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hey im 14/f and live in missou my friends all ask me for advice and most of the time it really does help them so i think if you ask me questions i can really help you too and im not one of those mean ppl that anwsers qestions im nice because i rock and i said so lol jk but i have red/ ornge hair w/e u want to say and i have blue eyes and im 5'5" i hope i help and ask me ne thing because i dont care what it is because im sure i can find somthing to tell u again because i rock lol
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how do youget over a guy? i've liked this guy forever and everytime i try to think about things that are weird abotu him or smthn i just end up being like aww thats so cute what can i do (link)
hey what you can do is just think about other guys and have a girls day out and i kno i say that alot about alot of different subjects but it truley does work i hoped i helped please rate


Ok this is weird but i want to get my ear pierced and my friend has a peircing gun. But my parental unit had a problem with it. But i am 17 i should be able to pierce my own ear. So the question is should i just go pierce it and come home to see what happens or not? (link)
hey i would get your ears peirced by a profesional because if you let your friend do it the ear could get infected but i think your old enouh to get your ears pierced but you have to convince your parents that you are old and mature enough but i hoped i helped and please rate


Ok, this may seem like a pretty stupid question, but I have a simple little question about having a well-balanced, healthy diet and exercise...I want to lose weight, but I know that simply eating too little or not eating the foods you need is very bad for you and simply will lower your metabolism...I'm getting 30 minutes of cardio exercise in a day, but does anyone have a well balanced diet plan that would be good to follow? Something that will keep you functioning and won't lower your metabolism, but will still keep you losing weight (nothing low-carb please...that's so bad for you because you need carbs for energy)...and also, about how many calories a day do you need to function? 1600 is the lowest, or at least I've heard? Thanks! (link)
my fav is allways one of those salads from mcdonals with the crispy chicken its really good i think you should try it and if you want somthing you should drink water or gaterade it gives you energy so you can burn off all the calories i hope i helped please rate


im 21.ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we havent had sex yet. he really wants to do it but im scared that it will hurt. what if i marry someone who doesnt want a wife who isnt a virgin. will sex really hurt the first time? if i only use a condom will i get pregnant? how does to pill work? if my parents find out they will kill me. please help. (link)
listen you are an adult now your parents have no control over you yes it will hurt the first few times but you will get used to it and then it wont hurt if you use the condom it is 97%affective and usually always works but only have sex unless you are compleatly sure if its what you want to do i hope i helped please rate


I usually dont show my legs or clevage because i have very dark hair and even when i shave black dots remain.my clevage has very very dark hair even though it is not alot, it is visible because it is so dark.i dont know what to do.i want to dress very sexy but i feel very limited because of the dark hair on my back, stomach and clevage area. ive waxed them but they just grow back and waxing hurts alot. please help. (link)
yes waxing grows back but so does everthing else the hair you have on those places always grow back i recomend a hair removing treatment like nair or somthing and there is also somthing that last much longer you can get lazer treatments from a hair removal company it doesnt do anything damaging or it doesnt cause harm to your skin i hope i helped please rate me


i have a friend.. she's 5'9 and 127 pounds.. she's athletic and all, she lifts weights and plays vball all year around. recently her and her bf broke up and shes been really depressed. shes been losing sleep and she can barely eat.. she only eats like one thing a day. would she be considered anerexic ? and are there any other symptoms for it besides lack of eating ? anything is appreciated ! thank you (link)
hey anerexic is compleatly different shes just in depression anerexic means she eats anything she wants and then after ward forces herself to throw it back up and if she was anerexic she wouldnt be able to do all that athletic stuff she can do now because she would be weaker its all just a deppression stage what you need to do is have a girls night out with shopping hott guys and all that good stuff but make sure you dont do anythingh that would in any way rtemind her of her ex i hope i helped and i hope she gets back to her normal self please rate me


Does anyone know a fast way to get rid of dandruff? I only have untill 1/7/04 and only going to Walmart before then! Help please!

