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Last Update: December 14, 2008
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I was wondering if anybody knew of a site that you could buy 100% authentic big designer purses such as Coach, Dooney, Gucci, Prada, etc. from that are cheaper, kinda like an outlet online? Because there are 2 outlets near me, but there both 2 hours away. I would rather pay a couple $$ more to get it shipped than drive all the way there. Thanks sooo much! Oh, and please dont say Ebay! You really cant tell if they are real or fake on ebay, thanks again! (link)
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Well, I don't really look for cheap designer purses, because frankly, I don't have to. But my friend Kristen said that www.shopbop.com and www.bluefly.com have some good deals. Hope I helped!
♥ Mass
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I went to get what were supossed to be highlights last year. First of all, THEY WERE WHITE BLONDE! Second, they dyed ALL of it! Not just highlights! So, I freaked out and a month later I went to another hair salon, they made it red. THEN about two months ago, I went to another place and the guy added some brown and blonde highlights, so now it looks BARELY any better, but not as bad. The way it looks is really lowering my self esteem and how I feel about the way I look. It's already grown out about 3 inches, though. I seriously think I will kill someone if they screw up my hair again. & my parents will probably scream if I ask if I can go to another salon and fix it. What should I do? (link)
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obviously highlights aren't working out for u. just either go to a salon and get ur hair dyed its normal color or do it at home urself with one of those do it urself things. why the hell didn't u stop after once?
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why does everyone think that sanjaya malakar (one of the finalists in american idol season six) is gay? is it because of his long hair? like some people thought he looekd like a girl.. he doesnt, and never did. i mean nobody really looks at a girl with short hair and thinks its a man. there are other ways you can tell, other than their hair. also, is it that he sounds gay? um he can sing and i dont know too why people think he cant. i dont think he would be in the top 24 if he couldnt sing, since the judges and producers put him in the show in the first place. he just has less experience and such, but he can sing. i mean his performances arent always perfect, usually starting a little shaky and then getting better near the end. still. im getting sick of all these sanjaya haters that make up all these lies. he just doesnt.. seem gay, either. he dresses like a guy too, and in a song he did he danced with paula (the most recent one.. i forget the name of it though but he was wearing a white tux), and in another (you really got me now) at a part he sung to paula too. and in the "bathwater" song he changed some of the lyrics, like the part that was like in the original song that no doubt (well.. gwen stefani) sang, it was "your my kind of man!" sanjaya changed it to "your my kind of girl!". so.. like i dont think hes gay and im confused over this whole big controversy. i dont think hes the worst singer on the show either, but im glad that votefortheworst, even if its not morally good.. gets people to vote for this guy. ughhhhh. what are your thoughts on this? i personally think sanjaya is cute, too. (AND NOT GAY!) :]
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i agree with the person below me.
why the hell would u ask this on an advice column?
and he does look like a girl.
and yes, when people see butch girls they DO say they look manly.
i bet this is that freak girl who was crying for him on american idol.
obsessed much?
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i hate my height..i'm 5 6...i hate being this tall...i'm 14/f...is there any ways of being shorter?? (link)
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taller people look thinner.
there's obviously no way to shrink.
just wear flats if you're that self concious about it.
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okay well ive taken trip-c , aka coricidin cough and cold .. i heard its bad but i love the feeling . is this really bad ? (link)
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if you're doing it because u have a cold, it's fine, as long as you only take the recomended amount.
if you aren't sick, stop immediately. this is dangerous and could lead to you getting addicted.
there are cooler ways to die.
jennifer
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I want to play tennis at my highschool next year. I'm going to be 16, and live in Illinois. Is there a certain size racket I'm going to need? (link)
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take lessons from a tennis club and they'll have tester rackets. ask a pro which ones he would recomend for you and he'll probably give you a bunch of options. try them out and see which one helps you to play to your full potential.
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how do you know when you're in love? what does it feel like. how can you tell? i think i am and i've never felt this way before. can anyone help me? (link)
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you'll know.
since you're asking this question, obviously you're not in love.
be patient, love will find you.
peace.
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well here is my problem i like this boy like alot and liked him for like i think a whole year and the first time i ask him out i found out he liked my friend and he said no. the second time i ask him out i found out he had a girlfriend and they broke up now the third time im ready to ask him out again i just dont know if i should or just let it go. and if i do go for it and he said no should i get over him and just move on!!
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you're a fricking girl...
don't ask him out.
he said no twice he's not gonna change his answer.
sorry to be blunt but, asking a guy out twice is pathetic.
if you ask a third time you'll be a bigger loser.
just move on and let some other guy ask u out.
if you haven't noticed, boys ask girls out,
not the other way around.
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If you could desing a ring(like jewlery) for any purpose, what would it be like?
I'd make this my wedding ring:
a simple gold band with mine and my partners name on it, with our birthstones in it (link)
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tiffany & co princess cut diamond, platinum setting, 22 karats
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what is a blowjob (link)
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like the person below me said...it's either when a girl sucks a guy's penis or when a guy massages a girl's "cha cha" with his mouth...this is also referred to as oral sex.
