I want your advice on this ..
i love my boyfriend soo much, and i know we argue and have our lil differences, but we always seem to work it out yah know. but anyways he is violent sometimes and we get pretty worked up, he seys some fucked up stuff to me and tells me hes gunna beat me ass and shyt like that. i know what ur thinkin, im an idiot for stayin wit him for this long, but its really hard to leave him. ive broken up with him like 5 times already and weve only been datin for around 6 months. everytime i dump him he always weasels his lil way back in and seys shyt like he loves me soo much he cant live without me and he would die for me. and eventually i start believin that were gunna do better this time and hell treat me better. but it never seems to get any better. i wanna know what u think i should do, stick it out and try to talk with him, or leave him for good?
thanks alot
Well Im the kinda girl who would stomp a guy into the floor if he hit me or anything violent. I know you love him, but you have to realize that deep down he really doesnt love you because if he did he wouldnt lay a finger on you! You should never let him touch you in a violent way, and I know that you break up with him and you go back out with him because he says he'll change and you want to believe so much that he really will change. But when it comes down to it a guy like him will never change unless he gets help. Break up with him, and leave him alone, you are so much better than him on so many levels, and you deserve someone who will treat you right. So leave him for good!
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I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done?
You did the right thing, just to ignore it. He was embarrassed enough already, without you saying anything. Just pretend to not notice. Its part of life.
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Ok heres the problem, i LOVE to sing, i can sing very well too. The problem is i can't preform in front of people! I am way to nervous. I can't even sing infront of my family. Its just to nerve -racking. My family says i should go out for singing lessons because sometimes they hear me but im to nervous to go out. When i get older i really wanna try out for american idol, ya it sounds stupid but i do. Its just im to nervous in front of people! Does anyone have any tips to get un-nervous, or any advice for me to go out?
- Shy Singer -
Just know that you have a talent, and take some confidence with you that other people will think the same (as in you singing good) you can do anything if you set your mind to it. As for being nervous, thats just from being scared you'll make a fool of yourself, but you wont and just remember everyone embarrass's their self in some point of their life. Just go for it, and if your on stage in front of people just smile real big before you start and think of all those people setting there in nothing but their underwear. Go for it !
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Have you ever thought that you liked someone when you were going out with a different someone (that you love soooo much!) and sometimes wonder what it would be like to be with the other person?
I know its wrong, and i told my boyfriend {of 1yr and almost 2mos.} but i dont know how to stop. because I don't truly like these other people. I Love my boyfriend tho. I hope this isn't too confusing!!
Anyone experienced this?
Help me to stop please!
Oh, I would never cheet on my boyfriend or break up with him. So your probabaly wondering, "whats the problem them?" well I still dont want to think these things. i mean i know im a teen (freshman/female) but I have a great boyfriend and I know this isnt right! so, anyone??
Thanks In Advance!
-*KeLs*-
p.s.=if this doesnt make since { how i worded it or if you need to know something else}, say so in your answer, and i'll re-ask the question to you differently!
Thanks!! :)
Its normal, dont panic, if you really love your boyfriend dont let this likein someone else bother you. It happens after you've been dating someone for a long time, but you get a crush on someone else just because sometimes you wonder what it is like to be with someone else, but just stick with him you'll get over likeing someone else, because i know you said you wont break up with him but if you were you'd realize how much you miss his ways, Stay with the one you love, because like comes and goes, love is forever...
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im doing an art collage on candy but im running out of candy to draw, so what kind of candy should i draw???
ring pops, baby bottle pops, sour straws, sour head, air head, extreme airhead... sorry if i names something you already have, hope i helped
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her?
Oppurtunities arent lost, their taken, if she is really pretty you better hurry someone else will decided their interested in her and might get to her before you do. Just dont be scared, rejection is part of life, and it happens to everyone, try it,you never know what will happen.Goodluck.
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ok this one is going to be long, so bear with me. i have this guy friend (he's 15/m and i'm 17/f) and our relationship is kinda brother/sisterish. a couple of weeks ago, i was talking to him online and he admitted that he had a crush on me. well this totally surprised me, cause i had a crush on him too. i told him and we were both shocked but then thought that we should try and maybe go out (in secret at first, just in case it didn't work out), and just see how it goes. well we did that, and long story short, we made out a few times then i told him that i didn't think it was a good idea. i'm not really sure why i did it, but i did. but now, i think i have "more than friend" feelings for him again (but i'm not exactly sure), but i don't want to hurt him again. oh, and he still likes me a lot. what should i do?
