hey my names amy and im here to help! i'll answer all your questions as best as i can and i hope i can help! I've been through alot and i can deal with almost anything... so.. BRING IT ON! lol you can always IM me online with AIM... on YiAlNuKvEdEaS.. thanks your great! love ya!
E-mail: aimerz13@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: colorado
Age: 13
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I love you amy poo
you no who!! (link)
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lol hmmm.... amy poo? werid... well umm im kinda reallllly liking someone else right now.... so.. idk if i can help you sorry
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ok well damn all those ppl who have ever said "i have a friend..." when they're really talking about themselves cuz they really screwed it up for me. neways my friend isnt exactly "hot" in guy terms or nething. so she's never had a bf and everything and she's really depressed. and i told her that guys just dont see what they're missing out on, and she told me that they see something in everyone but her. so i told her she just has to wait for the one. but she says that its not fair for everyone else to not have to wait and she does have to wait. what she doesnt understand is that all of us that do get bfs actually try to get them. like we dress nice, do our hair extra special, and talk to the guy and flirt. she doesnt try this at all, and i dont know how to tell her. she's to the point where she breaks down in tears crying. i think maybe if she got a cute haircut and maybe nicer clothes than maybe she would be "hot" or something but how do i tell her this? it would sound shallow and i dont know how to tell her to try to get a guy to like you. do you have any idea how i can get it through to her? (link)
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okay well honeslty i think the best you can do is tell her the truth.. tell her that she has to try for boys if she wants to get their attention! tell her its not as easy as it looks for you and the rest of your friends! tell her you spend hours on clothes hair makeup you know just like every other girl! tell her that shes gotta put more effort into it and than you know she would get what she was looking for. otherwise if you dont tell your friend she'll never know! and it shouldnt be your problem to deal with that shes upset.. so just let her know.. it might sound shallow but let her know that its coming from a true friend... and dont worry about that whole (i have a friend....) i beleive you.. lol cause you wouldnt ask advice for this stuff about yourself!
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i dont know if you remember me but i asked you a question about what i should do about the kis that i like and how he likes me to and you told me to go for it and ask him out well i hope you do remember but anyways i found out that he was a girlfriend and i know that if they broke up and we went out that his ex-girlfriend would get so many girls at my school to like hate me! I dont know what i should do he told me the next time he sees her hes gonna break up with her if he does should i ask him out still?
-signed confussed and puzzeled (link)
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id say the key to life is living how you want it and not living for other people.. i guess inorder to have ANY kind of relationship you have to not care about what the others say. so yeah if his ex tells people to hate you that might suck for a while but people will realize shes only jealous... if you like a guy you should ask him out... even if his ex will hate you... live life for you!!! hope i helped!
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Ight well there is this girl i've known for since elementary school and we've been pretty close but now im dating a girl and i can feel her animosity for it all. But its like she still trys to get close to me but the truth is im annoyed by her and have had enough of it. She might start giving me crap about how i kinda left her out of this all but i dont know what to do. Shes always trying to get sympathy from me or any kind of communication. She probably feels like i just left her for my girlfriend cause i dont talk to her much i mean we're friends but im not kinda ignoring or leaving her alone for this, its because shes being annoying and dumb. (link)
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if you dont let her know your annoyed by her actions shes going to continue with them.. untill you let her know how you feel.. and that wahts shes doing is irritating you its going to continue.. so let her know.. but remember... theres no reason to be mean.. all you have to do is get the point across! hope i helped
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Ok so this girl keeps leading me on but I'm not sure if she truly likes me or is just trying to get me to break up with my girlfriend. I really like her but I don't know what the fuck is going on. (link)
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the only thing i think you should do is talk to this girl who is leading you on... and do you have feelings for your girlfriend.... because if you really like this other girl it seems kind of hard... maybe you should re-evaluate that situation first.. should you be with her? and if you really like your girl friend... forget about the girl whos messing with your head... life is a big enough game itself.. no need for little ones inside of it... hope i helped
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well here there amy cakes. i was just thinkn bout you and your not on so i thought i would just write for advice i really want you and i think you do to so lets just give in to temptations and do it pleaseee
from
your secerate admirer (link)
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well um... im sorry but i dont know who you are.. otherwise... i could let you know what i think... write for advice again and let me know who you are..