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i'm a 17 year old guy and i'm wondering what sex feels like to a girl, i've asked my girlfriend but shes real shy about that kind of stuff and gives me pretty vauge answers (link)
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it's hard to understand unless you're a girl. it's like really really good feelings down there, much like i imagine it would be for a guy. then it's like a build in pressure (good pressure) and then a release, and it feels like your heart is going to fall out your vag. in a good way though. sorry i really don't know how to explain it.
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Is black lipstick too over the top?
I've got light brown hair, and a permanent tint. like foundation color.
I personally like how it looks, but does anyone think it might be too much??? (link)
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simple.
if you're goth, go for it.
if you're not, you'll never live it down. it's a major fashion don't.
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what is the normal age for a girl to get her first kiss? and when did you guys have your first kiss?
because i'm 15/f and i've never been kissed before. (link)
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my first real kiss was when i was in 6th grade, so i guess i was....12. however, i regret this so much because i only kissed my boyfriend because he pressured me to, and i felt that if i didn't kiss him, he would think i was too immature or something. trust me, soon you will find a great guy who's worth your first kiss. and when you do, you'll know it. if you kiss just for the sake of kissing, you'll regret it later. it's something that you'll remember forever. don't feel like a loser, by waiting, you're someone who actually has good judgement. don't rush it, when you least expect it, you will find a great guy. until then, just be patient. hope i helped!
Jennifer
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Ok my best friend (J) is literally the most populariest girl in the entire school. Shes gorgeous, flirty, and outgoing/fun nice shes perfect. Shes always the center of attention. But some of the people who we both hang out with at school hate the fact that shes always the center of attention. They're jealous of her ahb-viousely. They all told her that in her face. She told me about this during lunch and now all her friends hate her. Shes such a boy magnet like all the guys fall for her. I dont really even mind. But she hates school. I dont understand what I should tell her? She cant help the fact that shes always the center of attention. Shes an out-going person and she wont change? What do you think she should do? (link)
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first of all, what are you, 2? popularisest isn't a word, and it's not cute to use bad vocabulary. no one finds it entertaining past the second grade, lol. second of all, don't spell the word "ahb-viously". it's in the clique books only so the author can illustrate how the new york accent sounds, but it's not meant to be spelled unless it's for that reason. i'm just telling you this so you don't look like a poser in the future. if you want to be like massie and the girls in the clique, when you're talking in person, say it like how lisi harrison spells it. otherwise, it's a no go. finally, to answer your question, no matter who hates her, she is who she is. if she's the most popular girl in the school, obviously (note spelling) she isn't at a lack of friends. if those other girls are giving her a hard time, she should tell them that she is who she is and she's not going to change herself for them. overtime, they'll get over their immature jealousy. if these girls hate her for who she is, it's time to move on to some new friends, or tell the old ones that she's not trying to offend them in any way. hope i helped,
Jennifer
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I live in Jersey & over break I'm going to NYC. I've been there but I have a few questions:
1. does tiffany's have returned jewelry or anything that's cheaper?
2. where can I get a good fake purse? (coach, chanel or juicy)
3. can I get good fake jewelry & where?
if you know the answer to any of those, I would really appreciate your answers! (link)
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1. no, Tiffany & co. doesn't have returned jewlery. They do, however have jewlery that isn't completely insane priced. if you're thinking of those sterling silver chain bracelets with the charm on them, they are $185. as far as jewlery goes, that's really not bad. There are also sterling silver rings that are in the $150 range. there are also sterling silver lock charms that are between $100-$125. if you have a silver chain at home, you could just buy the charm and put it on. the charms i'm talking about are either a lock with a letter on them (the first letter of your name), and cute heart shaped locks that say "return to tiffany & co." here's the website to see them. http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?sku=GRP00521&cid=130444&mcat=148204&menu=1 . i wouldn't look at the gold ones, because they are unbelievably priced.
2. have you been to NYC? there are street vendors everywhere with fakes! trust me, you'll see them. they're usually pretty good, and they only cost about $20 or less. trust me, you really can't miss them.
3. i'm not sure what you mean by fake...but there are plenty of street vendors that sell jewlery. i'm sure they have tiffany & co knock-off's if that's what you mean.
hope i helped!
