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uh, i'm 15, loud, proud, and pleasently plump.

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is it bad to put claires earrings in your cartilidge?

they are crappy. don't do it.

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i am in two classes that has people that make fun of me so should i just ask my mom to talk to the principal so they can put me in a new classes? or should i stay there?

confront them.

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ok this has been really hard for the last couple weeks with boys well there was this one boy ive liekd all summer did everythign with and then jus dumped me one day and been wit a a new grl since.. and then one kid i liked i mean really leiked well he leikes sum other grl but jus keep leading me on and now he has a gf and then recently i got wit a boy and i really leiked him also but now he has a gf who is one of my bff'z and it seems its a pattern.. im left empty everytime .. WHATS RONG! plz help

FORGET ALL THREE OF THEM!!!!! move on, man. stop trying so hard, and just be happy!

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hi my parents left at 12 this afternoon and theyre not coming back till like 1 am and im reeealy hungry i havent eaten anything ive been saving my appetite for a pizza and my sister was supposed to drop of my nephew but i guess hes not coming and i want to order a pizza but im scared cuz im all alone and i dont want him to kill me and my house isnt safe and i dont want strangers coming in and im scared =( should i order the pizza anywys?

the pizza guy will NOT kill you. just pay him, and there will be no problem.....

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I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ?

...isn't it just obvious? just suck in your gut...and call the guy! S-I-M-P-L-E!!!

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several years ago, I was best friends with this girl , we were each others confidant, and could tell anything to each other. The rest of the crowd really didn't matter if we were together. It was after a year of knowing her that I realized that I was absolutely in love with her. I didn't do anything at that point because I was in the middle of applying for school.

It's been a couple of years now, and I'm still in love with her. She went off to college in another state, and our lives have gone off in different directions. Her life has changed (she's popular, beautiful etc. which she wasn't in high school), so i don't talk to her anymore, but I still can't get her out of my mind. I haven't been able to date or even be interested in another girl- because I know that she was the one for me. We both graduate next year, and I'm wondering if I should just lay it all on the line, and offer her my heart. WHat do you think? I rate well. -LloydDobbler-

P.S. This is a really complicated story and if you want to help me beyond this, i'd appreciate it.

tell her.

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What do you get for a Male who is 16 likes heavy metal music, likes family guy, and doing dnagerous stunts?!

a 16 year old girl that likes flowers and pop music!

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ok im 13 and i want to hang out with my boyfriend out of school but i dont no how to ask them..like im allowed to like go to the movies or the mall with them..but ive never had a guy over or go over his house (with them knowing) how do i get them to let me?
thanks in advance

just ask....?

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I know this isnt the most urgent message but since a few months ago ive been getting scabs on my scalp. Its really gross and sometimes when I move my hair around with my fingers they show and its disgusting and embarassing. Sometimes the scabs peel off and I find them in my hair and im thinking "What if someone sees me picking skin out of my hair?" and i get nervous. I also have acne all over my hairline in the front and thats also gross because when I want to pull my hair back they are all there and i have to put on alot of concealor so they wont be as noticeable.And even though im only 13 I think about it alot and sometimes I feel age doesnt matter as much when it comes to what you worry about because everyone is different. Alot of my friends say they dont notice it but I dont like it and its making me nervous and grossed out. What's wrong with me? What can I do to get rid of this stuff?

go see a dermatologist.... mine helped me w/ my skin probs...

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my mom keeps getting mad at me for wearing make up....all i wear is eyeshadow and eyeliner... once i wore mascara and she blew up... so i stop wearing mascara, and she was fine, she didnt care about me wearing make up anymore... as long as i just dont wear mascara... after a week my aunt came in and said i looked like a witch becuz of my make up... my mom got so mad that she yelled at me and threatened to kick me out of the house, and slapped me... what should i do? i need help, she can't even live up to her pride and stick up for me.... she thinks that if people think you look bad than you better do what ever you can to make them happy about your looks... i told her not to care what people think because its just plain stupid to be liked by some one that doesn't like your looks... people should care about your character and smartness but not looks... i mean i even get good grades at school and i think thats enough.

don't wear the makeup. it's not worth it.

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Would you share with me your words of wisdom? I'm 20 and I just want to hear from anyone the important lessons in life they have learned so far.
It could be about work, love life, spirituality, money matters, passions, dealing with problems, beauty routine/secrets, etc. thanks!

...ADVICE! cant you read?

