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My name is Sasha Davis and I hope to someday be a phycologist. I am here because I want to learn about how I can best help other people. Come to me with your problems and I promise I will give you the best advice possible. Thank you :)
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Ive got a friend who ive liked since ive known her, we made out a couple times and have admitted to liking eachother but then chose not to date, shes got a bf now, what kind of things could i do to make her know i really really like her still, do i wana be subtle or just come out and say that i want her? ladies, this is where i could use your help lol
I suggest you find someone else. This girl is already happy with someone else. Why would you want to rip their relationship apart? It would take a ton of effort and it's selfish. There is a huge chance it wouldn't work. Even if it did, would you really want to be with the kind of girl who would ditch her boyfriend? Becides, there are plenty of other attractive girls who have their eyes on you, I'm sure. Good luck on finding someone new, and let me know hwo things work out :)
how do you use the pads when you have your period?
Step one: rip open the packaging
Step two: peel off the plastic covers
Step three: stick to the inside of your underwear
It is also important to change your pads every four hours, so as to avoid TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome).
Good luck :) If you have any more questions, feel free to ask me.
my friend ashley wants to be a 9th grader so bad even though we are only 8th graders she used to hang out with me like everyday now she only hangs out with her 9th grader friends!! what do i do?
There isn't a lot you can do in this situation. I know it's tough, but it's probably time you made some new friends. However, do not cut Ashley out of your life, there will probably come a time when she realizes she needs you. Until then I suggest you find new people that you can count on and have fun with. Good luck, and let me know how things work out :)
i have my period and i have no hair on my vagina what do i do?
There is nothing you can do. Puberty effects everyone differently. Don't worry, everyone goes through it. If you have any more concerns, feel free to ask me :)
17-f-australia
im getting charged with dui but got sent to the childrens court they sent me to do the drink drivers course and all that shit... but can the judge in the childrens court take my liscence off me because i heard that they dont have the authority to do it any help is really appreciated thanks
Why were you driving drunk? I have no idea what the laws are, but hopefully you do get your licence taken away. You do not seem to feel any remorse for what you have done. Your main concern is when you can get back on the road. That is immature and frankly, you should not get back in the drivers seat until you can trust yourself to remain sober, regardless of the law. Your actions effect everyone. Take that into account. Becides, you are better than that. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know how things work out :)
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Rating my advice a two won't change the fact that what you did was wrong. What did you want me to do, tell you that things would all be fine? Drunk driving is not okay and you know it. If you think drinking makes it likeely that you would be raped, I question why in the hell you would drink.
okay well this guy that i have like for 2 years decided to istant mesage me and started talkin to me and then one day he asked me if i like him....well i told him i did and now i have to im him first when he used to im me first all the time.....but now it's he is never on and if he is on he goes away real quick and he gives me this weird look at school. i don't know what is goin on.
I suggest you start talking to him in person. The fact that this topic is called "aol love" should demonstrate what your problem is. It is impossible to have a solid relationship that is mainly online. I mean sure, IM is a great way to start talking to people you are too shy to talk to in person but at some point you do have to actually have to take the plunge. Invite the guy to hang out with you and your friends after school sometime.
15/f
Hello again to anyone who read/answered my other question. =)
I am debating if I should attend UBC (University of British Columbia) or find a college/university in Dubai, UAE (United Arab Emirates).
I am interested in pursuing in the area of advertising/marketing.
Recently, I was in Dubai at the Big Five Trade Show and I actually helped my Dad's company set up the booth. I was in charge of a team and I made many connections with sheiks and other members at Canadian Pavillion.
I would love to live in the downtown atmosphere of Vancouver and not move too far away. On the other hand, I enjoy traveling and already have slight recognition in Dubai.
I am hoping someone could point out any major pros or cons to studying in Vancouver or Dubai that I may not have thought of.
Thanks! =)
This is a personal decision that no one on this site can make for you. I seriously doubt anyone on this site knows much more about the two options than you do seeing as it it your future at stake. All I can say is good luck, and let me know what you decide :) I'm sure you will be sucsessful either way.
i'm currently writing a report for history on three reasons why we dropped teh a-bomb on hiroshima and nagakaki. my three reasons are to save american lives, ended the war quickly, and kept stalin out of the pacific. well my brother told me thoses reason because i know nothing about a-bombs. and i've searched all over google and i can't find any sources to explain to me each other main bullets. i mean my brother explained to me why and such, but i need sources for this pager and i just can't seem to find anything. so if someone could help me find a site that has some information on it tha'd be great.!