Hair Scare (link)
head and shoilders is a great shampoo for that i hope your dandruff free reall soon hope i helped please rate me


i really like these shoes, and my mom said she would get them 4 me wen i do chores...i did chores and i still didnt get shoes, and she keeps lying to me
wut should i do>?? (link)
you should confront her about it mabey she just forgot or somthing but dont yell and scream at her that wont solve anything but i hope i helped please rate me


There is this boy at skool who is really hot, and he has a twin brother, and his brother is going out w/ my friend. I think that he is going out w/ my other friend, but I don't know. I also think that he may like me. He is always smiling at me and when he walks by me he slows down and at luch he is always looking at me, and i know that I don't have food on my face. Do you think he likes me? What happens if he does will my friend be mad at me? I'll rate high. (link)
i think he may like you it just takes a matter of time before you can find out for sure you can always ask a mutual friend if he does or that can find out for you and by the friend being mad at you you have to decide which you would rather want a hott guy that you will br broken up sooner or later or a friend that you dont really hang out with that much


My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?! (link)
well im not so sure there might have been a little flirting in there but i wold wait to see what else he does ((flirting is what i meant)) but all my guy friends want hug but it doesnt mean a thing its just fun to do so i say wait it out and untill you know for sure dont make your move quite yet


i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him? (link)
hey its ok to do this thing behind her back but just remember that if she does find out you will be in big trouble but if you really like him it shouldnt matter my mom had a problem when i was dating a 17 yr old when i was 14 but i also kno that they expect more but i think you should fallow your heart hide somthing from your mother or date some one you really like oh and before you date him behind her back make sure you are really good at keeping secrets i hoped i helped please rate


Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do? (link)
hi im srry but you could always tell him that its not true and dont give up untill he belives you and you should bring up the point about you hearing bad stuff about him and him convincing you not to belive it and its not true and why should it be the other way around with you and do somthing sweet for him to make him feel loved mabey he will forgive you then i hope i helped please rate


well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!

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hey dont spill out your feelings just yet when you like a guy but he has a g/f it can be a little dangerous i would wait it out but keep flirting with him just to make sure that he still has intrest and to know that you havent lost your so keep flirting and wait untill they break up then make your move hope i helped please rate me


my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!

antoinette


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first you need to find out if he was joking or not if he wasnt the you should just break it off with him because no girl deserves to be treated that way by her bf i hope i helped please rate


what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
yes he can get one if he is making out its happened to me lots of times and when a guy has an erection his "manhood"raises and gets stiffer but he gets one when he is sexually aroused


Is it normal to shave a little bit below your belly button and bit above.. cuz i got the little hairs but they bother me (link)
i have some to but dont shave there they tend to cause little bumps i recomend waxing it and since they are little and theres not as much as you have on your legs it wont hurt as much but i hope i helped please rate


What are some of those rubber bracelets. Like livestrong-yellow.. what are some others and where can i get them?? (link)
some of them are pink and say theres a cure or fight for your life and you can get them at grocery stores malls or mabey even gas stations i hope u find some more please rate


What is the right age for a male to start getting erection and be able to burst?? I am thirteen years old but I still cant have any erection...But all of my friends (same age) say they can have erection...Some even say they have been having erection since they were 11 or 12?? Maybe this sounds gay but I have actually seen them having erection in the mall or in the school shower...Is this bad? I am so worry about it...Is it possible that I won't be able to have any erection throughout my whole life?? (link)
hey dont wrry you have time its not a problem your hormones might not be compleatly balance yet so just wait it will happen soon enough i hope i helped please rate


hi,

one of my dreams has been to become a singer but my parents say that if i dont sing in like a talent show at my school then they wont sign me up for anything.. the talent show passed and i didnt try out because i had something else planned for the date that they made the talent show.. ok so ALL my friends tell me that im an amazing singer and stuff ( i dont want to sound concided ) but i dont think im terrible ! any ways.. how can i get my parents to let me go to auditions and signups and stuff.. what can i do to follow this dream ? .. thanks in advance- i rate! :-)

love, singingmyheartout

[ sorry about the length ] (link)
hey im a singer too and i think you should try to convince your parents that you are good enough to make it and if they say no tell them if they really wanted you to fallow your dreams and if they really loved you they would let you sign up the guilt trip always works for me lol but i hoped i helped please rate


OK, see i have this boyfriend we can call him josh. and see for a long time i have been doubting me and him. all my friends are getting sick of me asking them for help so i came to you guys. I sometimes think that i do like him because he says something that completely makes me melt. But then he goes and accuses me of cheating on him and of breaking up with him. Im not sure what to do. Sometimes i want to break up with him and i hate him. but he is everything i love and everythin i hate all at the same time. i know he would never hurt me on purpose and i know that he cares for me but he doesnt call me anymore and we never see each other i have been dating him for 3 months and im confused about this. does this mean he doesnt like me? do i still like him? what do you guys think?

thanx,
the most confused (link)
wow you sound just like my friend lets call her bob and her b/f lets call him rufus but its the smae situaltion but i just say that you problably really like him its just that sometimes he might annoy you but if you do break up with him you will regret it but i ono i hope i helped lyl please rate



P.s does your name happen to be c****** and is your b/f name J*****




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