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heyy im kaysee.(aka,KC)..i live in connecticut, in the middle of now where..i love to help people and i can answer about any question.. so feel free..also..my AIM sn is KCx1061 so feel free to ask me anything there too...! *KaysEe
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This boy we call Pogo thinks I like him but I dont at least not anymore. At first he was all I thought about but now since I got a really good look at him he is ugly. I mean he has yellow teeth and he cant walk straight he smells funny and look so gay.I dont even want to be his friend anymore because he is so annoying. So what should I do?
if you dont like him at all..you shouldnt lead him on at all...dont start a conversation..if he asks you a question, just answer it..dont be a bitch about it. just slowly fade away..dont just stop being his friend all of a sudden.*KaysEe
Hi,
I'm going on holiday to Europe with my friend in the next holiday. We are gonna go out a lot of places but the thing is I have really heavy periods. There is a chance I will be on my period for this holiday and they are so heavy that I can't walk around or anything without having to rush to the toilet. I know I should see the doctor, I have an appointment for when we get back. But what excuses can I give my friend as to why I can't go out for the couple of days my period is this heavy? Could I pretend I was ill? I DON'T want to tell her I am having heavy periods 'cause it's just gross OK. So don't answer with that.
if you REALLY dont wnt to tel your friend then do little things with her, close to bathrooms and bring a big purse. if you keep goin to the bathrrom she mihgt get the hint. i wouldnt fake sick everyday because it is your holiday and you want to have fun! but just try doing some small stuff around your hotel(?)..and go to bed really early so you can cut the day short a couple hours* i hope i helped!*KaysEe
I have a cold where I have to blow my stuffy nose like every minute. Now it's all red and it hurts under my nose. My mom doesn't even care I'm sick and suffering so what should I put to heal the sore? Or maybe it won't matter because I would just wipe it off. :-/ I have to walk a block to the bus stop in the freezing cold so now matter what I'm not really getting a chance to heal this cold. What do I put on the redness? And what are some tips to get over this cold faster? Thanks
to heal the redness, put a lot of cream on it when your not in public, use cover up in public to hide the redness. and to get over the cold faster, theres this thing called zicam nose swabs..there supposed to shorten colds..i've used them before..there pretty good =) all zicam products work so i would give them a try..good luck..feel better!! *KaysEe
ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused
your 13? i doubt it. i know you are like "aww i love you" but i dont think it will last FOREVER. you still have your whole life ahead of you. i am NOT saying you shouldn't "enjoy" your boyfriend you have to live these years up! and i'm sure you really do care about him, ect. but you really havent lived yet..you dont know the other millions of people you'll encounter lateron..dont set your whole heart on a high/middle school relationship..but i do wish you the best! *KaysEe
Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...
tan lines are AUSOME! i am so pale and NEVER tan so i envy people with tan lines. you should be proud of them! you are deffinatly NOT wierd! =D!!
*KaysEe
Okay, I actually think I have ADD. I've secretly researched it for a few months now, and I have a lot of the symptoms majorly. I used to be really good in school, I used to be able to focus and concentrate most of the time. Now, I have SO many things going on in my head and I seem to act like I'm listening, but really my head is off in like, a million different places. I told my friend that I had it and she's the type of girl that will just not concentrate because something is "boring". She thinks that she has ADD too. Everytime we talk about it, she starts laughing ("I have ADD, lol!"). It pisses me off so much. How is anyone going to take me seriously after she tells EVERYONE she has it, and starts laughing after? Its kids like her who use out the term ADD. I bet many students like her go to their doctor and say they have it. But what about us who actually think we have it? I feel like the doctor is just going to turn me away and say "yes, you think you have ADD along with the rest of the student body at your high school...". I NEED to get help quick, but how am I supposed to approach help, and how do I convince my friend that she doesn't have it, and not everything in this life is "fun". I can't even concentrate on the things I enjoy anymore...
