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im 14 years old i play basketball and softball. i love my friends and family more than anything. i absolutely love holidays. and i LOVE to eat i would die without food :) im pretty much a nice person unless your a bitch to me. i love meeting new people [ as long as there nice ] chances are if your 19+ i wont talk to you. i do have a myspace im like addicted to it. you can catch me there if you want to.
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((this is for my friend named chelsea)
well, theres this guy on my brothers baseball team, and hes really hott and sweet. the only problem is that he is 10-and i am 13. what do i do? is it okay if i still like him or is it too weird? (link)
that is what happened to me i went through the same exact situation i liked my bestfriends cousin & hes only 10. but if it was an age like 16 & 19 or whatever it would of been better. & also it would be better if he was older. my friends all told me that it was weird that i liked someone 3 years younger than me and they would all make fun of me. Now i got over him though because at first i didnt think it was weird but its kinda weird from like age differnces but thats my opinon but if your friend really likes him then maybe she should give it a shot. see if he likes her too. maybe it could work out.
hope this helped

Lauraa


my boyfreind showed everyone his private area and im really hurt.
should i break up with him?
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my opinon i would break up with him. if it hurts you thst much then honestly i think you should leave him.

hope i helped.


whats the quickest way to get a rid of a tiny scar that you have had almost all your life. [14 years] (link)
well i have something like that.. only i havent had it for 14 years. but people have told me that you could go to surgery & have it removed for life but im not quite sure how painfull that will be & if it is even worth it. but if your a person who can take pain. talk to your parent(s) or someone about it maybe a doctor and you could go into surgery to get it removed.


I have this stomach ache in my lower left side of my stomach. It hurt soo bad that i can't move. Its like a cramp but 10 times worse! What should i do? (link)
okay well my suggestion would to take like medicine or go & see the doctor cause this could be really seriouse. cause if its like 10 times worst than a cramp. it could be almost anything.
hope nthis helped

Laura


well im a disco chic.i love the disco days and dont think disco is dead but anyway do you know any stores that sell clothes from the disco era.i like to be outgoing and theres no better way then some awsome disco outfits.thnx much.much love peace! (link)
uhm im sorry but im not that type of person who is into disco stuff.


I'm 13 years old and I'm about 5'4. I once heard that if you're 5 feet tall, your supossed to weigh 100 pounds, and for every inch after that, it's another 5 pounds. Well, that would mean that I'm suposed to weigh about 120 pounds, but i only weigh 95. Does this mean I'm 25 pounds UNDERweight? It seems that if I gained 25 pounds, I'd be looking near obese. I don't feel or look underweight. Am I? (link)
well im like the same thing as you. & that is not underweight at all. i think your normal.


Is it more apropriate to tell a guy your home phnoe nummber or your cell phone number? (link)
i think you should give a guy your cell phone number. so like incase you dont pick up the phone at your house & he wont feel akward. & your gonna always pick up your cellphone number correct? im thinking so . so yeah

Laura


do you know anything about foreign exchange students? i think i might want to be one but i need to know more about it! if you have anything please answer this question! anything will help! sorry i don't know wat category this goes under! (link)
sorry but honestly i dont know a thing about foreign exchange students. and i dont know what collom it could go underr. sorry i wish i could help you. =(


My friend is really selfish. I mean, she's my best friend but she's so damn selfish. Like, when I go to her house, she eats stuff right in front of me. She never asks if I want anything. And she doesn't let me play her Nintendo DS. She's really spoiled too. It annoys me so much because she has all these things that my mom would never get me. And I want to play a freaking video game and she's so "NOOOO! PUT IT DOWN! I DON'T LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE PLAY MY GAMES!" It's like, shut the f up! I'm so tired of it. What should I do? (link)
you should really tell her how you feel. tell her your sick of her eating in front of her and she wont even let you play a simple video game. and if that dont work then simply stop talking to her. she will eventually hpoefully get the hint that your pissed off at her that she does everything right in front of you. dont let you play a simply video game and she dont offer you something to eat at her house when shes eating. thats just simply RUDE RUDE RUDE! i hope your a person who would acually tell someone how you feel and if your not then you can simply just stop talking to her hanging out with her and going over her house.