Jennifer
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i have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months. we are really close and love each othere very much. recently we have started talking about having sex, and i want to, and i feel that i'm ready. my problem is that how i can explain this to my parents. they waited until they got married and i don't want them to judge me because i don't want to wait. how can i bring this situation up if i have questions? how can explain to them how i feel? (link)
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to start with, it depends on your age. i'm not going to hammer you with reasons why you shouldn't have sex, but it's important for you to know the risks of having sex when you're too young. the fact that you're so concerned about telling your parents about it makes me think you're either in junior high or highschool. if you're in junior high, i strongly suggest that you shouldn't have sex. obviously it's your decision, but honestly at this age no one is mature enough to deal with sex, and most people will probably regret it later. if you're in high school, don't worry this is completely normal. most people lose their virginity between the ages of 16-22. so you're not alone. if, in fact, you are in high school, i probably wouldn't tell your parents. most parents would be so concerned about your age that they wouldn't think about the facts. they'd pound you with possible consequences of having sex (std's, pregnancy, hiv/aids, etc.) and it could ultimately effect your relationship with your parents in a negative way. but these consequences are all possibilities, so you do need to know how to prevent them from happening. for this, you could either talk to a school health teacher, or go to a sex ed class. to find one, you'd just have to do a search for one in your area. otherwise you could just ask friends with experience (if they're responsible friends) or find a good website for sex education (as long as it's a good website, legitimate, concerned about your health, you'll be able to tell). okay, if you're in college or older, there's really no reason to even tell your parents. if you think you'd have a guilty conscience about it later, just remember that once you're a legal adult, it's really not their choice at all. it's also none of their business, unless for whatever reason you feel it is their ebusiness. but the truth of the matter is, that although i'd love to tell you that your parents are above judging you for decisions that aren't like theirs, unfortunately they probably would. i'm not trying to judge your parents, but i'm sure their main concern is your health (mentally and physically), and they wouldn't want you to do anything that would hurt you in the long run. if you really want to tell them, just tell them that you've met someone that you can see going somewhere with, and although you respect their decision to wait until marriage, you have a different opinion on the matter. good luck, hope i helped!
Jennifer
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im flat.
i want boobs.
i feel like a little girl since i dont have them.
but im 13.
so im really not a "little girl"
and i dont feel pretty.
anything but stuffing.
would be nice.
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push up bra maybe? you're 13 you're still young okay, a lot of 13 year olds have no boobs whatsoever, you'll get them okay, relax.
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Im 15 and this will be like my fourth or fifth period and i didnt get it last month. there is no way i could be pregnant, cause im not active. Is this bad or should i just wait a few more days. it usually comes like the 23 or something
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the first year of your period is completely unpredictable. (for me the first 2 were predictable). it could come tomorrow, it could come next week, and it could come in another month. you're fine, don't worry!
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Ok, I liked this girl last year (in 8th grade) and I asked her out and she rejected me. But we became like brother and sister. But the thing is that after she rejected me, I couldn't get over her and I STILL like her. And I know she doesn't like me more that a friend, but I wish she did 'cause then bottling up my feelings for her, wouldn't be necessary...WHAT DO I DO!? Thanks in advance... (link)
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well i'd say you should talk to her a lot on AIM and stuff, and be really charming and flirt w/ her and stuff. then when you're with her in person just try to kind of touch her, not in a WEIRD WAY!! just like flirt with her and put ur hand on her shoulder or something...yeah just make her laugh a lot and make sure she sees you flirting with other girls too. hope i helped
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This is mostly about my boyfriend, 21. I'm 18.
He says he's there whenever I need him and whenever I need to talk about things or vent but I'm not so sure.
See, my father passed Wed. night/Thurs morning and when he first found out about it he was so supposrtive and flew here to just be here and help with everything (he was at a confrence or something).
Well last night we were talking and I started thinking about my dad and everything in the middle of a happy conversation with him. I said, "I can't believe my dads not going to be there at prom or graduation or when I get married" He didn't say anything for a sec then was like, "I really wish you didn't just say that"
I know we were having a good, happy convo but shouldn't he be able to listen to me when I need to talk about it?
I apologized for bringing him down and he responded with, "Its okay...I guess" (link)
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for starters, i'm so sorry about your dad. i'm sure you're going through a lot right now, and i can see why you said what you did, an event like that would occupy all of my thoughts.
i'm not sure exactly what your question is, but i think i know what you're looking for. were you right or was he right? if so, here's the answer:
your perspective- there was a tragic loss, you think about him a lot, you know it probably wan't the best thing to bring up during a happy conversation, but you can't help it because you're so upset.
his perspective- he flew down here and has been seeing people crying for a long time. he finally feels like he's going to have a happy conversation with you and that you're starting to be in a better mood, then you say something sad again, and he knows that it will start more sad conversations.
my opinion- you couldn't help but say that, because it's a pretty recent thing and sometimes you think outloud, everyone does. i don't think you were at fault there, and i think that he shouldn't have said "i really wish you didn't say that", even if it was what he was thinking. it was a tender subject for you, and he should have been sensitive to that even if he's sick of all the sad conversations, it's not about him. i can see why he would have thought that, but saying it outloud was totally out of line..and his response to your apology was kind of irritating too. i think he's coping with this as best as he can, but you did everything totally right. don't worry about this, okay?? everything will turn out fine....don't let your guy go, he seems great. he could have handled the situation better, but i'm sure he felt bad about the whole situation.
hope i helped,
Jen
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