go to your doctor and tell them about this. one of my friends was being "tested" (i'm not sure if thats the right word) for ADD and she came to school with all these papers for teachers to fill out and ect. doctors cant just tunr you away b/c a lot of people DO have ADD also, talk to your parents, see what they recomend..maybe they notice things too? as for your friend, she obviously doesnt know this bothers you. explain to her that you ARE serious about it and that you dont appreciate her acting the way she is. good luck* KaysEe
my best friend just called me 2 minutes ago. I was over her house earlier but her Dad said I couldnt stay for dinner which is weird because i do alot. Im practically part of their family. But anyways, my friend calls me and goes, "My mom has breast cancer." Then she had to go but she promise she`d call me back. PLEASE help! Anyone. I need something to say to her - Im crying because her mom is like so close to me and my family. I have never been through this and i dont know how to comfort her. ♥
aww i sorry. i know this is hard time for you and your fiends family..but try to stay strong, your friend needs someone and even if you feel you cant..it will be a comfort to her if she has such a great friend to depend on. to comfort her you dont always need word, just a hug or smile can make someones dark days just a little brighter. everything is in god's will from there. stay strong and good luck. *KaysEe
Im not yet either but Im scareed I will become. Earlier this night i tried to make myself throw up. Im 14 5'1 and wiegh about 103. Most people think Im crazy because I think Im fatter than most people, but I do. How can I overcome this feeling, and actions. I know that if i become either it will be very hard to stop. please! I need help very bad! Im not afraid to admit it. so please if you read this, answer my question! please!
♥ scared
stop before you get addicted. buliamia is like a drug, and you will get addicted. you sound skinny..but what you really need to do..whenever you feel like you want to throw up after a meal..go exercise..or something. i had the same feelings for a while..you just need to tell yourself that you can control them. if you need ANY help what so ever..feel free to IM me* KCx1061..dont be embarrased..i'd feel happy to help
*KaysEe
so there is this girl at my school and we used to be best friends and then now we're just friends but i found out that she is baliemic (dunno how to spell it but its when u make yourself throw up) and im like wow b/c shes a really sweet girl and is not fat at all so im thinking now.. should i just not eat anymore? cause im starting to get a bit chubby... so what should i do?
do NOT think that way. you should help your friend, not join her. you should tell someone about this. i know that you wont want to..but what would you rather have: a friend that is slowly killing herself and you will feel responsible for it OR helping her out? you need to help her. as for you, do not start. its like a drug, bulimia is ADDICTING. and can hurt and kill you. please, do not do this. if you think you are getting chubby, diet and exercise. look up healthy diet plans. buliamia is not the answer. sorry if i sound harsh, i just dont want you to be another statistic. feel free to IM me if your have any problems: KCx1061
*KaysEe
I wasn't completley sure what category this goes under, so I took a guess. My dad always tells me not to pop/crack my knuckles. And he always yells at me when I do. Is there a certain reason why you shouldn't? I heard you can get arthritis from it, I heard that your fingers will get bigger, and I've also heard that nothing will happen. So like why shouldn't I be cracking my knuckles? Can it really do that much damage?
i crack my knuckles and what they are getting big and round, also, if you look there starting to bruise and get black/brown areas on top. they get swollen and ugly. i know its hard to stop but if you dont want this you should :)
*KaysEe
ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend
you HAVE to tell someone. your friend might be mad at you, but she'll see in the future that you were just trying to help. would you rather have your friend mad at you, or be responisble for her going into depression or something b/c you didnt tell anyone. you have to weigh the two sides with their consequenses. which choice do you think is right?
*KaysEe
hey everyone i have a mini iPod and it says that you can have notes on the iPod but i can't figure out how to get the notes on it...can someone please, please help me! i swear to god if u explain it well enough for me to understand i will give u a 5 rating! please please help me by tonight!
when you plug your ipod in it has its own folder on the computer. when you open it, it shows you how to put different folders in it. im not really sure about detail but i hope that helps. *KaysEe
okay well im 14 and in the 8th grade i started my period in the 6th grade and i only go for 2 days every tiem i have it maybe 3 but i only had it moer then 3 like 2 other times in my life and they were really light.. im not a lil tiny girl but im not fat or anything im just a regular girl and i was wondering if its normal or not, i saw that there was someone else asking that but usally she has it for 5 she said i always have it for 2 :-/ i promise ill rate 5!
this sounds totally normal. but if your concerned you should go to a docter or murse in your school, or anyone you trust. good luck *KaysEe
I'm pretty sure that I have at least borderline obsessive-compulsive disorder, but where symptoms are listed, the requirements are kind of vague. If anyone who knows more about it could give me a hint as to my own state(severity, etc.), I'd appreciate it. I'll list some symptoms. Note that this if going to be rather long, even though I've cut out a lot of detail and examples.
Hand washing - I'm... fairly obsessed... with dirty-ness... if I touch something that I think might be dirty, then I wash my hands before touching anything clean and/or at the first opportunity. A year or so ago I counted myself as washing my hands ninety times in one day, and I'm sure that it's gotten significantly worse since then.
