well here is my problem i like this boy like alot and liked him for like i think a whole year and the first time i ask him out i found out he liked my friend and he said no. the second time i ask him out i found out he had a girlfriend and they broke up now the third time im ready to ask him out again i just dont know if i should or just let it go. and if i do go for it and he said no should i get over him and just move on!!
matchmaker_tld answered Monday April 2 2007, 5:43 pm: It would seem u are quite hung up on this guy.
I'm not going to tell you to move on or whether you should ask him out again but what i will say is that you need to stop thinking about him so much and preoccupy yourself with other things.
Get closer with friends..(other guys would help)..and just generally get out there and keep busy!
let him know your living life! have fun with other people infront of him! but keep in good contact with him.
stop worrying about asking him out! keep things at a steady pace until it is quite clear that things are ready to be sped up!
(you will know when you are at this stage because you will be closer,more flirtacious and he will let you know that he wants more and let him go most of the way)
don't do all the chasing!
Guys like to chase girls who aren't into them! so act less interested but flirtacious at the same time! and let him go 90% of the way! Then you know that you are at the stage of thinking about being more than friends!
if you have any more quuestions just ask! [ matchmaker_tld's advice column | Ask matchmaker_tld A Question ]
iwantthetruth answered Sunday April 1 2007, 12:29 am: i think you should ask him out the 3rd time. you really have nothing to lose. its not wrong for a girl to ask a guy out in my opinion. u r not pathetic at all. ask him out if he says no just move on. hey its tough but there are plenty of guys theres no point in wasting your time on one who doesnt like you. hope i helped. good luck. [ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question ]
lalaloser2 answered Saturday March 31 2007, 11:59 pm: you're a fricking girl...
don't ask him out.
he said no twice he's not gonna change his answer.
sorry to be blunt but, asking a guy out twice is pathetic.
if you ask a third time you'll be a bigger loser.
just move on and let some other guy ask u out.
if you haven't noticed, boys ask girls out,
not the other way around. [ lalaloser2's advice column | Ask lalaloser2 A Question ]
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