I like this guy Chris at school. I didn't think that he even knew I existed. Well one day during the summer, he sent me a message on Facebook. I obviously accepted his friend request and we started talking. He plays football and baseball. He is like the perfect guy for me. I also play softball, so we have something in common when we talk. I also tried to make it to a couple of his football games, but I don't know if he knows I was there. Anyway, we have a couple of classes together and I'm starting to think that I could really be interested in this guy. Every night we basically talk online, and he is such a great person. I really feel like we connect on certain levels. We have a dance coming up at school and we were talking in a big group about our dress, hair, etc... and he mentioned something about how he has to find a date. He looked directly at me. I'm pretty sure that means he wants to go with me, but I want to know for sure, and the dance is in a month. I really want to go with him. How could I hint to him that I'm interested, without being pushy?
Hit him over the head with your softball bat. Try this: "So, you still need a date for that dance? You do? So do I. When are you coming to pick me up?"
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lalaloverxo answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 4:36 pm: well first of all, that is SO cute haha.
and secondly, if he looked directly towards you and his body language was pointed at you, he clearly wanted to give you a hint that he's intersted.
when your talking online, you should bring it up slowly at first, such as saying something like "i hope nocody has the same dress as me." then casually say "so did you find a girl to ask yet? i didnt find a guy yet either.." etc.
good luckk you!
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