Arrangement - I like to arrange things that I'm looking at neatly. For example, yesterday I had six bittorrent windows open, and I arranged them in a perfect grid; the top left one's top left corner was exactly on the top left corner of the screen, and all the others were exactly aligned with it(no overlap or space whatsoever between edges, corners touching).
Counting - I'll count repetitive noises. Not all of them (not keystrokes, walking footsteps, etc.), but I'll always count stairs-steps and some other noises.
Perfectionism - but only in things I care about. Not really significant, but I've been known to spend hours on a minor detail of a bad drawing.
Paranoia - I worry that people may be watching me, and about hidden cameras and suchlike. I keep all my sensitive(for example, pirated) files in triple-encrypted archives with very long passwords and worry that the government might have a quantum computer, with which such a password could easily be broken.
Random **** - sometimes I'll feel compelled to do something, for example tapping my fingers in a pattern or sequence until I get it exactly right. A minute before I started writing this I selected some icons in an order. Then I worked out on paper how to work the sequence exactly backwards and did so because I needed to balance the select-ing to put my mind to rest.
SOunds like your really seirous about this. talk to your parents and go to a docter and see if you can get a proper diagonsis. thats all i can say =) Goodluck*KaysEe
13/f.....this guy I used to like likes me currently. All of my friends are telling him to ask me out, and every day he gets closer and closer to asking me out. I feel bad for him, because nobody likes him. He recently got hit HARD...long story...but I reaaaallllyyy dont want to go out w/ him! I told my friends that, but they tell him I like him and I would say yes! I wouldnt-of course! He thinks I like him no matter what I say! Help?
you need to sit your friends down without ANYONE around and tell them to stop. if THAT doesnt work then you have to talk to the guy (while being nice about it) and say you dont like him like that and not to listen to your friends. good luck..XxKaysEe
my best friend went out with a guy... and they never pay attention to me when were out.. so one day my friend says please come to the game today and i go why and she goes cuz i want you and i said if you can take me home and she says yeah.. we go to the game and of course she ditches me for her boyfriend.. to make it worse she goes to me can you find a ride home me and (her boyfriend) are going out to eat.. then she leaves me.. i come home and she apologizes but she doesnt get how mad it makes me but im not gonna tell her cuz it will make everything weird.. i dunno i just need to complain to someone.. if you can help please give advice
i understand totally, its happened to me. i know you dont twant to talk to your friend but if you can talk to her ALONE w/o anyone there it might help. also, if she invites youe somewhere and you know her b/f will be there then dont go. try backing off a bit and see what happens. boys are jsut phases while real friends last forever. good luck =) wish you the best
ok there's this new kid in my skool , nd he's in everyone of my classes, nd he chose to sit next to me in every one of them. but the thing is i lik him , and he's alwayz flirtin wit me , nd i flirt bak. but when he came here , me nd my b/f juss started goin out,nd som1 tld me tht he liked me bak. and everyone says tht we would mak a good couple. but the other day my best friend saw my b/f kiss his ex-gf , nd he said he didnt,so wut should i do? Should i break up wit my b/f , nd go out wit the new kid? or Should i give my b/f another chance, nd juss be friends wit the new kid? nd im 13/f
Signed really confused
if your b.f cheated on you and you like this other kid then i would go out with the other kid. you dont deserve to be cheated on and the other kid sounds nice. i hope everythingh works out, this is a tough place to be in. Lots Of Love
ok so i am really really really upset! i like have a 70.00 in my literature class and a 76 in my civics class! i am really tryin to pull up that grade but i am not so sure how to! Reading my book 4 civics doesn't help it just makes me bored and my mind goes off yonder else where! Please please help me learn some good but while still being fun to learn more and bring up those low grades! thanx!
Ask your teachers for some study materials and extra help. ALWAYS do your homework, like, try not to miss any. Do your homework without any disractions, no TV or anything. Basically, put yourself in a room and make yourself bored enough to do your homework. Set goals for yourself before test in quizzes, if you think you know the material well, then say to your self that you want to get a 90, but if you arent to sure, say your wnat to get in the 80s. i hope this helps. Goodluck
I am so bored! Im at a hotel in New Hampshire and theres seriously nothing to do! What are some fun things to do at a hotel where theres no one your age. Dont tell me the computer because other people have to use it and its too late to go in the pool/hottub..You have to be 14 to use the workout equip. and im only 13 HELP! Im going to die of boredom i swear
Try to make some new friends. DOnt be shy, if you see anyone your age..just walk up and start talking. it might seem weird but most likely the other person is just as bored as you and needs some company.