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Okay well I really like this one kid! And he likes me too.(he told me he does don't think i'm consided or anything lol) but anyways so we both really like eachother and everything but we are kinda like brother and sister like when we are with eachother we can liek hang out and everything and we can flirt too. So I like him SOOOO much and everything and I don't know if I should ask him out or not!? And I know that if we go out he will want to make out but the problem is I don't really know how to make out!:(
and one time when we were about to make out I got really nervous and couldn't do it! So my questions are should I ask him out and if we go out should I make out with him anyway even if I get nervous! And how can i get to be not so nervous and is there a way to practice making out without someone else (link)
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okay well i know how you feel about liking your best friend.. its easy to fall for them because you usually have so much fun togehter! well what i say is go for it girl ask him out! guys think its hot when chicks can make a move by asking them out!! so go for it!! and about making out! its totally normal to be nervous i dont know one person that wasnt ever!!! lol but dont worry i think you should try it!! relax and remember that everyone has a first time good or bad it will be alright! well just remember that it usually comes naturally and the guy usually leads it so he'll guid you on what to do!! it should be JUST FINE!!! hope i helped.. oh and i guess you could practice on your hand! lol what ever workds
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ok well i'm thirteen. i've only had one true love in my life and right now hes with this girl, and i know that they are both in love, and everyone else knows it too, and i love him more than anyone will ever know, and it seems kinda like we're growing apart.. and no matter what i do i KNOW i'll be runner up and i hardly ever talk to him any more or nething. how do i let him know how i feel? (link)
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goodness!! these problems suck! its hard to know that your never going to get exactly what you want... i saw a movie once... and though she truly feels as if she loves this guy she accepts that hes in love with someone else.. and once she is able to accept that, shes able to find true love in someone else.. i mean you could always try that.. but if you want to let him know how you feel.. i would just be straight up and honest with him... honesty is the best thing you can do...... let him know you feel like you guys are falling apart.. let him know you care about him strongly.. and that even though hes with another girl you still love him!!!! the worst thing that could happen.. is he can say that he doesnt feel the same way.. that will hurt... but at least you'll know that you didnt ruin a chance by not ever saying anything.. you'll feel better to get it off your chest whether or not the feedback is good or bad! hope i helped!
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I'm gonna be in a guard picnic this saturday and i'm suppose to bring a side dish...i dont know what to bring. would please give me some suggestions and maybe a recipe? THANKS i'll rate 5's! (link)
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i always think its a good idea to bring cookies!! everyone LOVES COOKIES!! right? right? lol and everyone always needs dessert.. it should be a BIG hit to bring cookies.. lol
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how do you give head?? i owe my boyfriend and ive never done it before!! any tips? (link)
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have you ever seen white chicks??? what ever you do.. dont do that... lol i guess i dont have any tips for you... ummm he should let you know what he likes and what he doesnt.. and if he cant tell you that maybe you guys arent close enough to be having oral sex... well hope i helped.. bye
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well this guy and i have been dating for a while and its come to a point where all we do is make out but i wanna go farther! its so boring buti dont know if hes willing to take another step forward and im worried about possibly accidentally getting pregnant... signed... anonymous chicka (link)
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well if your worried about getting pregnant.. maybe your not ready.. even how much you think you are... if you have doubts.. wait! so many people screw up their first time.. if you go ahead with having sex.. make sure you do it safe.. condoms.. maybe the pill.. than plan it so your not getting a period soon! just do whatever you can to be safe.. even oral sex it better and safer with condoms.. well hope i helped!
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I'm growing my hair out to past my boobs but now its like 4 inches longer than shoulder length and i have sideswept bangs that are to about my upper lip...it's kinda at an awkward stage. It's medium brown and pretty straight with a tiny bit of a wave to it. Any suggestions on cute styles I can do? (link)
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i deffenitaly think that body waves are the cutest way to wear your hair! there just really nice and wavy and stylish! and there not tight bundiling curles there just pretty and wavy i think thats the prettiest you can try that
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is there anyway i can get a guy to know that i like him without being obnoxiously flirty? im really shy so flirting isnt really an option for me. i rate high! i dont want to just come out and say that i do like him because he could just be like "i dont like you that way" and i couldnt handle something like that (link)
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umm boy this ones always hard... its hard to come out with it because your afriad of being rejected.. (thats alright everyone is) anyways.. sometimes thats the best way.. sometimes having your friends kinda hint it could be the worst.. but sometimes its really the best.. maybe since flirting isnt your thing.. try to get closer to him... make it so you dont end up being gooood friends.. and thats it.. you have to hint the tinyest bit that you might like him and than be nice.. that should hook him on you and hopefully he'll like you... if that doesnt work.. maybe go with the friend approach.. that might seem dumb but sometimes its the only way to do things..! sorry its not that good but hope i helped
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well, i used to like this kid, but im slowly growing out of him ( if you know what i mean)
and well i like this other guy that almost everybody in my school likes. Hes realy perverted and everyone knows he is just kidding(most of the time)
but lately he keeps calling me, sitting near me at lunch and he keeps grabbing my ass..and i dont know if he is just kidding or not..what do i do? (link)
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i completley understand what you mean!! its hard to know if the guy that everybody likes really likes you or is just using you for fun like the others he's done it to! but about the guy your just growing out of.. that alright! dont worry people stop liking people all the time so no worries about that hun... well when it comes to figuring out what to do... you ought to really ask this perveted guy (lol) if he really has feelings for you because you dont wanna be played around with because you do have feelings for him!! just be straight forward and what ever his answer is try to go on from there! hope i helped!
