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This might be a little long--but I need help so please read it..Thanks!

Well we just got to pick where we sit for lunch and we have to sit there all year. There's 6 other girls at my table, and like 3 are my good friends. Two of the other girls (besides my friends) that sit there are kind of shy, but nice, and I still talk to them. But the last girl..she is SO annoying. She just sat there when we chose tables, and some of the girls like her so they said 'okay' to her. Well we sit where everybody walks by us when they get their lunch and the girl I don't like is always yelling "HI..HI...HI!" to everybody, and it gets so annoying. Then she tries to take food from people when they are walking with their trays. If the people she says 'hi' to don't answer her or if they dont give her food, she slaps them. I mean, she's SO rude to everyone. I tried to tell her that it's not nice to slap people and try to take people's food..because it IS their lunch..THEY bought. She just tells me to shut up when I say something to her. I'm not gonna tell a teacher either because it's not a big deal. She just needs to learn manners and I don't know what to do. She's driving me crazy!! She thinks she's really cool, too, but not a lot of people like her. She has SUCH a big mouth! I just don't know how to deal with her---please help! thanks so much..

Give her a taste of her own medicine.

If other people, or your friends are noticing how rude and annoying this girl really is, talk with them and kind of make a plan; to do the same things she does to everyone else. Yell HI HI HI to her.. and try to take her food. See how she likes it. Then if she gets pissed off and approaches you, telling you to stop, you all can yell at her and tell her how annoying she's being, if you feel the need to, yell at her.. anything to get the point across. lol

Good luck! :)

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I've liked this guy for a long time but he's currently going out with a friend of mine....so how do i seduce him to like me without letting her know that i want him ?

I Think He Might Like Me Too But She's Always In The Way

No. no no no no NO. lol
Sorry, but i've been in this position before. And it really didn't leave me anywhere.
Talk to him.
See if he DOES like you, because if you go ahead and 'seduce' him, and it turns out that he doesn't like you, it could cause trouble with your friend.

Then you won't have a a friend; OR the guy.

Please, be careful. lol :)

Good luck!

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ok I want to get my hair thinned..but my mom has a lot of questions that I don't have the answers to..so here goes:
1. What is the process of hair thinning?
2. How much does it cost?
3. What are the negatives and positives?
Thanks!

Well, a few people said not to get your hair thinned, but layered, and that it does the same thing. I, am solid proof that the two are VERY different, and layering doesnt really make your hair thinner. My hair, is super thick, and i straighten it tons. But even when i used to straighten it, it would be thick and poofy. So, what i did was went to get my hair cut, as i normally would, but i asked my stylist to thin it out around the back, where it was the poofiest. She did just that, and i've kept up with it ever since. But not EVERY time i get it cut, because it CAN be bad for your hair, if you do it too often. Super thick hair is a pain, and thinning it out gives you a lot more options on styles and such. It usually doesn't cost more, if you're already cutting/trimming it.

So i say, go for it!
Good luck! :)

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ok im 12 and i have a 36c cup and my breasts hang down real low(not like an old ladies though) and sumtimes i have lumps that r felt from the inside...do i have breast cancer???? and is the hanging a sign????? im so scared....help!

Aw, hun. Well i'm no expert, but i think it's pretty safe to say that you're way too young to even think of having breast cancer!! Don't worry! :) You're probably just growing again, and like other have said already, they're probably only 'hanging'[lol] because they're larger, and growing. Just get a good wire, or push up bra, and you'll be set! :)

Good luck, hun.

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hey i'm having a party, and i want to have something like "7 minutes in heaven" or w/e (its a halloween party tho)
does anyone have any good ideas for it? help! thanks:)
-help-party-

Heh. Been there, done that! ;)

Try heading over to www.ekiss.com

It has a lot of fun kissing games, and other neat stuff! :)

Good luck, and have fun at your party!!

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Hey, I cant find the name to this song, whats the name and the artist. The lyric i know is: All i can say is that my life is pretty plain, i like to watch the puddles gather rain.
Thanks!

hmm. correct me if i'm wrong, but i think it may be 'No Rain' by Blind Melon.

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does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol

It depends on the laws, and where you're from.

I'm 14, and up until now, i've only ever babysat. But just recently, about 2 days ago i was hired at A&W [a fast food place, if you didn't know :P]

Hope you find a good job, hun! :)

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Well, I love writing novels and I've been working on novels for years . I have one published poem and I've recieved one editors choice awards and mom and dad are proud . See I'm 13 and I'm in school and I really want to find an agent and a publishing company . The only thing I ask is that I benefit from the profit that my books may make , and that if I can find a publishing comp. or agent online to assist me with this mission that seems so impossible . Well if you can help me thanks and I'll definetly give you a rating . Well thanks and have a nice day .

Well, i can't really answer your question, but all i can say is how much respect i have for you. Writing novels for years, and you're only 13? How cool is that! You sound like you really know what you want, and for that; i give you props!

Good luck with your future, hun! :)

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Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.


Thanks loves

i agree with you, 110%.

but it can't really be stopped. *shrug*

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what is the difference between a flat iron and a straightener..and which one works better? don't say they're the same thing because I know they're not =) thanks!