You like him as more than a friend for sure, but your so use to acting as a bestfriend/sister type to him, you dont know how to act towards him as a girlfriend. Which is something you'll have to get over and just learn that things change a little when you go from being friends to boyfriend/girlfriend, but more than likely you really like him just like how he likes you. Go for it what do you have to lose ? But if you start get weird feelings or something just remember its because yall just been friends in the past, trust me sooner or later you'll get over that, you prolly have a good relationship waiting for you.
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?
Well just give him a call, but dont call after 9 at night that way incase his moms in a bad mood she wont get mad at you or him for calling late.
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My friend Ray introdcued me to his best friend Jason. In the beginning Jason and I got along fine, everyone thought he was interested in me. But soon Jason started asking me about other boys.. whether I liked them or not. It wasnt really any of his business so I would just respond to him without really answering his question. Now all of a sudden lately Jason has been extreamly rude to me. A friend of mine seems to think Jason has the hots for me and is upset Im talking about other boys. I think he's just plain rude. Other opinions would be nice. I rate.
Yeah I think your right, this guy Jason at first wanted to be friends or whatever, then he started to realize he kind of likes you. When he started to try to hint to you that he likes you, by being interested in wether you liked any guys or whatever, more than likely he was tryin to see if you had a boyfriend. And not responding to him to where it gives him an answer but still talking about guys, made him jealous because he likes you. Dont worry hes being rude but its also called being immature, thats how guys are when their scared to tell the girl they like her. If your interested in him confront him and tell him that your interested in getting to know him as more than a friend. But personally I wouldnt talk to him as more than a friend because hes being jerky about the whole situation of you talking bout other guys now, I could only imagine how he would be if you were his girlfriend. Boys are retarded ...
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How can you tell who a major flirt likes? Does he show them more attention or less? Because I have a friend that is a major flirt and he's been following me around in the mornings before school, he's also suddenly starting to eat lunch with me, and always wants to be my partner in Drama. Why the sudden change is another question?
With someone who is a big flirt, usually their relationships arent real good, or last very long with someone, because for the simple fact they flirt too much, to tell the difference between likeing somebody, and just being friendly. If this guy flirts that way, more than likely hes not real good to date. But if you think he pays you more attetion that the other girls he flirts with maybe you should try it with him, But just know that more than likely he treats a lot of girls like he is treating you seperately. More than likely hes just haveing fun and hes not lookin for someone to date, just to have fun and play around with, sorry boys are stupid like that, shoot even girls are stupid like that.
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my guy friend lies so much i don't whether to believe him or not. he lies about his age and other stupid stuff and i don't know whether to believe him or not. i confronted him yesterday but he denies that he lies. what should i do?
If you know he lies, then more than likely he will lie to you. Dont believe everything he says because hes takeing you for granite thinking you will believe his lies.
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hey well here is the problem.. sorry might be long! ok well the guy i am goin out with i like him alot! and i mean i kno i love him.. i hve never felt this way about ne guy ever!.. we hve been goin out for a while now. but the problem is like at school or somewhere wher there are 'certain' people or something i jus act diff around him..and at school he says i act like i dont like him but when we are alone everything is perfect.. i mean i kno im not embarrassed of him! he is not the kind of guy u would be embarrassed of! i love him soo much but we hve been gettin into alot of fights about this and i dont kno what to do i tell him all the time i wil try to act different but i never do.. i dont want to loose him over something like this!! if you hve any help at all please answer or leave ur sn and i will IM you! thanks soo much!!
Hey, this is something that happens a lot, it just means probably that you dont know how to act in front of your friends with him, your scared your gonna be too touchy or not enough. But you should realize that you should be no different with him at school than you are in private away from people. Talk to him about this..And if this aint the problem, more than likely the love you feel for him, isnt as in being IN love with him, you just care about him as a friend and arent comfortable enough around him as his girlfriend to make things work. If you wanna IM to ask me anything or talk about it go ahead.. my s/n is carreraquads
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Ok, where to start? I'm a freshman in high-school, and I totally hate high-school. I mean, its not THAT bad, but I'd prefer middle school, anyday. Last year, (in 8th grade) I had it all. Great friends, boyfriends, pretty decent grades, and everybody liked me pretty much. I was Ms. Perfect, and I was supposedly SUPER-HOT, or so everybody said. Now, I feel like crap. I'm always trying to be someone I'm not. My best friend moved away, far and we barely ever keep it contact. My other best friend, well we don't even ever hang out because I ditched her for my current best friend, and so now she had better friends, and I'm just a nobody. And my new best friend, well we've only been friends for about a year, not entirely, but the fights we get into, its unbelievable. I haven't fought like I gought with her, with my other friends for two years. I mean, she's a good friend, but gets pissed easily, I mean we're two different people, I've talked to her about it before, but ehh. I don't know what to do. Now, guys. Yeah, people still like me, but not as much. There's lots more prettier girls! And life, my social life is horrible, my parents don't let me do shit. Guys, I've had two big crushes that both liked me but things got screwed up because I was too shy. I know how people say, that if you're popular and stuff in middle school, in high school you won't be, and vice-versa. I don't know what to do about ALL of this. Please help with everyhting, get my life back o track anfd better., Thanks os much!