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ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy (link)
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heyyyy dont be worried about being with someone whos not you age.. yournger or older.. you know you just have to really like him enough to not care that people might think its dumb or weird! all that should matter is what you two think! and if your happy than i wouldn't worry about it being so wrong! hope i helped!
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well this is difficult my name i cannot say but it rhymes with jerry and i think i might be in love so i dont no how to tell this girl can u help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzz i need u i thinkn bout just grabbin her ass and tell her to make me some pie and fuck me
tom (link)
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well hmm... since you said you can't say your name.. but yet it rhymes with jerry.. and you signed it with tom.. im confused on who im talking to but thats alright.. anyways.. um i guess the best approach sometimes is just being striaght forward 100% like dont drag it out you gotta get to the point before its to late to make the statement that your in love.. try to relax and hope for the best! just remember that even if it doesnt turn out the way you wanted everything happens for a reason. hope i helped
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I need ur hellp!!!!@!@!
At church my preacher came on to me
at least... i think he did, i dont really know but i think he stuck his hoodilly in my chacha..
what should i do
cuz i haven't called him back yet
help me
BAD BOy Bitch (link)
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well.. bad boy bitch... hmm umm you need to report what happened thats some sick stuff that's illegal.. just think about how wrong that is to do.. what do you mean you haven't called him back!? i sure wouldn't that kinda gets yourself into more trouble.. almost like you led him on.. tell an adult immediatly and stay strong.. in the mean time stay as far away from his as possible. change your church or something.. just get away and avoid the situation! sorry that happened to you.. hope i helped! im here if you need me!
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ok here the deal me and my girl friend of 4 years since 8th grade were taking a drive up into the mountains. and its was snowy out and our car slipped on the ice and we slid really far and i managed to get out of the car but shelly didnt and the car went crashin into another car and she died i could barley live with my self i kept blaming myself and i wouldt cry myself to sleep. i almost tried to kill my self twice but i just oculdnt thats not what she would want but i just wanna no how to get over her and if u wanna help me (link)
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well lets see getting over a death isn't always easy but you shouldn't blame yourself...thats not fair to do to you! im sorry that you tried to kill yourself thats never a good thing.. i think you always end up feeling worse afterwards. i guess my best suggestion is to just try to move on.. and occupy yourself with other things to do so you don't have as much free time to think about the accident.. try to tell people how your feeling and to let yourself cry if you need to .. holding it in causes pain and that leads to the sucicide attempts! just keep standing strong and you'll most likley get through it all! im here if ya need me!.. hope i helped!
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Ok so me buddy jerry is being a lil bitch talking about being all into it with some wierd chick i don no. He seems different and much gayer. When we ask him anything, he just denies it saying that his love life isn't anyones business. He acts like he is in love with this girl and htat he wants a future with her. Tell me waht the fuck i can do to get my big gay buddy jerry back...
Nickolai Zeligman (link)
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im not sure what you can do to get jerry back, but im sure glad hes intrested in this girl you dont know, maybe you should get to know her and you'll see that she isn't as lame as you think. Your buddy isnt much gayer hes just growing up.. being more mature.. and if he has to leave immature people behind because they might hold him back i guess thats what he'll have to do. Don't worry so much about what he wants to do with his future worry more about your own... hope i helped..
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I have very vivide dreams where I can feel everything is this normal? (link)
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yes, i think it deffenitaly! ive had dreams where i kiss a boy and then when i wake up im almost certain it was real because i know i felt it! lol i think you'll be just fine!
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