Flat irons work best.

And like a couple people said, get a CHI!
I bought one from my hair salon a year ago and honestly, it was the best investment i have ever made!! I used to hate leaving the house with my hair down, because my hair was curly and frizzy.. now, i always get so many compliments on my hair and friends asking to use it because of how straight and healthy my hair looks! :)

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ok @ school like everybody wheres makeup and stuff and i want to too. not just because everybody is wearing it but because i feel ugly. but i dont know anythin about it!!! so can you tell me whats the best kind of like foundation or powder?! what is pressed powder?! and dosent makeup wash off in the rain?! thank you so much and i rate really good if that matters to you! thanks.

Aww! I'm sure you're gorgeous without make up, because afterall, natural beauty is awesome. But enhancing your facial features is great too!

Here's a list of the make up i use; i tend to like more of the natural look, and you might want to start off that way! :)

Concealer - TruBlend, by Covergirl; in Natural Ivory. This stuff works wonders! It covers up any imperfections, such as a zit. It comes in many different shades, and whichever you buy, it blends in amazingly with your skin! All you have to do is press the pump onto a round make-up pad and start blending!

Pressed Powder - NYC [not sure of the colour, i currently dont have any!] but this just evens out your skin, making it look flawless. And it's great after gym class to quickly press on, not look greasy, and you're good to go!

Mascara - Double Extend; by L'OREAL. First of all, since your a beginner, i would get someone to help you with mascara. It can get real messy, and you could poke your eye out ;). But i love mascara. I have long lashes to begin with, so this just enhances them and makes my eyes look even bigger.

Eye shadow - NYC; just a shimmery white [again, i like to be on the natural side] You shouldn't overdo it with the eyeshadow, just lightly spread it over your whole eyelid.

Eye liner - Black; by Prestige, or Annabelle [only available in Canada, i'm pretty sure] This eye liner lasts all day for me, and it's pretty dark. Eye liner is my favourite piece of make up, and i've basically become a pro at applying it, though at first i was really scared i was gonna poke my eye out! hehe. All you do is glide the liner across the bottom inner part of your eye, from the outside corner to the inside, and you're done! Often, i only put it on the bottom but if i'm going for a more dramatic look, i'll apply it on the top of my eyelid too!

Lip gloss - i

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OK.. heres the deal..

I am 14 years old i weigh 225 lbs..*damn right * and i really need 2 loose weight! i know i can loose 10 lbs a month.. i want to loose 80 lbs. by the end of may.. i have been trying over the summer and that.. its been working good i lost 20 lbs.. but all of a sudden i started gaining weight!! i have been eatting better and excirsing more and everything.. does anyone know what 2 do?

All i can really say is to keep up with doing what you've been doing.. eating really healthy, and getting plenty of exercise. Those are pretty much the only real ways to lose weight and keep it off.

Good luck, sweetie! :)

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my face is perfectly clear of pimples and i hardly ever break out on my face, and i always wash my whole body everyday... but for some reason my back breaks out all the time! and right now its horrible and disgusting! how can i get rid of this? and quick. i rate all that helps

hmm. i heard that stuff you see on informercials, ProActive, works well for that.

:)

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ok well i love my make-up....but i need some good kinds....like as for eyeliner i use wet n wild or sometimes nyc pencil.....but i want it so it stays on longer and i can get it as dark as possible...is there a cheap kind (under $5) that will give me that effect? wut about liquid? thanx!


Personally, i think liquid eyeliner sucks.
Only because it stays on so well, and if you were to screw up, it's a b!tch to remove.

Try eyeliner pencil, Black by Prestige. That's what i use all the time and it works great.

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hey! i'm 16/f and my sis turns 18 on oct. 2nd... ne present ideas for her? or creative ideas eX: MaKinG her breakfast... ThANkS In AdVaNcE!
(shes a normal teenage girl by the way...not a goth or ne thing! LoL!)

I suggest a girls night out. Go and get all pampered or something.. then head to the mall.. or the movies, and go out for dinner! :)

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wut can i use on my face to give it a natural glow
thnx

I use this shimmer powder on my face and collar bone, and i always get complimented on how i look so evenly tanned. Heh.

Try Glimmer Bronze; by Bonnebell.

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this guy i like just asked me out about 5 days ago. he is really shy and we like never tlak bcuz we are both really shy...what whould i do so that we can talk more?

this happened to my best friend too!!

they both really liked eachother, and talked TONS online, but not really often at school. They both aren't really shy people, but they become shy around eachother; and everyone always made fun of her.. just saying things like why bother going out with him if they didn't even talk and stuff.

All i can say is, do what she did. Get one of your close friends, and one of his friends. And hang out, just the 4 of you. I hung out with them, and her bfs best friend abouut 8 or 9 times.. just doing random fun stuff.. like. the movies, go karting, swimming or just going for a walk. And eventually, because you would've been outgoing because you had your best friend there, you'll open up to him as well. Soon enough, you'll both come around and start hanging out just the two of you, she did ;) He would even be at her house til 3am sometimes!! hehe.

congrats; + good luck with your new bf sweetie :)

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