I suggest you take a visit to the library instead of waiting for some random strangers to do your work for you. Frankly, any information you get from this site probably won't do you half as much good as stuff you could find yourself. Stop procrastinating and get to work!
Let me know how it goes. Good luck :)
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FOLLOWUP: Congrats on your success! :)
I have really noticeable blackish upperlip hair because i have hormone problems with my ovaries. Its not bad to the point where it looks like a mustache. I just dont like seeing it and knowing its there. For months I used facial hair bleaching kit, but then I felt it looked more noticeable. So I bought a facial hair WAXING kit. A week later my hair grew back! I think the wax kit really doesn't work.. but i want to get it professionally done. How long will the professional waxing last for? I heard 8 weeks. I don't care if its longer than a month, but i don't want to have to go out so often for it tho, like every 2 weeks. Or do you think I should just keep bleaching it? Thanks in adviceeeeeeeeee.
Waxing is not a good idea, beacause it will grow back. Plucking is escpecially bad, just like shaving. I suggest you visit you doctor and ask for hair removal cream that will help thin out your upperlip hair. As far as I understand, that is the best for you because anything else will strengthen the hair folicle.
Good luck and let me know how it turns out :)
I've known I was gay for a while but I still haven’t told anyone. There's this really really really cute and openly gay guy in my English class and I really wanna ask him out. MAJOR DILEMMA! Should I ask him out? Wait for him to ask me out? Or come out before asking ANYONE out?
You obviously feel that you are ready to come out of the closet seeing as your question is: "Should I ask him out? Wait for him to ask me out? Or come out before asking ANYONE out? " and none of those options involve keeping the clost doors shut. You also mention the fact that you "really wanna ask him out." Therefore I think the answer to your question is clear. You should ask him out.
You probably have some worries and fears about doing this, but it's important you learn to take chances in your life. It is also equally important that you take this relationship seriously once you do ask him out. In other words, I suggest you do not do any "below the waist activity" because that is immature and shows you do not take the other person seriously.
I wish you the best of luck, let me know what he says :)
she said she was leaving and i wat to go do i beg her or what and sha calld my granny and she said no to .
If you want to go, talk to them about it. They could still cahnge their minds. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know what they say :)
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5'3, 120 pounds
how can i get my inner thys, not as discusting. i hate the way i look, espically when i sit next to my best guy friends who wear tight jeans and i have jeans on too (my thys are like bluging out). i just want to be skinnyer all over. i know you work out, but what i can do daily to make the weigh just gone, mostly on my thys
First of all, I want to stress the point that you are not overweight. You are exactly the weight you should be for your height. However, if you want to tone your legs some more, I suggest you join a dance class. If you're not into dancing, you could join a sports team. There are also plenty of online workouts you could try. The key is to find something you like to do so you don't quit. Whatever you choose to do, stick to it. It takes exactly 31 days to change your lifestyle. If you keep quitting, you will sabatoge yourself.
Good luck, and let me know how things work out :)
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FOLLOWUP: If you already do all of that physical activity, you are probably already way more muscular than you realize. You are probably stressing over a problem that doesn't exist. Go out and hav fun with your cheerleading :)
How do I find out what kind of car this girl has? She told me the color, but she won't tell me the kind of car it is. She's being stubborn about it--so basically--how do I weasel something out of a girl?
I hate to break it to you, but you cannot "weasel" something out of a girl without becoming a complete weasel yourslf. Manipulation doesn't work, it just makes girls resent you.Just ask her. She will probably tell you if you just straight up ask her. It's not exactly a big deal, it's just a car. :)
my boyfriends mom hates me, and for no reason. im in 7th grade, she's hated me since 5th. even my boyfriend doesn know why. and she loves my best friend. and the other night at his modified basketball game his mom asked my firned why he was dating me and then flat out said i dont like her! ergg. so we never get to hang out. and i really love when we get to hang out. we have so much fun and stuff. but we onyl get to hangout at games like the JV games and Varisty and such, but sometimes we go like a whole MONTH [ not really that long it seems like it though ] without seeing eachother. what should we do.. cuz i really love him and if i ever went to his house [ which would nvr happen his moms physco ] id feel really uncomfortable. someone please help!!!