Alright..first in middle school, you werent Ms. Perfect its just middle school is a lot smaller compared to highschool. And in middle school, people dont really care who you are your just you. But in highschool,there are many different types of people, and you dont fit into the category of all those people. You just have to learn to make friends be a lot of the ones you had in middle school are going to change and wont even act like they know you prolly. But just accept the fact things are different. As for your friends I dont know what to tell you, sorry that your bestfriend moved away. And as for the fighting with your one friend, yall probably arent so different from each other, yall are both really just alike deep down. But hey things will get better, because you will make new friends, so what if your not the popular fancy cheerleader or whoever, just be you and people will see that you are comfortable bein yourself, and people will like that in you.Goodluck!
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I got my ears pierced at Claires 8 weeks ago. My left ear lobe started hurting and bleeding a teeny bit and shedding skin from the back when i changed into my second pair of sensitive earrings. What's wrong with my ear?? Is it infected?? It's a teeny bit red withthat white thingy and when you squeeze it it hurts a teeny bit. What should I do? I RATE 5'S
Make sure you leave the original earring from the piercing shop in them. Because depending on your ear and the way your body reacts to pierceings, it might take your pierceing longer than it should to heal..but cleaning it with alcohol and twisting it 3 times a day is good for it and should help clear the infection up...just keep cleaning it and leave one type of earring in it for a while. the best type of earrings are surgical steel.
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J/W, it is me again by the way, but if you do like me a lil bit what do you like about me?
Okay...I dont know what to say, I cant believe you think Im nice. But yeah you can prolly top all those asshole...Who knows. Im not worried bout anything right now just talk with me see where it takes you...And I dont like you like you yet... so I cant really tell you what I like about you... But I think your funny, and you dont take things to seriously, your just easy going.
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i have been broken up with my boyfriend since september and we have both pretty much moved on .. i feel like im not ready to start another serious relationship.. i have always liked this kid matt & he is perfect for me but i dont think he knows how i feel .. but there is this kid dave that has always liked me and he treats me like a goddess but for some reason i cant ever like him enough to go out with him... what should i do? be single and go with the flow.. or try to committ to dave?
Well, the guy who likes you Dave, the chances of him hurting you are real slim because you know he really likes you and has really like you for a while.But chances are you just dont see him that way if you have never liked him enough to go out with him , so just stay friends with him and dont try to make yourself like him. But that Matt guy let him know you like him,see where that goes. Just dont get serious another guy for a long time, that way you wont get hurt.
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Yes i really did think about it, and yes i onestly really do like you, and i no because we talked one night i thought you were really cool, and hate to say it you are really hot too! haha! but ya sorry to bring it up maybe we can hit it off. but just tell me this do u think i can top those assholes?
So you thought I was cool, I want more details into how you like me, what you like about me...Thanks for the compliment on being really hot. And maybe one day we can try it, but I dont really want to try anything right now because Im tired of ass*oles, hurting my feelings.
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Hey, its me again and i read your advice and i listened to it and i understand that you really can't love at our age, but i thought about it and i really do like you, and maybe we can start a relationship since i no who you went out with and i think maybe i could top all of those assholes! But please respond asap!
I dont know what to tell you I dont really want a boyfriend right now, but that dont mean we cant keep talking, and what do you mean you thought about it and you really do like me ??... how do you know? what makes you so sure ?
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Hey, i hope you don't no who this is because the person that i am in love with is you! So will you please tell me what i should do, or like tell me who you like!
Okay..Im not sure who this is but then again I think I do know who this is, sorry to tell you but I aint the person your in love with, but maybe you like me...As for me being in love or likeing someone..I dont like or love anybody. And Im not looking for a relationship.
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Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--)
Friends with benefits, is fun sometimes as long as you dont get hurt, but if you really like the person you will prolly just get hurt and you should just stay "friends only"
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