuce.
just make sure, if they're tiny, that you cut them up into small peices so they dont gag.
hope i helped c:
okay so i leike this guy named jack! he is so cute and well i dont no if he likes me! well he talks to me and when he hated all the girls he said im still the only cool one and all my "girl friends" says he does but like he dosnt talk to me a lot! and he asks to hug one of my bffs and she nos i like him and she hugs him anyways! and i was just wondering if he does i think he dosnt but my friends thinks he does so i want to no!
please help please and thankyous!
truthfully, follow your gut instinct.
its hard to tell this stage in time if he does or not,
but maybe you should talk to him more and flirt alot so that he can talk to you more.
once he starts talking to you more it will be clear if he likes you or not by the way he's acting
ps-- dont worry about your friend hugging him, all friends hug friends, but if it turns into anything more than hugging.. let her know its bothering you.
hope i helped
Ok so im like really in to tarot or whatever and i really want to get a some cards of my own but i dont really know were to buy them. I hurd you could get them at spencers or hot-topic but i went to spencers and i couldnt find them of course i was too shy to ask but if any one can tell me were i can buy them and around how much they caust thanx oh and i know it depends on what kind of deck you get so i want the one that kinda looks like the playing cards you know what i mean
if you go to barnes and noble they have a bunch of sets including cards and a book on how to do it and what each card means.
its actually really cool.
depending on everything it includes, the more money it is.
i would reccomend maria shaw's Tarot for Teens.
it comes with the book and the cards,
and has easy to read instructions and stuff.
its around 25-35$.
hope i helped
sometiems i see guys smoking these brown looking things with this white plastic thing at the end. what is this?
its a smaller version of a cigar.
its small like a cigarette, right?
yeah its called a Black and Wild.
(a mini cigar)
=)
Apparently my so called best friend is jealous of me. She sent an email to my boyfriend saying that we spend too much time together and she never gets to hang out with him anymore. I dont understand this cause she has been trying to get me to break up with him for a while now. I hate that everyone is trying to break us up. I really want to die. No one wants me happy. I think Im just going to tell him we need a break once again. Idk. I thought she cared about me but I guess she just wanted him. I love her to death and I dont even know what to say anymore. I cant trust anyone.!!!!!
she is not a true best friend if she's trying to get you two to break up.
the only reason she is doing this is because she likes him.
please, she is not worth it!
if you really like this guy, talk to your friend and tell her how much it hurt you to see her flirting with him.
do not break up with him if you liek him.
that will just make you an unhappy wreck, and that is pointless.
thats just like chopping your hand off because someone else wanted it and it would make them happy if you did it.
its pointless, and useless.
maybe if people are still telling you to break up with him after this, you should have a secret relationship.
like, not telling anyone.
these can be difficult but there is much less drama.