Laura


My friend is doing drugs a lot. She smokes weed every day and does ecstacy a few times a week. I have talked to her about it a lot, and she's not going to change. I don't know if I should tell her mom or do something else. So what should I do? (link)
i really think you have to talk to someone. yeah she most likely will get mad at you but its the best for you because if she is doing all of these drugs like every single day it could possibly kill her soon or a later. if you tell her mom then she can talk to like a doctor or someone who can help her with her problems. cause she cant stop it she enjoys it too much and you dont want her to keep doing it you have to try to talk to her mom or something.


I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend? (link)
honestly i dont think you should be friends with her. she seems as if she is using you for other stuff. if you give her all of that stuff & she cant let you borrow "just" lipgloss then shes a bitch. sorry but you really should leave her and not be friends with her thats simply what i would do.


ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes with my friends. they broke up but now shes like talking to him and it just pisses me off. i cant talk to her if she talks to him, he was trying to send me mean messages on myspace, he called me fuckin fat and that hurts, even tho i know im not its still annoying. what can i do, i dont want her to have anything to do with him. oh yeah he told her he had a gf wen they were goin out and she replied"i never even cheated on u " and he goes i was kidden i justw anted to try to get it out of u. i hate him like all her friends hate him (link)
you need to talk to your friend about this guy. he has no right to be saying all of that to you. and accusing her of cheating on him when it seems like hes cheating on her. she really has to ditch that guy & get away from him. he isnt worth anything she dont deserve him she needs to move on in life and look for a new & better boyfriend. the only way she is gonna know this is if yo talk to her about it. rather it be in person on the phone or on the computer but someway you have to talk to her about it. the best way i think to talk to her about is in person. so that way you know for sure that she is listening to you cause this could turn into something bad and tell her your doing it to help her. so she doesnt get all mad at you. i hope this helped a little

Laura


i love my best friend to death and I REALLY dont want to disobey her trust. see a while ago she told me all this stuff about how she has another world she can escape 2 and sometimes she feels like she doesnt know who she is. she sometimes even, she says, forgets her name. shes already tried talking to her parents and a therapist, and her parents have tried giving her pills. all of it, she says, just make her feel worse, like shes insane. she has a lot of friends, gets good grades, in whole leads a very normal life and acts perfectly normal. we didn't mention this for a while, but over the weekend i went down with her family to the beach. saturday night she started randomly dancing in the sand, running and spazzing randomly all over the place, inchined way to close to the firework display just so, as she put it, she could be close to the sea, and wrote the name's of random people we no in the sand. all of this is very unlike her, and i at the time half-jokingly asked her "if she was here as herself" she wudnt answer me for a while and then very quietly said "who else would i be" and then wouldnt answer any more questions. later that night i asked what was going on and she wouldnt tell me. one of our other friends was there, who doesnt no everything i no and said shes fine stop overreacting. iasked her if she "promised" she was fine (promise is our trust word) and she wouldnt promise. i tried talking her into talking to me cuz i just wanted to help, I didnt want her to go through whatever it was alone. she wouldnt say anything. the next morning everything was back to normal. i dont know what to do and i cant tell anyone because i REALLY REALLY REALLY cant betray her trust like that. please help. (link)
yes you guys may "trust" eachother very well but if she is having problems like that you should really talk to there parents first of all and see if her parents know anything about it. but do it like when shes not around or anything cause you dont want her to know about it cause she will find out that she cant trust you anymore. and make sure you tell her parents not to tell anyone not even your bestfriend. & yes your bestfriend might eventualy found out that you told someone and she might get mad at you. but trust me she will get over it. and it will be just for the best because it could make her life a 100 times better and that would be all because of you. that would be the best friend ever. good luck

Lauraa


I really need to lose weight before volleyball... i'm 5'8 and 125 and i wanna be around 115 or 110 so like how can i lose weight fast???? (link)
if you only wanna loose like 10-15 pounds it is simply easy to do. if you do like 25-40 or even 50 crunches/sistups right before you go to bed or when you wake up.. when you go to bed would be best though. if you do that you should loose some what of weight. and if you watch what you eat. like if you have healthy food you wont gain like a lot of weight while your trying to loose it but dont starve yourself. i hope this helped

laura


I've been looking for a chihuahua for about a month now. I've finally found a breeder and picked out my puppy. I picked out a girl and she's white with light brown specks here and there. She's so beautiful but I cannot pick out a name. I'm picking her up in about a week and I need a name for her. I just can't pick one out. Any ideas?

Thanks in advance. (link)
if you really cant decide of a name for you dog then you could always get a book of dog names. but honestly i love the name caramel.
Good Luck

Laura




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