What you probably feel like doing is telling her off for seperating you and your boyfriend, but that will get you nowhere. Do not write his mother a letter, sit down and talk to her face to face. Tell her that you know she doesn't like you. Then apologize and tell her that you think her son is a wonderful boy. Then back off a little bit. Stop trying to get yourself invited over to his house. You are clearly not welcome there. Try inviting him over to your house instead. Above all, stop calling his mom "physco" and stuff. This is the woman who raised your boyfriend. She deserves some respect, and to be honest you are only in the seventh grade. Your boyfriend is not about to risk his relationship with his mother for you, and he shouldn't. However, that doesn't mean things can't still work out. It just means you should aviod his mother.
Good luck, and let me know how things work out :)
i have a powerpoint thats due tomorrow about the 1950's and im having trouble finding things. i cant find that many popular corportations and stuff about consumer credit. please help? thank youuu
No one on this site will know as much as you do, seeing as we are not in your class. I suggest you go to the library. Just start working and stop putting it off. It's due tomorrow!
Good luck and let me know how you do :)
i have to have a 5 minete presentation in front of the whole class on greek art archietcture and liteture. i have no clue wat to do
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I suggest you get working on it. No one on this site in in your class, and none of us know what you should be doing any better than you do. My advice to you would be to just force yourself to get started. Stop procrastinating and just start working!
Good luck and let me know how well you do :)
About 3 months ago me and my ex broke up. We had only gone out a little over a month and he broke up with me cause of some other girl he liked. But we managed to still be good friends and we hang out and stuff, but with groupd of people not alone. Well the other day he got a new girlfriend, and its been making me really sad. Cause ya see i guess im still not fully over it all. I am 16 and he was my first boyfriend so it was like big to me (not to sound obsessed or whatever) but we had a good relationship everyone said so. I wasnt in love with him cause we didnt go out long enough but i guess just wished it lasted. So how can i help myself get over him. Thanks.
There are three main things that can help you get over him.
#1 Come to appreciate the fact that at least you found out. Many guys cheat on their girlfriends and they never know that the guy they are with doesn't feel the same way about them. Now you are able to look at things in a realistic mannar, which is better than a fictional romance.
#2 Give yourself time. As long as you try to move on, your life will continue to improve.
#3 Distract yourself by involving yourself in extracarricular activities. You need to focus on something becides other people.
Good luck, and you can always talk to me if when you start feeling blue :)
ok. i love making stir fry. i love my boyfriend who loves stir fry too. The other day i was cutting up some onions and salting up some broccolli when my boyfriend sexually caressed my rear quarters. i began becoming so exhilirated until the point I COULD NOT TAKE IT ANYMORE! in a blink of an eye IT WAS ON! the next thing i know im naked on the floor laying on broccolli. i was upset because my fry was burnt and looked like crap. i love my boyfriend but if he keeps turning me on and messing up my stir fry then its over. what should i do? i really need stir fry in my life..ha as wierd as it sounds. stir fry over sex.
I suggest you instigate a "hands off policy" while you are in the kitchen. Happy cooking :) Let me know if it works out.
i feel weird, not really sick, just weird. i have only been eating 2 regular meals and 1 meal of snacks or something. today i only had 2 meals though. could that be why?? i felt really hungry and got a headache, but i feel some what dizzy and out of it. even when i was eating i felt sick, but im feeling a bit better. is it from not eating, or can it be something else??
thanks!!
It is definately from not eating. If you are trying to loose weight, starving yourself is not the answer. You are only hurting yourself. I suggest you go see your doctor and have him/her help you come up with a diet plan so that you can loose weight without harming yourself. I wish you the best of luck. Let me know how things turn out. :)
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If you have a borderline eating disorder, it IS a big deal. I understand that you don't want people fussing over you and telling you how to live your life, but it is important you do what's best for you. In other words, I'm glad you are planning on seeing your doctor. Congrats :)
ive had more embarasing moments then my share of them- i was seen naked by a kid in my class in 3rd grade, at school in 9th grade my period blood leaked thru onto my pants, i farted in 5th grade in class, when we went on a class feild trip to the pool a guy popped my bikini top and evry 1 saw my boobs (8th grade) and my crush was there and a person with a camera took a picture of my boobs and emaild it 2 every1 in the middle school and his friends in highschool. and i think thats pretty muuch it. so does any1 have any rembarassing moments 2 tell me about so that i wont feel so embarrassed all the time? thanx sooooo much.
Ha ha ha! Misery sure does love company. I am not someone who usually has embarassing things happen to them, but you can find some pretty mortifying stories at: http://stories.teenfx.com/Embarrassing_Stories.html
Happy reading :D Let me know which stories you liked best!