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Okay theres this guy that I don't kno but I think hes really hott and I hear hes very nice! My friend talks to him and she just found out the other day that he likes her! I am kinda jealous I admit because I have had my heart broken so many times. She doesn't kno if she wants 2 go out with him bc this other guy likes her and she could picture herself more with him...all though she really wants to be with this guy. She recently broke up with her BF and is still sorta in love with him. I don't have all this stuff going on in my life. I'm just trying to find the right guy! and im kinda disappointed bc this guy doesnt even kno im alive but i want him to bc i think he could b right for me! please help! i need it!

~ VERY lost and confused...and heartbroken ~

beat her 2 it!

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Okay, in the state that i live in, there is a really good highschool. i took the entrance test to it and i think i did pretty good. I got the letter telling me if i got in or not today and i cant open it until my dad gets back from California. i want to stay where i am because of my friends, but i want to go to the other highschool because its a really nice school and i feel that i can get more out of it. I'm afraid that if i go to the new highschool, ill lose all my friends. But im afraid if i stay, ill be missing out on so much.(education wise).So my question to you is: Which school in this case should i go to?

go to the new one...... baka......

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this question is abuot my hair. i never wear my hair up because i have huge ears..really huge like 3 inches and everyone always says stuf, and i have long weird looking side burn..i tried cutting but it look weird and im growing them out again but there big!! what should i do?

wear ur hair down.

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ok so i have a friend and shes been dating this guy for a couple months. well first problem is that her parents hate him. they go to church together and shes not even allowed to sit by him. the thing is they have been dating behind her parents back and the parents keep finding out and she gets in trouble and they hate him more. well the thing is.. they always find ways to get together behind everyones back and first they made out and thats ok but then he fingered her on a church van. he keeps wanting her to go farther and shes a Christian and this whole thing is pulling her away from God, i dont think she even cares. he keeps hurting her (emotionally) and i dont want to see her go through this. ive tried talking to her but i really cant get through to her. i dont want her to go too far but he is pressuring her. sorry its long but i need advice.

she... doesn't care... sorry. there's nothing i can tell u... just keep trying to help and do the best u can. but, i'm sorry, she seems 2 far gone.

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i love to swim, and i am pretty good at. ive swum (?) on a summer team for 3 years and did really well. but its hard to like get out of the water and walk away and stuff cuz im kinda fat and i feel so self conscieous. i have friends on the team so its not like i am alone. but ive offered to swim on a team called seaback (auditions only/best of the best) but i dont know any one there. i dont know if should say yes or no.

yes. don't worry.

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Does any1 know how to get rid of some of the website listings under the URL place on your home page? This is kinda hard to explain but on your homepage there's the bar for typing in the webstite you want to go to, then there's an arrow on the right end, which u can click to show all the websties you've visited recently, well how do you get it to not show some of those? thanks for any help!

click view...toolbars...then click on the bar name...DUH!

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my sisters are goin to have a big important party on the sam day as my graduation and my parents don want me to go bc it is on the same day as my sisters party and my mom made a hair oppointment for me and my siters at 9 in the mornin and that is around when my graduation is. if i do go to graduaction my parents wont be there because the will be busy wit my sisters. i dont know what to do?? ( i am graduating 8th grade)plz help!!!

...8th grade...good year...next step to adulthood...your graduation is very important...but you have to recognize your sister aswell...you'll graduate again...so it's really not that bad...you have alot more school left to look forward to.

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Everytime i talk on the phine with my boyfriend and we discuss sexual stuff, like maybe taking our relationship to the next step, i start to shake and i shake like i'm really cold, but i'm not..and even hours afterwards i keep shaking. What's going on?

u don't want 2 sleep w/ him! ur scared. don't do anything if ur so petrified.

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Okay, a while back I liked this guy named Max. I talked to him, found out he was a jerk, and tried to move on. I couldn't! I still like him to this day even though he barely knows I'm alive! I want to like other guys and forget about him, but I just can't! The other day I found out he liked this really dumb girl who is so plain and boring! He told me the other day what type of girls he likes and from what he said...it sounded so much like me it was scary! I told him the type of guys I like and he was all "Kool, sounds pretty much like me"...did I mention hes conceded too! I'm worrying about the dumb girl saying yes 2 him and I'd be all depressed n stuff! WHY DO I EVEN STILL LIKE HIM?! Okay, Im done! Plllleeeeasssse help me!

~ Can't get him outta my head ~

forget him, baka. he does not like you. and if he is conceeded, why do u like him? forget him. find urself a nice rebound guy, and move one w/ ur life!

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