We have a valentine's day/ semi-formal every year. I really want this guy to ask me. His locker is 3 over from mine and he is in 3 of my classes. We're friends, but I have caught him looking at me in class. I really don't want to ask him, because, as he is really popular, he is ALWAYS surrounded by his guy friends. I always mean to mention the semi- formal, but chicken out. How should I get him to ask me out? It's in two weeks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lalaloverxo answered Monday January 28 2008, 5:58 pm: Theres a bunch of different appraches you can take in this situation.
first of all, you can do something cheesy but romantic.
by this, you can stick a note in his locker saying something really cute such as "i think your really cute :) go to the formal with me? <3"
he'll never know who its from but drop little hints about it like "that shirt looks really.. CUTE on you.." in person. This will make him wonder about you but its also time consuming.
secondly, you could easily get his screename or cel number and either text or AIM him.
just start off having a normal conversation and then bring up something abput the formal such as "did you ask any girls to the formal yet or are you just not asking anyone?" if he says he doesnt know who to ask, you could either say something like
"well i know someone who'd really like to go with youu." or something like
"well if you have nothing better to do, i'm not going with anyone either so we can go together"
and let him decide from there :)
kimleibe answered Monday January 28 2008, 5:56 pm: First find out if he is already going with someone, either through friends or ask him directly. If you ask him directly and he says no, then hopefully a light bulb will go on and he will think to ask you. If he doesn't have a date but he doesn't ask you, be bold and ask him. He will be flattered, especially if he is already interested in you which sounds like he is. One thing I regret about high school is not being more direct and confident. Good luck! [ kimleibe's advice column | Ask kimleibe A Question ]
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